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Deb 10-01-2002 12:24 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
I have a nasty mouth and at points a nasty attitude so I tend to get along better with the guys than I do the girls
Nah, you with a nasty attitude?!?! Say it ain't true, gf! :1orglaugh

'Tis ok though, I love ya anyway, ya rude bitch! :thumbsup

Tam 10-01-2002 01:13 PM

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Originally posted by Deb


Nah, you with a nasty attitude?!?! Say it ain't true, gf! :1orglaugh

'Tis ok though, I love ya anyway, ya rude bitch! :thumbsup

oh wowwwwwwwww!! I admitted that didn't I? Sheesh!!!!!!! What the hell was I thinking? YIKES!!! I am losing my grip!!

I love ya too girl, thanks for setting me straight on that, God, I can't believe I admitted that in public. I try sooo hard to be nice and sweet. rotfl

SykkBoy 10-01-2002 01:19 PM

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Originally posted by sumphatpimp
As a webmaster of any experience you should be totally bored by looking at another nude body.

The line ......."show your tits" is very imature, and proves you are not a webmaster but a child playing "dirty stuff". When you get you first "piece" let us know, we will make it a national holiday.

"You don't give it away, you sell it."

What a bunch of pud wackers.

The female webmasters done a good job of deending themselves.

Good for you girls !!

As far as I am concered GFY !!!!!!

Oh get over yourself...acting like the proverbial white knight isn't going to put the webmistresses on your side and get you laid....

I think the appeal of webmistress nudity is it's nudity you're "not supposed to see". It's like when an actress you've seen in a lot of movies finally does that first nude scene...or that lady flirting naked on the webcam at anywebcams.com is your neighbor down thwe street...it's that nature of the forbidden....same thing that drives the voyeur niche...seeing something you're not really meant to see......

Is there a level of immaturity to the "show your tits" posts? Sure, but isn't that what GFY is all about? I've defended it many times as a place where we can hang out and be smartasses, let off a little steam and get over our pretentions and let loose.....

Rocky 10-01-2002 01:28 PM

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Originally posted by Deb


I can relate to that feeling of being pulled in a million directions. There's so much shit on my plate that it's overflowing. lol

The best advice I can offer you is to just put one foot in front of the other and take baby steps in regards to anything that you need to do. The balance will eventually come, hon. Just don't jump into anything or make any rash decisions and you'll be just fine. :)

Things with me are the same...insane, but good. I've never been one to complain. I just roll with the punches and keep on groovin'. :thumbsup


thanks Professor Deb
*smooch*

i know i can rely on the advice of a rocket scientist
:Graucho


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Originally posted by Tam

I am a woman who has been in the porn industry for 3 years and I can't even think of ONE man who has come at me and treated me like I have no brains because I am a woman, if I do dumb shit then I do dumb shit, because I am human, not because I am a woman.

i've always been stalking you for your brains Tam

the fact that you also have big tits is just an additional bonus
:winkwink:

SykkBoy 10-01-2002 01:30 PM

for the record, sometimes I mean to type "Shave Your Pits" and make seriously bad typos.....

Rocky 10-01-2002 01:35 PM

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Originally posted by SykkBoy2
for the record, sometimes I mean to type "Shave Your Pits" and make seriously bad typos.....
:1orglaugh

Tam 10-01-2002 01:44 PM

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Originally posted by Rocky


i've always been stalking you for your brains Tam

the fact that you also have big tits is just an additional bonus
:winkwink:

Well I knew that silly......... you have always told me that you love me for my mind..... don't you remember that night I caught you outside my window? That's the first thing you said......... "I wanted to get a closer look at your mind, please put your clothes back on"

Sheesh!!

Wenchy 10-01-2002 01:46 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
Lens has a point and actually made me feel bad about myself.

I won't be asking anyone to show me their tits again unless I KNOW that they have previously posted pics of them on the web.

I don't see the harm in asking a pornstar or cam girl to show their tits, but I agree that women who don't consider themselves as CONTENT shouldn't be disrespected like that.

