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Bake 05-01-2007 06:20 PM

Its allways good to hear both sides

Huggles 05-01-2007 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StuartD (Post 12344212)
http://www.9xs.net/pics/surgery.jpg
That's my spine you see that's white.


I have had sex with a vagina that has looked exactly like that.

tenletters 05-01-2007 06:24 PM

anyone else want to kick stuart in his spine for posting that surgery pic? Bastard canadian!

What was it several years back concerning DH and him possibly fucking someone over for thousands? Am I thinking of the wrong person? If I am then I apologize.

LadyMischief 05-01-2007 06:32 PM

From personal experience I know that coming in and working on an older legacy system can be nightmarish, especially if the software is undocumented (which most of it is when it's custom-written). Developing something new from scratch can take months or even years. Stu gave it the best he had I'm sure :) It's a shame to see things go this route

Huggles 05-01-2007 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 12346689)
From personal experience I know that coming in and working on an older legacy system can be nightmarish, especially if the software is undocumented


Did Stu try and communicate to Mark just how screwed up the old system was? My old IT experience has lead me to believe this may have been a communication problem. Often the manager will have no idea, NO idea how complicated a task is. They will think you can integrate a "list" into a program in a week, assuming the list is easily readable and organized. Sounds like the list of pass / spot holders was a nightmare to deal with. I know many people who had passes that they paid for 3 months and had free for over 9.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 05-01-2007 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Huggles (Post 12346650)
I have had sex with a vagina that has looked exactly like that.

Sounds like something DWB would say/do. :winkwink:

What the hell was the surgery for? Makes me wonder if socialized health care is all it's cut up to be...

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High Plains Drifter 05-01-2007 06:57 PM

So is GTS hiring? Sounds like a sweet place to work.

Cyndalie 05-01-2007 06:58 PM

at this point
you two should stop.
Pick up the phone.
and talk.

xclusive 05-01-2007 06:59 PM

StuartD you suck, It's obvious that you faked that injury by cutting open your ass with a canopener. So you could look for a job while DH was paying you. Bad Stu bad...All the stand up guys that have worked for DH have torn into you so far in this thread...Oh not so much but i'm sure if there were some happy employees of DH they would really rip you a new one if that hadn't been done already. DH has not bought me a drink or shaken my hand so I may be a nobody but that means he's not a stand up guy or top notch. Stu wish you all the best on your new gig, you actually know what the fuck you are doing and if I need an extra hand in programming I would happily hire you.

StuartD 05-01-2007 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Huggles (Post 12346740)
Did Stu try and communicate to Mark just how screwed up the old system was? My old IT experience has lead me to believe this may have been a communication problem. Often the manager will have no idea, NO idea how complicated a task is. They will think you can integrate a "list" into a program in a week, assuming the list is easily readable and organized. Sounds like the list of pass / spot holders was a nightmare to deal with. I know many people who had passes that they paid for 3 months and had free for over 9.

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrinkingHardest
We started having serious issues with Stewie's work after this manager left

There's a very good reason for this statement. My manager reported everything happening in the technical areas of GTS to Mark. Once he was let go, there were no reports.

I had a sit down with Mark where Mark explained that he couldn't place a value on a programmer because he's a sales guy, and he needs to see a $ in the profit column to understand their value in the company. I can understand that as well, Mark's a sales guy... it's how he thinks. But he said he understood that he had to put that aside as a programmer and tech people are valuable despite not bringing in sales.

Anyway, I reported to my manager, he made Mark understand what I was doing. He had a way of getting Mark to understand.

I tried to explain as best as I could that the SubmitPass situation was futile. Many of us did. We expressed huge concerns over trying to rush everything and just make it work. But that wasn't a concern, the bottom line was the only issue.

One problem rolled into a bigger problem, which rolled into 2 bigger problems and snow balled from there.

datatank 05-01-2007 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XPays (Post 12344194)
51 potentially bad karma situations
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:thumbsup


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LadyMischief 05-01-2007 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Huggles (Post 12346740)
Did Stu try and communicate to Mark just how screwed up the old system was? My old IT experience has lead me to believe this may have been a communication problem. Often the manager will have no idea, NO idea how complicated a task is. They will think you can integrate a "list" into a program in a week, assuming the list is easily readable and organized. Sounds like the list of pass / spot holders was a nightmare to deal with. I know many people who had passes that they paid for 3 months and had free for over 9.

