How do you get more confident - GoFuckYourself.com

scottybuzz · 03-08-2008, 01:38 PM

Thread title says it all

Babaganoosh · 03-08-2008, 01:39 PM

Only people who have no reason to be confident lack confidence. That should tell you something, putz.

The Heron · 03-08-2008, 01:40 PM

If you have to ask you probably can't do it.
It's something you just have or you don't.

sicone · 03-08-2008, 01:40 PM

Tequila has been known to help, but too much is a bad thing

baddog · 03-08-2008, 01:41 PM

Iron Fist · 03-08-2008, 01:42 PM

Is this confidence in getting an erection when called upon or bragging that you have a Level 60 warlock in WOW?

tony286 · 03-08-2008, 01:44 PM

I think accomplishments and belief in ones self create confidence.

tranza · 03-08-2008, 01:44 PM

How drunk are you?

D · 03-08-2008, 01:46 PM

Live life honestly, and well... so that you're sure to look back on it with no regrets.

Accept that you're human, and actively learn from your mistakes.

Jet - BANNED FOR LIFE · 03-08-2008, 01:46 PM

grow balls.

FuqALot · 03-08-2008, 02:08 PM

1. stop thinking.
2. start doing.

Sly · 03-08-2008, 02:10 PM

It isn't something that can be taught. And it's different for everybody.

What makes me confident, does not make others confident.

Although the main focal point is different for everybody, the one key ingredient is belief.

GrouchyAdmin · 03-08-2008, 02:12 PM

Wow. How far back did that set you back, BD?

CurrentlySober · 03-08-2008, 02:13 PM

eat poo... lots of it...

Bojangles · 03-08-2008, 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

qxm · 03-08-2008, 02:15 PM

listen to David Di and his midget friend...........

GrouchyAdmin · 03-08-2008, 02:15 PM

Sorry, BD.

WarChild · 03-08-2008, 02:17 PM

Look up toastmasters.

A-LISTED · 03-08-2008, 02:18 PM

make your life more interesting, and work out every day (weights) - you will become more confident. guaranteed.

that and know what you want out of every situation - this will help you minimize the chances of inventing excuses for yourself, once you get over the first few fears of rejections you'll forget ever being afraid and wont care about rejection at all.

Fucksakes · 03-08-2008, 02:21 PM

buy new clothes, flash money, drink.. used to work for me.. confidence wise.. never worked picking up chick thou lol.

A-LISTED · 03-08-2008, 02:24 PM

by more interesting i mean do more varied things that are impressive/interesting/exciting to talk about... sailing, wall/rock climbing, scuba diving, co-ed volleyball, etc...

chicks love to hear about travel. this effect is amplified the trashier (i.e.: sluttier) they are.

Fucksakes · 03-08-2008, 02:24 PM

but now im 220 pounds dont care what i wear, have kids and a gf, roll up my jeans, just couldnt give a fuck what ppl think.. and i get more attention..

confidence and what works.. two different stories

Fucksakes · 03-08-2008, 02:25 PM

what age group are you trying to attract?

Twig · 03-08-2008, 02:25 PM

stop being a bitch and just BE more confident. "Hey, Im going to be confident today. No more bitching out."

Sly · 03-08-2008, 02:27 PM

By the way, confidence and impressing others are totally different things.

By having confidence, you will impress others. But by impressing others, you will not have confidence.

scottybuzz · 03-08-2008, 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Babaganoosh

Only people who have no reason to be confident lack confidence. That should tell you something, putz.

But I have a reason to be confident, yet I lack confidence

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Heron

If you have to ask you probably can't do it.
It's something you just have or you don't.

Thanks for telling me it straight fag

Quote:

Originally Posted by sicone

Tequila has been known to help, but too much is a bad thing

Alchohol doesnt help me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Baddog you are a true legend, even at 80 years old you are still a true ladies man

Quote:

Originally Posted by tony404

I think accomplishments and belief in ones self create confidence.

Thanks Tony404!

Quote:

Originally Posted by tranza

How drunk are you?

