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  • jesse_adultdatingdollars
    Confirmed User
    • Apr 2006
    • 2197

    #1

    Gay webmasters please step inside; I have a question about my new gay dating site

    I was hoping to get honest review of my new gay dating site. Since I am straight I may be off when creating the site design, I need help....Can I get some input....no pun intended lol

    GayDatingConnections

    Is it a good design? Are the guys gay/hot enough? Its mainstream so that?s why no nudes.
    I used a rainbow on index and whyjoin pages. Is this a good idea or is it not cool? I really have no idea. Please be honest.

    Can I get some constructive positive and/or negative feedback if any?

    Would you join if you were a regular gay surfer?

    Also if anyone knows any good gay webmasters I pay 15% referral on all joins your webmasters sign up.
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  • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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    • Apr 2006
    • 2197

    #2
    If anyone has some kick ass gay content they think will help the site design let me know.
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    • BareBacked
      Confirmed User
      • Feb 2007
      • 3685

      #3
      The quick search looks way to small
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      • 429mg
        Confirmed User
        • Jul 2010
        • 151

        #4
        First of all, do a search on "dating sites" or "personal sites" on any of the gay webmaster boards. You will notice that most webmasters say it is very hard to create a succesful gay dating site. I believe there are two main reasons:

        1. Gay men easily hook up in bars and other places.
        2. There are some big free gay dating sites available.

        You'll have a hard time finding affiliates, cause there is more money to be made in selling memberships and vod.

        As for your site, some of the models are really hot (but that's a matter of taste of course). I like the site design - I am not that keen on rainbow flags myself, but the small pictures are very subtile.

        Your country/state code (right after the city) doesn't seem to work correctly. In my case, it reads Amsterdam, 07 and I guess that should be Amsterdam, NL.

        I don't think there is anything wrong with the site design, but just the fact that surfers need to pull their CC before trying out the site, will make it hard for you to be succesful. It's better to provide a free service and then sell VIP memberships with extra features or upsell other stuff.

        My advice, ask your question at a gay webmaster board
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        • SmokeyTheBear
          ►SouthOfHeaven
          • Jun 2004
          • 28609

          #5
          while the gays are here i always wanted to know if the term "fudge packer" is insulting or ?? i wouldnt be offended if someone called me clam smasher, but that's just me. is it insulting or just a name
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          • jesse_adultdatingdollars
            Confirmed User
            • Apr 2006
            • 2197

            #6
            Originally posted by 429mg
            First of all, do a search on "dating sites" or "personal sites" on any of the gay webmaster boards. You will notice that most webmasters say it is very hard to create a succesful gay dating site. I believe there are two main reasons:

            1. Gay men easily hook up in bars and other places.
            2. There are some big free gay dating sites available.

            You'll have a hard time finding affiliates, cause there is more money to be made in selling memberships and vod.

            As for your site, some of the models are really hot (but that's a matter of taste of course). I like the site design - I am not that keen on rainbow flags myself, but the small pictures are very subtile.

            Your country/state code (right after the city) doesn't seem to work correctly. In my case, it reads Amsterdam, 07 and I guess that should be Amsterdam, NL.

            I don't think there is anything wrong with the site design, but just the fact that surfers need to pull their CC before trying out the site, will make it hard for you to be succesful. It's better to provide a free service and then sell VIP memberships with extra features or upsell other stuff.

            My advice, ask your question at a gay webmaster board
            Good information. Thank you.
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            • Agent 488
              Registered User
              • Feb 2006
              • 22511

              #7
              Originally posted by SmokeyTheBear
              while the gays are here i always wanted to know if the term "fudge packer" is insulting or ?? i wouldnt be offended if someone called me clam smasher, but that's just me. is it insulting or just a name
              homo goes over great as well.

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              • L-Pink
                working on my tan
                • Mar 2005
                • 39151

                #8
                Originally posted by Agent 488
                homo goes over great as well.
                Don't forget butt pirate.


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                • carzygirls
                  So Fucking Banned
                  • Oct 2010
                  • 857

                  #9
                  Originally posted by L-Pink
                  Don't forget butt pirate.


