What if you found out your girl got gangbanged?
 

A buddy just proposed to the sweetest, most kind woman in the world. She's a sweetheart. This morning he found out that she let an entire fraternity run a train on her while she was in college. About 20-25 dudes, every hole, bukkake shit - I mean you name it, it was done to her. They were even sticking inanimate objects into her as well. Some freaky shit! There is suppose to be a video floating around out there as well. But that could be bullshit. VHS would have degraded pretty bad in 20+ years.

I told him to get over it, it was 20+ years ago. But he can't, and the more I think about it, I'm not sure I blame him. She volunteered and willingly participated to get fucked by 25 dudes. A bitch can't be right in the mind wanting something like that (if she's not getting paid to do it). This wasn't a drunken frosh being taken advantage of. This was a girl on a mission to get fucked by every dude in that frat house, at the same time, and accomplished her mission.

How would you feel about that? Call off the engagement? Forgive her? Talk about being in a fucked up position (for him, not her, she apparently enjoyed it tremendously). Imagine fucking your girl and seeing Jody Foster's face from "The Accused" and hearing, "One, two, three, four, poke that pussy 'til it's sore!", over and over and over...

maybe it was spanish fly? ...

Seriously, TWENTY PLUS years ago, and he likes/loves her enough to marry her?
"I told him to get over it, it was 20+ years ago.", and that's exactly what I'd tell him as well.

Almost sounds like he's looking for an excuse...

just remind the dude about the glory hole he did in collage and it will be fine

From what I understand, totally sober. Ended up drinking/smoking during "breaks". God, this just sounds so fucked up!

My girl "experimented" in college and kissed girls, had a threesome (2 girls, one guy), but this isn't in the same ballpark. I mean, this isn't even the same fucking sport! I can deal with my girl exploring her sexuality when she was in college - a lot of people do that. But come the fuck on, an all day (and possibly night) gang bang with your girl having the only pussy in the house?!?!? :Oh crap

Sounds like a keeper! she loves the cock

would he have fucked 20+ sorority girls had he been given the chance?

If NO, then he can cast the first stone

If yes, and she found out he had, and she couldn't get over it and didn't want to marry him....my guess is he would think she was crazy. "It was years ago, why is she freaking out"

Huge double standard !!!!!

That being said I rout Id be able to get it out of my head either, LOL. Having previous partners...sure, we all have, but 20+ man bukake train?? Even the biggest Ho's I knew in School fuck tons of guys, but usually 1 at a time...maybe 2.

sorry, double post

I don't think I could get over something like that...

Back when I was like 18/19 we knew this chick...proper slut, she sucked off literally everyone i know (myself included). Some friends smeared peanut butter on her snatch and had the dog lick it off, and then f ucked her in the ass with the handle of a golf club. That was all on tape too... Here I am 10 years later and I still don't think I could look at her the same.

As for a 25 guy gangbang, as rob said that's not exploring sexuality - that's just being a scandalous gutterslut.

have her make up for it by bringing girls for threesomes

I don't think I could forget about it in 40 years. He wasn't looking for an excuse, he just put a rock on her finger that could sink the Titanic. This isn't an escape plan by any means. I told him it was over 20 years ago, but then I started thinking about if it were me and it happened to my girl. I don't think I'd be able to rub some dirt on it and jump back into the game.

Men and women has fantasies, women even more wild. Nothing surprising that she had a gangbang fantasy.
Of course that does not mean I say marry her, just saying it is more normal than you would think.

did she tell him or did someone else? if she did, thats a plus that shes honest enough to put something like out there. if not, well that might be an issue. regardless i think they she needs to give him a reverse gangbang to make up for it. problem solved! also a plus to know she's slutty enough to be down for most things he might want to do with her.

EXACTLY!!! This wasn't like some "take a number and wait in line for your turn" type fucking. They belittled her, shoved things into her pussy (a toilet plunger handle and beer bottle are two things I've heard so far - still getting fed details as more reports come in). They smashed her, stripped her of any dignity she had. She sucked their dicks, licked their asses, swallowed their jizz, got shit rammed into her, and probably poured on her. A scandalous gutterslut, couldn't have said it better myself.

