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JP513 · 09-04-2009, 03:41 PM

He's gonna regret it.

I'm going to a wedding this weekend to watch a stupid (but high-earning) 25 year old buddy get married to an even dumber but cute, slightly crazy 22 year old girl who is hyper, materialistic, overly emotional and already putting on the pounds.

This is the kind of shit most people seem to do--a need to be with someone because they are insecure alone. He had doubts about her right before they moved in together, and even recently admitted he missed the single life. But he apparently loves her and doesn't want to lose her, plus the family is pressuring them to get married and have babies.

Sounds like a match made in codependent heaven.

He is not alone. I would guess most people get married in similar circumstance. I'd say 25% or fewer marriages are true love matches.

As I said . . . he's gonna regret it.

d-null · 09-04-2009, 03:44 PM

yep, see it happen all the time, same kind of people get a pet like a dog, make all kinds of plans, get all tied up together financially, then it is a big mess when they break up in a few years...

the sad thing is that once they do break up, they end up hooking up with someone new and get married or live together and repeat the whole process over again, so it's not just the "being too young" part

PSSuperstars · 09-04-2009, 03:44 PM

Wow. How very jaded of you...

JP513 · 09-04-2009, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by d-null

yep, see it happen all the time, same kind of people get a pet like a dog, make all kinds of plans, get all tied up together financially, then it is a big mess when they break up in a few years...

the sad thing is that once they do break up, they end up hooking up with someone new and get married or live together and repeat the whole process over again, so it's not just the "being too young" part

That's true. The old are not immune to insecurity. But those that make bad marriage decisionas at a young age, often mature and make better decisions in later years.

JP513 · 09-04-2009, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PSSuperstars

Wow. How very jaded of you...

It's not like I don't have reasons to think what I think. As I said, he wasn't sure about moving in with her and misses the single life. I also have observed them around each other. It's hit and cold, on and off. It's a codependent mess.

d-null · 09-04-2009, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by JP513

That's true. The old are not immune to insecurity. But those that make bad marriage decisionas at a young age, often mature and make better decisions in later years.

agree with you, the smart ones tend to protect themselves better and/or stay single with friends with benefits

JP513 · 09-04-2009, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by d-null

agree with you, the smart ones tend to protect themselves better and/or stay single with friends with benefits

Friends with benefits rocks!

That's what I'm trying to stick with, at least for a while. I'm in my late 30s now, and while love could happen any time, I sure won't marry until and unless it does. And I hope I'll at least be in my mid-40s before it happens, maybe 50+! I still have a lotta pimpin' I'm planning to do!

PurrrsianPussyKat · 09-04-2009, 06:35 PM

Hope he doesn't lose that high paying job!

cam_girls · 09-04-2009, 07:21 PM

25 is a good age to get married. kids leave home when you're in your early 40s

Joe King · 09-04-2009, 07:32 PM

When she is 30 he will be wanting 20 year olds.

The way to do it is wait till you are about 40 and marry a girl who is about 25.

MaDalton · 09-04-2009, 07:34 PM

marriage sucks at any age

fatfoo · 09-04-2009, 08:32 PM

I'm 22 and I don't regret being not married. Not gonna marry for a while, unless someone really special comes along who is up for it.

Voodoo · 09-04-2009, 08:36 PM

Dumassess!

Dirty Dane · 09-04-2009, 08:44 PM

Married to internet porn

VeriSexy · 09-04-2009, 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Joe King

When she is 30 he will be wanting 20 year olds.

The way to do it is wait till you are about 40 and marry a girl who is about 25.

I like the way you think

CHARGER · 09-04-2009, 09:06 PM

what a way to end your life so early

baddog · 09-04-2009, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by PSSuperstars

Wow. How very jaded of you...

Would you jump out of a plane if you knew there was only a 50% chance your parachute would open?