                  .
                  or fudge pot

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                  • 429mg
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jul 2010
                    • 151

                    #10
                    Originally posted by SmokeyTheBear
                    while the gays are here i always wanted to know if the term "fudge packer" is insulting or ?? i wouldnt be offended if someone called me clam smasher, but that's just me. is it insulting or just a name
                    Clam smasher would be the most insulting
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                    • dazzling
                      Confirmed User
                      • Nov 2002
                      • 579

                      #11
                      Its a nice design, looks a bit like outpersonals though.
                      I would remove the tranny and bi-curious stuff. I do a lot of business in gay personals as well as other dating websites and its what I specialize in. First, you need to understand the real gay community. Extensive research has shown that gay men are not interested in hetro men or even bi-curious men. The research Ive seen shows only 2% of gay men are interested in bedding a hetro or bi-curious guy. Your colors are fine, and through the study of color psychology on gay dating websites Ive had the best success with whites and blues. Suggest you give the color, Robin Egg Blue a go as extensive research into this color shows how well it converts.
                      Get rid of the fake photos, fact is most gay men look nothing like that and research has shown it to be a turn off in real gay dating websites. What those photos will do is attract free signups from time wasters and hetro men.
                      Despite what many people think, less then 1% of gay men cruise a gay bar. And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                      Gay men are REAL people with real lives and real feelings. They are seeking relationships and friendship.
                      Get some realistic photos of real men of all ages and shapes and you will start to attract the real gays that will convert.
                      Have a look here at the best converting lesbian dating website around, http://planetsappho.com. Notice the rotating photos on the front, girls laughing on a beach, holding hands, girls in the park, etc.
                      Gay men like cooking, fashion, home renovation.
                      Get some photos of two guys cooking a happy meal together, guys holding hands, guys strolling in the park, guys paying a game of monopoly, things like that. Because this is what gay couples do. Photos of gay couples smiling, happy and living life is what works. They DONT prance around with their shirt up. Also, suggest you target a specific country only. You will get less free signups, but better conversions and much higher rebills. Best of luck.
                      Last edited by dazzling; 01-30-2011, 01:44 AM.
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                      • loreen
                        myadultdesign.com
                        • May 2004
                        • 12558

                        #12
                        Lovely menu. I like the flag as well.
                        I also have a gay community site and although what dazzling says sounds very reasonable, many of my members do look good and many are in bars every weekend.
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                        • Mutt
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Sep 2002
                          • 34431

                          #13
                          Originally posted by dazzling
                          Its a nice design, looks a bit like outpersonals though.
                          I would remove the tranny and bi-curious stuff. I do a lot of business in gay personals as well as other dating websites and its what I specialize in. First, you need to understand the real gay community. Extensive research has shown that gay men are not interested in hetro men or even bi-curious men. The research Ive seen shows only 2% of gay men are interested in bedding a hetro or bi-curious guy. Your colors are fine, and through the study of color psychology on gay dating websites Ive had the best success with whites and blues. Suggest you give the color, Robin Egg Blue a go as extensive research into this color shows how well it converts.
                          Get rid of the fake photos, fact is most gay men look nothing like that and research has shown it to be a turn off in real gay dating websites. What those photos will do is attract free signups from time wasters and hetro men.
                          Despite what many people think, less then 1% of gay men cruise a gay bar. And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                          Gay men are REAL people with real lives and real feelings. They are seeking relationships and friendship.
                          Get some realistic photos of real men of all ages and shapes and you will start to attract the real gays that will convert.
                          Have a look here at the best converting lesbian dating website around, http://planetsappho.com. Notice the rotating photos on the front, girls laughing on a beach, holding hands, girls in the park, etc.
                          Gay men like cooking, fashion, home renovation.
                          Get some photos of two guys cooking a happy meal together, guys holding hands, guys strolling in the park, guys paying a game of monopoly, things like that. Because this is what gay couples do. Photos of gay couples smiling, happy and living life is what works. They DONT prance around with their shirt up. Also, suggest you target a specific country only. You will get less free signups, but better conversions and much higher rebills. Best of luck.
                          should have charged him for that
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                          • closer
                            Confirmed User
                            • Sep 2005
                            • 1707

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Mutt
                            should have charged him for that
                            Luckily, some people still want to help out other unlike the most here

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                            • Dappz
                              Confirmed User
                              • Dec 2009
                              • 997

                              #15
                              um good luck to you ping you could construct your kick ass design for your gay site

                              good luck!!!!!


