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xNetworx · 10-19-2007, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Anyone have any advice for me to get over the breakup? I've had a relationship nearly this long and i have usually been the one ending the relationship..

Lets see a photo of you. I will be able to give you better advice based on that. Shallow, but true.

KBoogie · 10-19-2007, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

Concentrate on making money, reconnect with your single pals and and get yourself some fresh pussy. Problem solved.

What he said!

Mr Pheer · 10-19-2007, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

thanks for the support guys.. man it really sucks being at this end of a breakup. the worst part is i still want to be with her knowing she doesnt want to be with me..

get over that wanting to be with her shit, right now

after that you'll be fine, trust me

SCtyger · 10-19-2007, 04:48 PM

best way to get over old p8ssy is with new p8ssy.

themachinelavene · 10-19-2007, 04:56 PM

shit happens dude get over it

Fap · 10-19-2007, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by themachinelavene

shit happens dude get over it

i appreciate the heart to heart we just had

jakethedog · 10-19-2007, 05:11 PM

2 options ..

option 1: sit around all day sulking .. cry a bit .. look at all the stuff you have to remind her of here again .. sulk .. post on a public forum what a panty waste you are ..jerk off to your phone pix of her .. sulk some more .. do all of this repeatedly for weeks... all the way calling and whining about how much you love her .. yada yada ..

option 2: go have a shower .. beat off to your fav smut you hid from her ..do some proper primping ..the shit you probably forgot to do the last year of your relationship ... call your buddies tell them your free to go out and do what ever the fuck you actually feel like doing ... it's Friday night .. go out have some fun...stay away from whores .. they will only fuck you up more at this point .. go do some of the shit you did before you got wrapped up in this whole mess called a relationship ..

didn't mean to sound bitter .. but i am sure there is more to it if she just wanted to be single .. usually a new guy .. so move the fuck on

HEAT · 10-19-2007, 05:19 PM

welcome to life.
having a someone hurt you reminds you that you're alive. It also makes you revel in the better ones that will come along.

you're young man.
work harder, make more money, exercise, dress up, enjoy your single life.
and you will find better one. I promise.

Brother Bilo · 10-19-2007, 05:21 PM

You could always just go gay. Seems to work out for teh boyalley. Maybe you guys should hook up for the weekend.

bDok · 10-19-2007, 05:29 PM

become attached to nothing in life that you can't walk away from in 30 seconds if you spot the "Heat" around the corner.

frostyimpressions · 10-19-2007, 05:34 PM

A train full of goths would definately ruin my day. Just let time heal wounds. And think of all the time and money you are saving now that that bitch is not in your life anymore.

shekinah · 10-19-2007, 06:06 PM

Forget about her man, it's hard but it's the best thing to do... Thanks goodness your girl break up with you face to face.. Not every girl does that

Jarmusch · 10-19-2007, 06:17 PM

Get into some real heavy drinking and it'll soon go away.

Brother Bilo · 10-19-2007, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by shekinah

Forget about her man, it's hard but it's the best thing to do... Thanks goodness your girl break up with you face to face.. Not every girl does that

Ya, I got it over text one time. It actually worked out pretty good, because I laughed more that she did it over text then I focused on getting dumped.

Dumb bitch.

Herb Kornfield · 10-19-2007, 06:22 PM

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0TLA_f7S0cw

classic

georgeyw · 10-19-2007, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

You're never ever going to get the closure you think you need. I know it's hard and feels impossible, but just stay away from her completely.

There is absolutely nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better. It just takes time to get over these things. It's natural to feel upset and miss someone who you have spent so much time with and more importantly loved.

So don't contact her, don't make snide comments to friends about her, just get on with your life. Maybe make some changes in your life such as eat better, get fit what ever. Just keep your mind busy with friends and in a few months you will find that you feel a whole lot better.

Spunky · 10-19-2007, 06:32 PM

Jump on that horse and ride again..plenty of fish in the sea

dig420 · 10-19-2007, 07:45 PM

banthis, it happens to all of us at least once, and it makes you a better human being in the long run for having gone thru it. Just keep reminding yourself that it gets better with time.

Also, the best cure for the old woman is a new woman, so if you can summon up the energy get out there and find yourself one

dig420 · 10-19-2007, 07:48 PM

and if u got any xanax, take one. Or two

Fap · 10-19-2007, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by georgeyw

You're never ever going to get the closure you think you need. I know it's hard and feels impossible, but just stay away from her completely.

There is absolutely nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better. It just takes time to get over these things. It's natural to feel upset and miss someone who you have spent so much time with and more importantly loved.

So don't contact her, don't make snide comments to friends about her, just get on with your life. Maybe make some changes in your life such as eat better, get fit what ever. Just keep your mind busy with friends and in a few months you will find that you feel a whole lot better.

That makes a lot of sense.. i'll try my best to follow your advice

Grapesoda · 10-19-2007, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by u-Bob

work, work, work.

that would be my suggestion, then buy some quality pussy with the money. and then more work work work... more quality pussy... etc

BannerAnt · 10-19-2007, 09:23 PM

as shitty as it is to say and hear...time, that's the only thing that will help. Hard breakups are a bitch.

Lamis · 10-19-2007, 09:26 PM

work work work...

Grapesoda · 10-19-2007, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

the sad part is which i know i will lose some respect right now for saying this.. i still want to talk to her i want her in my life because she played such a big role.