GAMEFINEST · 09-04-2009, 09:39 PM

good point, that pussy must be super delicious

hahahha

fujiko · 09-04-2009, 09:43 PM

stop blamin marriage.. blame society for makin almost the whole planet irresponsible.

iTouch! · 09-04-2009, 09:53 PM

kinda like getting married to a guy whos bankrupt from a camgirls domain

CYF · 09-04-2009, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by iTouch!

kinda like getting married to a guy whos bankrupt from a camgirls domain

Agent 488 · 09-04-2009, 10:35 PM

people should resume the tradition of being married to frogs at a very young age in order to placate the storm gods.

pornlaw · 09-04-2009, 10:37 PM

Corrected thread title.... Dumbasses who get married ......

gecko · 09-05-2009, 02:12 AM

the odds are against him

John-ACWM · 09-05-2009, 03:16 AM

Still have time to save him

lazycash · 09-05-2009, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by iTouch!

kinda like getting married to a guy whos bankrupt from a camgirls domain

".... but honey I promise, just be patient, I'm going to make millions, just look how good my domain is...."

seeandsee · 09-05-2009, 03:47 AM

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Originally Posted by JP513

He's gonna regret it.

I'm going to a wedding this weekend to watch a stupid (but high-earning) 25 year old buddy get married to an even dumber but cute, slightly crazy 22 year old girl who is hyper, materialistic, overly emotional and already putting on the pounds.

This is the kind of shit most people seem to do--a need to be with someone because they are insecure alone. He had doubts about her right before they moved in together, and even recently admitted he missed the single life. But he apparently loves her and doesn't want to lose her, plus the family is pressuring them to get married and have babies.

Sounds like a match made in codependent heaven.

He is not alone. I would guess most people get married in similar circumstance. I'd say 25% or fewer marriages are true love matches.

As I said . . . he's gonna regret it.

i totally agreee

pornocruto · 09-05-2009, 03:54 AM

Well for his sake i really hope you're wrong.

Though you're right, people seem to jump right in and out of marriage now days.

Good luck to your friend.

slapass · 09-05-2009, 05:27 AM

The doubts are not the issue. You should be more worried if he was not smart enough tot see both sides. People pretty much do what they want and he is doing that so what is the issue?

BlackCrayon · 09-05-2009, 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Joe King

When she is 30 he will be wanting 20 year olds.

The way to do it is wait till you are about 40 and marry a girl who is about 25.

the downside to that is when you're a boring old shit pooping in your diapers she'll be out banging a much younger guy.

CDSmith · 09-05-2009, 06:13 AM

25 is too young to get married? Maybe. I have 4 siblings who each got married before the age of 20 though. Now that's young.

3 of the 4 ended in divorce, btw.

Fabien · 09-05-2009, 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by cam_girls

25 is a good age to get married. kids leave home when you're in your early 40s

Now i ain't good at maths but ...

cam_girls · 09-05-2009, 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Fabien

Now i ain't good at maths but ...

that's because your dad married his sister and you stayed home a long time.

qxm · 09-05-2009, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Would you jump out of a plane if you knew there was only a 50% chance your parachute would open?

nicely put ....

Quagmire · 09-05-2009, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Would you jump out of a plane if you knew there was only a 50% chance your parachute would open?

That is comparing apples and oranges. In a marriage you have a choice of making it work or not. The 50% divorce rate is based on the fact that it is very easy to get a divorce so people take the quick fix and do it.

Agent 488 · 09-05-2009, 09:00 AM

move to india or iran and see how they "work it out." plenty of real life examples there.

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Originally Posted by Quagmire

That is comparing apples and oranges. In a marriage you have a choice of making it work or not. The 50% divorce rate is based on the fact that it is very easy to get a divorce so people take the quick fix and do it.

xxweekxx · 09-05-2009, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Quagmire

That is comparing apples and oranges. In a marriage you have a choice of making it work or not. The 50% divorce rate is based on the fact that it is very easy to get a divorce so people take the quick fix and do it.

no whats messed up is we are going against nature.. we invented marriages... nothing NATURAL should be so difficult..

do you have to try to get hard.. nope.. try to get hungry.. nope.. try to wanna fuck a girl.. nope..

i mean you have to TRY SO HARD not to wanna fuck another girl..

men wanna fuck many girls.... thats why its so hard being tied down to one pussy.. once youve hit that pussy for a bit it gets old and you want new fish..

