need help - got a date and i wana sweep her off her feet
 

ok, found one I actually like. first date went well, and I actually want to see her again. just dinner and then we went to a pool hall and played 9-ball for a few hours. but we clicked.

got a second date - not till after x-mas cause of family parties and such, schedules at this time of year suck, but really looking forward to it. Ok, got a few other ones on the hook that's i'm seeing on and off but this one is the one I'm interested in and I wana do something to sweep her off her feet without going overboard on date #2.

So suggestions? I'm ok with spending a upto a few hundred dollars but anything more than that would be excessive and I don't want her to feel like I'm buying her.

help - i need ideas. PLEASE

what can i do - other than just being my charming good looking self - that will sweep her off her feet and make a huge impression?

If you wanna sweep her off her feet, do what you did a year or two back in Vegas, push her around a bit then, when she starts to complain tell her who you are but, to really make an impression, make sure you have a broom in one hand, that way, you can beat her around the head a few times with it and leave a really good lasting impression :)

Regards,

Lee

excuse me?

Honestly.. if it is only second date, do NOT spend a couple of hundred bucks on her other than a nice dinner with a really good bottle of wine. Now I like receiving stuff just as much as the next girl but too much too soon is a bad idea.

Any ideas what she likes or is like?? Does she like sports, wine, fancy food, movies... etc? Give us some insight.

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buy her and me a bmw

If you're looking to spoil while deterring a gold digger, spend money on expendable things... costly dinners, concert tickets, vacations are a good thing. expensive gifts, paying rent etc.. arent. Try a nice resteraunt and then a cruise of the local bay, a hot air balloon ride, something exotic. Then again, if you're still in Canada, it may be too cold for any of that. So just pick her up a nice blanket and offer to break it in with her.

Show in your HUGE Truck, that will impress her

one word

supersize

nothing is too good for my girl

Just be yourself man... that's all ya have to do.

take her some place you like to go, do something you like to do... show her who you are.

And if she's not swept off her feet, then perhaps it's not worth sweeping her off her feet with stuff that you're not interested in.

a couple hundred bucks barly gets me past dinner. with wine, aps and a nice meal it's about $120 or so at a decent place here. then doing something afterwards - even a movie - $15 a head plus popcorn or the like, or pool - probally $20 for the table and another $20-$50 for drinks - or bowling - same thing, or mini golf - same thing. a decent evening out is about $200 - not overboard. ok there are things we can do that will cost less, but i LIKE nice dinners.....not too fancy - just nice ones.

she like nice places - not dressy - just nice.

she's 6 months out of a marriage from a guy she dumped who had no ambition - he lived off her. Sound familar lol - She owns 1/2 of a multi million dollar trucking company but doesn't live fancy at all. Plain home, plain car (jetta) etc. I think she was shocked that i actually have money too, she's had a lot of gold diggers after her. Not saying i'm not a gold digger too, but my net is the same or more than hers. She wants to travel more but it's hard to find the time at the monent for her but that will change as she's training an assistant that will allow her to. Nice girl, cute, natural blonde - yep blonde , first time I've really gone for a blonde in my life - what else...hummmmm 27, no kids, has a dog, just fun to talk to - bright.

that help?

sounds like a keeper

Ok... in that case. You are spot on with the dinner. Nice place... nto too dressy... NEVER loud. You n eed to be able to talk. Thats a great second date. Third date.. I would recommend a nice show or something.... does she like culture or arts... or do you? I am not familiar with things in Canada but stuff like Cirque du Soleil is awesome in my opinion and women love that. Is she a mature 27 yr old or avg?

Also, the whole guy that lived off her.. that totally sucks. I think regardless of the money, the best way to win over a woman thats been burnt like that is just to be yourself. You seem like you are a secure person, both financially and personally. Women that have been through those types of bad relationships and generally are doing well for themselves just want to feel that there is a person around them that will hold their own and pay for dinner. You know what I mean?

Later on of course.. I would DEFINITELY recommend travel. It is such good bonding. Seriously though.... having been through a situation where a guy has done that to me and being the same age.... if she is ANYTHING like me, I would say the most important thing is to just be secure around her and decisive without coming across as overly controlling or needy.

