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spy on them, watch them having sex... then it will go from visualizing to watching :)
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Meeting someone new always makes the past history even more distant.
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Thanks for the comments.
Most of the things I already know and do, except for the therapist, hookers and other women ;) My kid is with me 4 out of 7 days, so that's cool. He loves me a lot as I always took care of him being a self employed, working from home dad. Whenever there's an issue, he comes to me. I do need to work on the "talk about us when I am there on on the phone" thing, I can't stop bringing it up, haha. |
You are seriously fucked in the head, when i see an ex with someone else it makes me feel even better because then i see that if they have moved on it is obviously also time for me to move on.
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Jerk off until you lose your sex drive, bet you won't think about her then!
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shit just move on...
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get a therapist
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www.lexapro.com and im not joking either. You may have an anxiety disorder you've never been diagnosed with if its THAT HARD for you. I been there, I lost my mom and found out my wife (ex wife now) cheated on me in a 1 month period. |
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and all you guys shitting on this guy are disgusting.
Someone opens up their feelings because they need help. And you do your best to put them into a further depression. You should be fucking ashamed of yourselves. |
You need to hit some new pink tacos. At least 5. Then you won't have visions of her getting railed anymore. You're not with her anymore. There's a reason and that's because you're better than her, and you'll find someone that will suit your needs better. Just go out, enjoy life and have some fun.
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go fuck someone else and u will be over it
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Are you over it yet?
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Now, when you say you are not ready to "move on" does that really mean that each girl you've tried to ask out since your breakup has turned you down?
Think of the positives, like, at least you aren't visualizing the new boyfriend and YOU having sex. Seriously, it just takes time. There will be a day where you might even be happy for her that she is with another guy (if you think the guy is genuinely good for her). Hang on! As someone once said, "Love stinks!" |
Have you tried...
penis enlargement - weightloss - skin care - sperm volume - medically approved penis extender ?? If so, you should e-mail yourself. |
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Mental pictures are a bitch! I feel for you. The best thing to do is to stay busy, hang out with your friends, and just try to keep your mind of it. be strong yo!
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...you could also watch Dr Phill if nothing else works......:winkwink:
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I would take up a new hobby or sports activity so it keeps you occupied and not always in the house thinking about your ex. Also gets you out with other people so you can talk and get your mind freed up.
Sucks man, I have been there (so have many others). You will get over it in time :) DH |
new hobby should work... or try playing games you never experienced
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sometimes i wish real life has an undo button
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I bookmarked this thread, I will post in it when I am truly done. |
find hope in the fact that many people have been through the exact same thing and still found even better days ahead....
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there is a ton of half-assed advice posts in this thread but a couple good ones... but maybe thats cause there isn't a whole lot you can do about it in the first place... Nonetheless...
Mainly, realize the fact that millions of people have felt and are dealing with the same thing you are and eventually 99.9% of them get over it, you know why? Time. Fact is, you will get over it... one year later? two, three? you can't force it just roll with it. also understand that it's not your fault that she has to be with someone all the time, thats her own problem and there's not much you can do to change that. i would also advise hitting the gym up in some of your free time. nothing like making yourself feel good the ol fashion way--- by getting healthier and looking better than ever. its pretty clear you're not really looking for another relationship at this point (from what i can tell) so i would say fucking some random chick isn't going to do much either. yeah its 10 minutes of fun for ya (or 3 hours of pleasure town if you're like me) but you're not gonna be satisfied just yet cause it's not with the girl you REALLY want to be with. keep going out with your friends but dont go looking for love, chances are it will find you. don't fall into the drugs and drinking bullshit constantly to make the pain go away. man up, do what you gotta do to press on and you'll be back on your feet in no time. i wish you and the kid all the luck! |
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As for your issue - like everyone else said - keep yourself busy. Try to get out in public more with people that are interesting. No need to hook up rightaway if you don't want to. Make sure you're always in good company - it will distract you and it will keep the thoughts to a minimum. Also - you are not an idiot, you are human. Anyone who's been hurt goes through similar issues. Trust me on that one. |
Well, love is like god, a big fraud, the sooner u realize it, the better for you.
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Strip clubs.. and if that isn't working, find better clubs with hotter chicks.
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Dude, you have the ultimate chick magnet.. a baby. It's time to move on.. who wants a girl whom they cant trust or will drop you when she is bored.. she is the loser.
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man, seems your ego is greatly affected and thinking that your ex has someone already kills you... May I ask, did you love her? If not.. it's only your ego man:(
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Fuck!! Some of you guys are so cruel... Hahahahahahaha....
Naughty: I feel for you, but don't sweat it. DON'T go bang a hooker. You'll regret it. Drown yourself in work for a while. You'll get more business, especially when you start promoting LiveCamNetwork.com. In fact, you should really start promoting this girl, Pixie. http://www.livecamnetwork.com/bbs-pictures/pixie/b.jpg Look how cute she is! See? Aren't you starting to forget your girlfriend already? She converts about 1:80, and average spending with her is $60.00 a pop, 8 times a month! Anyway, seriously, just drown yourself in work, and you'll forget ol' whatshername after a while. Time heals. Go Absence makes the heart go yonder. etc, etc. Good luck! |
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excellent advice book :1orglaugh:1orglaugh |
Great posts (almost) everybody. Obviously my ego is affected, I do love her, but i did complain a lot before all this too. So, time to focus on different things for sure.
On a sidenote: Today she said she regretted 'moving' on so fast and letting me go. Knowing her, that'd be some other story tonight, so ... I don't take it too seriously. |
that was a nice start naughty. forget her and move on.. i know these are simple words to say and hard to do. you can make it man! :thumbsup
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the only real cure is just time.
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Don't be weak and deal with it like a man...i hate when man is crying over girl.....it's just so weak for me,sorry
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hoe into housewife....doesn't work.
You knew what she was about when yo meet her, now suck it up and be a man |
work work work
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I know the feeling, it's gonna take you 1 or 2 years to get rid of it
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