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  • 96ukssob
    So Fucking Banananananas
    • Mar 2003
    • 12991

    #1

    Women or Business?

    So recently more and more i found myself deciding between keeping my GF happy or getting work done. I'm not sure really what to do anymore, but its getting REALLY frustrating and im not only taking it out on her, but my friends too.

    I have my own company that i have been working day and night for the past few months to make successful and to this day is doing better than I would of thought. there is so much time needed per day, each day, including the weekends, however I cant put in 5 hours a day and forget the biz until the next morning when i wake up like she can (shes a teacher).

    Anyway, i tried talking to her this weekend and she just doesnt get it and im not sure what to do. she dosent quiet grasp that I need to put in a ton of time to get this to move along quickly, then once it does I can pull back a bit and go along for the ride (for say).

    So im stuck between a rock and a hard place. do i tell her to take a hike (we've been togther for 5 1/2 years) or just keep dealing with the day in day out frustration and BS? Im not trying to be a jerk when i say this, but I will not give up what I have done till now. I have worked my ass off to get where Im at, and what i have accomplished. So, the decision has to be try and explain it to her again in another way, or buy her some luggage
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  • zeruel
    Confirmed User
    • Apr 2007
    • 1387

    #2
    you can have both... time management is important... 5 1/2 years is really tough.. i guess you both must understand each others situation...

    good luck on your business and your gurl...

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    • the Shemp
      congrats to the winners
      • Nov 2001
      • 10891

      #3
      Originally posted by bossku69
      So recently more and more i found myself deciding between keeping my GF happy or getting work done. I'm not sure really what to do anymore, but its getting REALLY frustrating and im not only taking it out on her, but my friends too.

      I have my own company that i have been working day and night for the past few months to make successful and to this day is doing better than I would of thought. there is so much time needed per day, each day, including the weekends, however I cant put in 5 hours a day and forget the biz until the next morning when i wake up like she can (shes a teacher).

      Anyway, i tried talking to her this weekend and she just doesnt get it and im not sure what to do. she dosent quiet grasp that I need to put in a ton of time to get this to move along quickly, then once it does I can pull back a bit and go along for the ride (for say).

      So im stuck between a rock and a hard place. do i tell her to take a hike (we've been togther for 5 1/2 years) or just keep dealing with the day in day out frustration and BS? Im not trying to be a jerk when i say this, but I will not give up what I have done till now. I have worked my ass off to get where Im at, and what i have accomplished. So, the decision has to be try and explain it to her again in another way, or buy her some luggage
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      • 96ukssob
        So Fucking Banananananas
        • Mar 2003
        • 12991

        #4
        Originally posted by the Shemp
        give her some galleries to submit .....


        I've tried, but she wants no part of my adult biz adventures... at the same time, dont know what she can really do about the mainstream biz tho.
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        • SleazyDream
          I'm here for SPORT
          • Jul 2001
          • 41470

          #5
          had a wife like that - operative word there is HAD.

          most teacher's don't get it and won't. their friends at work will reinforce her current mentality.

          unless you're madly uncontrollable in love with her dump her ass and find someone who will support you going after the career of your choice.
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          • SomeCreep
            :glugglug
            • Mar 2003
            • 26118

            #6
            Business then bitches.

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            • zand_stein
              Confirmed User
              • Jul 2007
              • 1438

              #7
              Business first then I can get girls afterward

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              • Sarah_Jayne
                Now with more Jayne
                • Dec 2002
                • 40077

                #8
                My husband used to often 'express concern' that I was working too much but eventually he came to understand that when you work for yourself you have to put in more hours than most. If you are ever going to have a real life together not only do you need to understand your partners need to actually spend time with you now and then but they need to understand that what we do requires the long hours. If that balance is never going to happen then neither is a happy long term relationship.

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                • eddie-executive
                  Confirmed User
                  • Apr 2003
                  • 2061

                  #9
                  As 50cent would say....

                  Homie, you hustlin' backwards if you chasin' a bitch
                  Stupid, chase the paper, they come with the shit
                  I'm fallin', in love with success
                  Entrepreneur, connoisseur, I maneuver the best

                  So true
                  Jealousy... is a mental cancer. ~B.C. Forbes

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                  • alby_persignup
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2007
                    • 3119

                    #10
                    Originally posted by zand_stein
                    Business first then I can get girls afterward
                    your right dude!
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                    • squizzel
                      So Fucking Banned
                      • Feb 2005
                      • 900

                      #11
                      Originally posted by eddie-executive
                      As 50cent would say....

                      Homie, you hustlin' backwards if you chasin' a bitch
                      Stupid, chase the paper, they come with the shit
                      I'm fallin', in love with success
                      Entrepreneur, connoisseur, I maneuver the best

                      So true
                      what song is that?

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                      • Jesper
                        Confirmed User
                        • Jul 2007
                        • 1957

                        #12
                        Originally posted by SomeCreep
                        Business then bitches.
                        word..!
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                        • eddie-executive
                          Confirmed User
                          • Apr 2003
                          • 2061

                          #13
                          Originally posted by squizzel
                          what song is that?
                          ryder music
                          Jealousy... is a mental cancer. ~B.C. Forbes

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                          • camchoice
                            Confirmed User
                            • Dec 2003
                            • 1267

                            #14
                            why not take a business partner for your company then you can split the work and have also more time for her.. that way you keep your business running and you can give your gf what she needs..
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