Does porn break up relationships? - GoFuckYourself.com

SykkBoy · 06-07-2007, 02:13 PM

I was reading yet another story about how porn is destroying relationships and causing marriages and families to split.

I feel that porn is the least of a the problems in a failed relationship...I feel the relationship was probably declining to begin with and the porn was just a part of it.

How do you feel about it? Can it be at least a part of the problem? Maybe if daddy is suddenly only interested in porn and is ignoring his family? Maybe Jimmy doesn't have lunch money this week because daddy bought 500 more cam minutes with SexyBiHottie or yet another membership to hotbimbosfuckingeveryone.com?

Is this a porn problem or the same as alcohol? Do we contribute or are we just another vice someone might take up when their own lives and/or relationships are failing?

aico · 06-07-2007, 02:16 PM

No, relationships break up porn.

Kevin Marx · 06-07-2007, 02:16 PM

we seem to be doing just fine... 14 yrs.. no problems. She knows I like to look at women... she knows she is #1

Malla · 06-07-2007, 02:18 PM

I think its important to be open and honnest to your girl! And if that doesnt work- quit or do it when she not there!!

KimJI · 06-07-2007, 02:18 PM

Porn is a scapegoat when people wont say what the real reason are.
If a guy decide to watch porn instead of fucking his wife, there is something wrong in the relationship. Its not porn that makes him NOT want to have sex with his wife.

Yellow Pages · 06-07-2007, 02:19 PM

In those scenarios, yes, it could quite possibly be a relationship killer, just like coke or any other addiction, if you let yourself become addicted. Of course, not everyone is vulnerable.

But to get directly to the topic, yep, porn breaks up relationships every day, but then, so do cars, dogs, cats and TV.

It's not too hard to believe that if some wives/girlfriends caught their husband/boyfriend looking at porn, that's the end. It's the same reversed too, just not as prevalent.

jakethedog · 06-07-2007, 02:40 PM

porn doesn't break up relationships .. insecurity breaks up relationships .. porn is just a catalyst .. anything that challenges the security of a relationship ie. porn , strippers .. or girls/boys that are friends that can tax the trust issues in a relationship are going to destroy it .. trust one another in every way possible and it will last forever..

=^..^= · 06-07-2007, 02:44 PM

porn is just a scapegoat when couples cant get along

if the relationship is fine - porn can be fun to share :-)

Violetta · 06-07-2007, 02:46 PM

If i was more involved than I am today, it would. But my gf is a great girl, so she sticks up with me!!

GatorB · 06-07-2007, 02:46 PM

Fact is that MONEY breaks up relationships more than anything else. Infidelity is 2nd and that has nothing to with porn since the cheater is fucking an actual person not whacking off to a video.

D-Money · 06-07-2007, 02:49 PM

Does gambling break up marriages?

How about the NFL season (sunday by the TV)?

How about NBA Finals week?

Man, there's lot's of things people can blame it on.

Porn is a treat, just like all the rest. Some take too much of a good thing, and that's their trait, can't blame an industry.

Good post Sykk.

And I believe everything and everyone in this world are all a part of the problem in some way! Everyones guilty!

LOL

nAtuRaLbEautY · 06-07-2007, 02:50 PM

don't think so, unless the person is already engrossed to it that he can't even live a day without looking at masturbating bitches... but nonetheless, porn should even strengthen the relationship, shouldn't it?

Viowatch · 06-07-2007, 02:53 PM

It can, it depends on the women. But me & my girl love to watch porn's and have sex ;D or make porn vid's of us =P

jakethedog · 06-07-2007, 02:54 PM

and the more i think about it .. couples in secure monogamous relationships don't even have facebook or ratemybody and a crap accounts out there... if people have these types of accounts in a relationship they are looking for something or someone else ..the stories about "oh just looking for friends" is a load of shit .. porn is nothing more than self gratification ... a little personal time to rub one out and if you need a little out side mental stimulation ..so be it ... and if someone felt that masturbating to adult content was wrong then the truth is they are either to insecure about them selves or their relationships to begin with to be in one in the first place .. and they should seriously do some real internal searching for the true meaning to their problems..
but this is just my opinion ..

emjay · 06-07-2007, 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aico

No, relationships break up porn.

Serously though, I feel that porn - like gambling, is addictive - and can destroy relationships.

Conversely, however, it can sometimes also "add spice" to relationships in a good way.

