is it risky to socialize a lot with the boss?

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  • dyna mo
    just a fucking jerk
    • Dec 2008
    • 68539

    #1

    is it risky to socialize a lot with the boss?

    got a buddy that does that. his boss is a top guy at their biz, family man, so he taps my buddy to go get loaded and hit the massage parlor for a tug. they do it pretty frequently.

    i tend to think when shit ever hits the fan, my buddy is gone.

    thoughts?
  • Barefootsies
    Choice is an Illusion
    • Feb 2005
    • 42635

    #2
    Originally posted by dyna mo
    is it risky to socialize a lot with the boss?
    Yes.

    More often times then not it will come back to bite you.

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    • pornguy
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      • Mar 2003
      • 62910

      #3
      My not be gone but the boss sure will cover his own ass as much as he can. So make the boss buy when they are out.
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      • ShellyCrash
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        • Jun 2004
        • 6708

        #4
        Originally posted by dyna mo
        got a buddy that does that. his boss is a top guy at their biz, family man, so he taps my buddy to go get loaded and hit the massage parlor for a tug. they do it pretty frequently.

        i tend to think when shit ever hits the fan, my buddy is gone.

        thoughts?
        Yeah, pretty much. Short term it's a good way to get ahead, but if he's planning on long term employment he's put himself in a bad spot.

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        • dyna mo
          just a fucking jerk
          • Dec 2008
          • 68539

          #5
          Originally posted by Barefootsies
          Yes.

          More often times then not it will come back to bite you.

          that's my thought too, i want to tell my buddy to watch out cuz if/when shit hits the fan, he's the one that will be left holding the bag.

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          • hypedough
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            • Sep 2007
            • 3743

            #6
            Shit sounds like the boss is probably doing more than just that with your buddy. Shit will hit the fan but he'll have a fun ride on the way down

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            • dyna mo
              just a fucking jerk
              • Dec 2008
              • 68539

              #7
              i am not sure of the repercussions of the boss's wife finding out her husband's going and getting rub and tugs with a low-level employee.

              ?

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              • GrouchyAdmin
                Now choke yourself!
                • Apr 2006
                • 12085

                #8
                It's more of a risk on the boss' part, actually. It's good to hang with the crew and to let them know you appreciate their work - but you should never take someone who works for you to an R&T or see you completely shitfaced.

                However, as the employee..

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                • Sly
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                  • Sep 2004
                  • 31380

                  #9
                  I think your buddy has blackmail material LOL.
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                  • Smiley
                    Confirmed User
                    • Mar 2003
                    • 1265

                    #10
                    depends on the boss and the respect say the employee has for the job, boss & the company...i for one have been great friends with my bosses for almost 15 yrs...at work, im the employee, off the clock we are just guys that like to hang out and party....if you can keep work & personal separate then no biggy
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                    • EdgeXXX
                      Confirmed User
                      • Oct 2005
                      • 5816

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Sly
                      I think your buddy has blackmail material LOL.
                      He definitely has the opportunity for some "future leverage" if he plays it right.
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                      • Loch
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                        • Feb 2002
                        • 7674

                        #12
                        Look at it this way, he knows about the Tug jobs.....would his boss really have the balls to fire him?

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                        • BradM
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                          • Dec 2003
                          • 3397

                          #13
                          get pictures or blackmail is useless.

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                          • garce
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                            • Oct 2001
                            • 7103

                            #14
                            Frank has (had ) all the answers to your questions...

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                            • seeandsee
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                              • Mar 2006
                              • 50945

                              #15
                              Originally posted by dyna mo
                              got a buddy that does that. his boss is a top guy at their biz, family man, so he taps my buddy to go get loaded and hit the massage parlor for a tug. they do it pretty frequently.

                              i tend to think when shit ever hits the fan, my buddy is gone.

                              thoughts?
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                              • epitome
                                So Fucking Lame
                                • Jun 2009
                                • 12156

                                #16
                                Your friend has an advantage that every other employee only wish they could have.

                                The worst that could happen is he alienates other employees if they get jealous of his relationship with the big cheese.

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                                • Spunky
                                  I need a beer
                                  • Jun 2002
                                  • 133978

                                  #17
                                  The other employees will look at him as a brown noser and be jealous

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                                  • JP513
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Feb 2007
                                    • 1914

                                    #18
                                    Totally depends on the boss and the relationship you build with him/her. A good one takes time. I'd avoid it if you didn't know your boss prior to working for him/her.
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                                    • Agent 488
                                      Registered User
                                      • Feb 2006
                                      • 22511

                                      #19
                                      sounds gay.

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                                      • mmcfadden
                                        So Fucking Banned
                                        • Oct 2008
                                        • 5099

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Agent 488
                                        sounds gay.
                                        this is a gay thread right?

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                                        • 96ukssob
                                          So Fucking Banananananas
                                          • Mar 2003
                                          • 12991

                                          #21
                                          its not a bad thing to be friends with your boss, or at least make him pretend

                                          only problem is if your buddy decides he doesnt want to hang with him anymore, could put him in a bad spot at work.

                                          however, could go either way if he had to axe someone at the company. since he is a friend, he might approach him first and help him find another job; likewise, might can someone else cause they are buds.
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