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  • camperjohn64
    Confirmed User
    • Feb 2005
    • 1531

    #1

    When you first meet a girl, how long before you call.

    This topic is as old as the sun but....

    I just met a girl, she cute.

    1) I have her number and email. Which do I use? Call or email?
    2) How long before call/email?

    As I get older, I have less concern about the "wait 3 days" rule for calling - I just don't give a shit. But, since I am still single, maybe I should just ask a high quality studs what they think before I jump the gun.

    Since there isn't a high quality stud within 2,000 miles of this forum I though I would ask a bunch of lame ass webmasters instead. This is where you come in :-P

    Do I adhere to the 3 day rule? Should I email or call?
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  • Tom_PM
    Porn Meister
    • Feb 2005
    • 16443

    #2
    Screw that 3 day rule. Thats a rule for girls calling guys back. If guys dont strike when the iron is hot, another guy will. Call now.
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    • CDSmith
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      • May 2001
      • 51460

      #3
      If she's hot, make her wait at least 3 hours.

      No sense coming off as desperate.


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      • CurrentlySober
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        • Aug 2002
        • 38940

        #4
        Originally posted by camperjohn64
        But, since I am still single, maybe I should just ask a high quality studs what they think before I jump the gun.

        Since there isn't a high quality stud within 2,000 miles of this forum I though I would ask a bunch of lame ass webmasters instead. This is where you come in :-P
        Quality man quality ! LOL

        I say call her whenever... No need to wait a set amount of time... After all, as you say, your single, and if she is 'The One' then she wont say no, because you called her 20 mins short of some non existent time schedual

        If ts meant to be... It will be... If not... Plenty more fish etc

        Good luck !


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        • MetaMan
          I AM WEB 2.0
          • Jan 2003
          • 28682

          #5
          You already lose when you give a fuck what a woman thinks. Half these chicks think they are princesses and are used to having dudes kiss their ass.

          fuck what they think, you call, tell them you want to stick it in them and its over.

          never be concerned with what a woman thinks. or any bullshit rules they try to make other people play by.

          i am trying a new test today i just msged this chick telling her to stop playing hard to get because i want to stick it in her. ill tell you my results.

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          • Chosen
            • Aug 2001
            • 63151

            #6
            Originally posted by CDSmith
            If she's hot, make her wait at least 3 hours.

            No sense coming off as desperate.


            :D
            Yes, 3 hours rule much better than 3 days one

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            • sojproductions
              Confirmed User
              • Aug 2006
              • 2160

              #7
              a day is good, but setup a date for a few days from now, dont ask for a date the same day... keep her hangin a little!... then she might put out on the first date
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              • The Porn Nerd
                Living The Dream
                • Jun 2009
                • 19784

                #8
                Originally posted by camperjohn64
                This topic is as old as the sun but....

                I just met a girl, she cute.

                1) I have her number and email. Which do I use? Call or email?
                2) How long before call/email?

                As I get older, I have less concern about the "wait 3 days" rule for calling - I just don't give a shit. But, since I am still single, maybe I should just ask a high quality studs what they think before I jump the gun.

                Since there isn't a high quality stud within 2,000 miles of this forum I though I would ask a bunch of lame ass webmasters instead. This is where you come in :-P

                Do I adhere to the 3 day rule? Should I email or call?

                Dude, what are you, 12? This ain't High School man! Call her NOW - right NOW - and tell her you liked meeting her and want to take her out for coffee. Grow a pair. DO IT!

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                • phypon
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                  • Oct 2003
                  • 440

                  #9
                  You said you just met her. How did you meet her? In person or online? How much conversation did you have with her already? Did she contact you or did you contact her (in other words, who initiated the two of you meeting)?

                  Since you've had some correspondence already you should have the available information to answer your question. A lot of communication takes place without us even being aware of it. This is the key to playing the game. Playing the game does not just mean getting laid. And, make no mistake about it, it is a proverbial "game". We're all hardwired that way. It's up to you to take the game away.

                  So, answer the above and I will give you my two cents. Also, what did you talk about already? Trivial stuff or in depth stuff? How long did you meet/talk to her for already?

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                  • bronco67
                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                    • Dec 2006
                    • 29032

                    #10
                    If you look like.....

                    Steve Buscemi -- call that same day and hope some miracle happens

                    Kevin James -- wait 2 days

                    George Clooney -- don't call. She'll call you.

                    In all seriousness, even better is a harmless text message not asking to meet or anything. Just ask her how her day is going. If she replies, don't answer back. Then send another a week later. Make her wonder why you're not slobbering at her feet like other desperate tools.

                    then call her out of the blue a couple weeks later. She'll be happy you called, because those texts have been nagging her thoughts for the last 3 weeks.
                    Last edited by bronco67; 04-30-2010, 09:11 AM.

