% Of Female Members

My female member base appears to be around 15%. I would not target a specific gender. I would talk only about the model, and what you think makes them appealing. You should talk about what you're offering that makes your site appealing to the surfer. You shouldn't talk specifically about the surfer because you're not selling the surfer on himself... you're selling him on the product.

Depends on niche. They love extreme and bizarre.

Ask some and it is around the same percentage as their charge back ratio if they did not cancel them first.

AHahaha this is complete bullshit. Women prefer solo male, hardcore b/g fucking, and BJ. Men prefer extreme and bazaar.

any more?

No they don't. Do you run a multi-niche program to have something to compare with?

People really like to lie to themselves.
Sure women like porn, women will even watch porn and possibly often.

Just like how must subscribers to playgirl are not women, same goes for everything else related to having women PAY for porn.

More often than not it is a dude using a womans name. This often allows them to either explore their gay side, allows for delusional male solo webcam performers to lie to themselves and think they are really jerking off, posing, and showing their ass to Sally or Susan. Then it can just be the only credit card they have access too.

It is usually impossible to tell what gender they are. You can't go by the names on the credit cards because everyone knows that a lot of guys use their wives/girlfriends credit cards to sign up for sites.
As for the threads question. Depends on what niche it is. Females still tend to stick to the traditional things like lesbian porn. You will get some women who sign up to gay male sites (usually the ethnic gay sites) They also frequent swinger/orgy kind of sites too. As for straight up hardcore, it can get a little overwhelming for a lot of women checking out porn.

Personally text that goes "Grab your cock and ....." is not a good idea because you are making the assumption that every guy wacks off to porn. Now I am sure most do, but I can see that text intimidating some guys, make some feel guilty or it hits to close to home. You will also get the odd one that is "who the hella re they to assume what I do when I watch movies"