Well, when I was 27 I had three "fuck buddies" and they all knew each other. There were times that I would walk into the bar with one of them, and two others would already be there. It was part of the arrangement. They had to be agreeable or they were the one that would have to leave.
I ended up getting married to one of them. After that ended I hooked up with two more, with one of the original three stopping by for guest appearances.
When I was 18, it was an entirely different ballgame as I was one of two guys working with 300+ chicks. No one got a title of fuck buddy, but everyone knew who everyone else was banging. The 70's rocked.
Well, the only two instances that come to mind was once when I was 18 or 19 I was with this older chick, in her bed, when her boyfriend started pounding on the front door. She said not to worry and we stayed in bed. Then he started pounding on the bedroom window that was over the bed. I honestly do not remember if she ended up going to the door or not, but I don't recall banging her again.
The second instance was after the divorce. I had let one of the two girls move in with me, while I was giving the title of g/f to the other (it was her idea actually). Little Lisa (one of the original 3) had stopped by and Susan came home to find us on the dining room floor.
She was a little upset for a while until Lisa went into the bedroom with her and explained the situation.
my fuck buddies would call me over, I'd go fuck 'em and go sleep in my own damn bed.
fuck buddies will call me, come here, i fuck them, they spend the night, cuddle, leave next morning.. no not dating since they r fucking other guys too and they dont ask me about other girls..
even 2 girls is too much work in my opinion (if you're trying to keep them from knowing about each other) unless you have endless free time. if they don't work and you have to work, they'll be calling at all sorts of off hours and you'll get nothing done.
you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..
Well, after my divorce I am having a blast. I have about 10 different regular partners that I bang every couple of weeks. The key is to be completely honest. Some can't handle the situation so you drop those friends. Others have commitments with other people and appreciate a good lay without the drama.... those are the keepers.
At 24 I could only handle 2-3 because I felt the need to romance. The funny thing now as I look back most of the chicks only wanted sex to begin with. My fake romantic plays were wasted effort and energies that could have been used bedding more chicks
those are the ones i would avoid unless you want to risk getting stabbed by a pissed boyfriend/husband..
added risk to be sure.... but I have yet to have any problems with jealous spouse/bf. Of course where I currently live there is a much different attitude towards sex than in the west.
added risk to be sure.... but I have yet to have any problems with jealous spouse/bf. Of course where I currently live there is a much different attitude towards sex than in the west.
some of those euro guys get crazy pissed though. italians for sure..anywho have fun while you can. i noticed you said you were divorced. did your woman fuck around? how does it feel to be on the other end?
you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..
Just tell them all that you have a girlfriend, but dont say what her name is; that way if they see you with another girl, they'll infer that is your girlfriend, and you avoid a scene.
some of those euro guys get crazy pissed though. italians for sure..anywho have fun while you can. i noticed you said you were divorced. did your woman fuck around? how does it feel to be on the other end?
No, my wife never fucked around that I know of...
I currently live in Asia so I am not sleeping with any westerners.
I get the feeling this is a sore spot for you so I will not push any buttons. But I will say, if I ever do have a committed relationship again, it will be an open one. Some people, right or wrong, can separate fucking and love.
I've done 4 at once, but the logistics of the situation prevented me from having more. If I had the opportunity to fuck an entire NFL cheerleading squad, I would at least give it a try. Why draw a line? I would try to fuck every NFL cheerleading squad at the same time, even if I went into the hospital because of it.
Just tell them all that you have a girlfriend, but dont say what her name is; that way if they see you with another girl, they'll infer that is your girlfriend, and you avoid a scene.
I don't really keep count. I might have 7 or 8 right now if I had to pin it down. The only thing they know is they're not exclusive.
But there's also a good distance between most of them. I have a couple out in California, and then some down in Champaign/Bloomington, and up in Madison/Milwaukee, and a few in the South Chicago suburbs and one in the city...
I've had two girls in bed at the same time on two occasions. It was good but maybe a little overrated. I can see how, if the girls were really into each other, it could have been better. In my case, one of the girls was just doing it to make me happy - I don't think she really wanted to do it. I think I prefer one-on-one for real fucking but I love to watch group sex. I wish they still had those places where you could go and watch other people fuck.
i mean fuck buddies.. how do u guys even handle 3 fuck buddies at a time?
seriously.. at least one of them will wanna meet u to fuck 1-2 times a week.. how do u allocate ur time..
im 24, and im just curious cuz i have a few options and its stressful
I'm 24 and I am currently only fucking 1 girl. It's mostly mutual respect as neither of us want to pass on an accidental STD to the other person as it will fuck with us business-wise... but even if it's not about that I still usually only fuck one person at a time.
Unless it's a group thing, then I think 1 is still my limit because I don't have a fucking clue what to do with more than one girl at a time. Hell I can barely figure out one.
I'm 24 and I am currently only fucking 1 girl. It's mostly mutual respect as neither of us want to pass on an accidental STD to the other person as it will fuck with us business-wise... but even if it's not about that I still usually only fuck one person at a time.
Unless it's a group thing, then I think 1 is still my limit because I don't have a fucking clue what to do with more than one girl at a time. Hell I can barely figure out one.
stick it in her ass... u will figure it out real soon
I will tell you a story from my own life.
I went to a strip club and two women said, "order 2 stripper lap dances at the same time."
However, I said "one at a time."
Why? Because it is twice as cheap.
I don't want to go to strip clubs anymore now.
right now I would happily settle for even just ONE.
You ain't getting drunk enough....period.
When people say "I ain't getting laid" it's because they ain't getting drunk
enough to just do it.
You don't have to get drunk, but if you are not doing it then it's because you
are thinking about too much shit. Getting drunk just makes you stop thinking.
You can never have too many girls. The problem is making sure there is enough room so you are not tripping over each other and the room is well ventilated. Seriously, proper ventilation is important, otherwise, the smell of sex and sweat will get to you after a few rounds. 6 is my max but I would easier go with more girls if my room at the MGM Grand in Vegas was bigger a few years ago
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