But I have never seen a link to www.sa.org. Ever.

Practically all casinos link to GA.

SykkBoy · 06-07-2007, 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D-Money

Does gambling break up marriages?

How about the NFL season (sunday by the TV)?

How about NBA Finals week?

Man, there's lot's of things people can blame it on.

Porn is a treat, just like all the rest. Some take too much of a good thing, and that's their trait, can't blame an industry.

Good post Sykk.

And I believe everything and everyone in this world are all a part of the problem in some way! Everyones guilty!

LOL

Yup, we're all a bit guilty
That being said, if the foundation is already weak, all we're going to do is collapse the building a little faster.

Michaelious · 06-07-2007, 03:27 PM

No, i don't see why it should if everyone is mature enough

fbrtopic · 06-07-2007, 03:34 PM

If my girl can't handle porn, then she's not my girl. I don't date women that are ashamed of their sexuality.

AZSarah · 06-07-2007, 03:57 PM

I think like Jake said, insecurity & the lack of trust is what is really the issue and not the porn itself.

A couple of years ago a good friend of mine caught her bf looking at porn.
At first she didn't care until she actually looked in the history & started to notice which pages & pictures he was most into.
She was petite & Japanese and he seemed to always go to blondes with big fake tits, basically girls who looked nothing like her... she said that was the part that bothered her the most about it.
When he said he would stop & she kept catching him DAILY, she left his ass.

IntenseAmber · 06-07-2007, 05:41 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. I don't think I could still be with him if we both weren't so open to porn, even before I got in the industry. Some couples are just so uptight these days! For fuck's sake people need to get off more!

MonsterWeb · 06-07-2007, 06:27 PM

well dudes can watch porn girls not
if the dude watches shes gotta accept if she watches shes a tramp then you shoudnt spend time with her hahaha

Snake Doctor · 06-07-2007, 06:39 PM

Porn is only a problem if the woman is insecure with her body and/or sexual performance. (or vice-versa if it's the woman watching porn)

OR

Porn is a problem if the man is so addicted to porn that he'd rather watch porn than have sex with his partner. (or vice versa)

Lance69 · 06-07-2007, 07:37 PM

Jake makes a lot of sense on this one. I'd add complete and open honesty to that. Otherwise failure due to a lack of aforementioned trust is inevitable. On the flip side you and your partner can't make each other feel shitty for being honest. Just find your solution together.
People can find any reason to get out of their relationships if they want it.

Spunky · 06-07-2007, 07:41 PM

Sure it does..if you're paying more attention to anything other than your woman,she will feel neglected and jealous and lose intrest in you very fast

munki · 06-07-2007, 07:44 PM

Going on 7+ years with my girl... honesty and trust is where it's all at...

I want my privacy and have my own interests... as does she, but having faith, respect, and trust keeps us strong.

IMHO... anytime a catalyst is blamed for a relationship problem... someone is looking for an easy out... a catalyst is just that, a starting point... bigger issues can be much easier to summarize by I left that asshole because he watched porn... or vice versa..

CaptainHowdy · 06-07-2007, 09:23 PM

The problem it's just people... in any biz.

TTiger · 06-07-2007, 09:30 PM

my girlfriend for 3 years and the one i feel really in love with just left me because i was doing porno site such as tgp and galleries.. prono site are time consuming and shes was kinda angry because the first thing i was doing when i woke up is drink cofee and doing my site tour routine for about 30 minutes like checking stats, checking if hosting is ok check my galleries listing etc....

GregE · 06-07-2007, 10:00 PM

Nope.

Not unless the relationship isn't worth a damn to begin with

tony286 · 06-07-2007, 10:01 PM

Its an excuse and their reason to make a case to get rid of us. If they really care about people, more families have been broken up, ruined and people killed by booze.

DaddyHalbucks · 06-07-2007, 11:02 PM

Nah, that's an excuse.

I bet porn has HELPED far more relationships than it has hurt.

That's right, porn can enhance sexuality.

Remember, our customers pay for this stuff. They feel it helps them.

coding_bug · 06-07-2007, 11:18 PM

porn gives new sex ideas for your partner and you!!

porn rocks!!

SykkBoy · 06-08-2007, 07:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by emjay

Serously though, I feel that porn - like gambling, is addictive - and can destroy relationships.

Conversely, however, it can sometimes also "add spice" to relationships in a good way.

But I have never seen a link to www.sa.org. Ever.