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                              • EddyTheDog
                                Just Doing My Own Thing
                                • Jan 2011
                                • 25436

                                #16
                                Looks good - I agree that a few more realistic guys would be better.

                                Guys looking for dates are not all going to be male models and are realistic about the guys they can hook up with.....

                                They will not all be under 30 either .

                                Smokey - Not keen on the term 'fudge packer'....

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                                • jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Apr 2006
                                  • 2197

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by dazzling
                                  Its a nice design, looks a bit like outpersonals though.
                                  I would remove the tranny and bi-curious stuff. I do a lot of business in gay personals as well as other dating websites and its what I specialize in. First, you need to understand the real gay community. Extensive research has shown that gay men are not interested in hetro men or even bi-curious men. The research Ive seen shows only 2% of gay men are interested in bedding a hetro or bi-curious guy. Your colors are fine, and through the study of color psychology on gay dating websites Ive had the best success with whites and blues. Suggest you give the color, Robin Egg Blue a go as extensive research into this color shows how well it converts.
                                  Get rid of the fake photos, fact is most gay men look nothing like that and research has shown it to be a turn off in real gay dating websites. What those photos will do is attract free signups from time wasters and hetro men.
                                  Despite what many people think, less then 1% of gay men cruise a gay bar. And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                                  Gay men are REAL people with real lives and real feelings. They are seeking relationships and friendship.
                                  Get some realistic photos of real men of all ages and shapes and you will start to attract the real gays that will convert.
                                  Have a look here at the best converting lesbian dating website around, http://planetsappho.com. Notice the rotating photos on the front, girls laughing on a beach, holding hands, girls in the park, etc.
                                  Gay men like cooking, fashion, home renovation.
                                  Get some photos of two guys cooking a happy meal together, guys holding hands, guys strolling in the park, guys paying a game of monopoly, things like that. Because this is what gay couples do. Photos of gay couples smiling, happy and living life is what works. They DONT prance around with their shirt up. Also, suggest you target a specific country only. You will get less free signups, but better conversions and much higher rebills. Best of luck.
                                  Thanks for the info! Great tips.
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                                  • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                    • Apr 2006
                                    • 2197

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by EddyTheDog
                                    Looks good - I agree that a few more realistic guys would be better.

                                    Guys looking for dates are not all going to be male models and are realistic about the guys they can hook up with.....

                                    They will not all be under 30 either .

                                    Smokey - Not keen on the term 'fudge packer'....
                                    I pulled real members from the dating data base I am leasing, so they are real members. I do understand what you guys are saying about more couples and real looking members and I appreciate the tips!
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                                    • epitome
                                      So Fucking Lame
                                      • Jun 2009
                                      • 12156

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by SmokeyTheBear
                                      while the gays are here i always wanted to know if the term "fudge packer" is insulting or ?? i wouldnt be offended if someone called me clam smasher, but that's just me. is it insulting or just a name
                                      How about bloody tampon smasher? That is more in line with fudge packer.

                                      As for the site, I actually like it but would take off the rainbow flag. Too obvious and makes everyone realize you are straight.

                                      And good luck. Its brutal.

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                                      • epitome
                                        So Fucking Lame
                                        • Jun 2009
                                        • 12156

                                        #20
                                        Oh yeah, if it hasn't already been said...

                                        Try to have something for couples featured. Many gay men in long-term committed relationships like to play together. Whether a third or another couple.

                                        And include what they are looking for. Hookup, partner, fuck buddy, friends only, etc.

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                                        • Choker
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Apr 2001
                                          • 9024

                                          #21
                                          Your geo script is messed up, on main page it says I'm in Florida then when i click a profile it says I'm in California. I agree with the one dudes post about letting members join for free then upsell to vip.
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                                          • epitome
                                            So Fucking Lame
                                            • Jun 2009
                                            • 12156