How many married men here today(5+years) can say that if some hot model girl wanted to fuck them and their wife wouldnt find out.. that they wouldnt do it???

baddog · 09-05-2009, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Quagmire

That is comparing apples and oranges. In a marriage you have a choice of making it work or not. The 50% divorce rate is based on the fact that it is very easy to get a divorce so people take the quick fix and do it.

It takes two to tango. You do not have sole control of the final outcome unless you are cool with being miserable.

blazin · 09-05-2009, 10:37 AM

Much too young for them to get married. Especially to some young tantrum throwing primadonna.

Most married men I know in the west are completely pussy whipped or have been punked by their wives. It's madness getting married...you effectively give up your rights and let a woman call the shots....

Woman love to act funky when they know you cant do shit about it

Better to stay single and date.... they behave a whole lot better when they know they are expendable

shimmy2 · 09-05-2009, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by JP513

He's gonna regret it.

enough said. been there, done that. fico to prove it.

eroticsexxx · 09-05-2009, 11:33 AM

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term.

Now if that doesn't apply to you, then fine. If it does, then feel free to be insulted.

Seriously though, there is much to be said about choosing correctly when it comes to a wife. Just because one guy makes the mistake of choosing incorrectly doesn't mean that marriage on the whole is doomed.

Also, anyone who believes that the only way to control a woman is to make her feel that she can be replaced at will has got a lot to learn about the female gender. A man who is straightforward about what he wants from a woman, without deception in any shape or form and who can maintain a sense of honor regarding his commitment to her should not have very many problems, unless he is deficient in some area.

Yes, women do have their own way of thinking, but obviously there are a few "men" in this thread who haven't figured out how easy it is to be a man and stop any negative behavioral traits before they become a habit. People in general tend to push others to see exactly what they can get away with. This includes women. Deal with it or stop playing the game, but don't whine about it.

Quite frankly, even if the shit breaks down for some unforeseen reason, then what's the big deal? Are we men or mice? Too many "men" take shit personally nowadays, when we used to just shrug things off and trudge on in decades past.

And yes, I'm married. Didn't do so until I was 32 and was damn sure that it had a good chance of succeeding. Even so, nothing in life is certain, but I've prepared as best I can, just in case.

xxweekxx · 09-05-2009, 11:40 AM

if you dont want kids i dont see any point in getting married.. really..

CurrentlySober · 09-05-2009, 12:14 PM

Get a pre-nup...

Problem solved...

shimmy2 · 09-05-2009, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term

Fyi i heard that exact same pitch from military and trucking company recruiters who wanted my life, time, and all that it was worth for their own greedy exploitative purposes

baddog · 09-05-2009, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term.

How old are you?
How old were you when you got married?

D Ghost · 09-05-2009, 01:20 PM

yeah i read somewhere that divorce rate is higher for people who get married at younger ages

blazin · 09-05-2009, 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term.

Now if that doesn't apply to you, then fine. If it does, then feel free to be insulted.

Seriously though, there is much to be said about choosing correctly when it comes to a wife. Just because one guy makes the mistake of choosing incorrectly doesn't mean that marriage on the whole is doomed.

Also, anyone who believes that the only way to control a woman is to make her feel that she can be replaced at will has got a lot to learn about the female gender. A man who is straightforward about what he wants from a woman, without deception in any shape or form and who can maintain a sense of honor regarding his commitment to her should not have very many problems, unless he is deficient in some area.

Yes, women do have their own way of thinking, but obviously there are a few "men" in this thread who haven't figured out how easy it is to be a man and stop any negative behavioral traits before they become a habit. People in general tend to push others to see exactly what they can get away with. This includes women. Deal with it or stop playing the game, but don't whine about it.

