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Libertine 02-02-2009 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies (Post 15427606)
two more

Keep strong opinions to yourself. You do not get paid to win arguments on message boards. Pick your battles.

Keep your chin up. No matter what you think, or anyone says. There is always someone out there worse. Ask the homeless person, or the next dude holding a sign if they will trade places with you.

Those are good, although the first only applies if you depend on a place for work or rep.

Also, here's one more:

Learn a CMS or two

And maybe get certifications to go along with it. Wordpress and Joomla are good for building popularity, Drupal is good for generating an income, eZ Publish is good for vastly overcharging corporate and government clients.

Ozarkz 02-02-2009 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Retox Josh (Post 15427629)
Nope, I've been here long enough to learn people over the times. So that puts me to the conclusion you're a fake nick.

Ok. :thumbsup

CyberHustler 02-02-2009 10:11 PM

I'd hit it...

GAMEFINEST 02-02-2009 10:13 PM

what up aye?

potter 02-02-2009 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Retox Josh (Post 15427357)
Need me to go through your last 10 threads and bump those 4 of you attempting to sell your shitty designs for $3,000 and everyone laughing at you, in hopes that you could actually get them sold?

Ok, maybe not six months. I might have given you too much time with six months. Seems you could really have a break down again way too easily.

I'm going to say three months. :1orglaugh

JaneB 02-02-2009 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Retox Josh (Post 15427629)
Nope, I've been here long enough to learn people over the times. So that puts me to the conclusion you're a fake nick.


He has to be a fake nick. He knows way to much shit to have just signed up. Then again he claims to be a webmaster to the stars yet has no link on his profile and no sig. Could just be a surfer wanting to play.

Barefootsies 02-02-2009 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Libertine (Post 15427651)
Those are good, although the first only applies if you depend on a place for work or rep.

Also, here's one more:

Learn a CMS or two

And maybe get certifications to go along with it. Wordpress and Joomla are good for building popularity, Drupal is good for generating an income, eZ Publish is good for vastly overcharging corporate and government clients.

Also very good tips. Especially when you are a designer!

Ethersync 02-03-2009 03:21 AM

Alien, your mindset is all wrong.

Do not focus on what you do not like about your life. Focus on what you want your life to be like.

How much money do you want to earn per month/year?

What is your ideal profession?

What would be your ideal day?

If you let your negativity consume you then you will just get more of it... :2 cents:

The Duck 02-03-2009 03:29 AM

You cant live your life wondering what if, there is only now and the only way to live is in the moment you are experiencing right now and making your plans forward from this exact point in time.

DamageX 02-03-2009 03:37 AM

AlienQ has had successes? I thought his only success was to be a constant failure...

SGS 02-03-2009 03:55 AM

AlienQ is a good guy but just gets too hot sometimes. I love his designs and have had content off of him in the past too. Sometimes you just need to sit and think about the future and what would make you happy. Live is too short. :2 cents:

tranza 02-03-2009 04:40 AM

http://ihasahotdog.files.wordpress.c...so-serious.jpg

Chit Chat 02-03-2009 05:42 AM

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

ExLust 02-03-2009 05:42 AM

I step in for a thought of service issues or something. lol, Drama is in the air.

HorseShit 02-03-2009 05:54 AM

thread is over

Barefootsies 02-03-2009 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Ethersync (Post 15428605)
If you let your negativity consume you then you will just get more of it... :2 cents:




You do not know the POWA of the dark side...

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE 02-03-2009 06:45 AM

The guy.. Well lets just say the guy..

LadyMischief 02-03-2009 06:47 AM

You are ultimately in control of your destiny, and the only thing that can hold you back is not learning from your mistakes. People spend their whole lives trying to find the secret to happiness and it's actually very simple. Be GRATEFUL for what you have, there's always someone worse off than you are. If you are grateful for the little good things in your life, more good things come to you.

quiet 02-03-2009 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 15427131)
Alien, you and I have gone at it many times over the years. That aside, I don't really think you're a bad guy.

In all seriousness, life is what you make of it. You can't change other people, no matter how hard you try. The only person you can change is yourself.

You're 36. That's 29 more years of career before most people can retire at 65. That's a long time man. Maybe it's time for you to make a clean break all together from porn. Life's too short not to chase your dreams and it won't get any easier later on.

damn, i was almost tearing up ;) seriously though, WarChild is right, but i seriously doubt you will ever break out of this never ending negative cycle. it seems like you've been like this since day one.

Ethersync 02-03-2009 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies (Post 15429194)


You do not know the POWA of the dark side...

:1orglaugh

Agent 488 02-03-2009 08:21 AM

i wish you well, but you remind me of a friend of mind who always has a reason to not improve his life.

every offer of help, solution, idea or way out i give him he is always "but, but, but ..." and has a reason not to to implement it.

the only barrier is yourself, and until one sees that there is nothing anyone can do to help.

Art Room 02-03-2009 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by DeanCapture (Post 15427180)
Anyone can own photoshop and make a tour...true. Anyone can take pictures too! Anyone can shoot & edit video. Anyone can...anyone can...anyone can. That frame of mind will never allow you to get where you want to go.

Here's a few things to keep in mind Alien.

1). You don't need a lot of clients to make a decent living. A couple of good clients will do the trick. A couple of good clients that you can take good care of...and that will take good care of you. Designers are everywhere....I've worked with a bunch of them but one of things I keep bumping in to with designers has nothing to do with their creative attributes, but has more to do with their servicing or "following through" attributes. I've hired a handful of designers and a few video editors this past year and the majority of them never met their deadlines. They would tell me that they would have something in a few days and a week later I'm still waiting. You want to set yourself apart from the crowd? You just need two things. Good creative skills and a knack for getting shit done on time. You want people to give you a try? Start promoting the fact that their design will be ready on time....or it's free. That'll give people an incentive to work with you.

2). See #1

:winkwink:



Well put Dean, I hear you on the deadlines, I learned deadlines are of the most importance, especially when I am doing magazine design, missed deadlines cost thousands of dollars a day. Efficiency is just as important as Skill.

Nicky 02-03-2009 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by DamageX (Post 15428631)
AlienQ has had successes? I thought his only success was to be a constant failure...

I've seen some nice paysites he has designed atleast.

BradM 02-03-2009 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Ozarkz (Post 15427163)
AlienQ blames everyone else for his lack of success in adult. Mean while everyone around him was able to make money. AlienQ didn't want to keep up with current internet technology, he didn't want to advance his skills and he got left behind.

That and he is a fucking nutjob and people don't trust him due to his instability. Who wants to overpay for a bloated shitty seo unfriendly design and risk having it half-assed because he spends all his time melting down on adult message boards? He's a massive liability.

Damn straight you've wasted your life Alien. And staying here will only encourage that.

Barefootsies 02-11-2009 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM (Post 15431205)
That and he is a fucking nutjob and people don't trust him due to his instability. Who wants to overpay for a bloated shitty seo unfriendly design and risk having it half-assed because he spends all his time melting down on adult message boards? He's a massive liability.

Damn straight you've wasted your life Alien. And staying here will only encourage that.

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