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boneless 07-17-2007 04:35 AM

money might not be everything and all, but it can make your life a whole lot easier.

BlueDesignStudios 07-17-2007 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Skillz Unlimited (Post 12755677)
Money can't buy happiness, money just buys different types of problems.

Money is not everything to everyone. Yes some people are happy living middle class lives, going to work everyday and coming home to pet the dog waiting at the door. Some of those people love it, and some of those people fucking hate it. They wish they had more. I think everyone wants to be rich at one time or another in their life. They key is learning to be content with whever you end up. If you base your happiness in life on whether or not you get rich and you dont get rich, of course you will be unhappy.

At some point you have to step back and ask yourself....

Am i living check to check? No.

Is there money in the bank? Yes. It may not be millions but if my job were to explode tomorrow, i would be ok for a while.

Is my family healthy? Yes.

This type of situation gives for a good foundation for happiness. The rest depends on your situation be it marriage, children or your job.

The place where money becomes a problem is in the homes where there is not enough money. Arguments start due to worry. When couples are worried about finances they tend to argue. People in these situations seems to think that when they get rich all of their problems will be solved. This is incorrect in the worse way. As i stated before, money just buys different types of problems. Being rich comes with a lot of responsibility unless, you are a trust fund baby. If you actually worked hard to get rich, chances are you have to keep working to stay rich. A lot of people cannot handle the presure and thus are not happy. Some rich people would rather have just enough.

Well spoken :thumbsup

GreyWolf 07-17-2007 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by squizzel (Post 12772659)
im sorry. but i am shallow and nice things bring me happieness.

Big houses, fast cars, nice clothes. All make me happy.

:winkwink::1orglaugh

OK... An example of what it really means and toss it out to the extreme - tho it does not have to go to this level.

Got a friend who has more money than all of us combined here - plus, who knows - many millions more. What kinda house? Various - only because he needs a base in certain countries. He does not "appreciate" the houses as such - he needs a bed to sleep in (that's part of "quality of life" and is appreciated *lol*). What kinda car? Very ordinary - something with four wheels that works. Clothes? Whatever is handy. No time to think about trivia or waste time in malls.

How many hours working each day? Probably around at least 18 - to the extent his main lawyer takes his phone off the hook to kill the calls from him at 3 in the morning. His lawyer appreciates life more than he does.

What would he really want to do?? Go to bed at night and get on a horse in the morning and ride along a beach - then go for breakfast. Very simple stuff. That is unlikely to ever happen :winkwink:

Why? Because he is responsible for 1000's of employees worldwide, the operation of around 400 international hotels, around 700 travel stores, a cruise line (boats) and other stuff. With that comes problems with real estate, court cases, management ad nausea... All of that is a vicious circle and hard to stop - the biz still has to run 24/7. Will he have a long life, retire gracefully and appreciate "having money"??? I don't think so :winkwink:

If you had the chance, would you like to start tomorrow living that lifestyle?? :1orglaugh

ServerGenius 07-17-2007 05:06 AM

there's also stupid rich people......being rich doesn't include you from being
stupid.....getting the money is one thing being able to cope with it is another
just like keeping it is. If you can't be happy with nothing you won't be happy
with everything. Got it?......good!....get back to work now!

GreyWolf 07-17-2007 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by ServerGenius (Post 12772773)
there's also stupid rich people......being rich doesn't include you from being
stupid.....getting the money is one thing being able to cope with it is another
just like keeping it is. If you can't be happy with nothing you won't be happy
with everything. Got it?......good!....get back to work now!

:1orglaugh Agree!!

With some people it's a "career" in itself and inbred - they just don't know when to stop and the "habit" is very hard to kick. Chances are they could have a heart attack if they did stop - tho that is likely one way or other.

Now stop wasting time on GFY and git back to work! :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Jarmusch 07-17-2007 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by GreyWolf (Post 12772746)
:winkwink::1orglaugh

OK... An example of what it really means and toss it out to the extreme - tho it does not have to go to this level.

