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alby_persignup 10-06-2007 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trixie Racer (Post 13190520)
Trusting someone untrustworthy

i feel yah! same here :(

$tandaman 10-07-2007 04:07 PM

1) Trusting your partner even though all signs are pointing in the other direction, just because i made a commitment.

2) Marketing a product that is not ready to actually be used - will never do this again

the two mistakes, which cost me the most, i am sure i can go on.. but this is into 7 figures already...

tical 10-07-2007 04:19 PM

trusting people & getting fucked over.

i think everyone will go through this at some point

after you get fucked, THEN you'll make sure it doesn't happen again

jakethedog 10-07-2007 04:20 PM

clicking on this thread .................

will76 10-07-2007 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jakethedog (Post 13203157)
clicking on this thread .................

wow you must be doing pretty good if your biggest mistake was to click on this thread.

Diligent 10-07-2007 07:39 PM

Not making my money work for me more than I have.

The more it takes, the more it makes...
has held true with MOST different ways to invest in adult
(as long as You've done Your research and made sure You
know what You're about to do of course).

Time to be & stay more aggressive in that regard, that's for sure! ;)

ultimatebbwdotcom 10-07-2007 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diligent (Post 13203944)
Not making my money work for me more than I have.

The more it takes, the more it makes...
has held true with MOST different ways to invest in adult
(as long as You've done Your research and made sure You
know what You're about to do of course).

Time to be & stay more aggressive in that regard, that's for sure! ;)

Same here, not investing enough,


I also wish,

I started in the biz earlier,
Bought more domain names,

plus many others Im sure.

Barefootsies 10-07-2007 08:28 PM

Investing less in partying and my beer belly than in my business early on after college.

I could have been a lot further down the line if I wasn't always trying to get my tip wet. In hindsight, those experiences make me who I am today. But I could have been dropping $30-40k of my telco check into online business for those 8 years if I wasn't always trying to get my jimmy waxed.


:disgust

Yngwie 10-07-2007 09:26 PM

my BIGGEST mistake was when I was making good money I NEVER put any of the money back in the business. That was my biggest mistake.

TheJimmy 10-07-2007 10:49 PM

My biggest mistake was not thinking I need a product of my own, that affiliate marketing was an 'ok' model for long term success...the second related mistake was realizing that your business MUST be scalable...eg. can grow with or without you directly involved...

BAKO 10-07-2007 11:43 PM

off topic, getting married :(

dissipate 10-07-2007 11:45 PM

I wish i would have started working as much as i do now quite a while ago.

polish_aristocrat 10-07-2007 11:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheJimmy (Post 13204314)
My biggest mistake was not thinking I need a product of my own, that affiliate marketing was an 'ok' model for long term success...

isn't it?

dissipate 10-07-2007 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WWC-Bako (Post 13204390)
off topic, getting married :(

Owned. :error

BAKO 10-07-2007 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dissipate (Post 13204416)
Owned. :error

:helpme:helpme

Drake 10-07-2007 11:58 PM

Not buying software soon enough. The proper software can make a job so much easier.

Oops, this isn't the biggest mistake, but it's a mistake.

snaker 10-08-2007 04:36 AM

Not getting into the game earlier

Marshal 10-08-2007 05:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trixie Racer (Post 13190520)
Trusting someone untrustworthy

i second that! you are completely right! in my case trusting a content thief and a scammer...

will76 10-08-2007 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WWC-Bako (Post 13204390)
off topic, getting married :(

haha .. it's kind of on topic. If you marry the wrong person who gives you shit about working too much, spends all your money, and then divorces you in a state with community property laws and she takes 1/2 your shit. That could be a bad mistake that affected your business.

will76 10-08-2007 09:21 PM

more mistakes ?

stev0 10-08-2007 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by webgurl (Post 13194089)
My most regretfull mistake for 2007 was not cashing
out all my damn USD-CND currency at 1.17 in the Month of March
(sorry i guess your topic is business since starting in the online bizz)

I hear ya there... I had a bunch in a US term deposit account making 4.2% a year, took less than 3 weeks for it to loose around 15%. :(

2012 10-08-2007 10:32 PM

believing in my fellow man ...

trusting people I knew I had no business trusting ...

not listening to the "inner voice" that says ...

