when to cut ties with a broad if she isnt putting out?
 

First date , second date or shall i even bother saying a third date?


Note: the term "putting out" shall mean a blowjob, sex, anal sex , or handjob.

maybe she wants something "serious" :Graucho

Juicy I'm disappointed in you man. You're supposed to find this information out before you even have a date.

take all your shit and run!

Depends on the chick. If she's worth the wait then I'm able to wait even a few weeks, if she isn't woth it and doesn't put out after the third date, I stop seeing her... Pretty simple :)

When they bring the wine list on your first date.

Women can be deceivingie:

The innocent ones turn out to be big sluts and vice versa sometimes

few weeks? http://www.juicylinks.com/images/juicy.gif

:1orglaugh

if it takes more than 60 minutes something has gone terribly wrong

What about a fish-hook ?

can't forget that :1orglaugh

Hmmm thats a tough one , I dont have any real fish hook experience:Graucho

Either 30 days or within 4 times of meeting/dating (call it what you want) her whicheva comes 1st..if you can't get the ass within this time frame call it a day cut your losses:glugglug

:1orglaugh Nice smiley man! I love it!

jDoG

69 min's

that's a tough question for sure. if you really like her, i guess you will keep trying. but if it isn't there it isn't there.


i usually give a girl a few tries though, you should know by then:2 cents:

Totally depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for nothing but a whore, skip dinner and just pay her up front, saves you both the small talk.

If you are looking for someone you can actually talk to, have fun with and someone that will put up with your bullshit without being paid....then I guess waiting for it would be worth it.

never date

if you do not fuck her the third time you meet her ... then dont bother to meet her again if you have romantic interests

Keyword being 'sometimes' ;)

As for when to cut a girl off, well... if you're thinking of dumping her because by your second date she didn't put out, just think about whether you want her once, or if you wanna be able to have her multiple times before cutting it off..

depends on the girl I guess

Tom Ikkus 101.

Dude pitch the broad by the 3rd. Its over if not by then.
Both you and the girl know the deal by the 3rd date anything else is just lookin for a free meal.

2 weeks-ish and then i end it! Sometimes i have a chat and see what's going on in her head. Maybe she's worth the wait. Never goes more then 2 weeks though!

I suppose by juicylinks first question alone should have been an indication, but just so you know as you get on with life you'll discover that a personal loving relationship takes time to build up, and shouldn't be blind-sided by whether someone is willing to fuck you early on.

But when I was a pup, I was in the same boat as you, so I can understand your hormone driven focus.

My point is its just Sex...

If chicks didnt play the card like its somthing special there really would not be problem. Personally I liked to know within 10 minutes of meeting a girl whether or not she would fuck me...

Cut the shit.
Fuck or No fuck.
Be honest cuz both parties know within the first 10 minutes if Sex is a plausible option be it casual or long term.

Platonic is cool and that works for friends category...
But damn be honest girls.

If ya would fuck a dude let em know in 10 minutes please.
Give a Yes or a blatent No, its being honest and both parties would save alot of time and effort.

Unless your just looking for a free meal and wanna string the poor bastard along.

thats so true on so many damn levels....

I dated and became engaged to a cute Jewish girl who played me out with the "when we're married you'll get me every night" pitch.

When we did make love it was fantastic so she gave me just enough to keep me hooked.

I think she was just the frigid type looking back. She was a cheerleader in high school and had been raped by two guys on the football team and often brought that up as a reason she had some sex reservations at times when she would just freeze up and stop during foreplay.

Sex is a drug.

Once Men realise to take sex for what it is the sooner a real a relationship can begin.

Ladies...
Please.

Let the guy know that there is a chance of having sex within 10 minutes of meeting the guy.
Honesty is the best policy...

As you know men are suckers for the shit...
You've duped us and taken advantage of it many times...

Thats awright but if your serious you wont have problem with getting the fucking out of the way just to clear things up so ya have a chance at meeting for the real deal.

Sex don't mean shit guys, I am being serious about this issue.

Why do you think Porn exhists? Because the girl will always do it for money and money is nothing when it comes down to loving someone for what they are.

If she hasnt given up the goods by 2 months, toss her back into the sea.

Leykis knows his shit.:thumbsup

Jesus. To much info.

I'm always honest right up front. The problem is the guy doesn't LISTEN and keeps TRYING. Then he gets upset when I really don't put out, and stomps off. *shrug*

Women who don't put out within a week still exist?

Cancel my trip to Long Island bro, I won't be coming.

When you first meet a woman, you should always invite her over for pizza and sex. If she declines, then move on! :thumbsup

what if its, "fine, I want to fuck you, but I also want a long term relationship and dont want to fuck it up by sleeping with you too early?"

Or the "i'll sleep with you eventually, but im in no hurry."

What about "I want to fuck you, but its up to you to be good at it, or i'll leave ya after a few times." :-)

"I want to fuck you, but its up to you to be good at it, or i'll leave ya after a few times."

Works for me! Been on both sides of that coin and its a perfect perspective.

"Serious" dry anal........... :Graucho

How about if you've been married a while and this is happening? What then?

Yeah, because if she declines, you got the pizza which lasts longer and is more satisfying :thumbsup

Giving up after two weeks could make you lose out on a total freak. My boyfriend had to wait. But on the first night we had sex, I'm the one who suggested anal. :winkwink: