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  • Juicy D. Links
    So Fucking Banned
    • Apr 2001
    • 122992

    #1

    Amount of "Wedding Gift" which is appropriate ....

    Heading to Buffalo tomorrow for few days for friends wedding , known him for like 15 years...

    We are good friends....but drifted last few years...

    Me and Izzzzzzzzz heading up there....

    How much to give?

    I am a groomsmen btw.


    whats the "guidelines"


    _JDL
  • Sly
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    • Sep 2004
    • 31377

    #2
    I think a handjob will suffice. A great gift to give. Easy on your pocket and will release all of his tension before the big day. The bride will thank you.
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    • Juicy D. Links
      So Fucking Banned
      • Apr 2001
      • 122992

      #3
      I blew alot on him at his bachelor party btw in Vegas few weeks ago... dont know if this matters?

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      • Juicy D. Links
        So Fucking Banned
        • Apr 2001
        • 122992

        #4
        Originally posted by Sly
        I think a handjob will suffice. A great gift to give. Easy on your pocket and will release all of his tension before the big day. The bride will thank you.
        Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal

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        • Sly
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          • Sep 2004
          • 31377

          #5
          Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
          Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal
          I'm sure you have the room, don't worry. It won't hurt too much.
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          • Juicy D. Links
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            • Apr 2001
            • 122992

            #6
            http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

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            • Semi-Retired-Dave
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              • Apr 2004
              • 11190

              #7
              Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
              I blew alot on him at his bachelor party btw in Vegas few weeks ago... dont know if this matters?
              I thought you said you Blew him a lot at his bachelor party.

              It all depends on your financial situation, but I would think $500.00 - $1000.00 is fair.
              But then again, you aren't his best man, just a groomsman.
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              • Juicy D. Links
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                • Apr 2001
                • 122992

                #8
                Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave
                I thought you said you Blew him a lot at his bachelor party.

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                • TurboAngel
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                  • Jun 2003
                  • 30122

                  #9
                  I was in a wedding back in April and my gift was $200. They say it depends on how big and where the wedding will take place. I was told that any where from $100-$300 so I did $200.

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                  • CurrentlySober
                    Too lazy to wipe my ass
                    • Aug 2002
                    • 38957

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Sly
                    I'm sure you have the room...
                    Provided he removes the Iguana first...


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                    • Amputate Your Head
                      There can be only one
                      • Aug 2001
                      • 39075

                      #11
                      A gift certificate for Chili's is perfectly acceptable.
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                      • Supz
                        Arthur Flegenheimer
                        • Jul 2006
                        • 11057

                        #12
                        250 two fitty

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                        • marketsmart
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                          • Dec 2004
                          • 20419

                          #13
                          what are they serving for food...

                          i always base gifts on what i get in return...

                          shitty buffet and beer and wine only $10...

                          shitty buffet and open bar with calls.... $500

                          nice dinner and open bar with calls + monogrammed groomsman gift... $1000




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                          • marketsmart
                            HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER
                            • Dec 2004
                            • 20419

                            #14
                            ps.. if i fuck one of the hot bridesmaids.. $2000...

                            if she lets me atm her... $5000




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                            • marketsmart
                              HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER
                              • Dec 2004
                              • 20419

                              #15
                              pss..

                              if that same hot bridesmaid snowballs me and drinks up my minibar.... $10

                              i'm fickle like that...



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                              • Chosen
                                • Aug 2001
                                • 63151

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
                                Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal

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                                • Raf1
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                                  • Oct 2003
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                                  #17
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                                  • BigRod
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                                    • Apr 2005
                                    • 3685

                                    #18
                                    Open bar makes all the difference in the world. If you and your guest drink what would be a $500 bar bill and a nice dinner $1000 is good. If its a crap dinner and cash bar, you decide.
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                                    • umbralui
                                      Do as i say, not as i do!
                                      • Oct 2006
                                      • 13755

                                      #19
                                      Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $140

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                                      • aubreythree
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                                        • Sep 2007
                                        • 435

                                        #20
                                        140bucks might get a decent gift

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                                        • baddog
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                                          • Apr 2001
                                          • 107089

                                          #21
                                          Like they said, depends on the event. Where is it at, what are you being fed, open bar?

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                                          • baddog
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                                            • Apr 2001
                                            • 107089

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
                                            That is pretty fair. It is costing you to even be there.

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                                            • Juicy D. Links
                                              So Fucking Banned
                                              • Apr 2001
                                              • 122992

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by umbralui
                                              Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $140
                                              i tried that calc but I cant give what it suggested it seems to low... I gotta talk with Izzz we will give matching amounts loll we have known the groom pretty much equal times


                                              I am off every1 have a great weekend

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                                              • umbralui
                                                Do as i say, not as i do!
                                                • Oct 2006
                                                • 13755

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
                                                i tried that calc but I cant give what it suggested it seems to low... I gotta talk with Izzz we will give matching amounts loll we have known the groom pretty much equal times


                                                I am off every1 have a great weekend


                                                yes, is kinda low what calculator say.. i think.. if you had good times with him/her.. close your eyes and 2-3k will be fine..

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                                                • PersianKitty
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                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                  • 7785

                                                  #25
                                                  Give what you'd think they might give you if it were the other way around

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                                                  • seeandsee
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                                                    • Mar 2006
                                                    • 50945

                                                    #26
                                                    that calculator is some bad ass :D

                                                    Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $110

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                                                    • umbralui
                                                      Do as i say, not as i do!
                                                      • Oct 2006
                                                      • 13755

                                                      #27
                                                      important is to be present .. not to go with gifts.. fuck gifts.. i hate them

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                                                      • ottopottomouse
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                                                        • Jan 2010
                                                        • 13177

                                                        #28
                                                        I prefer to give something someone actually wants rather than a random amount of cash.

                                                        Based on my brother's wedding-
                                                        Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $165
                                                        seems a bit cheap.
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                                                        • LongBG
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                                                          • Jun 2007
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                                                          #29
                                                          It all depends on how many whores he shouted you before the big day.
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                                                          • AdultEUhost
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                                                            • Oct 2005
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Juicy D. Links
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                                                            • candyflip
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                                                              • Jul 2002
                                                              • 43069

                                                              #31
                                                              The standard is to cover the cost of your plate, but that's probably a good rule to follow if you're not family or good friends.

                                                              And I've known people here in Rochester to pay under $15 a plate for their reception, so I'd feel like a cheap ass for following that rule here.

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