He just quit his job and went to Vegas. I read the entire thing but not seen the vids yet. He is not delusional. He is very at peace with his decision which is frightening. The fact that he is so content with is decision is a huge sign that he is probably going to do it.

He's really got a brilliant mind and a gentle spirit. The first day or two he seemed a bit scattered but he makes more sense and is very very intelligent throughout the rest.

You guys can "lol" at it but I have already taken steps at trying to help him. I'm giving him 2-3 days to respond. I hope he does :helpme

Well,I hope this guy gets help if he's REAL but thinking now its kinda strange..I mean if he's so depressed that he wants to die then WHY wait 30 days and do this whole thing? If he wants to leave a message after he's gone then why not just film a video and then do what ever he's plannin to do with himself but what's the whole point of that?? Crying for help-then that means he's not really willing to do that..
The fact that he wants to be spotted and become an actor souds more like trueth to me...
But if that guy is sireously ill and needs help I deeply hope he gets it and stays alive..at the end of the day there's so much to live for =)

If its TRUE then maybe you'll get to save his life and I think it's a great thing to do honesty :thumbsup (atleast you've tryed and not just ignored like even I did)
How are you trying to help him and what if he doesnt respond??

Listen real good some one is screaming "HELP ME"

see ya in hell

I'm debating on this. The thing you're supposed to do is get he police involved. I just read the comments on his blog (makes me ashamed to be part of the human race with the sick comments on there) and one person said they called the cops. I think it would take alot more calls for them to actually do something. Since he's doing all this from his blackberry, he'd need to be gps'd.

I actually think that if he got arrested and/or put in the mental hospital there, he'll definitely end up snapping. He still seems somewhat rational and he's really let out alot of things to his family that he didn't have the guts to say otherwise. I think they best thing to do is to find where his family IS and get to THEM. They might be the only ticket. Since he's opened up already, this might be just the thing to turn their attitudes and his completely around.

Sigh.. I'm just not sure. How to get ahold of them? Don't know his name, his old job, or anything. Still thinking this through. And still haven't watched the vids for a clue as to where he's staying. Figured out his first name is Jimmy though.

I completely disagree with you.

Seemingly being at peace and looking content is common for people suffering from depression..

Ozarkz that's ok if you disagree. The hundreds of parents in my "parents of suicide" group have a wide array of person experiances and it's a known fact that alot of times, once they've come to a solid decision, they start giving away their things, visiting family for the last time, etc and the family will usually tell you that they seemed more calm and serene than normal in the final days. That's because they are at peace with the decision that they will not be here much longer.

Anyway!!! I am not giving him 2 more hours let alone days. I just got with the POS (ironic name eh?) group and we will be joining forces as of immediately to get this guy into custody and contact his family.

Wish us luck!

since when did people in this world stop being "out of their fucking minds"?????

seriously. when i was growing up... some people were just broken and fucked in the head and they were shunned until they came to grips with that fact. it was perfectly acceptable to point at the idiot and say "hey... look, an idiot" and the world was a better place for it. now we are all supposed to empathize with people who are so obviously wanting attention and doing it in the worst way imaginable?

plenty of serial killers and murderous cult leaders had a "gentle spirit" were "intelligent" and seemed to be "at peace"

when you've managed to override your most basic human instinct to survive, you've got a serious problem. not sure why people would need more clues than that. btw... i'm not saying he shouldn't top himself if he wants to. i think he should.. i just can't imagine someone defending insane behavior as being ok or lucid.



here's your biggest clue that he's crying for help....


... its in the fact that he's online crying for help.

jesus.

someone should man up and either call the fucking cops or tell him to do the reasonable thing and make it "5moreminutestodeath.com" and spare everyone the bullshit drama.

50......

Under this reasoning it is also ok to point at a homosexual and say "hey... look, a fag!" until they came to grips with that fact, marry and become preachers... not fair, not a solution, just easier... as long as it's happening to others, no?

Hats off to you RRRED, I must say I admire you, not just for this incident in particular, you come off as a genuinely caring and hardworking person, and that's something I really respect. :)

I remember there's a movie something like that. mmmmmm...