To those women that I have asked on GFY to show their Boobies - I offer a REAL apology and I assure you it won't happen again from me on this board (the only real board I ever spend any time on).

I have to throw my :2 cents: in here.

I've been in this biz for four years. In that four years I have come to accept the following:

1. It's primarily about women and run by men.
2. All men want to look at naked women.
3. If I, as a female, am going to survive in this biz, I have to develop a thick skin and always keep in mind that it's the testosterone that makes them act the way they do.

Sure, there are circumstances under which I would be horribly angry and insulted if someone were to suggest I "show my tits". However, I acknowledge that *I* don't have to deal with those people if I don't choose to.

Don't get me wrong. I totally agree with the other webmistresses here as far as arguments about women having to fight harder to get whatever respect they earn in all areas of business. I despise the helpless, brainless approach that so many women use to manipulate men... makes things 10 times harder for those of us who do it the honest way, with hard work, brains, and determination.

I'm in this business because I love it, because it enables me to be a full-time mom and home school my son, and because I'm just not a rat-race kind of person. The people that I work for in this industry are my friends and I have their respect and appreciation... and I've had to work hard to get it, which is something I am very proud of. Never once was I asked to show my tits or spread 'em for the boss... because he's a class act and hired me because I'm good at what I do, NOT because I'm a member of the opposing gender.

I too was asked to "show my tits" when I first started posting here, but I laughed it off as a joke (it's in the FAQ, for the love of Pete!) and moved on, figuring it was some initiation rite that females had to go through. I won't show my tits not because I'm unhappy with them or not because I'm shy; I won't show my tits because I'm doing business here, not participating in a strip show. However, my skin is thick enough that I didn't let it get to me and won't stop posting here because of it. Kinda goes along with the territory as far as I'm concerned. I simply ignored those posts, although I did acknowledge a couple that inquired about my gender because that seemed appropriate and reasonable to me. No harm, no foul guys... or girls!

SleazyDream, your apology was very sweet and thoughtful. I, for one, took no offense and feel that an apology wasn't necessary. But, since you took the initiative to put it out there, I will accept it graciously and say Thank You. You're a pretty class act yourself :)

Rocky 10-01-2002 01:48 PM

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Originally posted by Tam


Well I knew that silly......... you have always told me that you love me for my mind..... don't you remember that night I caught you outside my window? That's the first thing you said......... "I wanted to get a closer look at your mind, please put your clothes back on"

Sheesh!!

hehehe

i remember that encounter and conversation too

and if you recall, i never once averted my eyes from yours

talking to the breasts is so yesterday
:)

Honeyslut 10-01-2002 01:59 PM

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Originally posted by steffie
Common problem on this board

If you are a female webmaster and content like me they don't take you serious!

Trust me,, I have been to many many webmaster conventions. Between 96-99 I didn' t even appear on any of my websites. When we went to Shows guys always only talked to my husband. He kept saying "You need to talk to Steffie"

In 1999 I decided to post my boobs on the internet and do what I like doing best "Having sex in public"

Male Webmasters still to this day talk to my husband and think I am just a dumb blonde who doesn't know shit and only like to suck dick.

Face it lady webmasters, men in this business WILL NEVER take us serious as webmistresses, it doesn't matter how many sites, how much money and how bright we are. EXPECIALLY if you also content somewhere on the net.

Why don't we form a Webmistress Alliance and do like some Male Alliances do!!

Now show me your DICKS ,,, so I can give some deragotory (sp?) comment about size, shape and length. And photoshop a hat or a goat over it!

Just for GP
My sister has a company (Not Adult related). She is all brain and a looker. When they go to Conventions in her field everybody talks to her husband. She got so frustrated last month when they flew to the USA (she is in Germany) that she actually nixed a deal with a company because they wouldn't give her the time of day and constantly talked to her husband. Who has nothing to do with her company.

It's not only in this industry that women are not taking seriously, its in ALL business.

