so here's the deal...my gf wants to go to mardi gras this year, next month. i say no way, she says she has every right to experience it. i have no reason not to trust her, but i think that environment is a recipe for disaster. am i being over zealous? we've been together for quite a long while...as i said she's been good to me so far, so forget it and swallow my pride?
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Seems kind of wierd that she would want to go without you. That place is just like Vegas... what happens there stays there if you know what I mean. -
Would she go alone or with friends?
Why not go with her? Mardi Gras is quite an experience that you should experience at least once in your life
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she'd be going with friends. i can't go, don't have the time to take away from work. they are her guy friends(i don't think its like that) so i know they are going to be looking for an amazing time. i just would hate to see something happen to her and i can't get to her/help her from miamiComment
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mardi gras is great . but i would never let a gf go unless i already had herpes...
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tough situation
Tell her you're taking her or going with her so she can swallow your pride in the hotel room.
1. a BIG MAN might grab his balls and just say Sure babe go for it, have a blast.
Then again, I am not a big man!
2. While its refreshing to do things by yourselves being in a relationship, is that the kind of place you want her to go? Its ok if she flirts a little right? But to fuck another guy is out right? So the question is... will she? human nature is a bitch... ya never know.
3. The fact she didnt invite you is a tipoff. Usually. She wants to be with her girls right?
hmmm. Every girl I've dated would snap like a twig if I said I was going somewhere like that without her. For obvious reasons. Who wants to date someone who doesn't invite you to be with them to places like that? It suggests they're looking for the "BBD".
You can dump her right now. She already fucked up. That seem overzealous?
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she's a guys girl, i've known this since i met her. i don't want to focus on that. its with the guys she knew before me, hardly ever sees.Originally posted by MrBottomToothComment
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umm... yea... let your gf go to mardi gras and get drunk with a bunch of dudes.
What could go wrong?
She should be adult enough to see the situation from your perspective and realize that it's not a good idea. Conversely, she will say that you need to be adult enough to let her go, but that's bullshit because she secretly wants to get plowed by one (if not all) of these guys.
Fact: ppl do dumb shit and want to fuck when they are drunkComment
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wjy not. i'm sure she would have a blast.
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If she was going to cheat,she would have already,if you trust her,let her goComment
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You know ... in this day and age ... you don't have any rights to say where she can go. If you can't trust her, you may as well dump her now, because in your mind, she's unfaithful before she's even been given the chance.Originally posted by scuba steve
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yuo have never been to mardi gras...
its one of those places like vegas x 10... people do things they would never do at home or at most places..
i know, i have been there many times..
i could write a book about the things i did and saw there...
go watch ggw mardi gras addition and then let me know how you feel..
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Wow what gives you the right to say she can't or can? If you love her set her free:let her go: If she loves you she will be a good girl, if not Well it wasn't meant to be!
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Let her go we all wanna see her tits.
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Need I say more... If she really wants to go, you need to send some of her stuck up gf's that'll watch her ass. Going with guy friends, no way.
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God this thread is a perfect example of tons of people judging one because of others.
She might not be the slut you all seem to think she is... even tho not one of you other than her boyfriend knows jack shit about her! lol
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slut has nothing to do with it...
shit happens under the influence of alcohol and in the right environment..
like i said, many a good relationship have been ruined by out of town trips to vegas and mardi gras...
it starts with "omg, i cant believe i just did that" and ends with "i have something i need to tell you" about a week later..
i dont think i ever hooked up with a girl that was single at mardi gras....
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But nothing you've said here counters my post ... I said that you're all judging her by the shit you've heard or seen in the past. Which doesn't work. It's broken logic. It's statistics. Just because XX% of people do this or that, doesn't mean that everyone does it. She may go, have a great, safe time, and come back fine. Without having slept with anyone or been a total cunt to her boyfriend.slut has nothing to do with it...
shit happens under the influence of alcohol and in the right environment..
like i said, many a good relationship have been ruined by out of town trips to vegas and mardi gras...
it starts with "omg, i cant believe i just did that" and ends with "i have something i need to tell you" about a week later..
i dont think i ever hooked up with a girl that was single at mardi gras....
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Let her go but realize her titties will be all over the net, and maybe more.Comment
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I know how it can be.I'd be one of the thousand snakes hitting on her,can't say I have ever trusted a woman ..yetyuo have never been to mardi gras...
its one of those places like vegas x 10... people do things they would never do at home or at most places..
i know, i have been there many times..
i could write a book about the things i did and saw there...
go watch ggw mardi gras addition and then let me know how you feel..
shooting thoe videos was probably the easiest content ggw ever got...Comment
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What a sad sad thread!
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You actually think you have a choice.....only in your mind and on GFYComment
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bad bad idea.Comment
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I don't know your relationship... but
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i agree with marketsmart
either way it seems like you're already screwed
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Have you met the guys? Are THEY good guys? Are THEY trustworthy? If they don't seem like the type that'll fuck her behind your back, maybe THEY'LL even look out for her. Keep in mind that with a little alcohol in them and tits being flashed in their face all night, their "intentions" could change as well.
Tell her you WERE able to get off work and want to go with her. If she gets excited, she's good to go alone. If she's at all reticent, be wary.