Communication is integral in these kinds of situations. I have no idea how Stu handled it with Mark but in my past experiences with him and his work he's never hesitated to give full explainations in layman's terms what is being dealt with. Some people don't have a technical mindset, some people don't ask they just demand, some people will just never get it. I have no idea what it is in this case, it could be something else entirely, but one thing I DO know, is that it would be a COMPLETE 180 for Stu to do great work for so many people for so long and suddenly become a rotten apple overnight. I'm not making judgement calls here, I don't like to involve myself in this kind of personal crap on the boards, but it really just doesn't seem in character for that to be the case. Something like communication (which requires speaking AND listening, it doesn't just fall on one person) is a common issue when dealing with this kind of situation.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 05-01-2007 07:31 PM

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Barefootsies 05-01-2007 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pornopete (Post 12343670)
wow jimthefiend taking sig whoring to a whole new level!

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Tempest 05-01-2007 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L0stMind (Post 12345014)
Why is DH on such a rampage lately? I dunno, I'd assume it's because of his wife's hospital ordeal. I've watched gfy for years (since inception) and DH used to seem like a fairly humble, hard working and nice guy. Lately, his posts are all bashing and pimping - look at me and my new leased car and new pricey tv and ski lodge and oh btw I have a real estate empire and blah blah.

Looks to me like his success has gone to his head and he's become an arrogent asshole. It's a fairly typical result for a lot of guys... I've only ever really seen him being a prick so don't know.

CuriousToyBoy 05-01-2007 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phoenix (Post 12343903)
you guys and your lawsuits..lol

you both come here and publicly ostrize Mark's companies...even create fake nicks and spread bullshit...i highly doubt mark would ever say a bad thing about anyone until they have thrown the gauntlet first. So you guys are the ones to have rbought this on yourself.

StuartD having AaronM post threats for you on your behalf isnt going to fool anyone...you spoke out more against him then he has against you.

this is a very very small industry....Mark can always hire new employees, but both MGK and StuartD have a limited pool of people to get contracts from...think about that.

Also...you all know his wife is in the hospital now and was in critical care...and you choose that moment to go on a full out attack against him?
That to me is the lowest of low.
You think he is in the proper state of mind right now? How would any of you feel if your wife was in the hospital for something, and it was bad enough they are thinking of flying her to toronto? Id take it very personally as im sure he is.




No one is looking good from these threads.
NO ONE.

Awesome post Brad. Awesome.

:2 cents:

AaronM 05-01-2007 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy (Post 12347401)
Awesome post Brad. Awesome.

:2 cents:


And fuck you too. :321GFY

kektex 05-01-2007 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StuartD (Post 12344212)

There goes my late night snack...
What the hell happened to your back dude?

CDSmith 05-01-2007 10:20 PM

No mention about the time Stu had sex with the cleaning lady on his office desk?

Oh wait, I'm confusing him with Costanza again.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 05-01-2007 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 12347790)
No mention about the time Stu had sex with the cleaning lady on his office desk?

Oh wait, I'm confusing him with Costanza again.

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And don't be bad mouthing George "Can't Stand Ya", neithers...

SHEESH!!!

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fuzebox 05-01-2007 10:43 PM

The real moral of this story is....

wax your back hair guys.

CuriousToyBoy 05-01-2007 11:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12347576)
And fuck you too. :321GFY

I meant the sentiment I concured with fully, hence quoting the post in it's entirety so as not to ruin context (as many do around here)...

No one is looking good from these threads.
NO ONE.


If not the specifics.

I see your "fuck you" and raise you 2 "blow mes"

How do you like them apples?

:winkwink: :thumbsup

CDSmith 05-01-2007 11:02 PM

Okay, show of hands

Who here wants to fuck Stu's back wound?


::raises hand::

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 05-01-2007 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy (Post 12347401)
Awesome post Brad. Awesome.