Practically all casinos link to GA.

I've often wondered about society's views of sexual addiction...it doesn't seem to get taken as seriously as alcohol or drug addiction...

dynastoned · 06-08-2007, 07:50 AM

if porn breaks up your relationship you're retarded. (talking about surfers) people working in this biz is another story.

ClimaxXx · 06-08-2007, 07:55 AM

I've seen this before... and to be honest... porn broke my girlfriend and I up the first time (Well, that was her excuse, I know there was many underlying issues)
But, now we're back together, and she likes it just as much as I do...

The way I see it is - Relax, it's just sex...
Porn can only destroy a relationship that's already on the crapper...

royaljelly2 · 06-08-2007, 07:56 AM

i've not formed much of an opinion on this. i dont think that porn can break up a marriage? i think there are other issues to deal with.

Mrs Blazing · 06-08-2007, 09:13 AM

I don't think so...being able to be your true self in a relationship is freedom. It's like no worries. My honey and I love porn. I think i like it more than him (funny huh). We are like best friends. I think compatibility is one key along with respect and....

zeruel · 06-08-2007, 09:17 AM

for me, it don't break up a relationship... there is no reason to do that...

SykkBoy · 06-08-2007, 09:19 AM

What about certain types of porn?

Say the male likes to watch gay porn...could this lead to a problem? What if the female liked to watch beasty porn or barely legal gals who are dressed up to look 13? Could this cause more of a problem than standard porn?

frostyimpressions · 06-08-2007, 10:10 AM

I agree. Porn doesn't break up relationships. The relationship was doomed to begin with. People want something to blame other than themselves, so they pick excuses like porn to avoid taking responsiblity or to overlook the real problem.

Blazing · 06-08-2007, 10:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aico

No, relationships break up porn.

LOL!! Classic Statement....

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Malla Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Location: GFY Posts: 66	I think its important to be open and honnest to your girl! And if that doesnt work- quit or do it when she not there!! __________________ Plugrush.com

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KimJI Confirmed User Join Date: May 2007 Location: So fucking gone Posts: 1,839	Porn is a scapegoat when people wont say what the real reason are. If a guy decide to watch porn instead of fucking his wife, there is something wrong in the relationship. Its not porn that makes him NOT want to have sex with his wife. __________________ Trafficadept \| Best traffic I have ever tested \| web "@t" cuul.org

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Yellow Pages Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: 69699 Nakedgirlsburgh, Smooth Vaginia, Pinkland OU812 Posts: 62	In those scenarios, yes, it could quite possibly be a relationship killer, just like coke or any other addiction, if you let yourself become addicted. Of course, not everyone is vulnerable. But to get directly to the topic, yep, porn breaks up relationships every day, but then, so do cars, dogs, cats and TV. It's not too hard to believe that if some wives/girlfriends caught their husband/boyfriend looking at porn, that's the end. It's the same reversed too, just not as prevalent. __________________ Thank you, Yellow Pages

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jakethedog Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Vancouver B.C. Posts: 2,497	porn doesn't break up relationships .. insecurity breaks up relationships .. porn is just a catalyst .. anything that challenges the security of a relationship ie. porn , strippers .. or girls/boys that are friends that can tax the trust issues in a relationship are going to destroy it .. trust one another in every way possible and it will last forever.. __________________ No sig .. just me

06-07-2007, 02:13 PM	#1
SykkBoy Jesus loves bacon Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Sin City, Motherfucker Posts: 19,969	Does porn break up relationships? I was reading yet another story about how porn is destroying relationships and causing marriages and families to split. I feel that porn is the least of a the problems in a failed relationship...I feel the relationship was probably declining to begin with and the porn was just a part of it. How do you feel about it? Can it be at least a part of the problem? Maybe if daddy is suddenly only interested in porn and is ignoring his family? Maybe Jimmy doesn't have lunch money this week because daddy bought 500 more cam minutes with SexyBiHottie or yet another membership to hotbimbosfuckingeveryone.com? Is this a porn problem or the same as alcohol? Do we contribute or are we just another vice someone might take up when their own lives and/or relationships are failing? __________________ Support my new movie “The Second Coming”

06-07-2007, 02:16 PM	#2
aico Moo Moo Cow Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Washington State Posts: 14,748	No, relationships break up porn.