At the end of the day, you're the man, she's the woman. If you don't want her to go, she doesn't go. End of story.Comment
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You should make sure she moves all her shit out of your place before she goes.Comment
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I don't believe it. I think you're deluded by your own mistrust in humanity!
LOL! But honestly, this is GFY, so it matters not.
I'm not saying you're wrong about all women. Hell no. People can cheat. For sure. But you're tarnishing every woman with the same brush. I just think it's a little presumptuous. Our opinions are based on what we read, see, experience ... I am not as jaded is all. I'm not putting you down for it. It's just how you feel about the situation. Difference of opinion.
No harm meant 
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LOL, a gf going to mardi gras with a bunch of dudes to party. not that you have any say on what she can and cant do.I host with VacaresComment
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no, you got it all wrong.. i do believe that there are a lot of good people out there... believe it or not, i dont fuck around when i am in a committed relationship...I don't believe it. I think you're deluded by your own mistrust in humanity!
LOL! But honestly, this is GFY, so it matters not.
I'm not saying you're wrong about all women. Hell no. People can cheat. For sure. But you're tarnishing every woman with the same brush. I just think it's a little presumptuous. Our opinions are based on what we read, see, experience ... I am not as jaded is all. I'm not putting you down for it. It's just how you feel about the situation. Difference of opinion.
No harm meant
all i was saying is that a lot of good relationships have been ruined by a one time alcohol induced mistake..
i believe in a no regrets philosophy and why ruin a great (if thats what he has) thing over one lapse in judgement that could have been avoided..
a wise man once told me that if you hang a piece of meat on a fence and let your dog out unattended, ultimately it will eat the meat..
its not that the dog doesnt know right for wrong or wants to disappoint you, its just in the dogs nature...
now, if you keep your eye on that dog while its outside and correct it when it gets too close to the meat, does that mean you dont have control over your dog?
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I think you should let her go and buy yourself a long sleve shirt
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LOL! Well ... I am going to have to still shy away from this discussion because for one, I don't compare my relationship to that of one with a dog ... and for another, I genuinely feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners. I don't have that problem. I think trust is usually associated with insecurity. And it doesn't always have to have come from somewhere either.
Anyways, some interesting points for sure man
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ok.. i see that i am going to have to break it down to the ridiculous for you...LOL! Well ... I am going to have to still shy away from this discussion because for one, I don't compare my relationship to that of one with a dog ... and for another, I genuinely feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners. I don't have that problem. I think trust is usually associated with insecurity. And it doesn't always have to have come from somewhere either.
Anyways, some interesting points for sure man
if you could fuck any woman who would it be?
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i realize i have no physical control or power, but i can support if she goes or not.
and she did invite me, and wanted me to, and at first i hesitantly agreed and she was happy i was going.
my biggest concern is that she'll be blackout drunk, by accident, and someone would take advantage or someting else bad would happen. we all know not the best quality people go to mardi gras, point proven by all the shit we see online. thats what i've tried to get across to herComment
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So when does cheating become cheating? Is it when she sees a guys penis (by accident of course), or is it when she flashes her tits, or is it when some guy grabs her ass, or is it when she kisses someone else, or is it when she parties with a group of guys and has sex in the hotel room?
Give an inch, take a mile... why not, your not around... and what you don't know won't hurt ya
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I think you should allow her to go. This event will either strengthen your relationship or reveal underlying problems that can end it. Ultimately, the future will erase all uncertainty so move head and let the chips fall where they may.Comment
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If I couldn't go my GF would not even think of going without me. But that is the relationship we have. You might have a relationship where you all do things more independent.
So I would suggest follow what ever your first thought was. That was your gut feeling and if you are one that pays attention to your gut feelings then follow them.Contact.....Johnny[at]wildg[.]comComment
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if you don't have trust, Steve, you have nothingOriginally posted by scuba steve
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If she's going to be flashing her titties for beads and you're not there....well, that's just a bit fucked up, imo.Comment
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honestly, people do things due to alcohol..
on a trip to costa rica, a little small beach town.... so i went to the local club, was dancing all night with this chic.. shes ok, maybe a 7/10.. she doesnt know how to dance so im basically having fun, teaching her how to do moves, shes drinking, and we are basically fucking on the dancefloor..
anyway later on we go outside to talk, she kisses me, and is basically trying to fuck me but her friend was cockblocking me...
later on this girl starts crying hysterically and reveals to me that shes been married for 8yrs(shes like 27), got married at 19.. never EVER cheated, a good girl..
but her goofball bf left her at the club and went to the beach to hang out with his friends, so there I was, basically so close to fucking his wife, just because he left her alone...
anyway after that day, i lost all trust i had for girls..
if you have a gf who is a perfectly good girl, and she somehow goes clubbing in a beach town, and some guy is dancing with her, having fun, joking, teaching her moves, and sweet talking to her, im pretty sure she'll cheat.....
sometimes all you need is right situation.. i got kissed and almost fucked a married woman(only thing stopping her was her friend kept dragging her away from me and crap)Last edited by xxweekxx; 01-15-2010, 11:04 PM._________________
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