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by dazzling
                                            Its a nice design, looks a bit like outpersonals though.
                                            I would remove the tranny and bi-curious stuff. I do a lot of business in gay personals as well as other dating websites and its what I specialize in. First, you need to understand the real gay community. Extensive research has shown that gay men are not interested in hetro men or even bi-curious men. The research Ive seen shows only 2% of gay men are interested in bedding a hetro or bi-curious guy. Your colors are fine, and through the study of color psychology on gay dating websites Ive had the best success with whites and blues. Suggest you give the color, Robin Egg Blue a go as extensive research into this color shows how well it converts.
                                            Get rid of the fake photos, fact is most gay men look nothing like that and research has shown it to be a turn off in real gay dating websites. What those photos will do is attract free signups from time wasters and hetro men.
                                            Despite what many people think, less then 1% of gay men cruise a gay bar. And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                                            Gay men are REAL people with real lives and real feelings. They are seeking relationships and friendship.
                                            Get some realistic photos of real men of all ages and shapes and you will start to attract the real gays that will convert.
                                            Have a look here at the best converting lesbian dating website around, http://planetsappho.com. Notice the rotating photos on the front, girls laughing on a beach, holding hands, girls in the park, etc.
                                            Gay men like cooking, fashion, home renovation.
                                            Get some photos of two guys cooking a happy meal together, guys holding hands, guys strolling in the park, guys paying a game of monopoly, things like that. Because this is what gay couples do. Photos of gay couples smiling, happy and living life is what works. They DONT prance around with their shirt up. Also, suggest you target a specific country only. You will get less free signups, but better conversions and much higher rebills. Best of luck.
                                            What about those under 45?

                                            They like the complete opposite.

                                            For them feature a grey goose bottle, go go boys, mirrors with dollars bills and group sex.

                                            Sort of joking.

                                            The 2% random sex can't be right. 2% can't have as much sex as they want and may say they don't want it, but would happily have it.

                                            God knows how many pretend virgins I've fucked ... or guys that say they don't sleep around yet everyone I know has fucked them.

                                            Then again, the wholesome psychology will probably work on them because that is how they see themselves.

                                            Maybe I am just a whore. I like to make happy meals with my partner of 3 1/2 years and play monopoly but every few months we like to remind ourselves we aren't dead yet.

                                            We are 31 and 21 ... maybe that has something to do with it.

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                                            • jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Apr 2006
                                              • 2197

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by dazzling
                                              Its a nice design, looks a bit like outpersonals though.
                                              I would remove the tranny and bi-curious stuff. I do a lot of business in gay personals as well as other dating websites and its what I specialize in. First, you need to understand the real gay community. Extensive research has shown that gay men are not interested in hetro men or even bi-curious men. The research Ive seen shows only 2% of gay men are interested in bedding a hetro or bi-curious guy. Your colors are fine, and through the study of color psychology on gay dating websites Ive had the best success with whites and blues. Suggest you give the color, Robin Egg Blue a go as extensive research into this color shows how well it converts.
                                              Get rid of the fake photos, fact is most gay men look nothing like that and research has shown it to be a turn off in real gay dating websites. What those photos will do is attract free signups from time wasters and hetro men.
                                              Despite what many people think, less then 1% of gay men cruise a gay bar. And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                                              Gay men are REAL people with real lives and real feelings. They are seeking relationships and friendship.
                                              Get some realistic photos of real men of all ages and shapes and you will start to attract the real gays that will convert.
                                              Have a look here at the best converting lesbian dating website around, http://planetsappho.com. Notice the rotating photos on the front, girls laughing on a beach, holding hands, girls in the park, etc.
                                              Gay men like cooking, fashion, home renovation.
                                              Get some photos of two guys cooking a happy meal together, guys holding hands, guys strolling in the park, guys paying a game of monopoly, things like that. Because this is what gay couples do. Photos of gay couples smiling, happy and living life is what works. They DONT prance around with their shirt up. Also, suggest you target a specific country only. You will get less free signups, but better conversions and much higher rebills. Best of luck.

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                                              • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                • Apr 2006
                                                • 2197

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Choker
                                                Your geo script is messed up, on main page it says I'm in Florida then when i click a profile it says I'm in California. I agree with the one dudes post about letting members join for free then upsell to vip.
                                                I agree with you guys on this 100%. Right now I only ave a option for pay first $1 24 hour trial. I will try and change to the free model in the future. Thanks for the tips.

                                                Also I will fix the geo ip and test here. anyone else having the geo ip problem changing from tour to join page?
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                                                • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                  • Apr 2006
                                                  • 2197

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by epitome
                                                  How about bloody tampon smasher? That is more in line with fudge packer.

                                                  As for the site, I actually like it but would take off the rainbow flag. Too obvious and makes everyone realize you are straight.

