Sex on the third date???
 

ok, we all know about sex on the first date and how everyone feels about them.

So, is sex on the 3rd date ok?? If not, when is it appropriate??

Just wondering. My g/f has a date tonight and she REALLY likes the boy..:thumbsup

discuss...

If he's anything like I was when I was single, than tonight BETTER be the night.

3 dates with nothing=3 strikes and YOU'RE OUT!

sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

true true

sex on the third date is great

I was expecting an answer like that!! That's soooo "JUICY"!!! lol..

but seriously, if you have gone on 3 dates and the guy hasn't initiated any sex yet, is he realllllly interested??:winkwink:

If she REALLY likes him and wants more than just sex, she'll better NOT fuck him on third date. Believe me, he'll easily wait a week or two if he REALLY likes her, too...so what about some old fashioned kissing on third date ?! If you can get everything too early, if you can get it too easy, you tend to put her in the "slut" category, have fun and make sure to be at home before breakfast :winkwink:

yup, that's what I told her...make him wait..if he's nice and likes her then he can wait some more..:thumbsup

Of course he's interested if he's going out with her again. He quite possibly be a "gentlemen". With that being said, if she really likes him likes him then she should not initiate it. If she just wants to bang him here and there then sure, have at it!

yes

maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.

My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...

oh yeah, this guy's good..I told her to chill and let it take it's course..she's just not sure if she should go all the way if he tries. She doesn't want to seem "easy" or turn it into a "booty call"

:)

Yep. I waited six months :1orglaugh

LOL @ your friend. This is not high school. If he hasn't tried by now, I am pretty sure he's not gonna go straight for the bang. However, who knows. She shouldn't be bangin' anyone if she needs advise like this LOL c'mawn. Make out, fool around or whatever...are we going by bases here? I say maybe first to mid second is ok then cut him off at the pass LOL

Just wondering...does your friend really LIKE the guy as a possible life partner?

Or is he hot as hell, and she really LIKES the idea of hopping into the sack, but is worried about what he'll think and that she might get a reputation?

Absolutly agree!
The purpose of the date is not only sexual relationships, but also communication. There are so many interesting and exciting things to do together!!!

3rd hour of first meeting them is better :Graucho

Sex is cool on any date.

haha..I know..pretty pathetic huh?? I thought it was funny too..but u know girls..and girl talk..lmao!!

I guess she's at a stage where she's kinda shy and a lil anxious and she's also in search of the "man". :winkwink:

Okay, I'm gonna come off as an asshat for this, but sorry ladies, it's the truth (In most cases anyways).

While was macho says is certainly true, a woman can't seriously believe that the guy just likes "Hangin'" with her.

He may REALLY like her personality and everything she has to offer, but ultimately he's thinking about sex.

It's built into our genes, don't hate us for it. Just like you like to talk endlessly and cuddle after sex. We don't hate you for what's genetically built in. We may not like it, but we deal with it.

AFTER the sex part, then most assuredly, yes you can enjoy each other for who they TRULY are.

BEFORE the sex part, all the guy's thinking about is HOW to get her to have sex. Alot of ladies are like this as well.

Get the sexual tension out of the way, and THEN find out who each other really is.

Then tell her not to worry about it. Just go and do what they do have fun and take it from there. No need to stress about something that hasn't happened. Conscenting adults do what they want. If she does and he's a goof about it then fine, he'd be a goof later on anyway, better now than later she finds out. Sex should come natrually, just take it easy and go with the flow:2 cents:

yep! :thumbsup

why waste time & money on more dates?? cut all the flirty bullshit and just get down to business already. :glugglug

It's the rule of threes.

You wait three days after the first date to call the girl.

You wait three dates before you bang the girl.

If the girl doesn't put out on the third date, she's breaking the rules.

soo true...so true..lol..I appreciate the honesty!!:):thumbsup

lol the juicy way! :1orglaugh Sex on the first date, anal sex the next day, 3rd date... Anything goes! :Graucho

Men all time think about sex, but putting the priority aim of the date is sex is in my opinion bad idea. It should be more romantic!

those were my words exactly. If he's sincere then all will be well. If he's just there for the sex then she'll find out very quickly.

:thumbsup

sex is fine on any date, it don't make a difference whether its first or las t date

if he didnt he's G A Y:1orglaugh

exactly :thumbsup

Yo! You better get the booty on the FIRST date like the little ol' bootymaster me!

Why bs around?

You know what's up, she knows what's up from the DOOR, boy-o!

Third date on a maximum. By that time youse should know what's up about all that!

See, I slap my lips o' lusciousness on a female and I am in command! Comes from all them years of 'Fonz' training!

I ought to put out a book on the subject. One kiss, all ass!

What about being present in the moment, every moment. When I foccus on the future, or the past for that matter, I loose control of what's going on right now.
My advice to your friend is to be herself, and let this guy be free from pressure. If he has the want as well, and he's inspired to be himself, then the 2 wants will combine in many forms ;)
Make sense?

sooo well said!!

btw, where's my traffic??lol:winkwink:

dam bro you hit the nail on the head right there i couldn't have said it better

this is where I sit w/ my b/f as well. I'm glad that there are moe than one of you like that out there!!!:thumbsup

There isn't any set rules on when sex should happen nor should there be. If she wants it and he wants it, go for it. Otherwise, wait until the timing is right.

WG

fuck yes

short but straight to the point huh??:1orglaugh :winkwink:

enjoy your herpes.

rofl!! he wraps it don't he??lol:1orglaugh