But i know i have to resist, i dont want to send her the message im okw ith what she did

you just want her back because she dumped you... no other reason. move on with your life, you don't need somebody to hold your hand and tell you everything is gonna be okay... you need to make some money. girls come and go. that's the whole truth of the deal. it's not 1740 anymore where you only see 3-4 girls in your whole fucking life. wish her well, wish for her everything that you wish for yourself. great sex, great job, great family and friends and move on. here's the biggie!!!! are you ready!!!! REJECTION IS PROTECTION. always remember that one. -bmb

Fap · 10-19-2007, 10:23 PM

everyone keeps saying work.. that is the last thing i want to do

Phoenix · 10-19-2007, 10:25 PM

work and forget her

party hard on halloween...and erase her from your phone erase her email address

etc etc

VeriSexy · 10-19-2007, 10:33 PM

Time to bang any many chicks you passed up on before

LiveDose · 10-19-2007, 10:36 PM

Fuck fuck fuck... and hit the titty bars.

Let your good friends know asap and they should take care of you.

Good luck man this will pass...

gecko · 10-19-2007, 10:48 PM

Time to go play the field

Fap · 10-19-2007, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

Let your good friends know asap and they should take care of you.

Thats whats going on now

baddog · 10-19-2007, 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

everyone keeps saying work.. that is the last thing i want to do

I do not believe that I have ever mentioned work, and pretty sure the only one that others have said "Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about."

I gave you good advice, the same as I would my own son, and here you are, on GFY on a Friday night.

Fap · 10-19-2007, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I do not believe that I have ever mentioned work, and pretty sure the only one that others have said "Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about."

I gave you good advice, the same as I would my own son, and here you are, on GFY on a Friday night.

yeah.. i went out for a few hours..
then decided to be alone a bit.. ill be out tomorrow though no question about it

baddog · 10-19-2007, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

then decided to be alone a bit..

How did that work out for you?

Fap · 10-19-2007, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

How did that work out for you?

Well hanging out with my friends was nice it distracted me.. and being alone just let me think and start thinking positively about this.

baddog · 10-19-2007, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Well hanging out with my friends was nice it distracted me.. and being alone just let me think and start thinking positively about this.

So, NYC is the "city that never sleeps" I heard. You have to go to work in the morning or something?

Fap · 10-19-2007, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

So, NYC is the "city that never sleeps" I heard. You have to go to work in the morning or something?

The city might not sleep but i do

baddog · 10-20-2007, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

The city might not sleep but i do

pussy

[ScreaM] · 10-20-2007, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Well hanging out with my friends was nice it distracted me.. and being alone just let me think and start thinking positively about this.

Getting laid and keeping yourself busy is the best you can do man.

NinjaSteve · 10-20-2007, 01:06 AM

I think now is the time to plow through as much pussy as you can.

Fap · 10-20-2007, 09:48 AM

Update: She called me to ask how i was doing i didnt really respond much. Then before hanging up she said she loved me. WTF is that shit..

Note: she called my house phone, and i was on the only phone without caller ID

leedsfan · 10-20-2007, 09:50 AM

best way to get over one girl is to get under another.

tony286 · 10-20-2007, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Update: She called me to ask how i was doing i didnt really respond much. Then before hanging up she said she loved me. WTF is that shit..

Note: she called my house phone, and i was on the only phone without caller ID

Now she is playing games, next call say never call me again and hang up. Fuck her.

DEA - banned for life · 10-20-2007, 09:55 AM

posted naked pics of her here..send her the link...if she comes back to you she will love you forever...if she doenst atleast we get to see her tits

Fap · 10-20-2007, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DEA

posted naked pics of her here..send her the link...if she comes back to you she will love you forever...if she doenst atleast we get to see her tits

heh im not that vindictive.. plus she is starting modeling and as much as i hate her i dont want to ruin that for her

baddog · 10-20-2007, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by tony404

Now she is playing games, next call say never call me again and hang up. Fuck her.

Either she is playing games, or she realized after a night of partying that it makes more sense to have you there to foot the bill. Paying for your own drinks and cab rides suck when you are used to getting them for free.

Do not be suckered in. My earlier advice if "wait until you are 25" still holds true. Whether you want to admit it or not, she did you a favor, now move on.

BTW, you can block her number on your land line. Contact your phone company if you don't know how.

Fap · 10-20-2007, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Either she is playing games, or she realized after a night of partying that it makes more sense to have you there to foot the bill. Paying for your own drinks and cab rides suck when you are used to getting them for free.

Do not be suckered in. My earlier advice if "wait until you are 25" still holds true. Whether you want to admit it or not, she did you a favor, now move on.

Im starting to think that now.. i should wait and i would be saving myself a ton of money, no more purchasing coach bags or expensive jewelry..

baddog · 10-20-2007, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Im starting to think that now.. i should wait and i would be saving myself a ton of money, no more purchasing coach bags or expensive jewelry..

I should slap you with a trout for having done so already.

Phil · 10-20-2007, 10:11 AM

Congrats from Me and my british friend

Iron Fist · 10-20-2007, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Persius

This is bullshit ... if she really wanted to be with you she wouldnt want to be single. My buddy just had a serious 2 yr relationship end bcuz the girl wanted to "figure herself out" too much pressure on a relationship.. etc etc bullshit the other day i saw her with this guy all over him... Fuck em...

This is it.. QFT. Girls are not that complicated...they only make it complicated so they don't hurt your feelings. But they wanna fuck someone new and thats cool.... go find someone yourself and have a good time.

Iron Fist · 10-20-2007, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by banthis

Update: She called me to ask how i was doing i didnt really respond much. Then before hanging up she said she loved me. WTF is that shit..

Note: she called my house phone, and i was on the only phone without caller ID

She's trying not to feel guilty for fucking that other guy.... "I love you" is an easy out.

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