To the women on this board: what attracts you on a man?
 

What do you look for on a man?

Big tits.











Ooops. Wrong thread.
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The most important thing is personality. If he's stuck on himself, forget it - what an ugly trait.
But since you can't really judge personality across a room, I suppose what you're looking for is physical stuff, right?

A great smile and mischievous eyes definitely get the attention!

Personally, the above plus a closely-trimmed beard and long hair make me absolutely weak in the knees!

In other words, Jesus Christ?
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Too much personality makes you a weirdo.

what attracts some men to shemales, but not to other men's crotches?

So Kid Rock would be a turn on to you I take it?

http://w1.523.telia.com/~u52304769/b...kid%20rock.JPG

I'm not attracted to shemales!

I agree with that part of what Carrie said, but I'm a sucker for tall guys with dark hair and green eyes.

Women want security...plain and simple...Except security comes in different forms for different women....:winkwink:

That would be me!

Haha, funny.

6'5" Green/Hazel eyes and Brown hair is me.

I would have to go with the size of his wallet. Yep. For sure.:thumbsup

Bill Gates must be beautiful in your eyes.
By the way, I've heared Saddam still has some money and gold hidden..

how bout a guy with $ who has an average face but a bodybuilder physique?

I don't need to look for a man. I have juicy links.

mustache/goatee
hairy chest
massively hairy pubes

That attracts me but they have to have a lot more than that to grab my full attention

You want me.

SMART SMART & SMART
now I don't mean smart ass! And I hate guys that are like I'm right you don't know shit....

oh and no matter how smart you are, it can't make up for lack of skills in bed...

A great smile is the first thing ~ It shows warmth and openness.


Dimples are an added bonus *ROWR*

I'm right, you don't know shit...

Amen to that.

Security can keep us in a relationship.....but you have to get there first.

Good Looks, cuz that's what gets our attention first...(I don't know any girl who says "OH DAMN, check out that ugly guy........he's all mine") ..for me that's dark hair, green eyes and tall and I hate pretty boys....if they take longer to get ready than I do....it ain't worth the time.

My favorite part of a guy is the chest.........broad shoulders, built chest..........MMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Speak for yourself pal ;)

I'm with Jen on this one... j/k

I'd say brains first, but only if used. And of course proper use of those brains starts by making a woman feel like there is no one else in the world but her. The rest is just a series of bonuses.

Carrie sais: Personally, the above plus a closely-trimmed beard and long hair make me absolutely weak in the knees!


Angeleyes sais: I'm a sucker for tall guys with dark hair and green eyes.


At this point I'm thinking... ok so these girls had a relationship with guys of these descriptions that didn't work out according to plan...


Then chesire added her bit...


http://www.rilosedesign.com/riley.gif

(Not that I know anything about that, I just remembered the dimples & a little public heat over a watch.) :winkwink:


There is definitely some psychology to this...

I know that I always wind up involuntarily comparing gf's to a certain ex, or being attrated to women that have similar features.

I wonder what Freud would say.

goBigtime ~ I didn't realize you were attracted to Rilose.

Aren't we all? What a man!

Freud would say you want to fuck your mother, and kill your father to be with your mother.

Sure, I'm secure enough in my sexuality to admit that Rilsoe is a good looking guy....enough to have impressioned on you that "dimples" are a bonus feature for future mates? Hmmm perhaps.

So come on Carrie & Angeleyes... think back (or look next to you) and tell us who the long haired short beared & tall, dark haired green guys were in your lives -- and what in that relationship got you stuck on them?

Because that is what the topic of this thread is really about right? :winkwink:

Yes I know, but did this apply in reverse for women? What did Freud say about women? Or was he too obsessed with the whole "you REALLY love your mom" bit to look at the other side?

I would have to say nice eyes...sexy eyes...big eyes.
Then a very nice smile...with all teeth included.
That is a must!

See.. there it is again. "BIG" eyes... thats very specific.
What is being asked here is what in the realtionship you had with the guy that had your nice, sexy, BIG eyes made you attracted to him.... not what features you remember most about him.

Because when it comes down to it, almost any guy could pull any girl... you don't need long hair, nice beards, green eyes, dimples or humongous eyes.

It's all about the attraction... the psychological attraction women have for men is much stronger than any psychical attractions.

Anyway.. I guess I found your perfect guy Mandy...


http://www.jpgsworld.com/gfy/bigsexyeyes.jpg

Oh yes, I do

:)

I like a little meat on my men
They have to have a great smile
Interesting eyes

And before I had a job they had to have

Lots of money
Lots of money
Lots of money to buy me things
A nice car
No job to tie him down, so we can travel
Lots of money

Oh wait -- Still looking for that and now I have a job
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OMFG. .HOT HOT HOT
Gotta go find my vibrator now, printing picture
YUM

I'd have to say the eyes are usually what gets my attention first. Then personality, brains, and looks. I always fall for those guys with those great charismatic personalities. Some guys can just draw you right in!


Lorna

content girl-you should let me send you my pics-since we are both in Vegas-you'd like my physique

Proper grammar? :1orglaugh

I like a guy with a good personality, someone I can have a conversation with who doesn't go "HUH?" because he doesn't understand what I'm talking about. I like a man who can handle me for me, and isn't intimidated by the fact that I'm not only independant and semi-intelligent (I hope), but bisexual and sexually liberated. I like someone who can have as much fun as I do, and turn around and be intensely intimate, hopelessly romantic, fiercely loyal or totally crazy. Body doesn't count but if he's smelly or doesn't bathe or something he can go elsewhere. I like a man who's confident, doesn't lie to get into my pants. If he wants me he comes out and says "You drive me crazy, I want to fuck your brains out" and accept the fact that I might just smack him for it, but I WILL appreciate the fact that he didn't play a game with me.

There's so many factors.. good thing my husband fits the bill :)

anyone like Equinox

handsome with brain and talent :glugglug