Practical Tips for a Long Relationship - GoFuckYourself.com

Miss Munki · 06-12-2007, 05:33 PM

Munki and I met in high school, and have been together for over 7 years. We still have a lot of fun together, so I thought it might be cool to share some insight on keeping things happy and hott.

1. We're always taking showers together. It's great, at least 15 minutes or more, a daily dose of wet naked time, it always gets us through the day feelin' happy and relaxed. Oh, and when there's time, bathtub blow-jobs are the best!

2. We try to deal with our shit with each other ASAP. If you runaway you'll end up confiding in friends or family which greatly impacts their (one-sided) opinion of your spouse, which sucks later when everything is peachy again.

3. We don't go to sleep mad. Everyone's heard this suggestion, but really, we're both already grouchy in the morning and it's much worse when you wake up pissed off. There is only the exception when we're drunk, we usually can't even remember what we were fighting about the next day anyway.

4. Birth-Control, it's free in the US, no excuses...take it and take it right.

5. Avoid getting married. If you must, do live together for a long, long time.

Anyone else got any tips?

Juicy D. Links · 06-12-2007, 05:35 PM

1- Make sure the girl leaves after you have sex

2- make sure you get to know her friends

3- I am sexy

collegeboobies · 06-12-2007, 05:38 PM

Do you post on newbienudes? lol

Hollywood Horwitz · 06-12-2007, 05:40 PM

good tips! however i think on GFY theres not many peeps with GF's or BF's...

Rochard · 06-12-2007, 05:41 PM

Don't aruge.

My wife and I have been together for about sixteen years. We don't argue at all. If we have a discussion and we disagree, we both back away and revisit it later.

We've only had one arguement ( July 2nd, 2006) and that's that. Yes, I remembered the date.

munki · 06-12-2007, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Horwitz

good tips! however i think on GFY theres not many peeps with GF's or BF's...

You'd be surprised... I know I have been...

Miss Munki · 06-12-2007, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by collegeboobies

Do you post on "bleeeeep"? lol

Don't do nudes...not for the public at least

Sly · 06-12-2007, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Horwitz

good tips! however i think on GFY theres not many peeps with GF's or BF's...

What makes you say that?

It seems most of the people I know in this industry are married.

Elli · 06-12-2007, 05:49 PM

Excellent advice!

Don't mistake not going to bed mad for comprimising because you're facing a deadline, though. I've fallen into that trap with an ex, and it turned into him saying "we have to keep talking until you agree with me because we can't go to bed mad at each other."

Sly · 06-12-2007, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Elli

Excellent advice!

Don't mistake not going to bed mad for comprimising because you're facing a deadline, though. I've fallen into that trap with an ex, and it turned into him saying "we have to keep talking until you agree with me because we can't go to bed mad at each other."

Being upset with someone is just one small battle. There are MANY battles in a war. Its ok to lose a few every now and then. Apparently your ex didn't realize this, thus being an ex. :-)

Miss Munki · 06-12-2007, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Elli

Excellent advice!

Don't mistake not going to bed mad for comprimising because you're facing a deadline, though. I've fallen into that trap with an ex, and it turned into him saying "we have to keep talking until you agree with me because we can't go to bed mad at each other."

Oh crap

, you're onto me...

munki · 06-12-2007, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

Oh crap

, you're onto me...

We are pretty good about hashing things out... and you have to have respect for the system... if either party abuses it... it won't work.

Spunky · 06-12-2007, 05:55 PM

Don't live together..everybody needs their space at times

JuiceMonkey · 06-12-2007, 05:55 PM

my best tip

ALWAYS Leave the money ontop of the desk.. ALWAYS...

baddog · 06-12-2007, 06:29 PM

too late

LiveDose · 06-12-2007, 06:38 PM

You guys look young and cute. Enjoy it and keep up what you are doing for as long as you can. We have all been there.

Now here's my tips:

-Make a lot of money and let her spend it
-Learn how to instinctually say 'yes honey' (even if you don't mean it)
-Cut down on 'guy time'
-Make more money
-Pay attention when she is talking and remember if she asks you to do anything
-Help out around the house
-Be a good Dad & Husband.
-Marry a wild girl so you can still go out and have fun once in a while.

Seriously, I have a great marriage but it takes a lot of work.

LiveDose · 06-12-2007, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

Don't aruge.

My wife and I have been together for about sixteen years. We don't argue at all. If we have a discussion and we disagree, we both back away and revisit it later.

We've only had one arguement ( July 2nd, 2006) and that's that. Yes, I remembered the date.

Is that the day she forgot to stock the Jager cabinet? I think it was in the news...

shekinah · 06-12-2007, 06:43 PM

Nice tips.. I do hope that will work best for everybody!

Pornwolf · 06-12-2007, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose;

You guys look young and cute. Enjoy it and keep up what you are doing for as long as you can. We have all been there.

