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  • cranki
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    • Feb 2005
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    #1

    GIRLS: Why are men in relationships more attractive ???

    Every time I'm in a relationship, I get a lot more suggestive remarks from chicks than I do when I'm single. How come?

    Is that a competition thing or something?
  • MOxxx
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    #2
    Because they feel bad for you ;)

    wait until you'll have a baby.....
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    • TheLegacy
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      #3
      Originally posted by MOxxx
      Because they feel bad for you ;)

      wait until you'll have a baby.....
      LOL. funny


      Truth is there is no one final answer since every girl is different.

      Yes some girls may see it as competition - not that your anything special but they see the girl and want to take her "man" away so she then can be dominant

      Another option is that she see's you with a girl and figures, "well he has to have something special for her to date him".. so she tries

      Yet still another option is a no strings relationship - girls similar to guys just want to fuck and not have the baggage of a guy going emotional on them and jealous if she wants to meet other guys. Your in a relationship so your not about to start controlling her.

      Finally and the more than likely of all of them - its not you - she wants to fuck your girlfriend and is going through you to get to her !!



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      • bronco67
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        #4
        It's because you've been pre-screened.

        Men are the opposite. A woman that is attached is the most unattractive thing -- at least it is to me.

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        • teg0
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          #5
          You always find out about the girls who want to fuck you after you get into a relationship. Mystery of life.

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          • Cyndalie
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            #6
            You're 'harmless' so flirting is 'innocent'.
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            • jalami
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              #7
              This reminds me of a certain Chris Rock bit.... it's so true though.
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              • Tom_PM
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                #8
                How do they know you're not single?
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                • cranki
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by TheLegacy
                  Finally and the more than likely of all of them - its not you - she wants to fuck your girlfriend and is going through you to get to her !!
                  sounds reasonable


                  Originally posted by Cyndalie
                  You're 'harmless' so flirting is 'innocent'.
                  ah ok, THAT sounds truly reasonable.


                  Originally posted by PR_Tom
                  How do they know you're not single?
                  it's mostly girls I know / haven't seen for a while and they know I have a g/f.

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                  • BradM
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                    #10
                    Heh, at least you don't get threesomes suggested when you turn the girls advances down.

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                    • CaptainHowdy
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                      #11
                      Commitment arouses women... it's like a pheromone.

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                      • munki
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by bronco67
                        It's because you've been pre-screened.

                        Men are the opposite. A woman that is attached is the most unattractive thing -- at least it is to me.
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                        • Jens Van Assterdam
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                          #13
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                          • kelly kola
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by CaptainHowdy
                            Commitment arouses women... it's like a pheromone.
                            Very true!! Not sure why it is the way it is...but for some reason women can sense when a guy is in a relationship. Could it be that they have a different sense about them? Or maybe just don't come on as strong as usual. Questions that I personally can't figure out, but I do have to say that it is the same way with females as well!!
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                            • silvercash amber
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                              #15
                              they want what they cant have
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                              • Odie
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by TheLegacy
                                LOL. funny


                                Truth is there is no one final answer since every girl is different.

                                Yes some girls may see it as competition - not that your anything special but they see the girl and want to take her "man" away so she then can be dominant

                                Another option is that she see's you with a girl and figures, "well he has to have something special for her to date him".. so she tries

                                Yet still another option is a no strings relationship - girls similar to guys just want to fuck and not have the baggage of a guy going emotional on them and jealous if she wants to meet other guys. Your in a relationship so your not about to start controlling her.

                                Finally and the more than likely of all of them - its not you - she wants to fuck your girlfriend and is going through you to get to her !!


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                                • tranza
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by MOxxx
                                  Because they feel bad for you ;)

                                  wait until you'll have a baby.....
                                  Yeah man, just wait and you will see!
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                                  • CaseyCupcakes
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by silvercash amber
                                    they want what they cant have

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                                    • Tom_PM
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by kelly kola
                                      Very true!! Not sure why it is the way it is...but for some reason women can sense when a guy is in a relationship. Could it be that they have a different sense about them? Or maybe just don't come on as strong as usual. Questions that I personally can't figure out, but I do have to say that it is the same way with females as well!!
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                                      • Xrated J
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Odie
                                        the holy grail ...........

                                        and don't forget the "we always want what we can't have"
                                        well you can't have me

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                                        • Kudles
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                                          #21
                                          Because your a challenge now
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                                          • nosey
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                                            #22

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                                            • nosey
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by jalami
                                              This reminds me of a certain Chris Rock bit.... it's so true though.
                                              was thinking the same

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                                              • cherrylula
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                                                #24
                                                those girls are called "sluts."

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                                                • AnniKN
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                                                  #25
                                                  For the same reason that when a bunch of females live together, they get their periods synchronized... aka mating season for a flock, and males feel the need to fight with each other over who's cock is bigger, who's house is larger, who's gf is hotter... aka who's the alpha male:

                                                  We are still animals no matter how refined our communication and technology might be.