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                    • O MARINA
                      I'm clockin' ya, Versace shade watchin' ya
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 13796

                      #11
                      Originally posted by camperjohn64
                      I should just ask a high quality studs
                      gfy has high quality studs?
                      you should be asking GIRLS

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                      • O MARINA
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                        • Mar 2003
                        • 13796

                        #12
                        Originally posted by PR_Tom
                        If guys dont strike when the iron is hot, another guy will. Call now.


                        I guess gfy does have 1 quality stud after all

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                        • bronco67
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • Dec 2006
                          • 29032

                          #13
                          Originally posted by O MARINA
                          I guess gfy does have 1 quality stud after all
                          It's more studly to know that if a girl wants you badly enough, she'll contact you eventually.

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                          • O MARINA
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                            • Mar 2003
                            • 13796

                            #14
                            Originally posted by MisterPeabody
                            Dude, what are you, 12? This ain't High School man! Call her NOW - right NOW - and tell her you liked meeting her and want to take her out for coffee. Grow a pair. DO IT!
                            Jeez Louise.



                            Originally posted by bronco67
                            even better is a harmless text message not asking to meet or anything. Just ask her how her day is going. If she replies, don't answer back. Then send another a week later. Make her wonder why you're not slobbering at her feet like other desperate tools.
                            then call her out of the blue a couple weeks later. She'll be happy you called, because those texts have been nagging her thoughts for the last 3 weeks.







                            MisterPeabody 1 / Bronco67 0

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                            • SexSearchSuzanne
                              Confirmed User
                              • Mar 2006
                              • 299

                              #15
                              Originally posted by bronco67
                              In all seriousness, even better is a harmless text message not asking to meet or anything. Just ask her how her day is going. If she replies, don't answer back. Then send another a week later. Make her wonder why you're not slobbering at her feet like other desperate tools.

                              then call her out of the blue a couple weeks later. She'll be happy you called, because those texts have been nagging her thoughts for the last 3 weeks.
                              This is a good way to NOT get a date with her, she would have been snapped up by some other guy within the next month. A guy who didn't play games.
                              Suzanne


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                              • amvcdotcom
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                                #16
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                                • alias
                                  aliasx
                                  • Apr 2001
                                  • 19010

                                  #17
                                  Don't talk about this to people. Keep it nice and personal, the more you hype it the worse odds you will have.

                                  Call at the next reasonable appropriate time you feel might be a good time to reach her, 3 day rule is a dinosaur.
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                                  • seeandsee
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                                    #18
                                    call her, ask her what you have to ask and see result god damn
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                                    • JenniDahling
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                                      • Jul 2005
                                      • 5285

                                      #19
                                      No matter what, girls loved to be chased as well as made to wait. If she's someone you're interested in knowing and don't want to just hook up with, send her a text later in the day (after 6 but before 8pm), that way if she's been thinking about you, she's been wanting you to connect.

                                      Something simple like, "Got plans for lunch tomorrow?" Text is way less intrusive and can give you more insight than a call, imo.

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                                      • MissDiva
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                                        • Dec 2008
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                                        #20
                                        Yeah, that is right. Do it now and forget about stupid rules.
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                                        • bronco67
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Dec 2006
                                          • 29032

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by O MARINA










                                          MisterPeabody 1 / Bronco67 0

                                          Girls play games and they love it, even when they aren't aware of it.

                                          I didn't make this rule -- its just the way it is.
                                          Last edited by bronco67; 04-30-2010, 09:45 AM.

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                                          • mikke
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                                            • Jan 2010
                                            • 1327

                                            #22
                                            text her now!! and after day just call... and screw 3d rule!!
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                                            • O MARINA
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                                              • Mar 2003
                                              • 13796

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by bronco67
                                              Girls play games and they love it, even when they aren't aware of it.

                                              I didn't make this rule -- its just the way it is.



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                                              • The Porn Nerd
                                                Living The Dream
                                                • Jun 2009
                                                • 19784

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by bronco67
                                                Girls play games and they love it, even when they aren't aware of it.

                                                I didn't make this rule -- its just the way it is.
                                                Well, girls are allowed to play 'games' because they're...wait for it, wait for it....GIRLS. Be a MAN and be what EVERY WOMAN WANTS: a confident MAN who goes out and gets what he wants. In this case, the girl in question.

                                                But hey, be a little teenage girl with your text message games and I'll continue fucking two-three women a day.

