Jon Oso |
07-17-2009 08:33 PM |
take it from a guy that has had many threesomes while single and a few while in a relationship.
if you're single, have a fuck buddy or a friend that you want to nail and another girl happens along - super. Fuck their brains out, nut on their faces and make them get you a sammich.
When you're in a relationship, it's the greatest thing ever -
Until you realize what's actually happening. Your girlfriend is cheating on you, and while she's letting you cheat too, the only reason she's allowing you to do it is because she wants to that bad that she's willing to do it in front of you. It's not cool, and when you realize it, it's a pretty shitty feeling. It sucks being the 3rd wheel to your girlfriend munching box or scissoring some chick in your bed, while you can't get you cock in anything until they want you to.
You have rules too- even though they might not be spoken they are there. Example - if you cum from some other girl fucking you or blowing you do you know how pissed your girl will be that the other girl got you so hot that you popped from the other girl and not her? You most definitely can not tell the other girl how hot she is or how hard your cock is in her mouth, or how nice her body is etc. Just doesn't work like that. There will be some MASSIVE jealousy issues on her part.
I've had some pretty amazing 5+ hour sex sessions both drunk and completely sober with my ex and random girls... but most of the time it's not just sex to them like it is to us. Feelings form, friendships start and you will end up losing the relationship you had with her entirely. It just won't be the same. Or you'll end up suggesting it when she doesn't want to and you'll get the "You just want to fuck other girls because you don't find me attractive anymore" even though she brought it up in the first place.
Just don't do it. If she's suggesting it, she's going to do it whether you let her or not.
Sorry bro, your relationship is over.:2 cents:
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