                                                  And good luck. Its brutal.
                                                  So the rainbow is out. Everyone agree its trying to hard? I liked the color and its gay, but if its a red flag that its a straight guy owning a gay site....what should I replace it with?
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                                                  • 429mg
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                                                    • Jul 2010
                                                    • 151

                                                    #26
                                                    I really like the photo of the couple!

                                                    I see two different locations (on the index and the join page) as well. Not that far from eachother as CA and FL, but still.

                                                    I agree with epitome that the 2% (of gay men sleeping around) is too low. Just looking at myself and my gay friends, I know the number can't be right. A lot of gay men aren't even in a relationship and when they do, a big part of that are open relationships.
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                                                    • jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Apr 2006
                                                      • 2197

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by 429mg
                                                      I really like the photo of the couple!

                                                      I see two different locations (on the index and the join page) as well. Not that far from eachother as CA and FL, but still.

                                                      I agree with epitome that the 2% (of gay men sleeping around) is too low. Just looking at myself and my gay friends, I know the number can't be right. A lot of gay men aren't even in a relationship and when they do, a big part of that are open relationships.
                                                      What photo do you like the best for index (landing page)









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                                                      • GTS Mark
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                                                        • Jan 2001
                                                        • 20912

                                                        #28
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                                                        • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                          • Apr 2006
                                                          • 2197

                                                          #29
                                                          Im gonna go with this for the index (landing page)
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                                                          • dazzling
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                                                            • Nov 2002
                                                            • 579

                                                            #30
                                                            I like the photo you have now of the 2 guys in bed, its a really good photo and says a lot of being gay, being in love, closeness, etc. Get rid of all the other photos below that. If you can put a rotating photo even better. Also, get rid of the trannie selection for sure, it actually makes a lot of people angry on dating websites if its there. Ask yourself your target market? Is it for hookup or relationships? There 2 very different things and you cant target both. The hookup market is going the way of Grindr, and this article shows why....http://www.chicagonow.com/blogs/rede...pe-grindr.html

                                                            My advice is to keep it very clean and nice, all about relationships, friendship and community. Reduce it down to United States only and on the right column add some gay resources in pop up windows. Make your website a relationship community, not a cruise bar. Put a slogan on top in big letters, something like, He`s Handsome, He`s Single and he`s Available. Something smaller about the community for men to fall in love, make friends and be happy.
                                                            Last edited by dazzling; 01-30-2011, 07:40 PM.
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                                                            • epitome
                                                              So Fucking Lame
                                                              • Jun 2009
                                                              • 12156

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                                              So the rainbow is out. Everyone agree its trying to hard? I liked the color and its gay, but if its a red flag that its a straight guy owning a gay site....what should I replace it with?
                                                              I wish I could remember where I saw it, but someone had like 250 gay dating images for sale on a stock photo site. Google around and you may be able to find it. Was all good mainstream images.

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                                                              • epitome
                                                                So Fucking Lame
                                                                • Jun 2009
                                                                • 12156

                                                                #32
                                                                On my phone (sick) and can't look too hard but queerstock.com seems to have good images.

                                                                Was also thinking... every gay guy knows you to to Manhunt or adam4adam to hookup. So maybe say something like 'sure you know where to go for instant gratification but we are all about meaningful relationships.'

                                                                Maybe that will help to set you apart. You will never be able to compete with those two beasts of sites but you aren't trying to.

                                                                Maybe let the surfer know that you are doing things differently and those looking for different will maybe be more apt to give it a shot? Maybe worth a shot with some A/B testing.

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                                                                • babymaker
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                                                                  • Jan 2004
                                                                  • 4751

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                                                  Im gonna go with this for the index (landing page)
                                                                  HAHAHA it's that the guy from million dollar listing? in the back?

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                                                                  • EddyTheDog
                                                                    Just Doing My Own Thing
                                                                    • Jan 2011
                                                                    • 25436

                                                                    #34
                                                                    And only 2% of gay men sleep around.
                                                                    If thats true then either 95% of my home towns men are gay or someone is importing sluts...

                                                                    I like that big pic on the index BTW.

                                                                    A simple phrase that a big site in the UK uses and pushes everywhere is - "The RELATIONSHIP Site" - Seems to work for them.

