Seriously? Mixed on this....

If you go into a marriage asking for a prenuptial, that is like saying that it will fail right from the start...

however, I would want to protect my assets too...

so... I guess it's a good thing I am not planning on getting married... I have been with my woman for 11 years, why fuck up a good thing?

I have already told my current girlfriend that if we get married ever we're using a prenup.. I actually tell her this everytime she picks up her pay check ;)

Hate the idea of not being able to trust people - whether a marital situation, biz partner or whatever, but - reality is that life can change and have surprises.

Suppose a pre-nup depends on circumstances - eg if you have built up assets prior to a marriage and these may involve business situations where damage could be caused because of a divorce, it may be wise to consult on a pre-nup agreement.

The object is not to ripoff a partner - simply to secure assets which may have existed prior to marriage and got no problem sharing in all assets accquired during a marriage.

The other extreme is people who are very wealthy - pre-nups are not an option.

I think a lot of factors come into play. Very complex, touchy subject. Also depends on where you live (legal wise). If you have substantial assets/money consult an attorney. It's not about the money right? Write it so that over the long term she will be taken care of, for example.
Me personally I think, if she gives you shit NO GOOD. If she discusses, that's different.
Though one ;) but times have changed.

Writing that one down :winkwink:

why are you marrying her if you dont trust her?

thats why im wavering back and forth on this one...


do i trust her?? hehe..just kidding. i trust her...but people change over time. u never really know

people change over time. u never really know :thumbsup:Oh crap