                                                  Females will feel more inclined to be attracted to a male who has a partner because it "means" that he's fit for reproduction (in animal terms)

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                                                  • notime
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                                                    #26
                                                    In a relationship you act more at ease instead of being on "the lookout".
                                                    Use your imaginary GF to get more confident to hit on girls

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                                                    • cranki
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by notime
                                                      In a relationship you act more at ease instead of being on "the lookout".
                                                      Use your imaginary GF to get more confident to hit on girls
                                                      yep, I was thinking about that as well... But as kelly said, women can SENSE whether or not a guy is in a relationship and therefore more attractive, so being easy won't help too much in the end

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                                                      • Meeper
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by silvercash amber
                                                        they want what they cant have
                                                        What I was going to reply with lol. Pretty obvious IMO
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                                                        • MediaGuy
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                                                          #29
                                                          I think it's because when we're in a relationship we're... more confident? Lusted and Loved. Prouder? Sticking out our chests and walking with a sure step. Because SHE is back there, or ahead here - the woman who'd vouch for you, fight for you, back you and stand by you (or so we tell ourselves heh).

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                                                          • KittyLix
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                                                            #30
                                                            As a female i am NOT attracted to guys in relationship i'm just not *shrug* never went for one or even flirted i just find it rude to his GF/fiance.

                                                            BUT it also drives me nuts when a chick trys to flirt with my hunny especially in front of me LOL usually i just dangle my left hand over his shoulder and show off my sweet rock or depends on the situation i find it hot and a turn on and fuck him senseless later hehehe bitches

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                                                            • Jay-Rock
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                                                              #31
                                                              Women want attention and if a guy isnt giving it to them then they will make sure they get it by flirting. I dont think it matters that you are taken, just that you arent trying to get in her pants and she feels less attractive if a guy doesnt show her attention.
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                                                              • CarlosTheGaucho
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                                                                #32
                                                                Yeah, here is a little bit of recent experience..

                                                                One of my best friends (very attractive girl) came in from Spain just recently for a longer weekend, we know each other for years and the times when she would be free are long gone, so even we're really close to each I do respect she is in a relationship and we're just friends.

                                                                So I did a guide and walked out with her a little bit, we were in the office, in the bars, in the restaurants, at my place and of course we have also met a lot of females that I use to regularly bump into. It doesn't really happen because I am usually very discrete about my whatever // personal activities.

                                                                All the chicks that either know me or get to see me often were immediately like a RADAR, the ears and eyes working on 101pct. "does she? OH!" I had an intense feeling someone is always watching me, sneaking around, taking notes.. like if my cock turned into a holy artefact overnight or Harper's Bazaar picked me into their regular monthly column "100 things to do before you die".
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                                                                • scubadiver626
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by CarlosTheGaucho
                                                                  Yeah, here is a little bit of recent experience..
                                                                  All the chicks that either know me or get to see me often were immediately like a RADAR, the ears and eyes working on 101pct. "does she? OH!" I had an intense feeling someone is always watching me, sneaking around, taking notes.. like if my cock turned into a holy artefact overnight or Harper's Bazaar picked me into their regular monthly column "100 things to do before you die".
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                                                                  • bausch
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    It doesn't make you any more attractive. If you are ugly then nothing will help you and you being in a relationship isn't gonna make you attractive. The thought goes

                                                                    "Good, he's fucken ugly. She can HAVE him. Good riddance! Don't let the door knock you on the way out. Let's hope we don't see you around anymore!"

                                                                    or sometimes it's pity

                                                                    "Wow even an ugly like that can get someone. Well good for him. I guess everyone has different taste".
                                                                    Last edited by bausch; 07-30-2008, 02:27 AM.

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                                                                    • Bhunter
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Girls have six sense we man don't have..

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                                                                      • Bex
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        It's a combination of the guy being pre-screened and the whole forbidden fruit thing. Plus I think when a guy is in a relationship he treats other women differently. In some strange way not trying to get into the other womans pants works to make her want you(But i guess the players that subscribe to not putting the pussy on a pedestal already do this). lol


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                                                                        • Vicious_B
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Cyndalie
                                                                          You're 'harmless' so flirting is 'innocent'.
                                                                          Have to agree with Cyn on this one. I also think it can also be an ego booster for some girls, if they are insecure and "steal" a guy from someone else.
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                                                                          • cranki
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                                                            It doesn't make you any more attractive. If you are ugly then nothing will help you and you being in a relationship isn't gonna make you attractive. The thought goes

                                                                            "Good, he's fucken ugly. She can HAVE him. Good riddance! Don't let the door knock you on the way out. Let's hope we don't see you around anymore!"

                                                                            or sometimes it's pity

                                                                            "Wow even an ugly like that can get someone. Well good for him. I guess everyone has different taste".
                                                                            What does this have to do with anything? They ARE IN FACT flirting with me, no matter how ugly I am. And judging by the girls' answers, it's the "innocent flirt" thing...

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                                                                            • Barefootsies
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by nosey



                                                                              Actually, it has more to do with confidence.