I set-up a forum a month ago for webmistresses.

See sig..

cafeaulait 10-01-2002 02:05 PM

Why do women have to write such long posts???!!?!
I'm fucking exhausted after reading all that......

G

Tam 10-01-2002 02:07 PM

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Originally posted by Wenchy


I have to throw my :2 cents: in here.

I've been in this biz for four years. In that four years I have come to accept the following:

1. It's primarily about women and run by men.
2. All men want to look at naked women.
3. If I, as a female, am going to survive in this biz, I have to develop a thick skin and always keep in mind that it's the testosterone that makes them act the way they do.

Sure, there are circumstances under which I would be horribly angry and insulted if someone were to suggest I "show my tits". However, I acknowledge that *I* don't have to deal with those people if I don't choose to.

Don't get me wrong. I totally agree with the other webmistresses here as far as arguments about women having to fight harder to get whatever respect they earn in all areas of business. I despise the helpless, brainless approach that so many women use to manipulate men... makes things 10 times harder for those of us who do it the honest way, with hard work, brains, and determination.

I'm in this business because I love it, because it enables me to be a full-time mom and home school my son, and because I'm just not a rat-race kind of person. The people that I work for in this industry are my friends and I have their respect and appreciation... and I've had to work hard to get it, which is something I am very proud of. Never once was I asked to show my tits or spread 'em for the boss... because he's a class act and hired me because I'm good at what I do, NOT because I'm a member of the opposing gender.

I too was asked to "show my tits" when I first started posting here, but I laughed it off as a joke (it's in the FAQ, for the love of Pete!) and moved on, figuring it was some initiation rite that females had to go through. I won't show my tits not because I'm unhappy with them or not because I'm shy; I won't show my tits because I'm doing business here, not participating in a strip show. However, my skin is thick enough that I didn't let it get to me and won't stop posting here because of it. Kinda goes along with the territory as far as I'm concerned. I simply ignored those posts, although I did acknowledge a couple that inquired about my gender because that seemed appropriate and reasonable to me. No harm, no foul guys... or girls!

SleazyDream, your apology was very sweet and thoughtful. I, for one, took no offense and feel that an apology wasn't necessary. But, since you took the initiative to put it out there, I will accept it graciously and say Thank You. You're a pretty class act yourself :)

Perfectly said.......... and I couldn't agree more. :thumbsup

Also, to Sleazy... you have asked to see mine, but I took no offense by it and no apology is needed..... you have a right to ask and I have a right to say no if I choose to........ but I agree with Wenchy, you were standup enough to say you were sorry and I believe you sincerely mean it......... :winkwink:

gothweb 10-01-2002 02:46 PM

I thought I would remind everyone of a couple of impotant facts...

1. Men, for the most part, *always* want to see tits.

2. Most of the "women" on this board aren't.

cherrylula 10-01-2002 03:29 PM

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Originally posted by NiteChatDotTV
kinda funny about the whole dick showing thing..

At nina's party in nyc on friday night, after hours of girls getting it on with eachother and all the guys wanting to see tits and ass, Nina yelled out "now you guys pull out your dicks" -- the room fell kinda silent, and then one brave dude pulled his wanker out.. everyone laughed, but then some brave pornstar girl went up to him and sucked him off, or tried to (he couldnt stay erect with all the cameras and people around him, but at least he tried). So does this mean if we whip our cocks out they will be getting sucked? cause if thats the case, ill be whipping it out every chance i get!

hahaha go get 'em Nina! That is priceless. I can't wait to see what happens next year.:Graucho

SleazyDream 10-01-2002 03:33 PM

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Originally posted by Wenchy


SleazyDream, your apology was very sweet and thoughtful. I, for one, took no offense and feel that an apology wasn't necessary. But, since you took the initiative to put it out there, I will accept it graciously and say Thank You. You're a pretty class act yourself :)


That isn't to say I'm not going to be wondering to myself what your tits do look like...........