Got a friend who has more money than all of us combined here - plus, who knows - many millions more. What kinda house? Various - only because he needs a base in certain countries. He does not "appreciate" the houses as such - he needs a bed to sleep in (that's part of "quality of life" and is appreciated *lol*). What kinda car? Very ordinary - something with four wheels that works. Clothes? Whatever is handy. No time to think about trivia or waste time in malls.

How many hours working each day? Probably around at least 18 - to the extent his main lawyer takes his phone off the hook to kill the calls from him at 3 in the morning. His lawyer appreciates life more than he does.

What would he really want to do?? Go to bed at night and get on a horse in the morning and ride along a beach - then go for breakfast. Very simple stuff. That is unlikely to ever happen :winkwink:

Why? Because he is responsible for 1000's of employees worldwide, the operation of around 400 international hotels, around 700 travel stores, a cruise line (boats) and other stuff. With that comes problems with real estate, court cases, management ad nausea... All of that is a vicious circle and hard to stop - the biz still has to run 24/7. Will he have a long life, retire gracefully and appreciate "having money"??? I don't think so :winkwink:

If you had the chance, would you like to start tomorrow living that lifestyle?? :1orglaugh

If he has all those millions he could quit tomorrow and live comfortably for the rest of his life riding horses on the beach. Or maybe he has to go through a heart attack first before he starts considering that option.

Michael O 07-17-2007 05:41 AM

Whoever said money can't buy happiness, didn’t know where to shop.

polish_aristocrat 07-17-2007 07:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slapass (Post 12772604)
If not money then what is?

not sure, ask slapass

Quote:

Originally Posted by slapass (Post 6597031)

I was in Braizl and watching the Huge samba Parade. This Canadian was saying we as westerners are only interested in money. He said we both had enough to live in this country as well off for the rest of our lives. But we won't do it as we need more and more. All around us were people with 1/100 of our incomes and they were happy and having a great time. I too had a great time but today I am working. Sort of makes that whole new life thing appealing.



you posted that 2 years ago and i saw it cause your thread got bumped yesterday by someone

but i guess you changed your mind already though :)

GreyWolf 07-17-2007 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Jarmusch (Post 12772821)
If he has all those millions he could quit tomorrow and live comfortably for the rest of his life riding horses on the beach. Or maybe he has to go through a heart attack first before he starts considering that option.

Hard to explain Jarmusch - these kind of people never quit - that's not on the table for discussion. Sure, he could sell off slowly to other corps and pocket the money (it would be his to do this with - the biz is totally privately owned and no shareholders/banks blah), but instead he's opening more hotels and buying majority shareholdings in another well-known hotel group.

This is fine up to a point, but it's more a disease than anything. It's not for power (very modest guy) or for greed - he does not *need* money and he does not personally want anything. One thing that seems to matter are the people he employs, tho he can never know 1000's of employees personally, there is a responsibility for them. Suppose if people like him did not exist, there would be more unemployment and fewer nice places to have exotic vacations.

It may be that they are just workaholics - there are plenty of them. Got another friend (tho his biz looks more controllable) who has more money than God. We arranged, after a lot of persuading, to take a few days off and fly to an event in the US. Fine. We attend the event and the next morning he "thinks" he needs to fly off back to work. I called his secretary and asked if this was more fiction - there was no reason on earth why he needed to rush back to work. Secretary suggested handcuffing him to the floor and getting him drunk till he chilled *lol*

These type of people are just of a different planet - it's not about money and they could not care less. They have a totally different outlook to individuals who do not have millions/billions. The attitude with these people is spend, spend, spend for personal gratification - they would never be "wealth creators" on any scale. Don't know the background/makeup of a few high-profile "entrepreneurs", but can spot elements much the same with them - eg Warren Buffet - the guy still lives a modest lifestyle and it's obvious money is not the motivator.

