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  • d-null
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    • Apr 2007
    • 13724

    #1

    shaking hands with women you meet?

    for some reason this always feels a little awkward

    it is a natural if you are introduced to a guy that you just meet, but for some reason it doesn't feel as proper when meeting a woman

    just introduced myself to a couple of ladies and shook hands and after wondered whether it was the right thing to do

    ladies here, what do you think of it?

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  • Fucksakes
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    • Dec 2003
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    #2
    I do the kiss on both sides of cheeks.. not sure if thats a french thing *shrugs*

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    • Ayla_SquareTurtle
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      • Sep 2005
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      #3
      I always shake someone's hand when I meet them for the first time, even little kids.
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      • ne0
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        • May 2006
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        #4
        depends on how hot they are :D :D
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        • Spunky
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          #5
          Just don't squeeze as hard or even kiss it

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          • qxm
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            • Jul 2006
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            #6
            These are my general rules:

            Guys > Firm handshake
            Girls > Kiss on the cheek
            Children > Kiss on the forehead or mess their hair up
            Pals > Terrorist fist jab
            Ho > Grab her ass
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            • webcams_scotchie
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              • Jun 2008
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              #7
              Let them be the ones that shake it
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              • hypedough
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                • Sep 2007
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                #8
                I think shaking hands is fine for the first time. Then do whatever feels comfortable.

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                • mona
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                  • Feb 2008
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                  #9
                  In the States, I ALWAYS shake hands (male and female), unless I know the person...I feel as though biz etiquette. In Panama even (aka Latin America), women shake hands with men they don't know, and the next time kiss on the cheek.

                  Kiss on the cheek the first time is for girls...2nd time okay for guys. IMO

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                  • tony299
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                    • Aug 2002
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                    #10
                    I shake hands with the lady.

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                    • AmeliaG
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                      • Jan 2003
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                      #11
                      I am a big fan of shaking hands.
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                      • bausch
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                        • Jul 2006
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                        #12
                        In America its not normal to kiss women you're just meeting for the first time. No one has done it to me and if they were to I would not like it. Dont kiss a womans hand either. thats fucken weird, its not the 18th century, you are SUPPOSED to shake a womans hands. Do not kiss her face or hands, WTF!
                        Last edited by bausch; 07-16-2008, 09:41 PM.

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                        • MoreMagic
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                          • Feb 2006
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                          #13
                          Better give a kiss woman have the strange habit not to was there hands when they go to the toilet

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                          • JamesK
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                            • Jun 2002
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                            #14
                            I usually wait for the woman to make the move. If she's leaning towards me I kiss on the cheek, if not I just shake her hand.

                            I have to say it feels terrible tho. I even kiss guys on the lips when we meet... sometimes we also touch each others balls.
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                            • JamesK
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                              • Jun 2002
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by MoreMagic
                              Better give a kiss woman have the strange habit not to was there hands when they go to the toilet
                              I think overall men are a lot nastier, so I would worry more about that
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                              • XoXo Cash
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                                #16
                                yeah...i agree that the whole thing is kinda awkward...but shaking hands seems the most normal (just don't squeeze too hard!)
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                                • emac
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                                  • Apr 2008
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                                  #17
                                  shaking hand is way professional. but id like to follow these rules :


                                  Originally posted by qxm
                                  These are my general rules:

                                  Guys > Firm handshake
                                  Girls > Kiss on the cheek
                                  Children > Kiss on the forehead or mess their hair up
                                  Pals > Terrorist fist jab
                                  Ho > Grab her ass
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                                  • _Richard_
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                                    • Oct 2006
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                                    #18
                                    i shake hands firmly with any stranger.. i kiss a cheek if it's a friend

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                                    • BlackCrayon
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                                      • Jun 2003
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                                      #19
                                      Geez, just treat them like people. Forget about gender.
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                                      • Elli
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                                        • Apr 2003
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                                        #20
                                        I shake hands at first, but I find lots of Europeans go straight for the hug/kiss on the cheek, which is fine. If I know the person, though, they get a hug/kiss on the cheek.
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                                        • Cyndalie
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                                          • Jan 2002
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                                          #21
                                          Get over it. Their husbands appreciate it.
                                          Hugs and kisses are for friends, not colleagues.
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                                          • Eric
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
                                            I always shake someone's hand when I meet them for the first time, even little kids.
                                            Same here. Kids think it is weird sometimes, but in the end they like to feel included too
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
                                              I always shake someone's hand when I meet them for the first time, even little kids.