Sly_RJ 10-01-2002 03:45 PM

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Originally posted by Honeyslut

I left a very well known RESPECTABLE adult board because all that one of the employees was trying to do was " met me and fuck me " crap. He was being paid to help people learn the business.. He was nothing but negative on icq which was a far cry to how he acts at that board. Another girl that told me that he had actually stalked her left for awhile and came back. She is now kissing his ass.. I was warned by another well known person who is now an employee of that board to shut up before I am sued for libel.. Funny thing was I never said the guy's name on that board when I complained and the truth is not libel.. LOL

Hehe... I've seen you post about this quite a few times. I know the people you're referring to. Would love to hear that story, sounds interesting. :Graucho

theking 10-01-2002 03:48 PM

I have never asked anyone to show their tits. One set of tits is pretty much the same as another set of tits, so what is the big/little deal.:winkwink:

DrewKole 10-01-2002 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by theking
I have never asked anyone to show their tits. One set of tits is pretty much the same as another set of tits, so what is the big/little deal.:winkwink:
:ak47:

Tipsy 10-01-2002 04:15 PM

Tam and CD :thumbsup Good posts.

To be honest I tend to agree with Lensman on the show us your tits thing. I did get even more obscene when a new girl appeared recently but purely because I know her and knew she'd take it as me being the silly twat I usually am - I have no real desire to see anymore tits/ass/pussy as I get to see enough as it is. However, it's easy enough to join the herd when posting the 'show us your tits' thing without sitting back and realising that some (many?) women may be offended by it. This business does corrupt just a little ;)

Other than that both Tam and CD summed it up in two excellent posts. I know far too many women who are far more successful and intelligent than a lot of men to ever assume any are dumb bimbos no matter where I meet them. Whereas I don't for a minute doubt people do make the assumptions it is in no way true that this applies to every male out there.

Lensman 10-01-2002 04:28 PM

I have an idea

Lensman 10-01-2002 04:28 PM

This is not to say that women should not personally let me review their tits in a private situation. I assure you that it would be strictly for professional purposes of course.

gothweb 10-01-2002 04:31 PM

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Originally posted by Lensman
I have an idea
uh-oh...

theking 10-01-2002 04:33 PM

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Originally posted by Lensman
This is not to say that women should not personally let me review their tits in a private situation. I assure you that it would be strictly for professional purposes of course.
That is a given.:winkwink:

CDSmith 10-01-2002 04:36 PM

Sykkboy is right completely. I can review hundreds of galleries, then go hunt for content to use to promote, then put up a few new models portfolios, then do a shoot with two new models, all without batting much of an eye,
BUT THEN
come on the board and get a thrill from seeing the boobies of one of my fellow websiters of the female persuasion.

Prime example is the "Britanny nipple-slip" video. I mean really, this ad banner was ALL OVER the net on 1000's of celeb sites, and what was the hype about?.... that's right people, it was about a 3 second peak at the small nipular area of a lone blonde pop singer.

BIG FUGGIN DEAL.

But to men the world over, it is a big deal. It's the same principle with webmasters wanting a little boobie action. I admit that a few guys go a bit overboard and get aggressive about it, but there's a reason for that too.... we are spoiled. A few women DID post their boobs here, so some guys expect that from all the new ladies.

I think it's done with the "all in good fun" spirit in mind though. Most guys *jokingly* ask to see the boobs, and if they don't get to see the boobs they say "oh well" and move on. I know I do.

theking 10-01-2002 04:39 PM

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Originally posted by CDSmith
Sykkboy is right completely. I can review hundreds of galleries, then go hunt for content to use to promote, then put up a few new models portfolios, then do a shoot with two new models, all without batting much of an eye,
BUT THEN
come on the board and get a thrill from seeing the boobies of one of my fellow websiters of the female persuasion.

Prime example is the "Britanny nipple-slip" video. I mean really, this ad banner was ALL OVER the net on 1000's of celeb sites, and what was the hype about?.... that's right people, it was about a 3 second peak at the small nipular area of a lone blonde pop singer.