fuck these people

2012 10-08-2007 10:39 PM

believing history books

and all that shit they tell you in Disney Movies:321GFY

babydred 10-08-2007 11:12 PM

My biggest mistakes in this biz?
First, not better promoting my first site ever (it was born in the year 2000 i think), named Fresh XXX, it can still be found here at http://www.worldxxxhost.com/users/nahteedred ...my first payout from this site was a 750 dollar check from Topbucks. I'm surprised the url still resolves (geez i've come a long way, that was my first hand at html...i learned from a Dummies Guide the week before i put it on the web). LOL

My second biggest mistake is more recent, not learning how to trade traffic sooner than i did. I've come to realize that it's true, the higher you get in their toplist, the better the traffic is as well as more of it. ;)

Paul Markham 10-08-2007 11:22 PM

Back in 1995 I was selling pictures to a few people with websites, getting $3 to $10 a picture. So I thought it would be a good time to start a website and got a programmer. It was a disaster because I had no knowledge of how to get traffic.

So my biggest mistake was not sticking with it and learning more. At the time I was earning a lot of money in other porn fields and never dreamed the Adult Net would become what it has.

I suppose the second mistake was not coming back sooner with a content store. Third would be not opening a paysite sooner as well.

mb 10-19-2007 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by will76 (Post 13190869)
The most important thing I have learned from 8 years of doing this shit.... The sad thing was that it took me 6 years to figure this out.

This applies mainly to affiliates, but in some ways could be applied to everyone.

I started off (1999) as a membership site owner, spent countless hours updating the sites, adding more content, paying for plugins, dealing with members, etc.. After realizing all the time I put in just to provide a product to sell vs the amount of money I was making from advertising other people's sites, it seemed like a no brainer to switch over to being an 100% affiliate. Now instead of spending 20 - 30 hours a week on maintaining my membership sites I had that much more time to spend on advertising and getting more traffic. This made me a lot more money. Thankfully I was 100% away from my membership sites a couple years before ibill went under, so I only lost about 50K from old rebills. If I would have been going 100% strong with my sites right up until they went under I would have lost well over a million dollars, so I lucked out there.

Where I went wrong and got off course....

When I was promoting my own membership sites I was building something of value. As I made money from them they built a membership base. The more popular they became the more my membership base grew and the more my site was recognized on the net. So not only did I directly make money from my advertising (10 sales a day, say I made = $300 etc...) but I built "x" amount of value into my site as my membership base got bigger, site got more popular, etc. For example, if I would have grown my site to have 1000 active members not only would I have been making 35K a month, but I would have a site worth a lot more then that if I chose to sell it.

When I switched over to being 100% an affiliate, for the most part I used single pages or small sites built around that sponsor... I didn't put any effort into trying to retain people or build up the page/site I was using, I was happy getting sign ups from the traffic i sent to it. Fatal Flaw. Here I am busting my ass, making really good money, but at the end of the day, what did I have? A nice check and that was about it. I had nothing of value. I had grossed over a million in sales the year before just to clickcash but i had nothing of value. nothing. No site like hoes.com or a tgp that had 500K hits a day etc.. i had zero to show for it except for the checks I was being sent.

I always prided myself on the ability to make money off of everything I did and I totally missed the boat on that one. It finally hit me one day, why not make the same amount of money but build value in your sites at the same time. Some simple things to do this would be to add a forum, add blogs that update everyday, give people a reason to use your site and to want to come back and use your site over and over again. Get creative, there are many ways to do this but the point being is don't just make a site to make money, but build a site you are making money from. For the most part I had promoted 1 sponsor, so once the person signed up, if they came back i made no money off of them so I wasnt thinking this way. I missed the fact, popular site, retain traffic = build value in the site not just make money off of it.

That's my advice, if you are an affiliate build value in something while you making money from it. As simple as it sounds, I can't be the only person that didn't realize this. I think back now, if I would have been sending all my traffic to a site like hoes.com it would not only be as popular if not bigger then his, I would have something of value worth a good bit of money. It would have been nice all this time to make really good money and ALSO own something worth milions. It woud be like the icing on the cake ( the cakes being all those nice checks).


I appreciate that you used hoes.com as an example of a quality site. Very flattered, thank you.

marc

will76 10-19-2007 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mb (Post 13259976)
I appreciate that you used hoes.com as an example of a quality site. Very flattered, thank you.

marc

np, no doubt you do very well with your site. I've seen a few of your monthly stats reports post on here. :thumbsup

Fap 10-19-2007 04:06 PM

waited so long to invest in google

buzzy 10-19-2007 04:13 PM

Lent $2k to a friend, or so i thought he was a friend.

hentaibee 10-20-2007 09:25 AM

not starting earlier while being around surfing.


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