Are you saying everyone here is below receiving insight? :winkwink:

Besides, I just elicited your 10th response in 5 years, that has to be worth something?

Good for her. Teaching your kids to stand up for themselves is the most important thing they can learn. Don't listen to all the old women who act like a little kid hitting another little kid is some kind of capital offense. Teaching your kids that it is OK or required to accept abuse from bullies will only prepare them for a lifetime of eating shit.

I really appreciate your post. thanx

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Yeah, but you know I was a boy, that's something different, you never speak about your fights with parents.

I was mainly reacting on that hysteria, that sometimes arises, someone would almost threaten you with a lawsuit, teachers can't defent themselves if a kid starts go berserk, all those anonymous anti violence lines that are ringing immediately once something happens etc.

Like this might be a little bit too hard to understand for someone who lives in it, I never was physically punished as a kid etc. or whatever, just a slap was not worth talking about, and I just find some things at some times a little bit absurd if you ask me.

bravo...

Well, it does depend on what the little bastard was doing to her now don't it? Wheather she had poor impulse control.

My son 7 years old had standing orders not to start fights in public school. He was also told not let anyone bully or intimidate him. He was to tell the teacher and let her handle it.
The whole teacher thing didn't work out too well as they didn't care enough to handle the situations properly.

So he got new marching orders from daddy after a bully did some stuff to him one day and the teacher didn't do shit about it.

The new orders were that if the little bastard does that to you again, you do what you have to do to make him not want to do that to you ever again. (My son has been doing Gracie Barra JiuJitsu for 2 years and took 2nd place in NAGA) >;-))

Luckily for every one the school year ended without incident and my son is now in private school where the teachers really care and have a handle on the situation.

His martial orders have been fully revoked and he is not allowed to hit or fight at this school at all, he MUST tell the teacher. (zero problems and zero tolerance with violenece at this school, he's been there for one year and all is well and no more bullies)

All I'm saying is she may not have been 100% wrong in busting the lil dude in his pie hole.

kids these days :)

Yeah, I found my password finally.