BIG FUGGIN DEAL.

But to men the world over, it is a big deal. It's the same principle with webmasters wanting a little boobie action. I admit that a few guys go a bit overboard and get aggressive about it, but there's a reason for that too.... we are spoiled. A few women DID post their boobs here, so some guys expect that from all the new ladies.

I think it's done with the "all in good fun" spirit in mind though. Most guys *jokingly* ask to see the boobs, and if they don't get to see the boobs they say "oh well" and move on. I know I do.

You may move on but I suspect you pout.:1orglaugh

phogirl69 10-01-2002 04:42 PM

:BangBang: men..... hmmmphhh :BangBang:

Sly_RJ 10-01-2002 06:24 PM

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Originally posted by phogirl69
:BangBang: men..... hmmmphhh :BangBang:
Feminist or lesbian, which is it?

cherrylula 10-01-2002 06:36 PM

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Originally posted by Lensman
This is not to say that women should not personally let me review their tits in a private situation. I assure you that it would be strictly for professional purposes of course.
mmmm baby do I qualify?

<img src=http://www.69khz.com/images/tastytits.jpg>

Stealthy 10-01-2002 07:14 PM

FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS PURE AND RIGHT, PUT THOSE THINGS AWAY!!!

Lensman 10-01-2002 07:25 PM

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Originally posted by cherrylula


mmmm baby do I qualify?

<img src=http://www.69khz.com/images/tastytits.jpg>

We need you on http://jugs01.adultpoints.com/enter.html?id=757112

SleazyDream 10-01-2002 07:25 PM

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Originally posted by Lensman
This is not to say that women should not personally let me review their tits in a private situation. I assure you that it would be strictly for professional purposes of course.
of course

Tam 10-01-2002 07:35 PM

God, I think my tits are all over this board somewhere........ some have names on them and some don't........ LMAO

Deb 10-01-2002 07:41 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
God, I think my tits are all over this board somewhere........ some have names on them and some don't........ LMAO
And that's what we love about you GF, you're always there in support of the cause. hehehee

Wenchy 10-01-2002 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by Lensman
This is not to say that women should not personally let me review their tits in a private situation. I assure you that it would be strictly for professional purposes of course.
Sure Lens... let me know, and I'll pencil you into my hella busy schedule in Vegas come January... for strictly professional purposes only, of course :evil-laug

Of course, there IS one little catch... I'll only show you mine if you show me yours! :Graucho

Tam 10-01-2002 08:26 PM

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Originally posted by Wenchy


Sure Lens... let me know, and I'll pencil you into my hella busy schedule in Vegas come January... for strictly professional purposes only, of course :evil-laug

Of course, there IS one little catch... I'll only show you mine if you show me yours! :Graucho

You GO girl.......... that's the way to do it........ :)

Deb...... well a girl's gotta stand up and support her fellow girlfriends now don't she? :winkwink:

Fletch XXX 10-01-2002 08:27 PM

Man I'm glad those arent really what I get... holly shat.

steffie 10-01-2002 08:33 PM

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Originally posted by Wenchy


Sure Lens... let me know, and I'll pencil you into my hella busy schedule in Vegas come January... for strictly professional purposes only, of course :evil-laug

Of course, there IS one little catch... I'll only show you mine if you show me yours! :Graucho


Hey Wenchy, can I come too? I wanna see toooooo!!

:1orglaugh

Socks 10-01-2002 08:41 PM

Couple things. First, I would never ask a woman to show me her breasts as a matter of business. That seems to be a downward slide, it may be fun, but it's not taking you any higher.

Secondly, I think it's funny how all the women here talk about guys the way they do, yet they all seemed to end up in the "show us your boobs topic" rather quickly, in great droves.

Easton 10-01-2002 08:46 PM

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Originally posted by cherrylula


mmmm baby do I qualify?

<img src=http://www.69khz.com/images/tastytits.jpg>

WTF are those? *puke*


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