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                                                • bronco67
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                                                  • Dec 2006
                                                  • 29032

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by O MARINA
                                                  Watch this
                                                  not sure how that pertains to what we're talking about, but its pretty funny.

                                                  It's kind of a sociopathic way to look at love, though.

                                                  I love my wife, but I'm sure as fuck not going to get worked up and kill someone over her.

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                                                  • bronco67
                                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                    • Dec 2006
                                                    • 29032

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by MisterPeabody
                                                    Well, girls are allowed to play 'games' because they're...wait for it, wait for it....GIRLS. Be a MAN and be what EVERY WOMAN WANTS: a confident MAN who goes out and gets what he wants. In this case, the girl in question.

                                                    But hey, be a little teenage girl with your text message games and I'll continue fucking two-three women a day.

                                                    Carry on.
                                                    Well, I was always the guy that made initial contact, and waited for them to make the next move. But then again, I'm better than average looking -- so that shit worked for me(when I was single).

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                                                    • Paul Markham
                                                      Too old to care
                                                      • Jun 2001
                                                      • 52942

                                                      #27
                                                      I gave Eva my card and told her to phone me.

                                                      But to be honest it was the morning after the night before.

                                                      She phoned.



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                                                      • james_clickmemedia
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                                                        • Apr 2003
                                                        • 2204

                                                        #28
                                                        I used to always leave one full day before I called her.
                                                        So if I got a number on saturday night I would call monday.
                                                        Also I prefer sending a txt than calling or email.
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                                                        • The Porn Nerd
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                                                          • Jun 2009
                                                          • 19784

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by bronco67
                                                          Well, I was always the guy that made initial contact, and waited for them to make the next move. But then again, I'm better than average looking -- so that shit worked for me(when I was single).
                                                          I hear ya bro - that works for me, too - but overall, for me, that's a relatively passive/pussy way to go through life IMHO. Of course, if you're now married then it's all moot, right?
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                                                          • _Richard_
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                                                            • Oct 2006
                                                            • 30991

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by camperjohn64
                                                            This topic is as old as the sun but....

                                                            I just met a girl, she cute.

                                                            1) I have her number and email. Which do I use? Call or email?
                                                            2) How long before call/email?

                                                            As I get older, I have less concern about the "wait 3 days" rule for calling - I just don't give a shit. But, since I am still single, maybe I should just ask a high quality studs what they think before I jump the gun.

                                                            Since there isn't a high quality stud within 2,000 miles of this forum I though I would ask a bunch of lame ass webmasters instead. This is where you come in :-P

                                                            Do I adhere to the 3 day rule? Should I email or call?
                                                            2 days; if you want to try and push 'cute and really like her' pitch, call the next day and act real sheepish

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                                                            • Tasty1
                                                              Bla bla blaa
                                                              • Jan 2005
                                                              • 9529

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by PR_Tom
                                                              Screw that 3 day rule. Thats a rule for girls calling guys back. If guys dont strike when the iron is hot, another guy will. Call now.
                                                              He should already have grabbed her on the first meeting.

                                                              everything is fake

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                                                              • Mr. Romance
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                                                                • Mar 2005
                                                                • 7821

                                                                #32
                                                                Only you can be the judge of this. You have to remember how she acted when she gave you the number. Did she give you the number without her realizing she did? Or was she excited when she gave it to you and did she say you better call me? A lot of times girls are just giving the number because they can't say no. If she was in it to win it, call her in 2 days. If she was not, do not call her.

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                                                                • MetaMan
                                                                  I AM WEB 2.0
                                                                  • Jan 2003
                                                                  • 28682

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Call her up when you are really hammered and talk about how there are so many hot chicks at the bar.

                                                                  after the bar text her and ask her if she wants to come over and suck on your man meat.

                                                                  if she doesnt respond then the next day txt her asking her "wtf he problem is".

                                                                  then wait 3 days and send her a txt during work hours asking "what she is wearing". then ask if she wants to get drunk.

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                                                                  • clicker
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                                                                    • Jun 2006
                                                                    • 1113

                                                                    #34
                                                                    1 Day Max

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                                                                    • SweetT
                                                                      Shank-A-Potamus
                                                                      • Jan 2002
                                                                      • 1756

                                                                      #35
                                                                      When I get a girls number while she is standing there I text her so that she has my number and I tell her...."I really would like to see you again soon but I am not going to be like these other assholes who call you all the time and turn into stalkers....if you really would like to see me again call me and we can grab a bite or something."

