Hi GFY, I need your help on a forum member possibly trying to rip me off.

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  • NetHorse
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2006
    • 3526

    #1

    Hi GFY, I need your help on a forum member possibly trying to rip me off.

    Hey everyone..

    Here is the story.

    I sent money to a board member on here back in early February for some content. He has a good reputation so I've been very patient. He also owns a site which he's sent the first video and model records from.

    Back in February, he agreed to create some videos for me. 3 days after we spoke he had already created and sent me the first video, and asked for payment up-front for that video and the remaining videos. At that time he told me the videos would take a week to complete. Well after I sent him the money he started to disappear for weeks at a time.

    He logs on to ICQ and GFY everyday yet ignores my emails for weeks at a time and sends me a short email stating his "cable was broken", his computer got formatted, he's sick, he will finish the videos in a couple days, etc.

    Anyways, his domain is registered through Enom and I was able to get all his information. I also have his SMS and other information.

    My question is, how long would you guys wait until you call this guy out on a bunch of public forums to get what was promised? What are the rules on posting all his personal information? At the rate he's responding I have a feeling he doesn't intend to ever complete the videos.

    Thanks in advance/
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  • Jdoughs
    Confirmed User
    • Mar 2004
    • 5794

    #2
    You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

    If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.
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    • HorseShit
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Dec 2004
      • 17513

      #3
      Originally posted by Jdoughs
      You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

      If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.


      yup, just out him, I'm sure I know who it is anyway

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      • CaptainHowdy
        Too lazy to set a custom title
        • Dec 2004
        • 94045

        #4
        Spill the beans...

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        • NetHorse
          Confirmed User
          • Dec 2006
          • 3526

          #5
          Originally posted by Jdoughs
          You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

          If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.
          Thanks for your reply.

          Originally posted by Justin


          yup, just out him, I'm sure I know who it is anyway
          Originally posted by CaptainHowdy
          Spill the beans...
          I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.

          Did I mention I will never pay for content upfront again?
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          • RobertD
            Confirmed User
            • Feb 2001
            • 1149

            #6
            Originally posted by NetHorse
            Well after I sent him the money he started to disappear for weeks at a time. He logs on to ICQ and GFY everyday yet ignores my emails for weeks at a time and sends me a short email stating his "cable was broken", his computer got formatted, he's sick, he will finish the videos in a couple days, etc. At the rate he's responding I have a feeling he doesn't intend to ever complete the videos.
            What difference do you expect another week to make?

            .
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            • nosey
              Talk Hard
              • Feb 2003
              • 14413

              #7
              th@ sux, gl man

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              • NetHorse
                Confirmed User
                • Dec 2006
                • 3526

                #8
                Originally posted by RobertD
                What difference do you expect another week to make?

                .
                Probably nothing, I will send him this thread and give him one last chance to refund me the money or finish the videos.

                Originally posted by nosey
                th@ sux, gl man
                Thanks..
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                • Kron
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jan 2005
                  • 1668

                  #9
                  try to call him out in public, that approach fix few my problems in past
                  I dont exchange money!

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                  • Manowar
                    jellyfish  
                    • Dec 2003
                    • 71528

                    #10
                    Yeah i'd recommend a new thread about it

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                    • ~Ray
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                      • Jun 2003
                      • 18361

                      #11
                      this thread does not deliver
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                      • gandalfuy
                        Confirmed User
                        • Jun 2005
                        • 4686

                        #12
                        let us know who he is!
                        I'm not back.

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                        • the.drunk
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                          • Apr 2009
                          • 712

                          #13
                          Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
                          this thread does not deliver


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                          • Barefootsies
                            Choice is an Illusion
                            • Feb 2005
                            • 42635

                            #14
                            Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
                            this thread does not deliver
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                            • MetaMan
                              I AM WEB 2.0
                              • Jan 2003
                              • 28682

                              #15
                              typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

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                              • lazycash
                                Troll Patrol
                                • Aug 2002
                                • 15214

                                #16
                                Geez, just tell us his gfy nick and we'll tell you if you're ever gonna get the content. I can assure you that if he's doing this to you he's done it to other people here also.
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                                • polish_aristocrat
                                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                                  • Jul 2002
                                  • 40377

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by MetaMan
                                  typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.
                                  your sig is not loading
                                  I don't use ICQ anymore.

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                                  • romeo22
                                    你自己去他媽的
                                    • Mar 2008
                                    • 23328

                                    #18
                                    Good luck buddy!!

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                                    • MetaMan
                                      I AM WEB 2.0
                                      • Jan 2003
                                      • 28682

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
                                      your sig is not loading
                                      tough economic times!

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                                      • Tjeezers
                                        Webmaster
                                        • Mar 2007
                                        • 16603

                                        #20
                                        fuck the rules
                                        spill all the info, and see what happens
                                        Anyone who supports privacy of a thief, raise your hand

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                                        • goldflower
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Feb 2006
                                          • 5545

                                          #21
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                                          • sortie
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Mar 2007
                                            • 7771

                                            #22
                                            You got scammed.

                                            Your payment went to the drug dealer so no money to do the shoot.

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                                            • Ozarkz
                                              So Fucking Banned
                                              • Jan 2009
                                              • 2377

                                              #23
                                              Pretty good chance after this amount of time and the fact he still goes on ICQ and GFY.

                                              You will never see your money or vids.