Now here's my tips:

-Make a lot of money and let her spend it
-Learn how to instinctually say 'yes honey' (even if you don't mean it)
-Cut down on 'guy time'
-Make more money
-Pay attention when she is talking and remember if she asks you to do anything
-Help out around the house
-Be a good Dad & Husband.
-Marry a wild girl so you can still go out and have fun once in a while.

Seriously, I have a great marriage but it takes a lot of work.

I agree with this 100%. Especially the pay attention and remember part.

Miss Munki · 06-12-2007, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

You guys look young and cute. Enjoy it and keep up what you are doing for as long as you can. We have all been there.

Now here's my tips:

-Make a lot of money and let her spend it
-Learn how to instinctually say 'yes honey' (even if you don't mean it)
-Cut down on 'guy time'
-Make more money
-Pay attention when she is talking and remember if she asks you to do anything
-Help out around the house
-Be a good Dad & Husband.
-Marry a wild girl so you can still go out and have fun once in a while.

Seriously, I have a great marriage but it takes a lot of work.

Damn!!! You really got this down. Thanks for sharing

Vick! · 06-12-2007, 06:59 PM

1) Earn money.
2) Compromise
3) Earn more money.

Zuzana Designs · 06-12-2007, 06:59 PM

very very good advice

Thanks

LiveDose · 06-12-2007, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

Damn!!! You really got this down. Thanks for sharing

Reality baby. Now go and take care of your man.

munki · 06-12-2007, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

Reality baby. Now go and take care of your man.

GatorB · 06-12-2007, 07:48 PM

get her to like ass to mouth.

munki · 06-13-2007, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by GatorB

get her to like ass to mouth.

TBrown · 06-13-2007, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Sly

What makes you say that?

It seems most of the people I know in this industry are married.

I have the same experience

TheJimmy · 06-13-2007, 02:09 AM

This month it'll be 15 years of marriage for me...

best piece of advice I can give...in two parts

1) get real into understanding the other person's headset (compassion for other than self)

and

2) realize that life is short, make sure YOU are happy...there is often a way to include someone else in your happiness...

Sarah_Jayne · 06-13-2007, 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

Don't aruge.

My wife and I have been together for about sixteen years. We don't argue at all. If we have a discussion and we disagree, we both back away and revisit it later.

We've only had one arguement ( July 2nd, 2006) and that's that. Yes, I remembered the date.

I was married for 8 years until I became a widow and we went nearly five years of our marriage without a single fight. It was a pretty big event when it did happen but largely I agree..if there is too much fighting it should be a sign anyway.

Miss Munki · 06-13-2007, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash

I was married for 8 years until I became a widow and we went nearly five years of our marriage without a single fight. It was a pretty big event when it did happen but largely I agree..if there is too much fighting it should be a sign anyway.

I'm sorry for your loss, he sounds like a really awesome guy.

Miss Munki · 06-13-2007, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TheJimmy

This month it'll be 15 years of marriage for me...

best piece of advice I can give...in two parts

1) get real into understanding the other person's headset (compassion for other than self)

and

2) realize that life is short, make sure YOU are happy...there is often a way to include someone else in your happiness...

Thanks for the tip

WooHoo! 15 years...you gonna celebrate?

BlueDesignStudios · 06-13-2007, 03:28 AM

lots of good advice here!

martinsc · 06-13-2007, 03:34 AM

it's not that hard.. my wife is always right... and we are both happy

munki · 06-13-2007, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by martinsc

it's not that hard.. my wife is always right... and we are both happy

Sarah_Jayne · 06-13-2007, 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

I'm sorry for your loss, he sounds like a really awesome guy.

Thanks..he was

Though part of the reason we didn't fight much is that I knew he would win! lol.

Mrs F.U.B.A.R. · 06-13-2007, 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

5. Avoid getting married. If you must, do live together for a long, long time.

just curious.... why do you say to avoid getting married?

I've been married for 32 years and been quite happy with it

JFK might even say the same thing

Sarah_Jayne · 06-13-2007, 04:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs F.U.B.A.R.

just curious.... why do you say to avoid getting married?

I've been married for 32 years and been quite happy with it

JFK might even say the same thing

Marriage to the right person is great..if you are going to be together marriage certainly isn't going to stop that.

Mrs F.U.B.A.R. · 06-13-2007, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash

Marriage to the right person is great..if you are going to be together marriage certainly isn't going to stop that.

I agree, and I also know marriage isn't for everyone. To each their own. I was just curious why Munki's Girl said to avoid marriage.

Funbrunette · 06-13-2007, 06:58 AM

Cute couple!

sniperwolf · 06-13-2007, 08:40 AM

very nice helpful tips..the third one is so damn true..it's already proven...thanks for sharing!!

nAtuRaLbEautY · 06-13-2007, 08:46 AM

good points! you, two, also look good together, hope you'll have each other for another 7 years and more to that!