                                                                      This has NEVER not worked for me and it helps establish the relationship early. I have been dating my current girl for a few years and now when she says "Why dont you ever call me?" I say "I told you the first time I met you that I wasnt going to call you" ;)

                                                                      --T

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                                                                      • DamnGoodRatio
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • Feb 2003
                                                                        • 855

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by PR_Tom
                                                                        Screw that 3 day rule. Thats a rule for girls calling guys back. If guys dont strike when the iron is hot, another guy will. Call now.
                                                                        I just called her and she is going out with me, said she gave her number to some guy and he never called . . . I will tell you how MY Friday night was Sunday
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                                                                        • BigDeanEvans
                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                          • Apr 2006
                                                                          • 1368

                                                                          #37
                                                                          When did you get her number? Like an hour ago?

                                                                          I would wait at least a minimum of a day. You don't want to come off as a desperate psycho.

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                                                                          • Agent 488
                                                                            Registered User
                                                                            • Feb 2006
                                                                            • 22511

                                                                            #38
                                                                            look in her window and knock. if she lets you in she likes you.

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                                                                            • AaronM
                                                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                              • 46923

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by SweetT
                                                                              When I get a girls number while she is standing there I text her so that she has my number and I tell her...."I really would like to see you again soon but I am not going to be like these other assholes who call you all the time and turn into stalkers....if you really would like to see me again call me and we can grab a bite or something."

                                                                              This has NEVER not worked for me and it helps establish the relationship early. I have been dating my current girl for a few years and now when she says "Why dont you ever call me?" I say "I told you the first time I met you that I wasnt going to call you" ;)

                                                                              --T

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                                                                              • Vendzilla
                                                                                Biker Gnome
                                                                                • Mar 2004
                                                                                • 23200

                                                                                #40
                                                                                I just call and ask her what she wants for breakfast
                                                                                Carbon is not the problem, it makes up 0.041% of our atmosphere , 95% of that is from Volcanos and decomposing plants and stuff. So people in the US are responsible for 13% of the carbon in the atmosphere which 95% is not from Humans, like cars and trucks and stuff and they want to spend trillions to fix it while Solar Panel plants are powered by coal plants
                                                                                think about that

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                                                                                • AaronM
                                                                                  GFY Royality ;)
                                                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                                                  • 46923

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by Vendzilla
                                                                                  I just call and ask her what she wants for breakfast

                                                                                  I prefer to wake them up, kick them out of bed, and make them cook me breakfast...Then call them a cab.

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                                                                                  • VikingMan
                                                                                    Exploiting human weakness
                                                                                    • Jan 2008
                                                                                    • 6858

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    make a date with her and then cancel at the last minute, psycho American women love this type of treatment

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                                                                                    • Vendzilla
                                                                                      Biker Gnome
                                                                                      • Mar 2004
                                                                                      • 23200

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by AaronM
                                                                                      I prefer to wake them up, kick them out of bed, and make them cook me breakfast...Then call them a cab.
                                                                                      I like to cook, can't help it

                                                                                      But Im with everyone else in this thread, romance is dead, it's just hooking up now
                                                                                      Carbon is not the problem, it makes up 0.041% of our atmosphere , 95% of that is from Volcanos and decomposing plants and stuff. So people in the US are responsible for 13% of the carbon in the atmosphere which 95% is not from Humans, like cars and trucks and stuff and they want to spend trillions to fix it while Solar Panel plants are powered by coal plants
                                                                                      think about that

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                                                                                      • Spunky
                                                                                        I need a beer
                                                                                        • Jun 2002
                                                                                        • 133986

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        If she's hot,I wait 3 days,if she's a bone for the night,she calls me

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                                                                                        • ErectMedia
                                                                                          Confirmed Chicago Pimp
                                                                                          • Aug 2004
                                                                                          • 7100

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by Agent 488
                                                                                          look in her window and knock. if she lets you in she likes you.

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                                                                                          • Jon Oso
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                                                                                            • Feb 2005
                                                                                            • 2241

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Drive around the city calling her from different payphones as you go. Just breathe heavily into the phone and wait until she hangs up.

                                                                                            If you do this for a few hours and then call her from your cell (unblocked) she will be SO relieved it's someone actually talking on the other end she'll be glad to go out with you.

                                                                                            Or kidnap her dog. chicks love that romantic shit.
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                                                                                            • moeloubani
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              i call when i have something to say/a date to set and i let the girls do the calling when they want to just talk

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                                                                                              • lazycash
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                                                                                                • Aug 2002
                                                                                                • 15214

                                                                                                #48
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                                                                                                • SteveHardeman
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  I have some very solid rules in these situations. If they want 300 roses, wait 3 days. 200 roses, 2 days. 100 roses, 1 day. Has always worked for me. You're welcome.

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                                                                                                  • Agent 488
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                                                                                                    • Feb 2006
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    usually those bitches off plenty of fish want the cock right now.

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