Haha that made me laugh... "look, a fag" can you imagine that these days?

And thanks... I DO care. I'm doing it more for his family than anything. I can't even imagine having to go through something like this as his mother or other family member and finding out that no one did anything but tell him the world would be better off without him and that he should go ahead and end his life. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't take 5 minutes out of my day to attempt to save a family of the most unimaginable magnitude of pain for a lifetime to come.

Anyways, the Las Vegas police have been called. They are taking it seriously, they have his blogs and vid, and they are going to try and track him down.

pretty messed up

It gets more interesting. They called back and said that there was nothing they could do since there is no proof that he is in Vegas.

So the hosting company, lunarpages.com, is the only place that would have his city so that proper authorities could be called.

I've been going back and forth on facebook with an employee there. I should post the convo cuz it's actually pretty disturbing but it's starting to look up. I'm still going round and round with her. I think she's finally seeing the light though. This world is so weird, I swear.

My guess is that if they don't act in time and he completes this, the family can sue the living shit out of them... I would think. We shall see.

Policies, procedures, and laws are so fucked. It's insane...

Attempted suicide and/or the threat thereof can be grounds for involuntary psychological evaluation.

Something about the way that this is being done does not have a genuine ring to it. This is not to say that all efforts to stop him are not appreciated, but it is advisable at times to be very careful of leading an unstable person into a self-fulfilling situation.

In a former career, I've handled one-on-one suicide attempts. Every serious situation had a certain air of privacy about them and the most critical ones did not alert anyone at all.

This guy appears to be an attention hog and may even go as far as cutting himself or harming himself on a superficial level if he doesn't see enough of a reaction. That is, IF he is genuine.

Worse case scenario is that if he is serious, he will leave more clues so that people can stop him. Persons like him are psychological leeches, they feed off of the need for others to help. They get their fix by manipulation and deception, knowing that there are persons who genuinely will offer their emotions. Once the trap is set, they reel their unsuspecting victims in with little more than innuendo and a bit of imagination.

My advice: Don't be a sucker. Let the police do their jobs.

In his writings and in his vids he doesnt try to reach out for any help at all nor is he all "doom and gloom". This site has very few visitors. Its only starting to get out there all of a sudden. He makes it very clear that this is a storage place for his family so they understand why he "did it". He intends on emailing them right before he does it. The fact that he isn't reaching out for help at all makes me know for a fact that he has made up his mind. He's taking the last paycheck he has and drinking his ass off.

With that being said, he JUST posted a bit ago saying he's been drunk for over 60 hours in Vegas and that's why he didn't do his normal daily posting. He filmed himself across the street from the treasure island. He goes on about how all the windows are barred and it's impossible to jump anywhere. He's scoping the scene totally.

So I just got off the phone with the Vegas police and they already had all the info but now they took his description of what he's wearing today, etc and they are out looking for him. Now there is proof that he is indeed in Vegas and approximately where he might be staying. I gave them the name of the host of his site and they said they would get on it and find out his name and such so they can find out exactly where he's staying. They are looking for him as we speak.

Hopefully, he will be taken into custody and put in a hospital while his family is contacted. This might not stop him from the inevitable, but it might stop him from his current plan. I feel very good about this and I thank the guy who posted this thread. You may have saved a life, dude. Pat yourself on the back! Hopefully, we won't see any updates on his site from this point forward. That will show that he was found. Hopefully, at a later date, he will post and tell about how he involuntarily got the help he needed and is taking a new road. I hope, I hope.

We shall see! At least progress was made tonight.

would the police really take this case serious?
We shall see, keep us updated if they call you back.

lmao HIGH FIVE!