                                              so cute

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                                              • Furious_Male
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                                                • Oct 2003
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                                                #24
                                                A firm (not vice-like) handshake when a man meets a woman is completely appropriate in the US. Gender is not an issue when meeting someone new.
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                                                • strobi
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by JamesK
                                                  I usually wait for the woman to make the move. If she's leaning towards me I kiss on the cheek, if not I just shake her hand.

                                                  I have to say it feels terrible tho. I even kiss guys on the lips when we meet... sometimes we also touch each others balls.

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                                                  • boneprone
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                                                    #26
                                                    I usually greet with the BP4L handsign.

                                                    More often than not the ladies drop to their knees.
                                                    I think its a biological response.

                                                    Its scientific.

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                                                    • boneprone
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by boneprone
                                                      I usually greet with the BP4L handsign.

                                                      More often than not the ladies drop to their knees.
                                                      I think its a biological response.

                                                      Its scientific.

                                                      There used to be a time where Id actually teach this artform to others.
                                                      Kind of like a Yoda of sorts to young BP4L Jedi.



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                                                      Last edited by boneprone; 07-17-2008, 10:04 AM.

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                                                      • tranza
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                                                        #28
                                                        Here in Brazil we use to give a kiss on the cheek...
                                                        I'm just a newbie.

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                                                        • C-Luv
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                                                          • May 2008
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                                                          #29
                                                          I do personal had shakes with man all the time. I want them to know I am a business professional and to take me seriously.
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                                                          • Tom_PM
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                                                            #30
                                                            As a serious answer, shaking hands feels and seems proper.

                                                            As an even more serious answer, it'd also be ok if she shook her whole body. Very ok.

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                                                            • Mike Semen
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                                                              #31
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                                                              • stev0
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                                                                #32
                                                                I usually go for a lighthearted punch to the titty

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                                                                • Sebastian Sands
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                  There used to be a time where Id actually teach this artform to others.
                                                                  Kind of like a Yoda of sorts to young BP4L Jedi.



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                                                                  • Mister E
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
                                                                    I always shake someone's hand when I meet them for the first time, even little kids.
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                                                                    • YDG
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Kiss them, one cheek, then 2 if they move there head in that direction. Shaking hands with a girl is wooosy
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                                                                      • Martin
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        I usually dry hump their leg.

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                                                                        • PorniSteph
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          yeah it's a french/euro I guess thing to do... well I'm french and I do feel awkward about it... I kinda need to go for the kisses on both cheeks.

                                                                          Originally posted by Fucksakes
                                                                          I do the kiss on both sides of cheeks.. not sure if thats a french thing *shrugs*
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                                                                          • Blazed
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            I kiss their hand and arm all the way up to their pit.

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                                                                            • Antonio
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                                                                              • Oct 2001
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              it all depends on where you live, in many countries they hug or kiss on the cheeks when they meet, it feels really weird if you're not used to doing that

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                                                                              • Violetta
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                shake hands and give a hug...
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                                                                                • Vendot
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  You're right its a bit awkward especially if youre meeting the girl for the first time. I think shaking the hand is fine the first time on greeting and on parting ways.
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                                                                                  • Due
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    I usually shake their hand firmly so I avoid they try and kiss me too much, I don't think that is appropriate when meeting the first time
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                                                                                    • Beaver Bob
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      If its a female, I usually spread her buttcheeks and lick her butthole.

                                                                                      if its a male, a firm handshake is appropiate.
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                                                                                      • Hell House Vic
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Shake hands, but if it feels awkward with that INDIVIDUAL, do something else. Right way to take a woman's hand is more supportive, less gripping. Like the way you help ladies in and out of cars. Kiss it if in doubt.

                                                                                        It's about individuals not genders

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                                                                                        • DARKHORSERIDER
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          better if she shakes my 3rd leg!!!
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            I only shake when I really need to
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                                                                                            • Ayla_SquareTurtle
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by Mister E
                                                                                              ....that makes you a class act!
                                                                                              Does it also make me a "stand up bro?" err... "stand up sis?"
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                                                                                              • GrouchyAdmin
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                If she offers your her hand, take it. If you offer yours, and she doesn't take it, no biggy. What's the issue?

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                                                                                                • Nicky
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  I always shake hand's, if not the girl is going for the hug first.

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                                                                                                  • Kevin Cunningham
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by qxm
                                                                                                    These are my general rules:

                                                                                                    Guys > Firm handshake
                                                                                                    Girls > Kiss on the cheek
                                                                                                    Children > Kiss on the forehead or mess their hair up
                                                                                                    Pals > Terrorist fist jab
                                                                                                    Ho > Grab her ass
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