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=^..^= Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ 380-366 Posts: 6,935	porn is just a scapegoat when couples cant get along if the relationship is fine - porn can be fun to share :-) __________________ #RememberYourRoots #AaronMForGFYHOF

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Violetta Affiliate Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 28,735	If i was more involved than I am today, it would. But my gf is a great girl, so she sticks up with me!! __________________ M&A Queen

06-07-2007, 02:46 PM	#10
GatorB The Demon & 12clicks Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: SallyRand is a FAGGOT Posts: 18,208	Fact is that MONEY breaks up relationships more than anything else. Infidelity is 2nd and that has nothing to with porn since the cheater is fucking an actual person not whacking off to a video.

06-07-2007, 02:49 PM	#11
D-Money Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Player Del Ray Posts: 9,716	Does gambling break up marriages? How about the NFL season (sunday by the TV)? How about NBA Finals week? Man, there's lot's of things people can blame it on. Porn is a treat, just like all the rest. Some take too much of a good thing, and that's their trait, can't blame an industry. Good post Sykk. And I believe everything and everyone in this world are all a part of the problem in some way! Everyones guilty! LOL __________________ Still Ballin'

06-07-2007, 02:50 PM	#12
nAtuRaLbEautY Confirmed User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 6,107	don't think so, unless the person is already engrossed to it that he can't even live a day without looking at masturbating bitches... but nonetheless, porn should even strengthen the relationship, shouldn't it? __________________ Prime Outsourcing│offshore solutions│manual labor│staff leasing│full time employees starting at $695.00/month=managed and dedicated \| icq: 309570461 \| live chat

06-07-2007, 02:53 PM	#13
Viowatch So Fucking Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 257	It can, it depends on the women. But me & my girl love to watch porn's and have sex ;D or make porn vid's of us =P

06-07-2007, 02:54 PM	#14
jakethedog Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Vancouver B.C. Posts: 2,497	and the more i think about it .. couples in secure monogamous relationships don't even have facebook or ratemybody and a crap accounts out there... if people have these types of accounts in a relationship they are looking for something or someone else ..the stories about "oh just looking for friends" is a load of shit .. porn is nothing more than self gratification ... a little personal time to rub one out and if you need a little out side mental stimulation ..so be it ... and if someone felt that masturbating to adult content was wrong then the truth is they are either to insecure about them selves or their relationships to begin with to be in one in the first place .. and they should seriously do some real internal searching for the true meaning to their problems.. but this is just my opinion .. __________________ No sig .. just me

06-07-2007, 03:27 PM	#17
Michaelious Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Scotland Posts: 6,720	No, i don't see why it should if everyone is mature enough __________________

06-07-2007, 03:34 PM	#18
fbrtopic Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 283	If my girl can't handle porn, then she's not my girl. I don't date women that are ashamed of their sexuality.

06-07-2007, 03:57 PM	#19
AZSarah Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: The Bird, AZ Posts: 1,651	I think like Jake said, insecurity & the lack of trust is what is really the issue and not the porn itself. A couple of years ago a good friend of mine caught her bf looking at porn. At first she didn't care until she actually looked in the history & started to notice which pages & pictures he was most into. She was petite & Japanese and he seemed to always go to blondes with big fake tits, basically girls who looked nothing like her... she said that was the part that bothered her the most about it. When he said he would stop & she kept catching him DAILY, she left his ass. __________________ Icq- 470-936-598

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IntenseAmber Confirmed User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Denver, Colorado Posts: 162	My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. I don't think I could still be with him if we both weren't so open to porn, even before I got in the industry. Some couples are just so uptight these days! For fuck's sake people need to get off more! __________________ BrokeStraightGirls.com!

06-07-2007, 06:27 PM	#21
MonsterWeb Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 133	well dudes can watch porn girls not if the dude watches shes gotta accept if she watches shes a tramp then you shoudnt spend time with her hahaha __________________ Webmaster Stuff

06-07-2007, 06:39 PM	#22
Snake Doctor I'm Lenny2 Bitch Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: On top of my soapbox Posts: 13,449	Porn is only a problem if the woman is insecure with her body and/or sexual performance. (or vice-versa if it's the woman watching porn) OR Porn is a problem if the man is so addicted to porn that he'd rather watch porn than have sex with his partner. (or vice versa)

