Originally posted by RogerV Why are relationships so fuckin hard
how many times have you had your heart broken?
And what was the reason. Cheating?
Ahh relationships, I could talk for hours about this. I absolutely have feared them since about 2 years ago, but I'd rather not sob about it here. Heart broken, a couple times, once it was cheating with one of my friends (I punched him right in the face in a club for it), once its because she wanted to get back with her X and the other times I guess it just didn't work out, she lost interest in me. I've never actually dumped a girl, I've always been the recipient. And since about 2 years ago I was absolutely humialated on Valentine's Day in front of an entire restaurant that I have more or less feared relationships since then. It's odd because I would prefer a relationship versus a one night stand but at the same time I fear them...
So what are some other stories out there? Could use something to cheer myself up...
How long were you two together Roger? What was her reason for moving out?
In high School i ment the girl of my dreams. Everyhting was perfect, i love her so much, i evem thought i could marry her some day. She even thought the same thing.
When i first went to college, the frist week, she broke up with me and broke my heart. I couldnt believe it. A few weeks later, when i talked to her for the frist time she said something like "i love you and your the perfect guy for me and i dont see my self marrying anyone else but you"
Which broke my hear even more because she didnt want to be with me, she wanted to be a party slut and do anything she wants.
I still dont know where i stand with her, although i do kind of like her roomate!! hehe
Originally posted by Derek L I have a story for you all...
In high School i ment the girl of my dreams. Everyhting was perfect, i love her so much, i evem thought i could marry her some day. She even thought the same thing.
When i first went to college, the frist week, she broke up with me and broke my heart. I couldnt believe it. A few weeks later, when i talked to her for the frist time she said something like "i love you and your the perfect guy for me and i dont see my self marrying anyone else but you"
Which broke my hear even more because she didnt want to be with me, she wanted to be a party slut and do anything she wants.
I still dont know where i stand with her, although i do kind of like her roomate!! hehe
They always seem to be like that at that age... and they should be. Subvert it and it pops up unexpectedly
Originally posted by Kimmykim relationships are what you make of them, no more, no less, doesn't matter if its boys and girls, parents and children, attorney and client.
The sooner you learn that the better you will be at relationships.
That's good advise KimmyKim. I guess my problem is that I've been hanging on to that problem I had 2 years ago and never really getting over what happened. I know its unfair, but I have really gotten tired of being screwed over (and not in a good way) by women. I just don't like the idea of being used until the next better guy comes along. Since then I've just never really been trusting enough to let a girl get close to me...
love, relationships, and marriage is all propaganda you've been fed since you were little.
more likely then not people with experience will love the person that gives them the greatest orgasm, and people with little experience will cheat because someone makes them wonder if there getting the greatest orgasm.
Hurt a thousand times.....until I met my match.
Someone who could lead when I needed to follow and follow when I needed to lead. Very supportive, very loving, very crazy, and once all is done, we giggle ourselves to sleep. Considering I refused to date anyone less than 5 years older than me, this relationship was really a miracle (he's 5 years younger - very handsome & intelligent). We met on the internet & I didn't know what he looked like until he arrived at the airport 6 months into our *net dating*. We married 3 months later in his country and have been married for 3 years.
So now I'm convinced - whatever you are looking for in a partner - FORGET it, recondition yourself to analyse everyone and perhaps see them as a potential life partner. Whatever you were looking for before hasn't worked for you, right? Obviously, if it doesn't work - change the direction - keep your options open - once you stop looking, you will find that opportunities come like a windfall. Don't discard someone because she/he doesn't fit your prior credentials and you will be pleasantly surprised!
*Fruck I'm making spelling mistakes.......Very tired*
Originally posted by RogerV Women are always looking for the bigger better deal.
Then when they feel like there not the big catch anymore they decide to settle. Until the bigger better deal comes around again
if it ever does.
Also every guy starts out good till they get fucked over then we become dogs.
I couldn't sum it up better than you did. Exactly how I feel after every girl breaks up with me. They always seem to want the better guy and I just got fed up of these bullshit games they would play. I for one don't appreciate just satisfying her needs until someone better comes along...
Hope you had a good night Roger to clear things in your head.
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