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Evil Chris 06-20-2006 10:54 AM

screwed over by a "friend"?
 
Anyone ever been screwed over by someone you thought was a good friend?

I know someone that now I realize used me for whatever suited their needs, led me to believe we were friends over a couple years, and then took off when I wasn't needed anymore.

gooddomains 06-20-2006 11:04 AM

happened several time to me

candyflip 06-20-2006 11:06 AM

My ex screwed me over.

gooddomains 06-20-2006 11:09 AM

not nice to find out especially if you had a business with someone

Shocking 06-20-2006 11:11 AM

on daily basics

JimmiDean 06-20-2006 11:11 AM

Yep.
But no one will screw you over like familly.

Mr. Romance 06-20-2006 11:12 AM

yeah its happened to me..

Mr. Romance

Peaches 06-20-2006 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris
Anyone ever been screwed over by someone you thought was a good friend?

I know someone that now I realize used me for whatever suited their needs, led me to believe we were friends over a couple years, and then took off when I wasn't needed anymore.

Yep, but the sad thing is that I didn't heed the warnings that were given me. I got a LOT of "I told you so!" when the screw over happened. :winkwink: Sometimes I think I'm a better judge of people than I really am.

Phoenix 06-20-2006 11:15 AM

yeah for sure...you are only as good as your last victory
glory is fleeting etc etc

and shit stains show when the underwear is low

Evil Chris 06-20-2006 11:44 AM

This person used my name to further their own. They have also sidled up with another well know webmaster to further their name even more. Sadly, that webmaster will only know the truth when it's too late, or maybe when they're out several thousand dollars in one way or another.

luv$ 06-20-2006 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris
Anyone ever been screwed over by someone you thought was a good friend?

I know someone that now I realize used me for whatever suited their needs, led me to believe we were friends over a couple years, and then took off when I wasn't needed anymore.

Yepyep, same reason I don't hang out with anyone from high school anymore. My whole circle of friends turned into addicts and fuckups or dead.

Made it hard to make new ones too with such low expectations. It's me against the world now, gets lonely but it's better than constantly having that knife in my back. :2 cents:

CaptainHowdy 06-20-2006 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by luv$
Yepyep, same reason I don't hang out with anyone from high school anymore. My whole circle of friends turned into addicts and fuckups or dead.

Made it hard to make new ones too with such low expectations. It's me against the world now, gets lonely but it's better than constantly having that knife in my back. :2 cents:

Amen :thumbsup !!

If you ever feel lonely hit BoyAlley on ICQ :helpme!!

~Ray 06-20-2006 11:57 AM

no such thing as being screwed over.. if you get revenge you are even. don't let them get away with it, or they will keep doing it and it will be partially your fault

SweetJeanette 06-20-2006 12:01 PM

Oh yeah...I get taken advantage of all the time....Lately, I've been trying not to be soooo nice. Usually I really bend over backwards for people when given the oppertunity, but I'm not able to do that anymore because most people now-a-days are just looking for the better deal. It sucks.
Want, want, want...and never giving anything back to anyone.

fitzmulti 06-20-2006 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris
Anyone ever been screwed over by someone you thought was a good friend?

I know someone that now I realize used me for whatever suited their needs, led me to believe we were friends over a couple years, and then took off when I wasn't needed anymore.


Yep, and not all that long ago - damn I wish I had that camera the SOB never returned.
Oh well! Lesson learned, and I am MUCH MUCH MUCH better off now!
:-)

Evil Chris 06-20-2006 01:15 PM

I did a lot of stuff with this person too. Help them move into their new place and helped re-decorate. I even went out of my way to help repair his failing relationship by bridging the gap between them (for all the help it did anyway).
This person even tried to scam me out of $20,000 in some kind of "investment" opportunity with some of his other con friends.

wdsguy 06-20-2006 01:23 PM

Its just human nature (if you believe in what hobbes said)

Thats why I screw these people first and don't let them get close :-)

BoyAlley 06-20-2006 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy
Amen :thumbsup !!

If you ever feel lonely hit BoyAlley on ICQ :helpme!!

325467462 :thumbsup

MikeB 06-20-2006 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris
Anyone ever been screwed over by someone you thought was a good friend?

I know someone that now I realize used me for whatever suited their needs, led me to believe we were friends over a couple years, and then took off when I wasn't needed anymore.


YES.
8 char

I'm a sig whore 06-20-2006 04:26 PM

i have no friends. therefor, i dont have that problem

DutchTeenCash 06-20-2006 04:29 PM

sure who hasnt

blackfeet 06-20-2006 05:09 PM

family members are even worse.

BuggyG 06-20-2006 05:25 PM

that's sad dude
know how ya feel.. has happened before to me
but.. karma
remember that.. karma

it's all gonna turn around and bite the other in the ass 10X worse
some don't believe it.. but I do

so take out your aluminum foil hats people.. I wanna see them now!! :thumbsup

pussyluver 06-20-2006 05:38 PM

So the moral to all this is to screw before you get screwed.

pussyluver 06-20-2006 05:38 PM

So the moral to all this is to screw before you get screwed????

cheekycherry 06-20-2006 05:40 PM

Yup, happened to me too.

He's just a scumbag. Took me years to realize that's all.

poisson 06-20-2006 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pussyluver
So the moral to all this is to screw before you get screwed????


Not going to get as low then them! :2 cents:

giftedtwisted 06-20-2006 05:42 PM

it happens to the best of us.

s9ann0 06-20-2006 06:11 PM

yer 60times guy called mark perrins

Jayde 06-20-2006 06:12 PM

Oh boy, Chris, you opened a can of worms. Yes of course we all have helped out people that we thought were our friends and especially particular ones that we go out of our way to do extra things for. I have many stab wounds in my back and I bet we can go out drinking for a week and not finish going over them all. :( Some stab wounds are very deep but I have found that the people that inflicted them have done so and gone on their merry way without a second thought and my dwelling on this is actually causing me more harm than it is to them. I guess this is what it means to let things go eh?

RogerV 06-20-2006 06:23 PM

It happens all the time. I have helped many people in this biz over the past 10 years some who to this day still appreciate it and I do biz with but most just dont care and ignore you. Its funny casue they always hit you up when there down and out..

I only help those who help me in some way now period or we put it on black and white

minusonebit 06-20-2006 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches
Sometimes I think I'm a better judge of people than I really am.

Dosent everyone?

sniperwolf 06-20-2006 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by poisson
Not going to get as low then them! :2 cents:

I hear yeah...:thumbsup

Quagmire 06-20-2006 06:41 PM

yeah I got screwed over by a guy I thought was a friend. There are always going to be crooked motherfuckers in this world. The best thing is to learn a lesson from it and move on. dwelling on it isn't going to help.

Vitasoy 06-20-2006 07:08 PM

Happened to me a few times. I know the feeling

MaddCaz 06-20-2006 07:08 PM

not really knock on wood

Evil Chris 06-20-2006 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RogerV
Its funny casue they always hit you up when there down and out..

This is so true Roger...

and like Buggy said.... KARMA.

LiveDose 06-20-2006 07:58 PM

Live and learn. It sucks but it is life. The main thing is to have no regrets in how you treat other people.

madawgz 06-20-2006 08:27 PM

its happened to me before, not going to call any names out...

E$_manager 06-20-2006 08:34 PM

i am always afraid of that, so very coutiously choose friends


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