What attributes do you look for in a girlfriend?
 

i'm wondering - what do you look for in a girlfriend.

I've always been pretty open - but i'm starting to think i need to be more specific.

the thing i think i want the most is someone who actually gives a shit about me.

if she's right she's right, you can be specific all you want but next thing you know a totally different girl walks around the corner... takes your breath away and you're sold.

Personality is important, sweet girls always make me weak... I'll do anything for a sweet girl (not just GF's).

WIFE

Washing
Ironing
Food
Entertainment

a vagina

3 things i can think of rite now...

dont have kids :disgust
dont ever want to get married :disgust
must be 2 years older or younger then me

I just wanna spoon :(

Ability to suck cock

Ability to teabag

Im a giirl..so in reverse I look for three things
1. Honesty
2. Integrity
3. Great sense of humor/Fun loving

tranny? :helpme

i've had my breath taken away - it's cool at the time- but if the person doesn't give a shit about you why continue? infatuation fades with time - then what are you left with?

it's why my new goal is to actually find someone who actually gives a shit about me.

appearance - i'm flexible.
age - i'm flexible
location - i'm flexible
sex - needs to be good and lots.
drugs/booze - must be under controll
education - not necessarily formal but has to be bright.
hair - prefer brunettes but flexible
pubic hair - must be VERY short or shaved (love to eat pussy, not bush)

again?

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good sense of humor....nice body...mutual attraction obviously.
but then again a girlfriend for me is extracurricular and not a relationship relationship.

1. big penis
2. cant look like a man
3. plenty of hormones so no body hair or deep voice

none of those apply to me.

i'm not against someone with kids. I will go a lot slower though if kids are involved

i want to get married again

i couldn't care less if she's older or younger

p l e a s e :waaaaahh

what if i want MORE than just spooning?- i hear you bailed out on your last spooning attempt in cancun!

Women do not only take my breath away by appearance but also by character/personality, it's more a combination of both that will make the biggest impression IMO. Intelligence is a big factor you mentioned that I left out... she def. has to be bright otherwise it's not working out period.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh I have no recollection of that event! :uhoh

to be honest the better looking a girl is the more i stand back and make her prove to me she has a brain.

MUTE with good oral skillz

i'm flew a girl up that i met in edmonton a couple of weeks ago. we are having a great time so far tonight (she's in the shower, we're about to go out to dinner)... she definitely is into me, maybe too much though :)

understandable, you have to give them the benefit of your doubt though... being pretty does not mean she is as bright as a pig's ass. If they're not too bright it'll show soon enough.

define 'too much'

Someone with a pretty thorough understanding of the industry I work in.
Someone who's interested in me and not what I could do for them or their career.
No golddiggers.
Someone I can hold a good conversation with.
Someone who likes to travel.
Someone who meshes well with my personality.

WG

A good head on her shoulders and a whore in the bedroom

i'm left wondering if that's too much to ask for

That's one cool wife you have there. :1orglaugh

I hope this isn't the coke girl you were talking about in previous threads.
WG

An intelligent, confident woman knocks always my socks off - "no can defense!" :eyecrazy

I'm hoping not, I didn't even once refer to looks or sex. But then again, those kind of do come with the territory of a girlfriend.

WG

Mark Tiarra made an interesting post a while back. To paraphrase: Marry someone you'd hang out with even if she had a penis :)

It's easy to fall in love, even easier to fall in lust, but hard to fall in like. Find someone you actually really LIKE and the rest comes easy ;)

if it's a coke girl - RUN. she'll destroy her own life in good time - no need to fuck yours up - but fuck her good a few times first.

Quiet hit that doggystyle and post pics!!!!!!!!!!

lars - the wisest man i know - said to me - stop trying to fix things and find someone that doesn't need fixing.

PERFECT!

Sounds like something Lars would say - and he's 100% correct, IMHO :)

In my mid to late 20's (and some early 30's...) I was attracted to men who needed mothering. Even though it took several years, I finally realized that if they hadn't grown up by then, they weren't growing up. :thumbsup

A girl isn't like a car or a computer. You can't just spec it out and have someone build it for you.

The girl that's right for you... you won't know it until after you've found her. Not before.

I think we tend to go for immediate gratification instead of thinking about sharing a life with someone.

Anything superficial will fade so there best be something of substance to the relationship to stand the test of time!!!

hmmm that old pic of cheshire with the beer spout in her ear and vagina on her forehead comes to mind. or was it vagina on her mouth? either way she was a popular girl.