There is a girl that I have shot several times and I had agreed to help get her started with her own website, with the end goal of educating her to do her own updates, etc, teaching her the basics of photoshop, dreamweaver, etc.
She had been kinda blowing me off as of late. I figured she just had alot of other things going on. We were suppost to go over our contract last night and she postponed that to next week.
I replied to her email stating that maybe it would be better if she got another webmaster to help her out, as it seemed like she had alot of stuff going on in her life right now, etc. And I would rather have us be friends instead of having any potential rift as far as doing a partnership together.
She replied saying that she had mailed me but got an error message saying that my mailbox was full. I have never had anyone say that I have gotten an error message in the 6 years I have had my email accounts. She also said that she was not going to beg me to do her site and that she has other offers, which is fine.
I had told her that alot of girls in this industry were fickle and I had only met with her 3 times and did not know her that well. That I was just being careful. She replied that if I didn't trust her that there was no reason to do the partnership.
Am I being mean from what you have read? Some porn actresses are just fucking nuts. I was just trying to convey that actions speak louder than words and I was not sure that her heart was in it. As usually if you want to work with someone, you try to have a good solid first impression. Not returning emails imho is not a good first impression.
Some of my other friends in this biz that are producers say to me "run the other way". That saying that other girls who do solo sites put the "H" in "handful" And not worth my time, as most girls are just selfish. I was going to give her the benefit of the doubt. I feel like she is a good person, but...
I would like some advice from other producers on here that run solo sites. Are you both pretty happy about it? Those of you that have shot girls for they're own solo sites, is it a great working relationship or is it just a huge headache?
From her last email, we are dead in the water I guess. I guess I should not have even offered to help her out. And I am quite suprised that she has pulled the plug via 3 emails, just because I questioned her sincerity towards the endeavor and had doubts. Which kinda pisses me off. And I have most likely lost her friendship as well. But I guess if that is the case, we were never really friends anyway.
What do you other producers think?
She had been kinda blowing me off as of late. I figured she just had alot of other things going on. We were suppost to go over our contract last night and she postponed that to next week.
I replied to her email stating that maybe it would be better if she got another webmaster to help her out, as it seemed like she had alot of stuff going on in her life right now, etc. And I would rather have us be friends instead of having any potential rift as far as doing a partnership together.
She replied saying that she had mailed me but got an error message saying that my mailbox was full. I have never had anyone say that I have gotten an error message in the 6 years I have had my email accounts. She also said that she was not going to beg me to do her site and that she has other offers, which is fine.
I had told her that alot of girls in this industry were fickle and I had only met with her 3 times and did not know her that well. That I was just being careful. She replied that if I didn't trust her that there was no reason to do the partnership.
Am I being mean from what you have read? Some porn actresses are just fucking nuts. I was just trying to convey that actions speak louder than words and I was not sure that her heart was in it. As usually if you want to work with someone, you try to have a good solid first impression. Not returning emails imho is not a good first impression.
Some of my other friends in this biz that are producers say to me "run the other way". That saying that other girls who do solo sites put the "H" in "handful" And not worth my time, as most girls are just selfish. I was going to give her the benefit of the doubt. I feel like she is a good person, but...
I would like some advice from other producers on here that run solo sites. Are you both pretty happy about it? Those of you that have shot girls for they're own solo sites, is it a great working relationship or is it just a huge headache?
From her last email, we are dead in the water I guess. I guess I should not have even offered to help her out. And I am quite suprised that she has pulled the plug via 3 emails, just because I questioned her sincerity towards the endeavor and had doubts. Which kinda pisses me off. And I have most likely lost her friendship as well. But I guess if that is the case, we were never really friends anyway.
What do you other producers think?
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