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wtfent · 06-10-2008, 09:29 AM

I really like the family life better than the single life. I fuckin party way too much since I have been divorced and I'm kinda getting burnt out. I have been dating all these girls but just can't find the right one. Pussy is no problem, I can always get that... its the blockbuster nights, family trips, bbqs, taking my daughter out, etc... that I really really miss. I take my daughter to do a lot of crap but I admit its not the same, i get kind of sad when i see other families having fun together sometimes.

my main problem is all these girls I'm meeting don't have kids and whether its in my head or not I just see it as a burden to them.

Any words of wisdom guys and gals?

Martin · 06-10-2008, 09:32 AM

Any hope of working it out with the Ex?

StuartD · 06-10-2008, 09:35 AM

wait it out... one day you'll probably have grandchildren and then you can do the family life thing, spoil the kids rotten and best of all... send them home when you've had enough.
You'll get the best of both worlds.

woj · 06-10-2008, 09:38 AM

Sounds like you are getting old... how old are you?

DaLord · 06-10-2008, 09:41 AM

Single life often seem better when you're living the family life, and the family life and often seem interesting when you live the single life.

Plus, if you have to ask yourself those kind of questions you know she's not the one

I prefer the family life. No matter how much money I've made in this business my better half has always been the same and kept my feet on the ground. Same goes when I manage to be a greedy asshole.

Mike

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Martin

Any hope of working it out with the Ex?

No, I wanted to at first but after more than a year of being divorced I just can't see it happening. She would have to make a huge effort to win me over again and show me she is not just around for my money.

Rochard · 06-10-2008, 10:08 AM

This morning I woke up with a seven year old bundle of joy wrapped up in my arms. For the next hour we played in bed, tickled each other, and talked.

Nothing beats family life.

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by StuartD

wait it out... one day you'll probably have grandchildren and then you can do the family life thing, spoil the kids rotten and best of all... send them home when you've had enough.
You'll get the best of both worlds.

I see my father doing this. He loves my daughter to death and I think its a real treat for them to be able to give her back when they have had too much cause kids can be a pain in the you know what at times.

Tjeezers · 06-10-2008, 10:11 AM

single life

Family life i had 20 years ago
that is terminated. Since then, single

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by woj

Sounds like you are getting old... how old are you?

nah not getting old. I will be 27 in september. Just need some change.

NikKay · 06-10-2008, 11:12 AM

I love my family life and need it to balance everything else. I'm raising 2 kids alone and have a really hard time dating because single people don't seem to value the joy in family life. So I just keep going it alone expecting to be able to balance it out someday.

GPS · 06-10-2008, 11:32 AM

If there is a kid involved. Family life.. if not..........
STAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY SINGLE!!!

Please!!

tranza · 06-10-2008, 11:53 AM

Stop worrying.....

d-null · 06-10-2008, 11:56 AM

freedom is the most important thing we have in life

MetaMan · 06-10-2008, 11:57 AM

the grass is always greener on the other side,
be happy with what you have

although you may not have the "typical" family life, some people cannot even have a child of their own, and that should be enough for you to be happy.

everyone gets down and its hard to focus on the good things that surround us but im sure the majority of us are so insanely blessed yet we are all so blind to see it.

i do my best to stay positive and find happiness in the things around me, and try to focus as little time as possible focusing on the what ifs. what ifs are out of your hand no point in depressing over them.

SykkBoy · 06-10-2008, 12:16 PM

the family life

I love things like getting out on the golf course with my son or watching my 3 year old beat me at a game on the Wii....I wouldn't change it for the world.

Like you, I've been doing the dating thing and it's tough (especially with as many kids as I have ;-)). I either find someone who digs the kids, but not what I do for a living, or ones that have no issue with what I do for a living, but aren't really into kids (those types hit the curb pretty quickly).

candyflip · 06-10-2008, 12:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rochard

This morning I woke up with a seven year old bundle of joy wrapped up in my arms. For the next hour we played in bed, tickled each other, and talked.

Nothing beats family life.

I did the same thing, only mine is 7 days old.

I'm really enjoying family life so far.

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by NikKay

I love my family life and need it to balance everything else. I'm raising 2 kids alone and have a really hard time dating because single people don't seem to value the joy in family life. So I just keep going it alone expecting to be able to balance it out someday.

Damn I'm just waiting for the day one of you cute single GFY moms are from San Diego, haha if a girl I date reads GFY I already know we will have interesting conversations. HOT HOT.

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 12:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan

the grass is always greener on the other side,
be happy with what you have

although you may not have the "typical" family life, some people cannot even have a child of their own, and that should be enough for you to be happy.

everyone gets down and its hard to focus on the good things that surround us but im sure the majority of us are so insanely blessed yet we are all so blind to see it.

i do my best to stay positive and find happiness in the things around me, and try to focus as little time as possible focusing on the what ifs. what ifs are out of your hand no point in depressing over them.

Good post man.

wtfent · 06-10-2008, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SykkBoy2

the family life

I love things like getting out on the golf course with my son or watching my 3 year old beat me at a game on the Wii....I wouldn't change it for the world.

Like you, I've been doing the dating thing and it's tough (especially with as many kids as I have ;-)). I either find someone who digs the kids, but not what I do for a living, or ones that have no issue with what I do for a living, but aren't really into kids (those types hit the curb pretty quickly).

