Why women think being with another women is not considered cheating? - GoFuckYourself.com

pornjudge · 07-28-2010, 07:48 PM

My ex wife told a friend of mine that was her little secret & I did not need to know;)

BlackCrayon · 07-28-2010, 08:04 PM

they're dumb.

spazlabz · 07-28-2010, 08:07 PM

My guess... because a lot of husbands wouldn't consider it cheating... just hot

your ex should have been honest with you though... finding that out well after the fact must sting or piss you off

Intrinsic · 07-28-2010, 08:09 PM

How's that saying go if two's company threes a party? :confused

gmr324 · 07-28-2010, 08:09 PM

sounds like a big and not little secret to me

Spunky · 07-28-2010, 08:12 PM

As long as she shares,I'm ok with that

CYF · 07-28-2010, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

As long as she shares,I'm ok with that

totally agree

Paul Markham · 07-29-2010, 02:36 AM

If your wife/gf is bisexual then it's fine if she tells you. Better if she lets you watch and fantastic if she lets you join in. LOL

brentbacardi · 07-29-2010, 05:17 AM

I think its fucked up AND cheating if its a secret. If she tells you and you say its ok, then no harm done. She sounds like she is an untrustworthy and bitter woman from what you have said... So idk the situation but in the long run she is probably better as your ex I would think.

If my gf/wife/ex had been with girls while we were together over a long period like that and didn't tell me id leave her in 2 seconds... although if she asked me about it I would totally support her in finding her pussy, with or without me. Nor would I be mad if she was like sooooo last night i fucked a girl lol I would say "cool, when are you going to do it again?" haha

spazlabz · 07-29-2010, 06:05 AM

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Originally Posted by brentbacardi

I think its fucked up AND cheating if its a secret. If she tells you and you say its ok, then no harm done. She sounds like she is an untrustworthy and bitter woman from what you have said... So idk the situation but in the long run she is probably better as your ex I would think.

If my gf/wife/ex had been with girls while we were together over a long period like that and didn't tell me id leave her in 2 seconds... although if she asked me about it I would totally support her in finding her pussy, with or without me. Nor would I be mad if she was like sooooo last night i fucked a girl lol I would say "cool, when are you going to do it again?" haha

Great post, I could not agree more

rowan · 07-29-2010, 06:10 AM

If you're bumping/sucking/licking/fucking ugly bits with another human when you're in a monogamous relationship it's cheating, regardless of their gender or whether it's "hot"

Did you at least find out who she was sporking? Is she hot? :D

Paul Markham · 07-29-2010, 06:17 AM

If your wife/GF is bi and lets you join in, are you being unfaithful? LOL

bronco67 · 07-29-2010, 06:52 AM

Any man that gets mad at his wife for fucking another girl needs to adjust his tampon.

J. Falcon · 07-29-2010, 06:58 AM

That's the first time I ever heard that.

CaptainHowdy · 07-29-2010, 07:03 AM

I know why but I won't tell...

Tom_PM · 07-29-2010, 08:24 AM

Looks or gender dont matter, it's all about the connection. And I dont mean the physical one.

dig420 · 07-29-2010, 08:25 AM

It's not cheating. They're not going to leave you for another woman. Complaining about your girl getting with another girl is very bitch like.

Agent 488 · 07-29-2010, 08:27 AM

_Richard_ · 07-29-2010, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

As long as she shares,I'm ok with that

i have come across this problem before.. describing hardcore gay sex and adding 'and keeping it as my little secret' has cleared up any sort of confusion

CDSmith · 07-29-2010, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by dig420

It's not cheating. They're not going to leave you for another woman. Complaining about your girl getting with another girl is very bitch like.

An old friend of mine, oh let's call him Ross Gellar, would so disagree with you.

dig420 · 07-29-2010, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

An old friend of mine, oh let's call him Ross Gellar, would so disagree with you.

If that happens, it would have happened anyway. Having sex with a girl isn't going to turn a woman into a lesbian, they either are or they aren't. She wasn't leaving him so much as she was coming out of the closet lol

Let's put it this way: suppose you a guy suck you or something so your wife could watch, because it turns her on. Are you suddenly going to develop deep feelings for this guy and want to kiss him and spoon with him all night? Fuck no... if you're straight even the thought of it is pretty disgusting. I would imagine it's the same for women.

L-Pink · 07-29-2010, 10:36 AM

eat'n ain't cheat'n

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CDSmith · 07-29-2010, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by dig420

If that happens, it would have happened anyway. Having sex with a girl isn't going to turn a woman into a lesbian, they either are or they aren't. She wasn't leaving him so much as she was coming out of the closet lol

Agreed, but how is that not cheating? You said it wasn't, but in certain situations like this it very much is.

