Find her on MySpace or Facebook and try there... otherwise forget about it.

Why are you even thinking twice? some of you guys are such fucking pussies no wonder women love me.

Again women want a fucking MAN not some little pussy who goes on the net and asks what to do.

why do you even care what she thinks? you dont even know her, you sound like a fucking creep if you ask me. you are hawking on this chick, watching her at work, thinking of emailing her, posting about her on the net, like fucking creepy.

Same here, 12 years later we are married and expecting. :upsidedow

err but it was a guy.

She works at a bank, so she obviously isn't a hooker. :1orglaugh

As a female, I would advise this the correct answer. Chicks dig confidence.

BAMMMM! I got cherrylula, lookout fletch. Except she won't turn me into a vegan or whatever, I swear.

yes, but females can smell fake a mile away, if he has no confidence then he doesn't need a girl that has "confidence" as her number one priority....... the email thing would be a way to pre qualify the whole thing rather than him going through a humiliating ordeal which seems likely in this scenario if she is looking for "confidence" :2 cents:

Darn.. I voted yes, then I read all those comments, and my answer changed :|

I agree with alias and cherrylula

I asked my fiance out for the first time via email

It worked didnt it

;)

just send the email, don't over analyze the situation

good replies ;]

let us know how it works out for you

twitter her twat and post to 4chan then nuke it from orbit that's the only way to be sure

We need Mr. Romance in here :)

You need to get her into an aol private chat. Then have one of your buddies steal you a phone card so you can talk for reals.

Bro, walk in there to see if she's there. If so ask her out.

If she's not in, leave her some flowers with a small note asking her out including your contact info. Or if that's too cheesy, leave a business card of the restaurant you want to take her, obviously with the same note.

Flowers still do good though trust me.
Especially if you have one of her female colleagues accept them for her and you flirt with her a little too.
Show some balls. She'll deffinately put in a good word for you ;) You know how office gossip works. Use it.

The worst that can happen is that she won't get in touch. Big deal.
Keep us posted casanova!

so what did you do ?

I actually agree with you MetaMan...it is creepy and just showing a lack of kahones.....

Here's my try at how his post would look like:

Ask the girl out by email.

Mr. Romance

make it a positive not a negative. You are respecting her workplace by doing it this way.

"hi, sorry to do it this way but rather then bug you at work....etc."

why show the balls when you don't have them.

Just write email

Priceless :1orglaugh