:2 cents:

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12347576)
And fuck you too. :321GFY

Aaron wants to fuck you...

http://www.curioustoyboy.com/images/main-pic.jpg

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousToyBoy (Post 12348105)
I see your "fuck you" and raise you 2 "blow mes"

How do you like them apples?

:winkwink: :thumbsup

And CTB wants to blow AaronM...

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CuriousToyBoy 05-02-2007 12:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 12348246)
Aaron wants to fuck you...

Are you ready for Fat Bald Boys Gone Wild?!?

See it here - only at GFY!!!

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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

:winkwink:

Tempest 05-02-2007 12:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 12348246)
Aaron wants to fuck you...

http://www.curioustoyboy.com/images/main-pic.jpg



And CTB wants to blow AaronM...

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Are you ready for Fat Bald Boys Gone Wild?!?

See it here - only at GFY!!!

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I'd pay to CuriousToyBoy and AaronM go at it in speedos and a pool filled with oil... Well... Maybe if I was drunk...

CuriousToyBoy 05-02-2007 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tempest (Post 12348600)
I'd pay to CuriousToyBoy and AaronM go at it in speedos and a pool filled with oil... Well... Maybe if I was drunk...

Be a good rematch seeing Aaron nailed my ass (read for that - nice crash tackle) in the snow at Mt Rainer a couple of years back.

:2 cents: :winkwink: :thumbsup :pimp

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude 05-02-2007 01:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrinkingHARDEST (Post 12348788)
I'm glad I could give everyone some "watercooler gossip" to chat about this week. As I look back and reflect on these threads I wrote, there is some stuff I wish I didn't write as I do feel they are a bit beneath me. To be honest I am very upset due to my family emergency and my anger and frustration was vented upon 2 former employees. I can't say that they didn't deserve it but I usually prefer to settle things privately and out of the public spectacle.

I don't have it out for StuartD or MGK, I hope they are happy doing whatever they are doing and have continued success in the adult industry (and I do mean that). I won't be banning any programs or using any leverage to make things difficult for them... I hope someday when they have employees they might realize how difficult it is from an employer standpoint when you have people pull this kind of stuff on you. It's no easy to stand there and take it... When you are as passionate about your business as I am about mine you take things very personally.

I won't be posting any picture's of MGK's apartment or pursuing Stuart. If they choose to come after me legally for anything said in the previous posts they have the complete right to do so and they know my address to send the lawyer's documents to.

I'm going to take a break from posting for a while so I can focus on what is really important and that's taking care of my sick wife and family. I'll look forward to raising a few with all our valued advertisers and site owners in a few weeks at Webmaster Access on our Sunset Cruise.

Anyways as they say "that's all folks" :)

Mark AKA DH

P.S. Thanks to all my friends and business associates for all the well wishes and your support. I do appreciate it!

Your sincerity here in view of your other posts is touching...

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flogmolly 05-02-2007 07:44 PM

Get used to it. From what I hear of ATK, it's same shit different day.


Quote:

Originally Posted by StuartD (Post 12344212)
1. I had no breaks and took only a handful of lunches all year, plus I left after everyone else many times at the end of the day. Heaven forbid that I made a few hundred posts on GFY through out the year. Seemed convenient when you'd ask me who's who, who works for who and other info you didn't know about.

2. "finish our GTS backend system that has been a work in progress for oooooh say 2-3 years now. (don't ask LOL!)" Ever had a programmer step into a very very badly written script and be expected to fix (not redo) parts by the end of the day, rather than give it the time it deserves? It wasn't even done to begin with. I had entire sections missing.
Why not tell people why you authorized the entire company's request to have it completely rewritten in the first place?

2.b Let's use Submit Passes as an example. Anyone have issues with SubmitPasses when GTS took it over?? A show of hands please?
This would be because Mark bought it without checking anything... they had ZERO records. No client list, no list of current purchases... nothing. Infact, MANY people were submitting using passes that they hadn't paid for in over a year. And they bought it, with no idea what was happening. That would be messy enough, but then they say "we bought it on the installment plan so we need to integrate all of the SP info (which there is none) into our current really badly pieced together backend that you took over.... and you have a week!"
So I had 40 hours to piece together a shoddy excel sheet of clients/passes written that day (inventory system), into a scheduling system. It was never built to handle inventory of that nature. But they didn't care. It had to be done by the end of Friday.
How do you think that turned out? Even if it had gone perfect, many people's info got duplicated (SP and GTS clients joined) and like I said, many passes were never legit to begin with!!
And of course, they refused to just continue using the old SP system, or to build a new one. It had to be integrated in 5 days.