                                              Outting him will just save someone else from making the same mistake. You wait a week and it just gives him a chance to rip off more people before you out him.

                                              But I doubt he will EVER pay you back.

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                                              • Iron Mike
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Nov 2004
                                                • 460

                                                #24
                                                funny name you have

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                                                • Deej
                                                  I make pixels work
                                                  • Jun 2005
                                                  • 24386

                                                  #25
                                                  Just tell us who already!!! Waiting a week from now is only hurting you and others here...

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                                                  • AaronM
                                                    GFY Royality ;)
                                                    • Oct 2001
                                                    • 46917

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by NetHorse
                                                    My question is, how long would you guys wait until you call this guy out on a bunch of public forums to get what was promised?

                                                    March 1st.

                                                    You're late. Shoulda hired me.
                                                    Last edited by AaronM; 04-17-2009, 12:19 PM.

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                                                    • collegeboobies
                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                      • 3644

                                                      #27
                                                      well thats shitty

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                                                      • CurrentlySober
                                                        Too lazy to wipe my ass
                                                        • Aug 2002
                                                        • 38954

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by RobertD
                                                        What difference do you expect another week to make?

                                                        .
                                                        Exactly...

                                                        Although it IS a 'Jerry Springer' bit of advice, let me give it to you anyway...

                                                        People will ONLY TREAT YOU... How you ALLOW them to TREAT YOU...

                                                        Believe me... Thats so true, it almost fucking hurts...

                                                        Originally posted by MetaMan
                                                        typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

                                                        See quote above...


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                                                        • rowan
                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                          • Mar 2002
                                                          • 17393

                                                          #29
                                                          If he ends up delivering then you STILL need to out him, so some other poor schmuck doesn't get scammed...

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                                                          • FilthyRob
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Feb 2004
                                                            • 6741

                                                            #30
                                                            Good luck. I could have outted someone for never paying me from their affiliate program, but never did. Didn't want to start anything, but wish I would have a little.
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                                                            • lazycash
                                                              Troll Patrol
                                                              • Aug 2002
                                                              • 15214

                                                              #31
                                                              As naive as you sounded in the "Soloconverts" thread, its no wonder you got taken.
                                                              "WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams..

                                                              Its crazy..."

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                                                              • Mutt
                                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                • Sep 2002
                                                                • 34431

                                                                #32
                                                                what is this crap about 'outing' somebody - if somebody has ripped you off or isn't delivering products/services you paid for in part or in whole you are an idiot for not bringing it to GFY - why would you worry about somebody's reputation or feelings after treating you like shit or ripping you off?

                                                                only time i wouldn't do it is if the person is well liked in the industry and you don't have great evidence that you can back up your claims with.
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                                                                • omygosh
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Apr 2002
                                                                  • 132

                                                                  #33
                                                                  How long does it typically take to get content shot? (wondering how long is too long to wait, im almost getting to the point that I think im in the same boat lol)

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                                                                  • Grapesoda
                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                    • Jul 2003
                                                                    • 46234

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by NetHorse
                                                                    Thanks for your reply.





                                                                    I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.

                                                                    Did I mention I will never pay for content upfront again?
                                                                    buy from reputable content producers like me and you won't have any issues. and you must pay some up front, enough to cover model fees after we've done business for a bit until then you must pay all up front.

                                                                    had to start that after losing 17.5K one year to a client and the slow pay of other clients. -bmb

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                                                                    • Grapesoda
                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                                      • 46234

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by omygosh
                                                                      How long does it typically take to get content shot? (wondering how long is too long to wait, im almost getting to the point that I think im in the same boat lol)
                                                                      I say in contact with my clients letting them know the progress of the productions. there is a pretty standard 40% shoot failure on custom content so I need to stay in contact to apprise the clients of any changes. usually within 2-3 weeks from order to delivery in most cases.

                                                                      it's always best to select a handful of talent to choose from and let then me do what I can to shoot them.... when you say "I want this model with that model" it could take months if ever to get a shoot done.

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                                                                      • rowan
                                                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                        • Mar 2002
                                                                        • 17393

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Mutt
                                                                        what is this crap about 'outing' somebody - if somebody has ripped you off or isn't delivering products/services you paid for in part or in whole you are an idiot for not bringing it to GFY - why would you worry about somebody's reputation or feelings after treating you like shit or ripping you off?
                                                                        He'd probably prefer to have the content delivered, rather than a 7 page calling out thread and the payment written off as unrecoverable...

                                                                        That's probably how a lot of scammers are able to ride so long, they keep alive a small hope that the victim may eventually get what they've paid for.

                                                                        Like I said, even if this guy ponies up and delivers, you still need to out him.

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                                                                        • Spunky
                                                                          I need a beer
                                                                          • Jun 2002
                                                                          • 133978

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by lazycash
                                                                          Geez, just tell us his gfy nick and we'll tell you if you're ever gonna get the content. I can assure you that if he's doing this to you he's done it to other people here also.
                                                                          Like you know everything about everybody..you = tool

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                                                                          • »Rob Content«
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                                                                            • Dec 2006
                                                                            • 4348

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by Kron
                                                                            try to call him out in public, that approach fix few my problems in past
                                                                            it has??


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                                                                            • the Shemp
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                                                                              • Nov 2001
                                                                              • 10891

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by NetHorse





                                                                              I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.
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