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Old 11-20-2007, 01:11 AM   #1
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Another friend dead.

Heh I am only 21 years old and already I have seen so many of the friends I have grown up with die. What is the world coming to? It is so hard and fucked up to see all this people you care about fade away.

Somethings just need to change.

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Old 11-20-2007, 01:16 AM   #2
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:18 AM   #3
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:19 AM   #4
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Sorry about the loss . . . but what do you mean things need to change?
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:21 AM   #5
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Sorry about the loss . . . but what do you mean things need to change?
I know I am young and I have a lot to learn but it just seems like everything is going in the wrong direction. To me it just seems that so many people are dieing that do not need to die, most gamble with life and I am not so much blaming society i just do not get it. maybe i will someday
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:23 AM   #6
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Do you live in?

- Detroit, MI?

- Newark, NJ?

- St Louis, MO?

Please tell us where you live so we can stay away from your world. It could save lives.
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:24 AM   #7
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I know I am young and I have a lot to learn but it just seems like everything is going in the wrong direction. To me it just seems that so many people are dieing that do not need to die, most gamble with life and I am not so much blaming society i just do not get it. maybe i will someday
Cancer is going to hit more and more of your friends due to lousy eating habits, pollution, etc.

Shit happens, and so do accidents. Not much you can do about that.

Stop hanging with people that do drugs and you won't have friends dying from drugs.
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:25 AM   #8
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Stop hanging with people that do drugs and you won't have friends dying from drugs.
The thing is you cannot always choose who you care about and you do not. Most people you know, most people you care about you know them before they fall into drugs.

i hear you though. death is just a part of life
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:31 AM   #9
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:32 AM   #10
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I'm sorry to hear that dude.

All my real "friends" I grew up with ... are dead. if that makes you feel better ...

You're 21. Start thinking about LIVING and how you can do it better !!!

we are all going to go sooner or later. make the best of things and don't dwell on your friends. I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:34 AM   #11
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I'm sorry to hear that dude.

All my real "friends" I grew up with ... are dead. if that makes you feel better ...

You're 21. Start thinking about LIVING and how you can do it better !!!

we are all going to go sooner or later. make the best of things and don't dwell on your friends. I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:35 AM   #12
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You're not experiencing anything a lot of other people haven't. When I was your age there were several friends of mine and schoolmates that had died already.

One guy, Dennis, had only one lung. I went to school with this guy all through Jr high, and in our first year of high school his one remaining lung collapsed and just like that he was gone. One of the funniest fuckers I've ever known to this day.

Another girl from Jr high I hung around with and thought a lot of, and in my 2nd year of high school she was killed in a car accident.

My cousin's boyfriend died around that same time in a car wreck on the highway. Another friend of time also died in a car wreck on the highway 3 years after I graduated.

I could go on and on, but I'd rather not. Some painful memories, but you get the idea.

You're not alone, and your situation isn't different than what anyone else is going through or has gone through.
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:35 AM   #13
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Condoleances and sympathy.

http://www.findagrave.com/

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Old 11-20-2007, 01:42 AM   #14
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The guy that lives in the house across from me. His entire family died in a mudslide in La Conchita. Wife and kids gone. He's doing well and manages to maintain good spirits always. Cheer up butter cup
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Old 11-20-2007, 01:43 AM   #15
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read what is going on... suicide, car accidents, drug overdoses, and murder...

its really sad to see all the people that die for stupid, preventable reasons...
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Old 11-20-2007, 02:18 AM   #16
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Heh I am only 21 years old and already I have seen so many of the friends I have grown up with die. What is the world coming to? It is so hard and fucked up to see all this people you care about fade away.

Somethings just need to change.

-sorry about the rant
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Old 11-20-2007, 02:19 AM   #17
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Old 11-20-2007, 02:30 AM   #18
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I know I am young and I have a lot to learn but it just seems like everything is going in the wrong direction. To me it just seems that so many people are dieing that do not need to die, most gamble with life and I am not so much blaming society i just do not get it. maybe i will someday
time to change YOUR direction. it's good to know you see you're headed the wrong way. most dont.
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Old 11-20-2007, 04:48 AM   #19
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- Newark, NJ?

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Please tell us where you live so we can stay away from your world. It could save lives.
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Old 11-20-2007, 07:52 PM   #20
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Sorry to hear that but hey, your world did not stopped did it? I've seen worse too but I always believe that things will also be better. It always is, maybe it's time to change pathways.
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Old 11-20-2007, 07:53 PM   #21
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Heh I am only 21 years old and already I have seen so many of the friends I have grown up with die. What is the world coming to? It is so hard and fucked up to see all this people you care about fade away.

Somethings just need to change.

-sorry about the rant
sorry for your loss
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Very sorry to hear this.

Tragic, to see life ended, ever, but epsecially when it is a young life.
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Old 11-20-2007, 07:58 PM   #24
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Sucks man. A real good friend of mine was two days from graduation, when he decided to get drunk for the first time, and wrapped his car around a telephone pole.

This is my platform for making telephone poles illegal. People are softer. ;)
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i know what you mean, i've had 10 friends die in the last 8 years...
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Just because they don't want to work with Trey anymore - it doesn't mean that they're dead to the world, man.
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Heh I am only 21 years old and already I have seen so many of the friends I have grown up with die. What is the world coming to? It is so hard and fucked up to see all this people you care about fade away.

Somethings just need to change.

-sorry about the rant
Sorry man, pretty sad at such an early age. I know as you get older you start seeing deaths here and there, but you are starting out early. Hang in there and make sure to enjoy life to the fullest. I'm sure it's making you a stronger person.
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Just because they don't want to work with Trey anymore - it doesn't mean that they're dead to the world, man.
haha, i wish that was true, but sadly they are as dead as you can get...
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Heh I am only 21 years old and already I have seen so many of the friends I have grown up with die. What is the world coming to? It is so hard and fucked up to see all this people you care about fade away.

Somethings just need to change.

-sorry about the rant
I'm 52 and when I was 14 to early twenties my friends were dropping like flies. drug over doses, murders, traffic accidents etc. so what I'm saying here is I don't see you in any special position. that's the way life is sometimes. I would say change your circle of friends because you might be next . are you in a high risk circle of people? it could happen. -bmb
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Cancer is going to hit more and more of your friends due to lousy eating habits, pollution, etc.

Shit happens, and so do accidents. Not much you can do about that.

Stop hanging with people that do drugs and you won't have friends dying from drugs.
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Cancer is going to hit more and more of your friends due to lousy eating habits, pollution, etc.

Shit happens, and so do accidents. Not much you can do about that.

Stop hanging with people that do drugs and you won't have friends dying from drugs.
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Old 11-21-2007, 03:32 PM   #36
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I feel your frustration...

I am 24 and the last couple of years I have also had to say goodbye to some friends my own age.
Motorcycle crash, Car crash and "of course" cancer.

don't get cought up in it, remind yourself it's important to live and have fun and not just work and gfy hehe ;)

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