I was a mean kid. Especially to one girl that lived near me. I've always regretted the way I bullied her, and I wanted to make it right. I realize that I hurt myself just as much as I hurt her. So I found her today on Facebook, and tried to heal a 35 year-old wound. Her response surprised me, I expected her to tell me to fuck off.
Hi Tina,
I'm not sure if you remember me, and in a way, I kind of hope that you don't. But I remember you. When we were both kids, I remember riding the bus to school with you, and I was the jerk that started the booing and cheering when you got on and off the bus. I remember making you cry.
I have my own 12 year old daughter now, and when I see her getting picked on at school, I always think about you and how terribly cruel I was toward you. I am sincerely very sorry. You never deserved it, and its something I've been ashamed of for many years. Its one of the meanest things I've ever done.
I won't blame you if you continue to hate me for who I was. I just want to give you a long overdue apology.
Steve
Dear Steve,
Hello there. Yes I do remember you and the chanting from so long ago. It has been a very long time.
I just want you to know I was at work with fellow employees when I recieved this letter from you. I stood still as I read it, I was in shock. Funny how so much time never covers the wounds we get when we are young. (I stood among my fellow employees and cried my eyes out.) So I shared it with them. It was so touching they stood and cried with me. I told them the story of my childhood days and the mean kids on the bus.
I want you to know your letter brought me alot of healing this morning. You with your sincere words healed the broken spirit you created so long ago!! I thank you for that.
I am also married! (26 years). I left school without graduating at 17 years old. I have 3 children (boys) all over the age of 20. Do one thing for me tell your daughter not to let what others think of her get her down. I know that is easier said than done at her age. But keep encouraging her, and she will pass thru it with ease! If my parents had supported me it would not have hurt so bad! My Dad just told me to get over it.
Thank you soooooo much for this moment in my life. I'm proud of you for being the man you are! To admit a wrong is a big thing for anyone!
Thank You!! Tina
Hi Tina,
I'm not sure if you remember me, and in a way, I kind of hope that you don't. But I remember you. When we were both kids, I remember riding the bus to school with you, and I was the jerk that started the booing and cheering when you got on and off the bus. I remember making you cry.
I have my own 12 year old daughter now, and when I see her getting picked on at school, I always think about you and how terribly cruel I was toward you. I am sincerely very sorry. You never deserved it, and its something I've been ashamed of for many years. Its one of the meanest things I've ever done.
I won't blame you if you continue to hate me for who I was. I just want to give you a long overdue apology.
Steve
Dear Steve,
Hello there. Yes I do remember you and the chanting from so long ago. It has been a very long time.
I just want you to know I was at work with fellow employees when I recieved this letter from you. I stood still as I read it, I was in shock. Funny how so much time never covers the wounds we get when we are young. (I stood among my fellow employees and cried my eyes out.) So I shared it with them. It was so touching they stood and cried with me. I told them the story of my childhood days and the mean kids on the bus.
I want you to know your letter brought me alot of healing this morning. You with your sincere words healed the broken spirit you created so long ago!! I thank you for that.
I am also married! (26 years). I left school without graduating at 17 years old. I have 3 children (boys) all over the age of 20. Do one thing for me tell your daughter not to let what others think of her get her down. I know that is easier said than done at her age. But keep encouraging her, and she will pass thru it with ease! If my parents had supported me it would not have hurt so bad! My Dad just told me to get over it.
Thank you soooooo much for this moment in my life. I'm proud of you for being the man you are! To admit a wrong is a big thing for anyone! Thank You!! Tina
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