3. After my manager left (translation: was fired 2 days before x-mas just to save on the vacation pay), my issues were this:
That's my spine you see that's white.
It's still not healed completely thank you very much. Why? Because I got back to work for GTS sooner than I should have rather than getting all the bed rest I should have. Couple that with another surgery on my face and I was in rough shape.

4. Paid me for the month I was away? Yeah, with 3 sick days, personal days and vacation days. SJ and I had to squeeze every available minute for me to still have some kind of income while I was stuck in bed. If I did go back, I'd have 0 sick days, no vacation or anything else but work ahead of me for the year. But I didn't complain because that's the reality of being out under those circumstances.

5. Did I work from home? Why don't you ask your employees rather than just post an assumption? I worked closely with Matt, SJ and Ken daily. Sometimes even on week-ends. They won't post... they work for you. I would never ask them to. But you could ask them yourself. Infact, ask anyone there how much I worked, on any given day. I dare you.

6. Make up your mind, is it 99% done or do I have to start from scratch? You said both in your post.
The truth was, on my server and my test server, it listed the schedule data perfectly via a join table. On your server, it duplicated the data. It was a mysql issue. Either the host would have to fix that or I would have to go through and change all the queries/lists. Was it my fault? Yes and no. I assumed that if it worked great on 2 servers, it would on yours. My bad. It was hardly a MAJOR issue. Everyone in the office loved the new system. Also, you neglected that all of these demos I gave kept coming with more feature requests.

7. I never said I'd sell it, I said "At least I have a 99% working system that anyone doing sales can use." Where does it say the word "sell" in that sentence? If I don't get paid for my work on my own time, my script is mine. Simple as that.

8. I never looked for work, it looked for me. Mayors Money, Homegrown, ATK and others. That happens when you have a reputation ahead of you. I turned down offers all year.

9. Still don't have a working system? What about this?
[20:12] StuartD: I haven't sent Aaron to do anything, he acts entirely on his own, always has, always will.
And I didn't send you a month's worth of hours. It was only a week and then some of hours... 59 or so? That's the only hours I worked on my own time.
I never wanted to try to get extra money out of you for nothing. I just wanted to finish the project because I know it's important to GTS.
[20:13] DrinkingHard: don' t worry about the project
[20:13] DrinkingHard: we will be ok
Even though I was insisting that I am still going to get it in to you. Granted, I'm in no hurry to use up my free time any more... but I never intended on not delivering, despite constant changes, requests and.. well, server fixes needing to be made.

10. I sent AaronM? I never made a single post on the matter, with a fake nick or otherwise. AaronM was aware of the situation and took it upon himself to express his own opinion. Seriously, if you know AaronM, you know that no one sends him to do anything. He does what he wants.

11. As for your legal being in touch, I wonder what they'd say about a former employer hindering the employment possibilities of a former employee in such a manner as this. Infact, I think I'll find out.

If anyone wants to hear even more, my icq is 5636347.


AaronM 05-02-2007 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by flogmolly (Post 12356369)
Get used to it. From what I hear of ATK, it's same shit different day.


Nice first post...Ya fake nic having coward. :321GFY

FreeHugeMovies 05-02-2007 08:54 PM

How did I miss this thread? I just read it

Barefootsies 05-03-2007 06:59 AM


Nickatilynx 05-03-2007 07:48 AM

If you were all in Vancouver this could all be resolved by a night at No5 ,a good chinese meal and a little chat.

:)

AaronM 05-03-2007 08:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nickatilynx (Post 12360571)
If you were all in Vancouver this could all be resolved by a night at No5 ,a good chinese meal and a little chat.

:)


Nice to see you alive and posting, Nick. :thumbsup

Nickatilynx 05-03-2007 09:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12361343)
Nice to see you alive and posting, Nick. :thumbsup

Hey mate , how's it going?