I am catching a flight to brazil for half a pound

Quote:

Originally Posted by D

Live life honestly, and well... so that you're sure to look back on it with no regrets.

Accept that you're human, and actively learn from your mistakes.

thanks but i dont know what to make of it

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet

grow balls.

Thanks Jet!

Quote:

Originally Posted by FuqALot

1. stop thinking.
2. start doing.

Legend amongst men

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

It isn't something that can be taught. And it's different for everybody.

What makes me confident, does not make others confident.

Although the main focal point is different for everybody, the one key ingredient is belief.

Quote:

Originally Posted by WarChild

Look up toastmasters.

I am not really interested in wine to be honest

Quote:

Originally Posted by A-LISTED

make your life more interesting, and work out every day (weights) - you will become more confident. guaranteed.

that and know what you want out of every situation - this will help you minimize the chances of inventing excuses for yourself, once you get over the first few fears of rejections you'll forget ever being afraid and wont care about rejection at all.

L-Pink · 03-08-2008, 05:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Fucking great!

stickyfingerz · 03-08-2008, 05:40 PM

Grow a large penis.

Pornwolf · 03-08-2008, 05:45 PM

I've heard that cocaine works. Each bump bumps up your confidence more and more.

If you want to kick it up a notch you can try crack.

That will give you enough confidence to believe you can fly out of the window like Omar on the Wire.

CDSmith · 03-08-2008, 05:48 PM

Only one way I know of to gain confidence.

Face your fear.

$5 submissions · 03-08-2008, 05:55 PM

It's learned. The best way to learn is to put yourself in situations where you'll be forced to be confident.

webmasterchecks · 03-08-2008, 06:04 PM

think of the person you admire most and figure out why you admire them. then figure out how to attain those qualities. if its knowlege, them figure out how to learn, if its strengh or build, then hit the gym, if its looks, then get plastic surgery. take the best qualities from the best people. if you really want to, you can learn how to talk, be social, witty, etc. the confidence will come with that

good luck, and so you know, my idol was james bond (sean connery) and hell, even if you get 20% there, you are way ahead of the game ;-)

baddog · 03-08-2008, 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GrouchyAdmin

Wow. How far back did that set you back, BD?

Not a cent. Chicks dig self-confidence.

xroach · 03-08-2008, 08:09 PM

for american's ? plastic surgery

Shameless · 03-08-2008, 11:28 PM

I heard alot of money helps. I don't know about that but a sick moustache always works.

It's not Westside, It's Whores!!!

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-08-2008, 11:30 PM

drink a fuckload of tequila and bust a bunch of rails...

axcel23 · 03-08-2008, 11:56 PM

sexy muscle

LA Crew · 03-09-2008, 12:02 AM

lover your ego and your confidence will go up

LiveDose · 03-09-2008, 12:06 AM

Stuff a couple of socks in the front of your manties and you're good to go.

rvincent · 03-09-2008, 04:26 AM

Plenty of good advises here: http://www.stevepavlina.com/
(about being more confident business-wise at least)

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sicone Retired Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Sac Posts: 18,453	Tequila has been known to help, but too much is a bad thing __________________

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tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	I think accomplishments and belief in ones self create confidence.

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Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,328	It isn't something that can be taught. And it's different for everybody. What makes me confident, does not make others confident. Although the main focal point is different for everybody, the one key ingredient is belief. __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.

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Fucksakes Shit... Fuck! What the Hell? Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 7,567	buy new clothes, flash money, drink.. used to work for me.. confidence wise.. never worked picking up chick thou lol.

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A-LISTED Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 46	by more interesting i mean do more varied things that are impressive/interesting/exciting to talk about... sailing, wall/rock climbing, scuba diving, co-ed volleyball, etc... chicks love to hear about travel. this effect is amplified the trashier (i.e.: sluttier) they are. __________________ OMGzorz!!11111eleven11111111111oneoneoeneoneoneeeo en :upidedow

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Fucksakes Shit... Fuck! What the Hell? Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 7,567	what age group are you trying to attract?

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Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,328	By the way, confidence and impressing others are totally different things. By having confidence, you will impress others. But by impressing others, you will not have confidence. __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.

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