Proposal was posted on Facebook - you can pretty much fill in the blanks from there. She even deleted her Facebook account and demanded he do the same.

Fucking Facebook

He proposed to her on Facebook?

This was doomed from the get-go…

They both have mental issues that they need to deal with before getting married. Suggest they speak with a therapist and after that, stay out of it. Not only will you ruin your friendship with him, but several other friends within "the group" as people start taking sides.

That sounds a lot like rape, not like something she should be blamed for.

If your buddy dumps a girl he claimed to love because she had one fucked up experience in college, an experience where she was probably the victim, he is not much of a man.

If she is not saying she is gagging for regular repeat performances, what difference does it make decades later?

Can you look at your peanut butter and golf-loving friends the same?

Relationship status changed to: Engaged to...

What kind of douche would propose on Facebook?!?!

Hey this is your story, not mine. :winkwink:

Though I have to wonder why all of these people decided to "out" her now?

It clearly isn't rape. If she were drunk or drugged and this happened, yes, definitely rape. From what I understood, she told some friends she was going to do it and had it all planned out. This wasn't the Duke Lacrosse team, and it wasn't rape. It was consensual sex with a lot of dudes.

It's not like she cheated on her fucking Calculus exam! He hasn't dumped her yet and I'm sorry, she's not the victim here. If anything, she should have told him when they first met over 2 years ago and let him decide from that point on whether he could live with it or not. Not wait until it's posted on a social network and then try to sweep it under the rug. If anything, HE'S the victim here.

Because it's not like tree sap or bug guts. You can't just wash it off your car and forget about it. Shit like this haunts people. Some people don't even like hearing about their lover's past sexual experiences, even with one dude. Not 25.

Because people are assholes. Whenever they see someone building a beautiful sand castle, the first thing they want to do is go kick it down. Mainly because their lives are pretty pathetic and misery loves company. :2 cents:

He should let her go... There are tons of women out there who did not had a gangbang are are ready to marry...no ned to get stuck on one girl..

I watched my ex fuck 5 big black guys one night at a party. Funny thing, I had a bigger cock than all of them.

I don't have any problem with it. She felt pretty bad about herself the next day.

I'd be a lot more turned off by someone having cheated on an exam. That speaks to character.

Your story sounds highly suspect. Many of the details do not sound right together. And there are so many details, including what you imagine, that it sounds lil like you are having sexual fantasies, whether the event more or less happened or not.

YOU compared the episode with the movie The Accused, which is about a horrible gang rape, not something a teenager planned out for sexual experimentation.

Most of your story sounds kinda fictional, but you are right on this.

Unless you think your friend should let the miserable haters win.

So what we learned from this?Dont have account on facebook :1orglaugh

As long as she has showered thoroughly at some point in the last twenty years I don't see how it affects him at all.

All i can say is WOW!

yeah, the thing is those who know about it probably heard it from those involved who of course won't say it was forced or it went beyond what she agreed to.

I'm literally getting bombarded with messages on Facebook, so I'm just relaying what I'm hearing. Some of it could be fantasy, you're right. But trust me, I'm not smart enough, nor do I have the imagination to make this up. The comparison to The Accused was an analogy, and looking back, probably a bad one of multiple men having sex with a girl, in no means did I mean it to reference her being raped.

And trust me, there are some women out there that would think this is Busch League.

:thumbsup:1orglaugh

High drama day on Facebook, I'll post updates as they roll in.

Well not everybody has cuckold tendencies. Majority of men seeing that would immediately terminate their relationship no questions asked.

Maybe he was too busy comparing cock sizes with his own. :thumbsup

If she did it once she'd do it again.
Get real.

There's no "one day magic whore" that turns back into Cinderella at midnight.

They will get married and it will be cool as hell for 2 years as they become regulars at
this bar.
Then they will have the normal fight thing happen and in just 2 days she will go to the
bar and suck every dick in it.
She fixed him for fighting right?

This chick will start fucking around on him as soon as he ask her to do her own laundry sometimes.

But on the other hand;
If he is really in love and she was slightly ugly at college age then forgive her and get married.

:pimp

Good speech, broski :thumbsup

I would not dump her for being in a gangbang but I would dump her for being dumb enough to have a Facebook account. She should have been keeping a low profile on order to put that shit in the past.

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