Above all... make sure she feels like you are giving her space to be a person in her own right.. which she is obviously but being just out of a marriage with a douchebag, she will need that.

I hope all this makes sense.

Show her your AMAZING coffee table. She'll marry you.

Here is the answer my friend..


Buy her flowers... all women love to get flowers. You could even send the flowers to her work on the day of the second date with a note saying how much your looking forward to the date later in the evening.
Make sure the flowers arrive at work so all the people at work can see them.

The will also prep her for an exceptional evening with the Sleazy..

Think of it like foreplay but for the date..

Good luck,

-JT

Take her for cooking lessons, I did that a few times and girls love it. Find a local restaurant that does cooking classes, I use a local sushi joint here in SD and it is a blast. Also takes a lot of pressure off since you are in a group.

Gavin

BTW You are the happiest guy on MYSPACE my man, I was looking at your profile and you just get the feeling you are always happy. That is cool, we are all real fortunate for the life we have and should enjoy it.

sleazy - may I suggest giving her a day at the spa? did that for shedevil and she freakin loved it.. women loved to be pampered.. and she will be amazed at how thoughtful you are

delete this from your list of plans, and I'm sure everything will turn out well

flowers on date 2 for me is too soon.... i'll send them to her office for date 3 or 4 - depending on plans of what we're doing....

I am standing by the rule of no gifts until perhaps after the third date. She already has money and probably wants to just know the guy first. I am sure she knows you have money too so that will all come in time. Flowers also, unless done right, can come across as cheesey and old school. I would wait to send flowers to her work AFTER a great second date.

Very goooood!!! Why do you need to ask us then dear, you seem to have things under control it seems. :-)

Sleazydream in a spa? OMG.. Do you want to give the girl nightmares for the rest of her life? Worst idea ever.

Get her a basket with those little soaps..chicks dig stuff that smells good

Don't wait for the second date. Send her a dozen white roses for Christmas.

LOL.. no no no. Its a day just for her.. at a spa. Sleazy can sit back and have a few beers and wait for the lovin later when she gets out. :thumbsup

i've done that before - i'm thinking about date 4 ish I'll send her a certificate for a spa treatment - have a limo pick her up and take her there and pick her up from the spa when she's done with that taking her out for the evening. - i usually get laid when i do that - taking my time with this one though - willing to wait till date 4-5 for that

i fuck enough bimbos from lavalife regurally that I don't have to rush in to get laid for the sake of getting laid when it comes to someone i like :thumbsup

Cook her dinner. (Not as hard as it may seem, hint: www.foodnetwork.com) Get some flowers for the table, couple candles. She'll dig that.

nicely done my friend - I wasnt sure about the limo thinking it was overkill.. but it definitely puts her in the right mood - all the best and I hope this one works for you

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You = have never had sex with a real-life woman.

Do something fun..like snomobiling or skiing (if you are in to that). My favorite dates have always been doing something fun..

Everyone or anyone can do the dinner thing..but to dine her after a day on the slopes or a day building a snowman is so much more rewarding and will stick in her mind much more than just another dinner .

Cliche and over-the-top sappy.

i liked the thread with the girl who had to puke of your body odour better ;)

Link? :1orglaugh

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LINK!!!!

lol how could u miss that one
ok ok im gonna look for it now haha

just pinch her nips when you see here, works everytime

ah i cant find it sleazy help us out here :winkwink:

edit: somebody else bumped it already :1orglaugh
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=509077

I always suspected that you were an adult only chronologically....thanks for affirming my suspicions.

I agree totally on this

If its your second date, dont spend a couple of hundreds. Good food and a bottle of wine is enough. If you both like eachother thats enough. If you hit off, you will have plenty of dates to spoil her ;)

Just being you should be enough, but if you want to impress her:

1. you should not have to spend a lot of money to do this.
2. maybe surprise her at work for lunch, pack a picnic basket and take her to a quite park, lay out a nice spread and just enjoy that moment.

In order to think of alternative ideas i need to know a layout of your area?

Send me some links babe.......xo