TheJimmy · 06-13-2007, 10:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

Thanks for the tip

WooHoo! 15 years...you gonna celebrate?

You betcha!

Just remember every day, it could be your last...make it a good one.

When problems or fights pop up -- and oh they will -- is it REALLY that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things?

For that have health issues that indicate time is running out it's easier to maintain this perspective...you don't have to wait until you're there to 'get it'

frostyimpressions · 06-13-2007, 10:05 AM

I agree with number 2 completely. If something is bothering you, say it right then and there and don't let it go un said. I also agree with the birth control thing. Best invention EVER.

WhiplashDug · 06-13-2007, 10:11 AM

just say no... then there is no problem.

NetwErk GUrl · 06-13-2007, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by WhiplashDug

just say no... then there is no problem.

Says the guy about to get MARRIED.

Ananda

Th!nk · 06-13-2007, 11:07 AM

nice inputs in here...thanks for sharing.

I've been with my bf for 5 years now and we've been thru a lot. I guess understanding each other's need is also one of the things that couples should look after. not only one sided...

Elli · 06-13-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Being upset with someone is just one small battle. There are MANY battles in a war. Its ok to lose a few every now and then. Apparently your ex didn't realize this, thus being an ex. :-)

Exactement

Miss Munki · 06-13-2007, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrs F.U.B.A.R.

just curious.... why do you say to avoid getting married?

I've been married for 32 years and been quite happy with it

JFK might even say the same thing

Haha, no offense, I have a lot of respect for marriage.

In my generation, marriage seems to be tainted. We dealt with the trauma of watching our parents (damn baby boomers) get divorced. Personally, both of my biological parents are still married (30yrs), I stuck out like a sore thumb growing up, I didn't know anyone else who's parents were still together.

I also had a few friends divorced by 22, most married due to teenage pregnancy. There's no good reason to rush into marriage, and plenty of good reasons to wait.

I'm not anti-marriage by any means, and I hope to do so myself one day

I do believe it's forever, even if ya have to wait forever to confirm that's correct.

IntenseAmber · 06-13-2007, 01:17 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together since high school too. This August will be our 10th anniversary. We always try to compromise. Even though I don't agree with some of the things he says or does, I still respect the way he feels. Oh, and lots of great sex too, that's always necessary!

Miss Munki · 06-13-2007, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by IntenseAmber

My boyfriend and I have been together since high school too. This August will be our 10th anniversary. We always try to compromise. Even though I don't agree with some of the things he says or does, I still respect the way he feels. Oh, and lots of great sex too, that's always necessary!

Well said, and congrats!

06-12-2007, 05:33 PM	#1
Miss Munki Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: OC Posts: 1,355	Practical Tips for a Long Relationship Munki and I met in high school, and have been together for over 7 years. We still have a lot of fun together, so I thought it might be cool to share some insight on keeping things happy and hott. 1. We're always taking showers together. It's great, at least 15 minutes or more, a daily dose of wet naked time, it always gets us through the day feelin' happy and relaxed. Oh, and when there's time, bathtub blow-jobs are the best! 2. We try to deal with our shit with each other ASAP. If you runaway you'll end up confiding in friends or family which greatly impacts their (one-sided) opinion of your spouse, which sucks later when everything is peachy again. 3. We don't go to sleep mad. Everyone's heard this suggestion, but really, we're both already grouchy in the morning and it's much worse when you wake up pissed off. There is only the exception when we're drunk, we usually can't even remember what we were fighting about the next day anyway. 4. Birth-Control, it's free in the US, no excuses...take it and take it right. 5. Avoid getting married. If you must, do live together for a long, long time. Anyone else got any tips? __________________ Sex Toy Distributing \| [email protected] \| ICQ: 198221207

06-12-2007, 05:40 PM	#4
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06-12-2007, 05:41 PM	#5
Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,027	Don't aruge. My wife and I have been together for about sixteen years. We don't argue at all. If we have a discussion and we disagree, we both back away and revisit it later. We've only had one arguement ( July 2nd, 2006) and that's that. Yes, I remembered the date. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

06-12-2007, 05:49 PM	#9
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	Excellent advice! Don't mistake not going to bed mad for comprimising because you're facing a deadline, though. I've fallen into that trap with an ex, and it turned into him saying "we have to keep talking until you agree with me because we can't go to bed mad at each other." __________________ email: [email protected]

06-12-2007, 05:55 PM	#13
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,944	Don't live together..everybody needs their space at times __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

06-12-2007, 05:35 PM	#2
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	1- Make sure the girl leaves after you have sex 2- make sure you get to know her friends 3- I am sexy

06-12-2007, 05:38 PM	#3
collegeboobies So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,644	Do you post on newbienudes? lol

