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Old 06-25-2010, 09:29 AM   #1
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Are Straight Guys in Gay Porn Really Straight?


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Or do they claim it to boost sales?

Most people seem to think straight sex workers in gay porn are either closet case exhibitionists, money-hungry heteros or want-it-all versatiles. Personally, I don't think they're gay, straight or bi. I think they're "buy-sexual."

Gay guys should understand that term better than anyone. We've been trading sex for a certain kind of currency since the beginning of time.

How many of us dated, sexed or married a woman because it would "buy" us entry into the groups we wanted to be part of? Like family, friends, church, work, or the military. We've been doing "Straight-for-stay" a lot longer than straights have been doing "Gay-for-pay." Don't let money blind you to the meaning of currency.

Gay-for-pay says, "I have sex with men for money." Straight-to-stay says, "I have sex with women for acceptance." The currency might be different but the dynamic is not: Temporarily thwarting authentic desire for something valuable.

I've had sex with a few women yet if you pointed the Kinsey spectrum at me, Alfred himself would say he's never seen anybody gayer. If gays can get themselves "excited" for a gender we're not attracted to, why do we think straight guys can't?

There's not that much difference between gay-for-pay and straight-to-stay. Fantasy is the great enabler. If gay men can use it to get past sessions with women, why wouldn't straight guys be able to get past theirs with men? What's between your ears is more powerful than what's between your legs, even if someone's got them pinned to your shoulders.

What isn't easily defined is easily dismissed. The closest most of us can come to understanding the phenomenon of straight guys having gay sex is to say they're bi-sexual. It's hard to see that they're in fact, buy-sexual.
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Old 06-25-2010, 09:48 AM   #2
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You can never generalize a group of people and get a correct answer, but the greater part of the gay4pay workers are either bisexual, try-sexual or buy-sexual.

I give you a Peter North, he hates to be reminded of his gay movies
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Old 06-25-2010, 09:49 AM   #3
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They repeatedly 'claim' they are gay for pay.
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:03 AM   #4
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some are gay, some are bi, some don't want to admit, some are neither

that said, there seem to be bunch of straight men who like nailing gay guys, or other guys, and just get off on the whole dominating another guy thing.
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:11 AM   #5
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Any time one guy fucks another guy its GAY. Period.
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:16 AM   #7
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Any time one guy fucks another guy its GAY. Period.
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:33 AM   #8
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:39 AM   #9
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Why the fuck does society still care about gay,straight or bi?

i dont give a fuck who is fucking who, who is sucking whos cock, or who is taking it in the ass. male female or unicorn.

i think everyone should be forced to work in the porn industry. all it has made me realize is everyone in the world is a sick fuck. lol

when you realize you are just as freaked out sexually as the next person it is easier to be open about people.

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Old 06-25-2010, 10:44 AM   #10
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I'd have trouble comprehending how a straight man could keep an erection when a naked dude was about to suck it or sit on it, but then again male pr0n stars have something special going down there anyway... just think about baseball and it will stay hard.
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Old 06-25-2010, 10:48 AM   #11
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I have to admit it's not something I think about. If it is are you a closet gay? LOL
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Most of the guys I had in productions have no problem to make gay scenes. It´s all about money and sex for most of them...
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maybe they are just "a little" gay...
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Old 06-25-2010, 11:13 AM   #15
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Old 06-26-2010, 01:18 AM   #18
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Why the fuck does society still care about gay,straight or bi?
Its a fucking job. If you were porn girl, would you want to work with guy that took one up his poopenshaft and got one of those bugs.. you know what I mean?
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Most of the guys I had in productions have no problem to make gay scenes. It´s all about money and sex for most of them...
Sex? Fucking your dog is sex too. Doesn't mean that the average bloke would be especially keen on doing so however.
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I'd have trouble comprehending how a straight man could keep an erection when a naked dude was about to suck it or sit on it, but then again male pr0n stars have something special going down there anyway... just think about baseball and it will stay hard.
They use Viagra and watch straight porn off-camera for motivation / visual stimulation.
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I heard most men in gay movies are straight and doing it just for money.
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I could never have sex with another man but having said that, no-one questions the lesbian-for-pay girls in porn. I suppose it all boils down to how much you want the money.
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Its a fucking job. If you were porn girl, would you want to work with guy that took one up his poopenshaft and got one of those bugs.. you know what I mean?
the thread is about if they are gay or not.

not:

"what are the views of porn girls on "gay" men who work in both straight or gay films".

man you idiots have reading comprehension trouble.
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I measure it this way. If you get a hardon when you are around cock, you are gay. Of course, there are degrees. But that hardon is hard to deny! You can call yourself bisexual, which is fine, but if you can't hide that boner, you don't really get to say you're straight.

It's not about gay though, it's about that damn hardon. Whatever gets it hard is good, especially when you get older.
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Not that there's anything wrong with being a gay person, but as Andrew Dice Clay said -- "you either suck dick, or you do not suck dick."
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if they aren't gay..i don't know how they can do it without being sick to their stomach.
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why don't you blow a couple of them and find out?
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