Meanwhile - want to take a horse along the beach and leave them working their asses off? :winkwink:

Barefootsies 07-17-2007 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by GreyWolf (Post 12774823)
Hard to explain Jarmusch - these kind of people never quit - that's not on the table for discussion. Sure, he could sell off slowly to other corps and pocket the money (it would be his to do this with - the biz is totally privately owned and no shareholders/banks blah), but instead he's opening more hotels and buying majority shareholdings in another well-known hotel group.

This is fine up to a point, but it's more a disease than anything. It's not for power (very modest guy) or for greed - he does not *need* money and he does not personally want anything. One thing that seems to matter are the people he employs, tho he can never know 1000's of employees personally, there is a responsibility for them. Suppose if people like him did not exist, there would be more unemployment and fewer nice places to have exotic vacations.

It may be that they are just workaholics - there are plenty of them. Got another friend (tho his biz looks more controllable) who has more money than God. We arranged, after a lot of persuading, to take a few days off and fly to an event in the US. Fine. We attend the event and the next morning he "thinks" he needs to fly off back to work. I called his secretary and asked if this was more fiction - there was no reason on earth why he needed to rush back to work. Secretary suggested handcuffing him to the floor and getting him drunk till he chilled *lol*

These type of people are just of a different planet - it's not about money and they could not care less. They have a totally different outlook to individuals who do not have millions/billions. The attitude with these people is spend, spend, spend for personal gratification - they would never be "wealth creators" on any scale. Don't know the background/makeup of a few high-profile "entrepreneurs", but can spot elements much the same with them - eg Warren Buffet - the guy still lives a modest lifestyle and it's obvious money is not the motivator.

Meanwhile - want to take a horse along the beach and leave them working their asses off? :winkwink:

Impressive sire.

mikeyddddd 07-17-2007 02:24 PM


Klen 07-17-2007 06:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat (Post 12772423)
what would we be doing in Croatia?

Huh,i could ask you same what i would do in Poland.Croatia have a lot of intresting content for tourists so you dont need to worry about fun.And our best thing are pretty girls :)That will be exchange like people do on hospitaly club if you ever heard for it.

shekinah 07-17-2007 07:22 PM

Money is everything if you look in the reality of life.

Barefootsies 07-17-2007 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shekinah (Post 12776285)
Money is everything if you look in the reality of life.

It's a piece of the puzzle...

sharp 07-17-2007 08:58 PM

word. . . but it sure does help you enjoy life!

polish_aristocrat 07-20-2007 04:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KlenTelaris (Post 12776022)
Huh,i could ask you same what i would do in Poland.Croatia have a lot of intresting content for tourists so you dont need to worry about fun.And our best thing are pretty girls :)That will be exchange like people do on hospitaly club if you ever heard for it.

never heard of Hospitality Club but just took a look

seems interesting concept

Klen 07-20-2007 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat (Post 12788270)
never heard of Hospitality Club but just took a look

seems interesting concept

Go here and see: http://www.hospitalityclub.org/

posh rat in hell 07-20-2007 06:20 AM

all other factors the same, having more money sure does make life more comfortable though.

Barefootsies 07-20-2007 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by posh rat in hell (Post 12788500)
all other factors the same, having more money sure does make life more comfortable though.

true dat rat

alby_persignup 07-20-2007 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shekinah (Post 12776285)
Money is everything if you look in the reality of life.

I agree!!:thumbsup

pornguy 07-20-2007 08:36 AM

Being rich, and being happy is a state of mind

NTM 07-20-2007 08:47 AM

if you arent happy WITH money, then you sure as hell wont be happy WITHOUT them

squizzel 07-20-2007 02:27 PM

Seriously. money alone doesnt make you happy. If you are unhappy, and someone "gives" you a million $ you will still be unhappy but if your a happy person and someone gives u million$ then it will make your life alot better.

It doesnt make you happy on its own but certainly helps.


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