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MetaformX · 09-20-2002, 06:21 PM

alright, so I got this male 'friend' who ive known for 2 years. About 8 months ago, we started hanging out like 5 hours a day, everyday, going to clubs, movies, just hanging out all the time(no, were not gay). he was really cool.

But I noticed everytime we were around other people like at parties and shit, he would always buddy up to them, but then when they were gone, he would talk so much shit about them. There was not a person he would not spare, and he would usually do it in front of other people...So I figured he is doing it for attention(which he was)

So since about 2 months ago, Ive totally stopped hanging out with him, and he has been calling me once a week since, and ive never returned his call or anything. Well, he called yesterday, and I accidentally picked up the phone and he said he and his girl are gonna get married soon, and that i should come to the wedding...but i was not acting too intereted in the conversation, and so he said something like 'whats up man, you never return my calls, we dont hang out.."

He kept pushing the issue, and so I told him I didnt like the fact that he was two faced and always talked shit, and acted like he was better then everyone else...after a long conversaion bout that, he said he realises all these things, and will "make a commitment to change" and he wants to be friends again and hang out.

I really dont wanna hang out with him, but this guy will just not go away...but at the same time, i feel bad for him, cause he said "he'll change"...I just don't know what the fuck to do...hehe...anyone had a situation like this?

grumpy · 09-20-2002, 06:24 PM

its always hard to hang out with your imaginarie friend. But it goes a bit far to say your imaginarie friend is stalking you. I think its time to get some help now.

[Labret] · 09-20-2002, 06:25 PM

He will only hurt you again. Dont trust him, they always say they will change to get you back.

MetaformX · 09-20-2002, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by grumpy
its always hard to hang out with your imaginarie friend. But it goes a bit far to say your imaginarie friend is stalking you. I think its time to get some help now.

your right bro, from now on, ill start talking about my imaginary girlfriend. She is a pornstar and has 2 clits. a real catch!

grumpy · 09-20-2002, 06:27 PM

asuna · 09-20-2002, 06:29 PM

send him this link?
he'll get the idea

MetaformX · 09-20-2002, 06:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]
He will only hurt you again. Dont trust him, they always say they will change to get you back.

LoL
"they always say they will change to get you back"...sound slike advice you would give to a women getting beaten up by her husband

UnseenWorld · 09-20-2002, 06:31 PM

Well, I think since he's getting married to his girl, "hanging out " is REALLY not a good idea, especially if he means one-on-one.

Marriage involves a lot of trust, but trust is a two-way street meaning extending it on the one hand, but not giving your partner much cause to wonder, either.

beerbust03 · 09-20-2002, 07:31 PM

My Advice:

Start stalking your friend. Start being around for a little bit. He'll get tired of that shit, and see what he's doing to others.

Jon · 09-20-2002, 07:34 PM

order of protection comes to mind...

Theo · 09-20-2002, 07:40 PM

fuck his future wife

jimmyf · 09-20-2002, 08:00 PM

shit in a paper bag... put it by his front door.... lite it on fire..ring his door bell...run like hell...also leave a note a few feet away under a rock...."a black rock"..note...says..you do not want his company any longer...... remember it has to be a black rock... it's ok to paint one if you can not find 1...

Bliz · 09-20-2002, 08:00 PM

Hire a PI and serve him papers. I heard it works to get rid of Pimpdogs

PD4L

Firehorse · 09-20-2002, 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MetaformX

your right bro, from now on, ill start talking about my imaginary girlfriend. She is a pornstar and has 2 clits. a real catch!

lmao

=^..^= · 09-20-2002, 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MetaformX
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I really dont wanna hang out with him, but this guy will just not go away...but at the same time, i feel bad for him, cause he said "he'll change"...I just don't know what the fuck to do...hehe...anyone had a situation like this?

Is his name Tennis Ace????

Gemini · 09-21-2002, 12:15 AM

Unseen nailed it. You don't HANGout like you used to after marriage or don't bother getting that way. Tell him to watch a weeks worth of Divorce Court. Judge Mayblean will straighten him out.

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theking · 09-21-2002, 12:38 AM

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Originally posted by Lawrence Connor
Send him a package with a few bunches of celery (stalks) in it.

Wouldn't a package of garlic cloves be a better choice? Oops I am slow on the uptake. Your genius is too much for me "stalks".

09-20-2002, 06:21 PM	#1
MetaformX Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 6,704	I got a friend who is stalking me. what should I do? alright, so I got this male 'friend' who ive known for 2 years. About 8 months ago, we started hanging out like 5 hours a day, everyday, going to clubs, movies, just hanging out all the time(no, were not gay). he was really cool. But I noticed everytime we were around other people like at parties and shit, he would always buddy up to them, but then when they were gone, he would talk so much shit about them. There was not a person he would not spare, and he would usually do it in front of other people...So I figured he is doing it for attention(which he was) So since about 2 months ago, Ive totally stopped hanging out with him, and he has been calling me once a week since, and ive never returned his call or anything. Well, he called yesterday, and I accidentally picked up the phone and he said he and his girl are gonna get married soon, and that i should come to the wedding...but i was not acting too intereted in the conversation, and so he said something like 'whats up man, you never return my calls, we dont hang out.." He kept pushing the issue, and so I told him I didnt like the fact that he was two faced and always talked shit, and acted like he was better then everyone else...after a long conversaion bout that, he said he realises all these things, and will "make a commitment to change" and he wants to be friends again and hang out. I really dont wanna hang out with him, but this guy will just not go away...but at the same time, i feel bad for him, cause he said "he'll change"...I just don't know what the fuck to do...hehe...anyone had a situation like this? __________________

09-20-2002, 06:24 PM	#2
grumpy Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Holland Posts: 9,870	its always hard to hang out with your imaginarie friend. But it goes a bit far to say your imaginarie friend is stalking you. I think its time to get some help now. __________________ Don't let greediness blur your vision \| You gotta let some shit slide icq - 441-456-888

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grumpy Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Holland Posts: 9,870	__________________ Don't let greediness blur your vision \| You gotta let some shit slide icq - 441-456-888

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asuna Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 8,743	send him this link? he'll get the idea __________________

09-20-2002, 06:31 PM	#8
UnseenWorld Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Portland, OR, USA Posts: 5,279	Well, I think since he's getting married to his girl, "hanging out " is REALLY not a good idea, especially if he means one-on-one. Marriage involves a lot of trust, but trust is a two-way street meaning extending it on the one hand, but not giving your partner much cause to wonder, either. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

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[Labret] Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: Са́нкт-Петербу́рг Posts: 10,945	He will only hurt you again. Dont trust him, they always say they will change to get you back.

09-20-2002, 07:31 PM	#9
beerbust03 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 911	My Advice: Start stalking your friend. Start being around for a little bit. He'll get tired of that shit, and see what he's doing to others. __________________ Hehehehe

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Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	Unseen nailed it. You don't HANGout like you used to after marriage or don't bother getting that way. Tell him to watch a weeks worth of Divorce Court. Judge Mayblean will straighten him out. <p><font size="2"><a href="http://www.adultplatinum.com/wm.html?id=478995"><b>New Affiliate Program!</b></a><BR> <a href="http://www.awmfs.com"><b>WhoIs Dbase Privacy</b></a></font><BR> <font size="2"><b>Vegas & More Soon</b></font> Last edited by Gemini; 09-21-2002 at 12:19 AM..