Personally I'm not really a moral person, I could care LESS if people want to have a lot of sex. I have no problem with that.

I ONLY have a problem with that in my PERSONAL LIFE because I'm jealous and I don't like to think of who my partner has been with because it makes me wonder if the person's previous partners were better than me, more attractive than me, etc etc

I also think soemone who had more partners is more likely to cheat because they already KNOW what's out there... If they had someone who was BETTER than me, why would they stay with me now? They already know what's OUT there and more likely to want that again....

But on the contrary I also think that someone who didn't have a lot of partners can also cheat because they DON'T know what's out there and perhaps are curious.

So either way you are going to get fucked anyways, so perhaps the best way is to just be alone. I am not joking either. I guess people who had lots of partners cheat and people who had few also cheat, so basically the best bet is to just be by yourself.

I sell porn only to make money. I could care less if other people screw around because it doesn't concern me. I only care about things that affect me directly.

Whatever my partner did in their past affects them as a person. For example if they were promiscuous it will make me think "What caused them to be that way, is it because they need attention?" "Is it because one person can't satisfy them?" "If they like so much variety why would they be happy with me? I'm boring?"

or "What do I have to do in order to outdo the people in their past?" etc etc
ad nauseum.

I'm single, but I'm saving myself for bausch :winkwink:

I don't have a moral compass, I'm not a moral person at all. I barely even have a conscience when it comes to a lot of things. I could care less if someone wants to gangbang or fuck 1000 partners.

But I DO care when it comes to the person I'm with because I think past behaviour might be indicative or future behaviour. I want to do everything possible within my power to minimize the risk of being cheated on, even if that includes going by theories I have developed in my own head. For example I will rationalize "this person is less likely to cheat on me because of so and so...."

If someone constantly craves VARIETY in their sex partners and therefore had a lot of partners, I would say that person is more likely to cheat because they are always looking for something DIFFERENT. So why would they stay with one person, no matter how good that person is. There is always better out there... So why would they like me, if there's different and better people out there?

So THAT is why someone's past is important to me.

I might be your alter ego.

me. I'm 37, 6'7", pretty good looking, smart and funny.

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Ok that was funny.

Ahemm.

Hey Ladies, I'm Don Kevlar. Wanna have a go?


ps thanks Bluewire, since my sexy character i'm getting laid on GFY 10x more than I was previously!

im single and good at least thats what they tell me you wanna go find out

every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.

And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that :thumbsup

Did Patrick dump you?

All us good guys are taken. :pimp

I am the most non-christian peson ever, it has nothing to do with morals!!!!!

It has to do with insecurity and jealousy. If a person had a lot of partners I will feel like I have to "live up" to the others in their past and wonder if I am attractive and good enough. If their partners were "better" than me it will haunt me. It will make me feel like I'm not good enough, and I have to constantly have the BURDEN of living up to the other people in their past. What if they were better than me? better in bed than me? better looking than me? made more money than me??

I will always wonder what their partners look like, if they were more attractive than me. etc etc

It has NOTHING to do with morality.

I am just a jealous person. I like to be the best. Plus it has to do with jealousy of someone's past...

It's hard to explain. I am actually very anti-christian....

It has to do with my ego!! It's all about ME, and how I feel, it has nothing to do with morality.

Also, if someone had many partners I feel like I always have to live up to something. It makes me feel unworthy, like if their partners were better looking than me it will make me wonder why that person is even with me...

It has NOTHING to do with morals, it's about how I feel about myself...

If they had less partners I feel like I don't have to compete and outdo so many people. It's more like starting with a "blank slate" and I was the only one so I was the best... If they had a lot of partners I will just be the next one... just another number...

Y'all fucked my thread up!

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LOL

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I set it right for you Angel..
Im not single & im positively bad.. so does this mean im totally wrong or you?
OR is it part of opposites attract!

well since everyone else fucked it up... any single ladies on GFY? and if so, lets see a pic :winkwink:

I'm single!

PSWF ISO PSWF, H/W P, for fun and possible LTR.

:thumbsup

awww lol... this actually turned into a pretty long thread... not the type of responses you were looking for though im sure... lol

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Did you read what i wrote? It has nothing to do with christianity or morals. I am anti christian and don't have good morals at all! it has to do with me!

jealousy is just a weakness based on insecurity - if you're not insecure about yourself there's no need to be jealous of anyone - I used to be jealous & it's hard to get over, but it's not a factor in my life anymore :)

yes I read what you wrote - I was responding to TurboAngel, not to you. Like I just said, you need to look within yourself and find out why you are insecure and feel the need to be jealous. If you are happy within yourself, you cannot be jealous of any other human being. :thumbsup

All the good men are gay.

Of course I have to be insecure, it's a very competitive world out there.
Sorry to say, but my insecurity will probably never change and based on that I prefer someone with less partners because it makes me less neurotic.

I would really worry a lot if they had lots of partners since I already am so insecure.

It's already bad enough to have to compete with people AROUND you in the world, let alone compete with people from someone's past.

And I will never be happy with myself either.

Even if I was secure I would probably still get cheated on because there is always better than me out there, so it doesn't make a difference either way!

sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy - don't make blanket statements - they become mission statements and color your entire view of the world and how you see yourself in it - try looking at things from completely the opposite perspective for awhile - it might help :thumbsup

I also don't like open relationships because I don't even like "other people", I only like myself and whoever I'm with. I am not sociable so I don't want to socialize with strangers let alone have sex with them. Again, it's not morality, just a personal preference.

I HATE it when people assume its about morals just because I don't want someone who had lots of partners. It has nothing to do with that at all!!

Sorry for ruinig your thread TurboAngel, but I use gfy to vent my frustrations in life, it's therapy.

Lol thanks for the laugh :thumbsup

good and single here... for what that's worth heh

I am good,but the question is are you good?It's not only man who need to be good.

What the hell did you just say?
http://content.flixster.com/photo/31...144177_gal.jpg

It's all the hot men are gay!


:winkwink:

Here I am..lets hump :)

My good friend Seth (soulcash) made a good point when I found the woman of my dreams...

'Henry, all the girls that are single and available are single and available for a reason. You have to go steal one of the taken ones'

seems it would work for a girl too, so I guess all the good guys ARE available!

Good: yes
Single: yes
Do I want someone: no

:disgust

Damn ... I will go to hell then :(















P.s: Just Kidding im not that bad , never cheated on a girl before. Hokkers ... Hell yeah , I was single though.
Steal ... hell no. My girlfriends lived off me :( , well most of them. Im not the king of guy that likes to be involved for a long time , I think its psycological , Im to affraid of commitment. Many bad experiences.

we can cyber if you want

*starpimps pulls up TurboAngel's skirt*

your turn

hahahahahahha!!

me me me meeeee

You contradict yourself

Have you read Marcuse :thumbsup

I am good guy and not taken...