Damn dude this is so funny to hear my exact thoughts come out of someone elses mouth. I admit sometimes I feel like the only guy in the world having this problem.

TubeTitans_SusieQ · 06-10-2008, 12:34 PM

I love the single life.....but i've always been the kind to do whatever I want even if I am in a relationship......the only thing that seperates me is my career......i've gone to many weddings lately and of course I eventually want a family.....but it kinda makes me feel like im missing out since im more focused on my career....but i want to be financially stable to be able to have that family one day....in the small town I live in, it just makes me feel like the odd one out i guess. But im in no rush.

sniperwolf · 06-10-2008, 12:46 PM

Not yet ready on having my own family but yes family life (living with your family) could be better than living alone!

emac · 06-10-2008, 02:04 PM

Family life. I love my wife and my 3 months old baby boy.

CaptainHowdy · 06-10-2008, 02:16 PM

Go with the flow, see where it leads you...

GTS Mark · 06-10-2008, 02:18 PM

The grass is always greener...

pornguy · 06-10-2008, 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rochard

This morning I woke up with a seven year old bundle of joy wrapped up in my arms. For the next hour we played in bed, tickled each other, and talked.

Nothing beats family life.

When mine gets up its grumpy, and wants to do what ever it was we stopped him from doing the night before right before bed. This morning, it was giving the dog a treat. His first words this am was "akasha bone" Akasha is the dogs name.

And he also told his first bedtime story the other night.

" Un Dia ( One day ) Dinasorus Rex walked on the rocks. And there were many troncos ( tree trunks ) atras ( behind ). "

The Un Dia part is because he speaks both english and spanish.

tical · 06-10-2008, 03:36 PM

i believe i would rather have the family life + pussy on the side

yea i'm scum... i'm going to hell

i'll see you all there though, in vip

Spunky · 06-10-2008, 05:09 PM

Single and happy..don't think I'll ever get married

BlueDude · 06-10-2008, 05:10 PM

I like single life. I can't stand woman nagging

Brother Bilo · 06-10-2008, 06:14 PM

I'm venturing into the more family style life right now, it's still new to me. My single life was great and I don't reqret most things I did, but I was ready for the change.

Being single is tiring.

Kudles · 06-10-2008, 07:20 PM

I am seriously torn between the two

06-10-2008, 09:29 AM	#1
wtfent Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: San Diego, Cali. baby!!! Posts: 3,790	Single Life or family Life. I really like the family life better than the single life. I fuckin party way too much since I have been divorced and I'm kinda getting burnt out. I have been dating all these girls but just can't find the right one. Pussy is no problem, I can always get that... its the blockbuster nights, family trips, bbqs, taking my daughter out, etc... that I really really miss. I take my daughter to do a lot of crap but I admit its not the same, i get kind of sad when i see other families having fun together sometimes. my main problem is all these girls I'm meeting don't have kids and whether its in my head or not I just see it as a burden to them. Any words of wisdom guys and gals? __________________ ThisWillShockYou.com DVD Store - TWSY UNCENSORED ICQ# 194020367 E-mail: shockingbucks(AT)gmail.com Promote something different!! Shocking Bucks

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Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,293	This morning I woke up with a seven year old bundle of joy wrapped up in my arms. For the next hour we played in bed, tickled each other, and talked. Nothing beats family life. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

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DaLord Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Denmark Posts: 3,318	Single life often seem better when you're living the family life, and the family life and often seem interesting when you live the single life. Plus, if you have to ask yourself those kind of questions you know she's not the one I prefer the family life. No matter how much money I've made in this business my better half has always been the same and kept my feet on the ground. Same goes when I manage to be a greedy asshole. Mike

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NikKay Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,642	I love my family life and need it to balance everything else. I'm raising 2 kids alone and have a really hard time dating because single people don't seem to value the joy in family life. So I just keep going it alone expecting to be able to balance it out someday.

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	the grass is always greener on the other side, be happy with what you have although you may not have the "typical" family life, some people cannot even have a child of their own, and that should be enough for you to be happy. everyone gets down and its hard to focus on the good things that surround us but im sure the majority of us are so insanely blessed yet we are all so blind to see it. i do my best to stay positive and find happiness in the things around me, and try to focus as little time as possible focusing on the what ifs. what ifs are out of your hand no point in depressing over them. Last edited by MetaMan; 06-10-2008 at 11:58 AM..

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SykkBoy Jesus loves bacon Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Sin City, Motherfucker Posts: 19,969	the family life I love things like getting out on the golf course with my son or watching my 3 year old beat me at a game on the Wii....I wouldn't change it for the world. Like you, I've been doing the dating thing and it's tough (especially with as many kids as I have ;-)). I either find someone who digs the kids, but not what I do for a living, or ones that have no issue with what I do for a living, but aren't really into kids (those types hit the curb pretty quickly). __________________ Support my new movie “The Second Coming”

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TubeTitans_SusieQ Confirmed User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Sunny Florida Posts: 3,884	I love the single life.....but i've always been the kind to do whatever I want even if I am in a relationship......the only thing that seperates me is my career......i've gone to many weddings lately and of course I eventually want a family.....but it kinda makes me feel like im missing out since im more focused on my career....but i want to be financially stable to be able to have that family one day....in the small town I live in, it just makes me feel like the odd one out i guess. But im in no rush. __________________ Make $40 on Every FREE Lifetime Registration ICQ: 370399852

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Kudles Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Here There and Everywhere Posts: 5,477	I am seriously torn between the two