How young is too young if you're 33 to date?
 

Curious - I've never really been into girls that are that much younger than me - but one here is interesting - problem is she's 21....

Doesn't seem to be a problem when we're together - but I'm left asking the question...


how young is too young (I'm 33) to date?

as long as she is legal and she wants to date you i see no problem in the age...

At 21 I would expect you to get a few comments - but its ok if you can take it.

24/25 I suppose is when the comments would stop.

I would say 21. Anything younger is just on a different level then you.

I think when you're concerned about her age is when she's too young. My wife is 12 years younger and we never think about it. I was with a woman 6 years younger and I thought about it a lot.

If she's 21 then you can still share drinks in public.

Just as long as she's legal, it should be fine :P

One of my fucked up cousins dated a girl who was 16, when he was 29. Gross.

28...anything younger just wants your money.

Age does not really matter. Mentality does. I've met 18 year old girls that are more grown up than 28 year old ones.

over 18 and you're fine.

21 is ok. I was 30 and dated a 20 yo, that was ok.

i'd say 21 as well.

Long Answer-

The person to best answer this question is actually her.

It probably doesn't matter to you much what other people think. If there was one exception to that rule, it would probably be her parents (or it should be). If she's cool with it, then they're the only ones you need to worry about.

Keep in mind, even if you AND her don't care, what if this turned out to be your future wife? Imagine future family get-togethers if they hate you. That alone is enough to strain even good marriages.

But, if she has a good relationship with her parents and doesn't care about the age difference, then it's all good. When you're 39 and she's 27 it'll look fine to most people.

Short Answer-

17 is too young

i think 21 is a very good age a difference of 12 years is not that much. You might start noticing the difference with 15 years difference and up. You might be 33 but young at heart and she might be 21 and mature for her age. If you get along then all for the best..

True that... :)

Not true - some people just like a bit of maturity.

I like looking at younger people - but its all eye candy - I have never had a relationship with anyone less that 15 years older than me.

there are 21 year olds that are far more mature than people in their 40s - keep it legal - leave the rest up to your inner voice and fuck the rest of the worlds opinion - all that matters is you and her

but you already knew that :)

18, unless you want to be able to get into bars with her, then 21

12

:2 cents:

drinking age is 18 here - not 21

im more curious to as what the hell a 21 yr old wants with a 33 yr old.

25...

do you really think you would get along well with a 21 year old? the generation gap is too big...

in general, i can't stand dating girls under 27-28. 33 as well.

I'm 32, my GF is 19 (almost 20). It doesn't really matter, but as TheLegacy pointed out, if you want to go to bars, 21 (in the States) is a good idea.

Alot of it has to do with their maturity level also, and the people they consort with.

Anyhow, best of luck with her. Mine's quite a handful. :)

Sleazy's big dick and big pockets

Ask her parents

If she's old enough to pee she's old enough for me.

Also consider if you're 33 and look 25 and she 18 and looks 25 no one is going to say anything unless you tell them you're age. I'm 37 and I can pass for 30 or younger. Most women where I live for whatever reason look 6-10 years older than what ther real age is. So I could get looks for dating a women my own age because I look 30 and she looks 45. Personally I don't think I would date anyone under 25 just because they are too immature and probally would want to have kids. I'm done making babies. Now I would fuck a lot of women between 18-24, but seriously dating them, most likely not.

Its starting to get disturbing now - I think the phrase is 'if shes old enough to bleed....'

or even better

If she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed.

Half Your Age Plus 7 is a rule of thumb i've heard about and don't know if i believe. calculator here:

http://www.lura.net/03/romance/

IMHO if she's legal and feel comfortable around her, go for it.

should be all good :) aslong as shes legal age

but she might want your money

Post of nude pictures of her - we would be able to answer your question better.

I got to agree with you there. I'll hangout and flirt and hook up with younger girls but to seriously think of dating on regular basis then defenitly over 25 for me.

As long as you can take her out anywhere, bars, strip clubs, etc, then age shouldnt matter.

For me, dating below age 26 is more or less a no no strictly based on the maturity level. But it really depends on the girl, if she's mature for her age, go for it. Generally I prefer slightly older women, 27 - 34 or so.
WG

Just curious ... but what the hell would she want someone her own age for?

from what she's told me all the guys she knows her age are loosers :2 cents:

Well she doesn't want to date you for your spelling ability.

LOSER = Someone who can't spell LOSER

LOOSER = you mother. As in "You mom's pussy is even LOOSER than it was before I fucked her"

The real LOUZARS are the people that correct people spelling mistakes on GFY.

There's date versus fuck...and to be honest, there's no real number. It all depends on the girl, her maturity level, and what she wants out of the relationship. I've always dated guys who were older than me. Some up to 12+ years older. When I was 23, I dated a guy who was 36. Great relationship that lasted for a while and ended for reasons outside of our ages.

If you want a "real relationship" and she's younger , just make sure that the 2 of you are on the same page and together for the right reasons. Meaning that she just doesn't want a "Daddy" who will pay for her lifestyle and you just don't want a trophy to sport around. If its a mutual understanding on the other hand, and if she's legal, then go for it.