                                                                              When a man has a woman, he is more confident because you do not care. You have your 'piece' at home. You'll do and say things you would not normally if you were a desperado trying to dip your tip.

                                                                              When you have no one, you are more desperate. You eyeball women head to toes when they introduce themselves. You try your cheesy lines, and are trying to rush to get them home so you can dip your tip in their shitter, puntang, or eyeball.

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                                                                              • C H R I S
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by cherrylula
                                                                                those girls are called "sluts."
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                                                                                • WiredGuy
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  It shows your willing to be in a committed relationship which is a huge plus in the all mighty female screening process. Add a baby or a pet dog to the mix and you've gone through almost all criteria.
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                                                                                  • O MARINA
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by cranki
                                                                                    GIRLS: Why are men in relationships more attractive ???


                                                                                    they are NOT.

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                                                                                    • Sebring Studios
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Bex
                                                                                      It's a combination of the guy being pre-screened and the whole forbidden fruit thing. Plus I think when a guy is in a relationship he treats other women differently. In some strange way not trying to get into the other womans pants works to make her want you(But i guess the players that subscribe to not putting the pussy on a pedestal already do this). lol
                                                                                      Bingo. Plus, a man already in a relationship appears (key word appears) more confident and not desperate. A very attractive quality to most women.
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                                                                                      • uno
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by TheLegacy
                                                                                        Finally and the more than likely of all of them - its not you - she wants to fuck your girlfriend and is going through you to get to her !!
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                                                                                        • VikingMan
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          It has been answered before and I will say it again so people know the real answer. 99% of humans (both men and women) are nothing more than slightly evolved neanderthals. So we are still hardwired for all the survival instincts we had millions of years ago.

                                                                                          So if you are a woman who depends on a man for her literal survival from day to day are you going to pick a nice guy? No you are going to pick the biggest prick you can find because that is the guy who will have no problem walking over to the next village and clupping everyone over the head and taking their food.

                                                                                          And the more women around a guy the more she wants him. This is because she sees him as a valuable mate since so many other women want him.

                                                                                          Anytime I have ever treated a girl really good and made sure not to make her jealous she has taken a big huge dump on me. Anytime I treat them like shit and fuck other girls on the side they want me more and more.

                                                                                          So if you want a woman to go crazy over you just always act like you have something more important going on in your life than her. Cancel plans at the last minute, don't call her back for several days, make sure she sees other women around you, and most of all, don't be too nice to her.

                                                                                          Now if you have serious money you can throw much of this advice out the door because she may just be with you 100% for the cash. But then she is not really there because of YOU and isn't that kind of a turn off?

                                                                                          I am the type of guy who prefers to be in a relationship with one girl and treating her really good but it never works for me. Most women cannot overcome their neanderthal hard wiring until they are around 30. By that time they reach that age I am not really interested in anything other than a quick fling.

                                                                                          Now for anyone who wants to argue and say " not all women are like that" they are correct. I did say 99% and not 100%. There are some really hot young girls out there who really are searching for a "nice guy". My brother found one!!!! She is a goddess.

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                                                                                          • cranki
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by lumenus
                                                                                            Anytime I have ever treated a girl really good and made sure not to make her jealous she has taken a big huge dump on me. Anytime I treat them like shit and fuck other girls on the side they want me more and more.

                                                                                            So if you want a woman to go crazy over you just always act like you have something more important going on in your life than her. Cancel plans at the last minute, don't call her back for several days, make sure she sees other women around you, and most of all, don't be too nice to her.
                                                                                            I experienced this as well, it's so stupid...

                                                                                            Fortunately, my g/f is NOT like that and loves me EVEN when I'm nice to her

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                                                                                            • Penny Flame
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by bausch
                                                                                              It doesn't make you any more attractive. If you are ugly then nothing will help you and you being in a relationship isn't gonna make you attractive. The thought goes

                                                                                              "Good, he's fucken ugly. She can HAVE him. Good riddance! Don't let the door knock you on the way out. Let's hope we don't see you around anymore!"

                                                                                              or sometimes it's pity

                                                                                              "Wow even an ugly like that can get someone. Well good for him. I guess everyone has different taste".
                                                                                              no way....if he's ugly then we're like "God his dick has got to be HUGE if she's fucking him cuz he sure as fuck ain't that cute! I wonder...."

                                                                                              I never end up going for dudes with girlfriends. Their girlfriends however are always fair game. Nothin more fun to flirt with than a pretty bitch. With a man we can tie up in the corner and force to watch....

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                                                                                              • Vick!
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                this thread need some more posts from girls..
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                                                                                                • Nubiles
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by cranki
                                                                                                  Every time I'm in a relationship, I get a lot more suggestive remarks from chicks than I do when I'm single. How come?

                                                                                                  Is that a competition thing or something?
                                                                                                  Simple, it means you have value.
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                                                                                                  • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by cherrylula
                                                                                                    those girls are called "sluts."
                                                                                                    It's something beyond words like I stated above ...

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