Quite frankly, even if the shit breaks down for some unforeseen reason, then what's the big deal? Are we men or mice? Too many "men" take shit personally nowadays, when we used to just shrug things off and trudge on in decades past.

And yes, I'm married. Didn't do so until I was 32 and was damn sure that it had a good chance of succeeding. Even so, nothing in life is certain, but I've prepared as best I can, just in case.

Have you been watching Oprah...lol

Oh and it's easy to take things a little seriously when your wife can get you kicked out your house on a whim.. and you end up paying her for the rest of your days... lol

Yeah.. I guess we should all accept our new female overlords and get on with it.

SilentSound · 09-05-2009, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by CHARGER

what a way to end your life so early

couldn't agree more!

Quagmire · 09-05-2009, 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term.

Now if that doesn't apply to you, then fine. If it does, then feel free to be insulted.

Seriously though, there is much to be said about choosing correctly when it comes to a wife. Just because one guy makes the mistake of choosing incorrectly doesn't mean that marriage on the whole is doomed.

Also, anyone who believes that the only way to control a woman is to make her feel that she can be replaced at will has got a lot to learn about the female gender. A man who is straightforward about what he wants from a woman, without deception in any shape or form and who can maintain a sense of honor regarding his commitment to her should not have very many problems, unless he is deficient in some area.

Yes, women do have their own way of thinking, but obviously there are a few "men" in this thread who haven't figured out how easy it is to be a man and stop any negative behavioral traits before they become a habit. People in general tend to push others to see exactly what they can get away with. This includes women. Deal with it or stop playing the game, but don't whine about it.

Quite frankly, even if the shit breaks down for some unforeseen reason, then what's the big deal? Are we men or mice? Too many "men" take shit personally nowadays, when we used to just shrug things off and trudge on in decades past.

And yes, I'm married. Didn't do so until I was 32 and was damn sure that it had a good chance of succeeding. Even so, nothing in life is certain, but I've prepared as best I can, just in case.

Oh sure, here you go bringing in logic and rational thinking to a mindless thread.

baddog · 09-05-2009, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

How old are you?
How old were you when you got married?

Went back and read your entire post. Entirely irrelevant to this discussion. If both parties were 32 instead of 22 it would be an entirely different story.

09-04-2009, 03:41 PM	#1
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blazin Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 2,781	Much too young for them to get married. Especially to some young tantrum throwing primadonna. Most married men I know in the west are completely pussy whipped or have been punked by their wives. It's madness getting married...you effectively give up your rights and let a woman call the shots.... Woman love to act funky when they know you cant do shit about it Better to stay single and date.... they behave a whole lot better when they know they are expendable __________________ I don't endorse a god damn thing......

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eroticsexxx Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Nassau, Bahamas Posts: 3,133	The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term. Now if that doesn't apply to you, then fine. If it does, then feel free to be insulted. Seriously though, there is much to be said about choosing correctly when it comes to a wife. Just because one guy makes the mistake of choosing incorrectly doesn't mean that marriage on the whole is doomed. Also, anyone who believes that the only way to control a woman is to make her feel that she can be replaced at will has got a lot to learn about the female gender. A man who is straightforward about what he wants from a woman, without deception in any shape or form and who can maintain a sense of honor regarding his commitment to her should not have very many problems, unless he is deficient in some area. Yes, women do have their own way of thinking, but obviously there are a few "men" in this thread who haven't figured out how easy it is to be a man and stop any negative behavioral traits before they become a habit. People in general tend to push others to see exactly what they can get away with. This includes women. Deal with it or stop playing the game, but don't whine about it. Quite frankly, even if the shit breaks down for some unforeseen reason, then what's the big deal? Are we men or mice? Too many "men" take shit personally nowadays, when we used to just shrug things off and trudge on in decades past. And yes, I'm married. Didn't do so until I was 32 and was damn sure that it had a good chance of succeeding. Even so, nothing in life is certain, but I've prepared as best I can, just in case. __________________

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D Ghost null Industry Role: Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 9,820	yeah i read somewhere that divorce rate is higher for people who get married at younger ages