06-12-2007, 05:55 PM	#14
JuiceMonkey Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Brisbane/Vancouver/SanFran Posts: 3,581	my best tip ALWAYS Leave the money ontop of the desk.. ALWAYS... __________________ ICQ: 72251955 GTalk: JuiceMonkey

06-12-2007, 06:29 PM	#15
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	too late

06-12-2007, 06:38 PM	#16
LiveDose Show Yer Tits! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Somewhere Out there... Posts: 25,792	You guys look young and cute. Enjoy it and keep up what you are doing for as long as you can. We have all been there. Now here's my tips: -Make a lot of money and let her spend it -Learn how to instinctually say 'yes honey' (even if you don't mean it) -Cut down on 'guy time' -Make more money -Pay attention when she is talking and remember if she asks you to do anything -Help out around the house -Be a good Dad & Husband. -Marry a wild girl so you can still go out and have fun once in a while. Seriously, I have a great marriage but it takes a lot of work. __________________ Scammer Alert: acer19 acer [email protected] [email protected] Money stolen using PayPal

06-12-2007, 06:43 PM	#18
shekinah Confirmed User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 8,452	Nice tips.. I do hope that will work best for everybody! __________________ [Web Design \| Development \| Programming \| Content Writing ] ICQ: 238-890-469

06-12-2007, 06:59 PM	#21
Vick! Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: 20 00'24.00" N, 75 09'00.00 W Posts: 6,882	1) Earn money. 2) Compromise 3) Earn more money.

06-12-2007, 06:59 PM	#22
Zuzana Designs All Your Design Needs Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: [email protected] Posts: 20,851	very very good advice Thanks __________________ Website Design - Consulting - Development sarah [at] zuzanadesigns.com - See Our Work

06-12-2007, 07:48 PM	#25
GatorB The Demon & 12clicks Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: SallyRand is a FAGGOT Posts: 18,208	get her to like ass to mouth.

06-13-2007, 02:09 AM	#28
TheJimmy ICQ- five seven 0 2 5 5 0 Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 10,747	This month it'll be 15 years of marriage for me... best piece of advice I can give...in two parts 1) get real into understanding the other person's headset (compassion for other than self) and 2) realize that life is short, make sure YOU are happy...there is often a way to include someone else in your happiness... __________________ Investor with 5m - 15m USD to invest. Do you have a site or network of sites earning 50k - 200k a month income? Email your contact and preliminary data to: domain.cashventures (at) gmail.com....Please...no tire kickers...serious offers and inquiries only.

06-13-2007, 03:28 AM	#32
BlueDesignStudios Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 9,492	lots of good advice here! __________________ Blue Design Studios - Adult Design Specialists! Email me for a free quote: [email protected]

06-13-2007, 03:34 AM	#33
martinsc Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: 127.0.0.1 Posts: 27,047	it's not that hard.. my wife is always right... and we are both happy __________________ Make Money

06-13-2007, 06:58 AM	#39
Funbrunette Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 4,834	Cute couple! __________________ Stephanie (Funbrunette) [email protected] ICQ: 155-713-409

06-13-2007, 08:40 AM	#40
sniperwolf Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 17,743	very nice helpful tips..the third one is so damn true..it's already proven...thanks for sharing!! __________________ ~Accepting design works~

06-13-2007, 08:46 AM	#41
nAtuRaLbEautY Confirmed User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 6,107	good points! you, two, also look good together, hope you'll have each other for another 7 years and more to that! __________________ Prime Outsourcing│offshore solutions│manual labor│staff leasing│full time employees starting at $695.00/month=managed and dedicated \| icq: 309570461 \| live chat

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frostyimpressions Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 918	I agree with number 2 completely. If something is bothering you, say it right then and there and don't let it go un said. I also agree with the birth control thing. Best invention EVER. __________________ Lisa

06-13-2007, 10:11 AM	#44
WhiplashDug ICS Graphics Dude Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: SACTO Posts: 3,438	just say no... then there is no problem. __________________ Was a graphics master for Lensman @ Adult.com but now... I can't tell ya cause it aint top secret. ........... *DOUGRIDLEYDESIGNS* [email protected] ICQ: 303-498-056 skype: whiplashdug

06-13-2007, 11:07 AM	#46
Th!nk Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 6,996	nice inputs in here...thanks for sharing. I've been with my bf for 5 years now and we've been thru a lot. I guess understanding each other's need is also one of the things that couples should look after. not only one sided...

06-13-2007, 01:17 PM	#49
IntenseAmber Confirmed User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Denver, Colorado Posts: 162	My boyfriend and I have been together since high school too. This August will be our 10th anniversary. We always try to compromise. Even though I don't agree with some of the things he says or does, I still respect the way he feels. Oh, and lots of great sex too, that's always necessary! __________________ BrokeStraightGirls.com!