If both people went into the relationship expecting and offering fidelity and then one of them has sex with another person, be it man or woman, well call me crazy but I'm pretty sure that's the very definition of cheating.

96ukssob · 07-29-2010, 10:49 AM

women are stupid

my friend from college was dating this chick and she told him that she occasionally hooks up with her bi friend when they drink. Turns out they drink a lot and to the point that they broke up and she moved in with this chick

fatfoo · 07-29-2010, 10:59 AM

It's nearly impossible to have secret lovers nowadays.
Everybody seems to know everything.

spazlabz · 07-29-2010, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by bossku69

women are stupid

my friend from college was dating this chick and she told him that she occasionally hooks up with her bi friend when they drink. Turns out they drink a lot and to the point that they broke up and she moved in with this chick

Dat Demon Alcohol!

martinsc · 07-29-2010, 11:37 AM

i'm fine with it - as long as I can watch......

BlackCrayon · 07-29-2010, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bronco67

Any man that gets mad at his wife for fucking another girl needs to adjust his tampon.

why? it she keeps it secret there is no benefit to the guy whatsoever. its a total double standard that slutty women think they can get away with. if im not there, or have no ok-ed it, its totally cheating and no different than if they were fucking a guy.

_Richard_ · 07-29-2010, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by bossku69

women are stupid

my friend from college was dating this chick and she told him that she occasionally hooks up with her bi friend when they drink. Turns out they drink a lot and to the point that they broke up and she moved in with this chick

BlackCrayon · 07-29-2010, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by dig420

It's not cheating. They're not going to leave you for another woman. Complaining about your girl getting with another girl is very bitch like.

all it takes is some girl who is 'full lez' to convince her that she is gay and all men are evil etc. sure, it may of happened anyways blah blah but its still a total violation of trust. i doubt most women would be down with their boyfriend taking it in the ass from another guy in secret.

PornMD · 07-29-2010, 12:05 PM

It's a double standard. A guy's girlfriend having sex with another girl is supposed to not be a big deal since most guys find girl-on-girl hot. A girl on the other hand would murder the guy if she found out he had sex with another man.

L-Pink · 07-29-2010, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by PornMD

It's a double standard. A guy's girlfriend having sex with another girl is supposed to not be a big deal since most guys find girl-on-girl hot. A girl on the other hand would murder the guy if she found out he had sex with another man.

Poor girl, finding her boyfriends cock tastes like shit.

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IllTestYourGirls · 07-29-2010, 12:11 PM

Because its fucking hot?

LongBG · 07-29-2010, 08:54 PM

lmao at the amount of "i'm fine as long as i can watch" posts.

I bet you'd fucking cry if your wife / lover asked if she could be with a women.

dig420 · 07-29-2010, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by LongBG

lmao at the amount of "i'm fine as long as i can watch" posts.

I bet you'd fucking cry if your wife / lover asked if she could be with a women.

Tears of joy.

Re my earlier post... yeah it's cheating, but the fact that she actually had sex with a woman had nothing to do with her leaving. If she's a lesbian, she's gonna leave your dick-having ass anyway. Getting mad because your secretly lesbian gf left you to be with another woman is like getting mad at your dog for chasing a rabbit. The 'cheating' isn't the issue that broke up the relationship. The fact that she has no interest in your cock is what did it, and it was going to happen no matter what.

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brentbacardi Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,425	I think its fucked up AND cheating if its a secret. If she tells you and you say its ok, then no harm done. She sounds like she is an untrustworthy and bitter woman from what you have said... So idk the situation but in the long run she is probably better as your ex I would think. If my gf/wife/ex had been with girls while we were together over a long period like that and didn't tell me id leave her in 2 seconds... although if she asked me about it I would totally support her in finding her pussy, with or without me. Nor would I be mad if she was like sooooo last night i fucked a girl lol I would say "cool, when are you going to do it again?" haha __________________ Go Fuck Yourself!

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spazlabz Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Kentucky Posts: 6,548	My guess... because a lot of husbands wouldn't consider it cheating... just hot your ex should have been honest with you though... finding that out well after the fact must sting or piss you off

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gmr324 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,199	sounds like a big and not little secret to me

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rowan Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 17,393	If you're bumping/sucking/licking/fucking ugly bits with another human when you're in a monogamous relationship it's cheating, regardless of their gender or whether it's "hot" Did you at least find out who she was sporking? Is she hot? :D

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LongBG Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Sesame Street Posts: 1,101	lmao at the amount of "i'm fine as long as i can watch" posts. I bet you'd fucking cry if your wife / lover asked if she could be with a women. __________________ Contact me: [email protected]