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The the 6 hours of sleep depression fix. Set your alarm and only get 6 hours of sleep each night from now on going to sleep and waking up at the same time each day. The first few days will be hard, but you'll adjust and find a new sense of purpose in your life & instant happiness.
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Also, having been on both sides, money does indeed mean something. Try living without it.
Money, if nothing else, gives you the opportunity to travel, pick up a useless hobby, whatever and the free time to do it in. The more money you make in the least amount of time means more chances to go out, more options for things to do, and lots more. |
Actually, like it or not, money means everything.
Take it from David Mamet's uncanny dialogue in Heist: GENE HACKMAN: Gold makes the world go 'round. DELROY LINDO: Some say it's love. HACKMAN: They're right too. Love of gold. |
When I hated life, I was making more than I am now, worked for no one... had a beach avenue apartment downtown Vancouver, had reached my goals actually. And thus, I was bored.
I felt I had reached the end of everything I wanted to do and therefore had nothing left to live for. Turns out I was quite wrong as the goals I had were good goals but not really what I wanted in life. For most people, goals are given to you by friends, family.. society. Be successful, get an education, make money, own nice stuff.... and we strive for them because that's what life has taught us we should do. When I started a family, I had people berate me for losing my freedom, can't travel, can't just sleep with random women, can't just do what ever I want... that's what someone else thinks they need to be happy. Maybe for them it is and good for them for finding it. I know now what I need to be happy, to want to live my life every day. I just had to find out what it was. |
Who, you are 100% correct about money. Beyond allowing us to gain ever more material shit, its totaly fucking worthless. It dosen't buy happiness.
I always told my now ex-wife her attitude was the cornerstone of every effort that she would ever make. Put simply, if you go into something thinking the worst then the worst possible outcome is almost guarenteed. Even if you find yourself in a shitty situation that is outside of your control, your attitude and how you look at the situation will dictate how quickly you can take stock of the situation and make it better for yourself. A teacher I had in highschool one day told me "This too shall pass." I never forgot those words and throughout my life I have silently repeated them to myself when I saw no end to the shit. The shit always comes to an end. The sun always comes back out. Hell, Bob Marley said it best though: "Every little thing is gonna be alright." Hope you come around soon. Quote:
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Cheer up man, some really good advice above. There's always light at the end of the tunnel. :thumbsup
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and if it will, then you were never unhappy to begin with :2 cents: |
If you have money it is easier to change anything about yourself that you want than if you don't.
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Oh and sometimes it's the small things that bring happiness. It doesn't have to be a radical change in your life :2 cents: |
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Three things make a happy life:
1. Someone to Love. 2. Something to Do. 3.Something to look forward to. If your not happy with your life I'm willing to bet your missing at least 1 of those...:pimp |
mannnn you people are cry fucking babies, there is people starving around the world on you have the nerve to come onto YOUR COMPUTER (thank god you even have a fucking computer let along net) and whine to everyone about your life.
that just means you have it to good, a week in a russian military camp might help. i cannot stand babies, they are everywhere stop whining about life and start doing and the first step is to give yourself a good kick to the fuckin head for acting like such a pussy. sure i get depressed and now sometimes but life rules it is all a journey and its what YOU make of it. you whimpering little maggots are weak and do not belong on the food chain. MAN THE FUCK UP it is disgusting hearing about some of your pitiful lives. you are like a fat chick who acts like a bitch because it is the only way to get attention. HARDEN THE FUCK UP PUSSY |
I love my life !!! I have just about everything I have ever wanted.. All because of porn !!
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develop yourself-> eat LSD
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sounds to me like you should just consider calling it a life. nothing to be ashamed about. you're not being happy isn't really anyone else's business. them being upset at you ending your own misery is probably on of the more selfish reactions people have. so don't worry about it man! if you don't like life, man up and just bow out. no reason to prolong the pain, misery, suffering and boredom of your existence.
its time to just be honest about the situation.. you gave life a shot.. it wasn't for you. nothing to be ashamed of. good luck! |
Fuck it, I don't kniow what's wrong with me, but as long as I;m healthy and family and friends are OK, I'm alawys happy with my life!
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money means nothing? Give me some :)
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Everyone that I know that is truly rich with time and money did not achieve their wealth until they went completely broke.
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That is one of the best interviews I saw on Conan, lol. He's just so right about the lack of appreciation in our microwave society. I mean you take a box out of the freezer and stick it in the microwave, then stand there tapping your foot saying "come on!! hurry up, jeeeeeez". When in times past you'd have to grow and harvest that, kill that meat, prep everything, cook it over a fire or, god forbid, an oven for an hour or two.
And we tap our feet and complain that our pot pie takes a few minutes in the nuke machine. :1orglaugh |
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I've never met anyone who claimed they didnt have time to eat a meal unless it goes from freezer to stomach in under 5 minutes. Sounds like poor planning more than anything.
Reminds me of a pic from the news recently where a guy in line at the free soup kitchen was taking pictures with his cell phone.. something wrong with that. I'm guessing that if our past generations could peek through a window at how we're doing, they'd write a note and hold it up to the window and it'd say "You're doing it wrong" |
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Before you reply next time, grab a pen and paper and write it out by hand. Then ask yourself if you appreciate how it works now or if you were too busy to care. For added effect, imagine having to bring that letter to the post office and wait 4-6 weeks for a response back. Being too busy isn't an excuse to take things for granted, it's a reason NOT too. |
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Last time I felt like that, I decided a drastic change was in order... Sold all my shit and bought a one way ticket to Costa Rica.
Best thing I ever did really. Not because now I live in Costa Rica, but because it gave me a chance to take a look at my life and start with a clean slate. |
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thanks for infos
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