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                                                                    • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                      • Apr 2006
                                                                      • 2197

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by epitome
                                                                      I wish I could remember where I saw it, but someone had like 250 gay dating images for sale on a stock photo site. Google around and you may be able to find it. Was all good mainstream images.
                                                                      I bought mine at istock
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                                                                      • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                        • Apr 2006
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by epitome
                                                                        On my phone (sick) and can't look too hard but queerstock.com seems to have good images.

                                                                        Was also thinking... every gay guy knows you to to Manhunt or adam4adam to hookup. So maybe say something like 'sure you know where to go for instant gratification but we are all about meaningful relationships.'

                                                                        Maybe that will help to set you apart. You will never be able to compete with those two beasts of sites but you aren't trying to.

                                                                        Maybe let the surfer know that you are doing things differently and those looking for different will maybe be more apt to give it a shot? Maybe worth a shot with some A/B testing.

                                                                        I like those ideas. I am going to try that.

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                                                                        • EddyTheDog
                                                                          Just Doing My Own Thing
                                                                          • Jan 2011
                                                                          • 25436

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                                                          I bought mine at istock
                                                                          Am I missing something?

                                                                          That looks like nearly a $1 a pic at the lowest rate......

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                                                                          • dazzling
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                                                                            • Nov 2002
                                                                            • 579

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Here are the sort of photos I feel you should be using, its the sort of stuff that turned my free to paid ratio on one website from 70-1 to 12-1....
                                                                            http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-pho...ulled-wine.php

                                                                            http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-pho...ey-embrace.php

                                                                            http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-pho...od-morning.php


                                                                            http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-pho...gay-couple.php

                                                                            Gay couples in love and happy, doing the sort of stuff they do everyday. And when other gays ask, "Where did you meet?" They will say on your website and be happy to say that if you have a nice clean, happy place.

                                                                            Another thing, ban everything from the Philippines, I have found that almost every single profile posted from this country is running a scam. They actually have whole families that sit behind computers there 12 hours a day setting up hundreds of profiles running scams.
                                                                            Last edited by dazzling; 01-31-2011, 01:26 AM.
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                                                                            • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                              • Apr 2006
                                                                              • 2197

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Check out the final version. GAY DATING CONNECTIONS Its doing great Send the traffic everyone. Thanks for all the tips!!
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                                                                              • dazzling
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                                                                                • Nov 2002
                                                                                • 579

                                                                                #40
                                                                                I really like the way you got the featured member on the home page, it helps make the profiles look more real. Any figures on free to paid conversions?
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                                                                                • react
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                                                                                  • Sep 2003
                                                                                  • 673

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Don't fake the funk.
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                                                                                  • emjay
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                                                                                    • Dec 2004
                                                                                    • 4280

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by dazzling
                                                                                    The hookup market is going the way of Grindr, and this article shows why....http://www.chicagonow.com/blogs/rede...pe-grindr.html


                                                                                    Good luck with the new site Jesse, if you are interested it featuring something similar LMK
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                                                                                    • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                                      • Apr 2006
                                                                                      • 2197

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by dazzling
                                                                                      I really like the way you got the featured member on the home page, it helps make the profiles look more real. Any figures on free to paid conversions?
                                                                                      I am going to make it Free CC join. Age verification process. Right now its $1-1 day trial. Doing well, but the free model will convert way better.
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                                                                                      • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                                        • Apr 2006
                                                                                        • 2197

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by emjay


                                                                                        Good luck with the new site Jesse, if you are interested it featuring something similar LMK
                                                                                        Thanks for the good luck. Ill need it , the industry is tough these days!
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                                                                                        • dazzling
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                                                                                          • Nov 2002
                                                                                          • 579

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by jesse_adultdatingdollars
                                                                                          I am going to make it Free CC join. Age verification process. Right now its $1-1 day trial. Doing well, but the free model will convert way better.
                                                                                          With the age verification system, what commission do you earn on that?
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                                                                                          • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                                            • Dec 2004
                                                                                            • 94151

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            I wouldn't encourage serious gay relationships...

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                                                                                            • jesse_adultdatingdollars
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                                                                                              • Apr 2006
                                                                                              • 2197

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by dazzling
                                                                                              With the age verification system, what commission do you earn on that?
                                                                                              I have changed it to a FREE 3 day trial with CC verification.
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