Usually too busy playing golf to post.

Plus I rarely have anything to contribute...as my answers would be..

1.)Fuck yes , I'd hit it
2.)No , I'm not looking for designers
3.)I do not want to win a new Ipod
4.)I do not give a rats ass about blogs


Nor do I have any sort of sig that I need to position.

Once those answers are posted, its not often I have anything to add.






;-)

AaronM 05-03-2007 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nickatilynx (Post 12362003)
Hey mate , how's it going?

Usually too busy playing golf to post.

Plus I rarely have anything to contribute...as my answers would be..

1.)Fuck yes , I'd hit it
2.)No , I'm not looking for designers
3.)I do not want to win a new Ipod
4.)I do not give a rats ass about blogs


Nor do I have any sort of sig that I need to position.

Once those answers are posted, its not often I have anything to add.






;-)



Fair enough man.....It's been so long since I've seen you post that I was starting to wonder....

Anthony 05-03-2007 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12362155)
Fair enough man.....It's been so long since I've seen you post that I was starting to wonder....

No need to wonder. He still loves the taste of cum. He gargles with it! :)

:helpme

Anthony 05-03-2007 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12362155)
Fair enough man.....It's been so long since I've seen you post that I was starting to wonder....

Double post.

But he still loves the CAWK! :):):)

AaronM 05-03-2007 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony (Post 12362241)
Double post.

But he still loves the CAWK!


Does your cum taste so good that you had to post about it twice? :1orglaugh

Wizzo 05-03-2007 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AaronM (Post 12362254)
Does your cum taste so good that you had to post about it twice? :1orglaugh


He spices it up with MSG, got watch those asians... :winkwink:

Nickatilynx 05-03-2007 10:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony (Post 12362219)
No need to wonder. He still loves the taste of cum. He gargles with it! :)

:helpme

LOL

This is pure conjecture.

Nickatilynx 05-03-2007 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wizzo (Post 12362491)
He spices it up with MSG, got watch those asians... :winkwink:

hmmmmm

You seem very well up on Philipionos......

Have you read my book?

"Pinoy For Dummies - How to care for your Huge Pacific Islander"

HomerSimpson 05-03-2007 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude (Post 12344452)

Every coin/story has two sides...

Anthony 05-03-2007 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nickatilynx (Post 12362626)
hmmmmm

You seem very well up on Philipionos......

Have you read my book?

"Pinoy For Dummies - How to care for your Huge Pacific Islander"

Hey Now!

That was low!

jayeff 05-03-2007 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 12344017)
Plenty of people and board personas that I've liked (and still do like) have dragged each other into the mud.

I tend to think it all goes to prove my belief that the separation of person from persona is a myth., that someone wouldn't choose a particular board personality if it didn't fundamentally reflect his or her real personality.

Then again it might just be coincidence that the drama queens always seem to be involved in real life dramas too...

Anthony 05-03-2007 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jayeff (Post 12366512)
I tend to think it all goes to prove my belief that the separation of person from persona is a myth., that someone wouldn't choose a particular board personality if it didn't fundamentally reflect his or her real personality.

Then again it might just be coincidence that the drama queens always seem to be involved in real life dramas too...

I found in the 10 years or so on boards, that personnas are akin to sports cars.

You can put a mild mannered accountant in a 500hp sports car, and watch him turn into the biggest asshole on the road. It's a way to redefine yourself.

Then you have personnas like me. I'm an asshole online and IRL. :(

Joesho 05-03-2007 02:20 PM

Darma sucks, cant we all just get along?

Peaches 05-03-2007 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony (Post 12366545)
I found in the 10 years or so on boards, that personnas are akin to sports cars.

You can put a mild mannered accountant in a 500hp sports car, and watch him turn into the biggest asshole on the road. It's a way to redefine yourself.

Then you have personnas like me. I'm an asshole online and IRL. :(

I am a tall black man IRL.

Anthony 05-03-2007 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches (Post 12366631)
I am a tall black man IRL.

With a huge cawk.

Peaches 05-03-2007 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anthony (Post 12366657)
With a huge cawk.

You kiss and tell!! :mad:


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