06-07-2007, 07:37 PM	#23
Lance69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Vancouver BC Posts: 2,266	Jake makes a lot of sense on this one. I'd add complete and open honesty to that. Otherwise failure due to a lack of aforementioned trust is inevitable. On the flip side you and your partner can't make each other feel shitty for being honest. Just find your solution together. People can find any reason to get out of their relationships if they want it. __________________ Sonarcash Competitive Content Shooting Handgasm HD Handjobs Janessa Jordan Ultimate Wife Make Money Fucking Blog ICQ: 307 975 028 lance {at} sonarcash {dot} com (<- Need amateur content? Email or ICQ)

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Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,943	Sure it does..if you're paying more attention to anything other than your woman,she will feel neglected and jealous and lose intrest in you very fast __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

06-07-2007, 07:44 PM	#25
munki Do Fun Shit. Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: OC Posts: 13,393	Going on 7+ years with my girl... honesty and trust is where it's all at... I want my privacy and have my own interests... as does she, but having faith, respect, and trust keeps us strong. IMHO... anytime a catalyst is blamed for a relationship problem... someone is looking for an easy out... a catalyst is just that, a starting point... bigger issues can be much easier to summarize by I left that asshole because he watched porn... or vice versa.. __________________ “I have the simplest tastes. I am always satisfied with the best.” -Oscar Wilde

06-07-2007, 09:23 PM	#26
CaptainHowdy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Happy in the dark. Posts: 93,575	The problem it's just people... in any biz.

06-07-2007, 09:30 PM	#27
TTiger Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: quebec, canada Posts: 3,030	my girlfriend for 3 years and the one i feel really in love with just left me because i was doing porno site such as tgp and galleries.. prono site are time consuming and shes was kinda angry because the first thing i was doing when i woke up is drink cofee and doing my site tour routine for about 30 minutes like checking stats, checking if hosting is ok check my galleries listing etc.... __________________ Last edited by TTiger; 06-07-2007 at 09:31 PM..

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GregE Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 2,704	Nope. Not unless the relationship isn't worth a damn to begin with __________________ 50/50 lifetime payout - EXCLUSIVE CONTENT - CCBill CLiCK here for your Bun Beating Dollars.

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tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	Its an excuse and their reason to make a case to get rid of us. If they really care about people, more families have been broken up, ruined and people killed by booze.

06-07-2007, 11:02 PM	#30
DaddyHalbucks A freakin' legend! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada USA Posts: 18,975	Nah, that's an excuse. I bet porn has HELPED far more relationships than it has hurt. That's right, porn can enhance sexuality. Remember, our customers pay for this stuff. They feel it helps them. __________________ Boner Money

06-07-2007, 11:18 PM	#31
coding_bug Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Somewhere only we know Posts: 100	porn gives new sex ideas for your partner and you!! porn rocks!!

06-08-2007, 07:50 AM	#33
dynastoned mmm yeah! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: roseville, ca Posts: 5,061	if porn breaks up your relationship you're retarded. (talking about surfers) people working in this biz is another story.

06-08-2007, 07:55 AM	#34
ClimaxXx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 171	I've seen this before... and to be honest... porn broke my girlfriend and I up the first time (Well, that was her excuse, I know there was many underlying issues) But, now we're back together, and she likes it just as much as I do... The way I see it is - Relax, it's just sex... Porn can only destroy a relationship that's already on the crapper... __________________ The Asshole Chronicles ICQ - 379767335 Source 4 Adult \| The Source 4 Adult Casino - Feed Your Gambling Addiction

06-08-2007, 07:56 AM	#35
royaljelly2 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 1,034	i've not formed much of an opinion on this. i dont think that porn can break up a marriage? i think there are other issues to deal with.

06-08-2007, 09:13 AM	#36
Mrs Blazing Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 46	I don't think so...being able to be your true self in a relationship is freedom. It's like no worries. My honey and I love porn. I think i like it more than him (funny huh). We are like best friends. I think compatibility is one key along with respect and.... __________________ [email protected] \| ICQ # 416-768-621

06-08-2007, 09:17 AM	#37
zeruel Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: I was born intelligent, but Google ruined me! Posts: 1,387	for me, it don't break up a relationship... there is no reason to do that...

06-08-2007, 09:19 AM	#38
SykkBoy Jesus loves bacon Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Sin City, Motherfucker Posts: 19,969	What about certain types of porn? Say the male likes to watch gay porn...could this lead to a problem? What if the female liked to watch beasty porn or barely legal gals who are dressed up to look 13? Could this cause more of a problem than standard porn? __________________ Support my new movie “The Second Coming”