I wish we could comment on the site,

I would say, "WHO GIVES A SHIT"

you ppl are fucking stupid if you can't tell he's acting on those videos lol

you are the ppl telemarketers live for

i'd ask him what it would take to help him do it NOW and not wait another 18 days or whatever

yeah.. why not... someone should say "hey look a fag"

and the fag should have the sense to say "wow.. that guys an idiot and his issues have nothing to do with me"

because ultimately, "the fag" is responsible for "the fag" and his own life and happiness - not the rest of society and the world.

happiness comes from within... not without. its not something that happens to you.

i'm not your custodian or babysitter.. if you're obese... and you're offended when i call you obese... then you need to start looking within... maybe ask yourself "wow... am i obese" instead of demanding the world change and adjust itself to your own personal sensibilities.

people need to be accountable for themselves... not demand the entire world be accountable for them, their decisions, their feelings etc.
:2 cents:

rrred, get a grip woman.. open your eyes

That sounds like a suicidal person right there.

lol... how can people be so STUPID to fall in these strategies to make money??

now he will open an account in paypal to have poeple donate money..

A LOT of poeple will donate and he will SOON have 1 million in his account.

If he's faking, then he's in big ass trouble.

I do have a grip. When someone has an outright plan and voices it, you're SUPPOSED TO call authorities. That's just what you're supposed to do.... not harass the dude and urge him to do it. That's just stupid.

You guys watch too many movies. If you really knew anything about the subject, you'd know that this dude is a classic case of someone who needs immediate help because he has a solid plan laid out to do it. His farewell funtime is a very very common thing that can occur right beforehand. That's a fact.

Anyways, to me it was worth a phone call. It's standard procedure. I refuse to attack and harrass a guy who is ill like that like everyone else is doing.

Thank you RRRED for trying to help this guy. :)

If I wasn't over here in England I would have done more or less what you've done and contacted the authorities. Not sure they'd take an English guy seriously over the phone.

Thank you so much for taking the time and trouble to help someone. There's not many people who realise that we (humanity) are all in the same boat.

:thumbsup

:2 cents::2 cents:

His blog and website are gone..

the mystery deepens...

the world gone grazy

Anyone have an update on this?

Account suspended...
Same goes for his youtube account.

Ok thanks.

Anyone know if Vegas PD got him or not?

here's your update.

The world is full of idiots and misery and grief and sorrow and death and destruction. it goes hand in hand with birth, creation, joy and happiness.

accept both.

that is what the universe is.

birth and life and death and destruction or mutually dependent on each other. he is simply fulfilling his role in the universes plan for itself.

mind your own business. stop being the creepy weirdo with rescue syndrome like all the whacked out chicks that try to marry people on death row and pretending its totally normal.

a healthy behavior is to distance yourself from unhealthy behaviors. any psychologist will tell you the same. when you find yourself caring more than others about extremely unhealthy behaviors and those who exhibit them... its time to start asking "whats wrong with me".... not "whats wrong with him"


:2 cents:

lol you ppl kill me... i have 50 telemarketers right now i'd like to get you all on our list.. please make sure you're not on the DNC registry though.

He still hasn't logged into his youtube since his site's been down. But I got this email on my site from a guy who has been insistant that this is a hoax. I think he's the one who got the site and blog shut down. Notice the urls of the guy "Dean" though. It is NOT the same guy. Not even close. I'd love to know if he got nabbed yet or if they thought to get his info from his site host at least. I would think this would be worth that effort at this point. Taking his site down was not the answer in my opinion. Surfers did that, not police.

Either way... if it's a hoax or a joke, he seriously needs help and I hope he gets nabbed. Here's what he sent me:

"Hi Niccole,

Found your site through Google. I want you to know that the 30daystodeath blog is fake. It?s a prank by a Belgium group called ?IPower? to raise awareness about suicide prevention.

The author of the blog goes by the name ?Dean.? Here he is on his youtube channel:

https://youtube.com/watch?v=sSVCzaeF1a4

Here is their previous ?suicide prank? from last year:

http://tania.movielol.org

Not sure what to think about all of this - it?s important to raise awareness, but this is quite an awful thing that they are doing because it makes so many people upset. I hope this helps not to worry about the blog?s author or his family.

Also, sorry about your loss."

I'll ask the lady who called originally because she gave the cops her number and they have called her back twice. The cops do have his picture from his vids and have him labeled a suicide alert if they run across him but I don't think they're making any effort to actually find him.

no, wanting cops to go kick in someones door for making fake internet pages is insane. :2 cents: