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  • SleazyDream
    I'm here for SPORT
    • Jul 2001
    • 41470
    #1

    Should EVERY party be open to everyone?

    lots of people I don't know have been giving me heck about not allowing everyone to come to my event.


    fuck you.

    it's invite only. Period.

    We intensionally keep it small and with interesting guests cause most of you arn't worth our time.
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    Now read without the word dog.
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    • Screaming
      I can change this!!!!!
      • Feb 2004
      • 18972
      #2
      translation:

      Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

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        • SleazyDream
          I'm here for SPORT
          • Jul 2001
          • 41470
          #3
          Originally posted by Screaming
          translation:

          Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.
          attempt? nope.

          I feel MUCH better so it's mission acompolished
          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

          Now read without the word dog.

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            • Sly
              Let's do some business!
              • Sep 2004
              • 31378
              #4
              This happens with the AVN shows, too... the loudest complainers don't even attend. I don't really understand it.
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                • Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE
                  North Coast Pimp
                  • Dec 2005
                  • 9395
                  #5
                  Nope...

                  The host has the right to invite who ever he chooses and anyone who bitches about it is just sad they are not on the list...

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                    • WiredGuy
                      Pounding Googlebot
                      • Aug 2002
                      • 34512
                      #6
                      Whoever is paying the bills makes the rules. If they don't like it, tell them to screw off.
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                        • SleazyDream
                          I'm here for SPORT
                          • Jul 2001
                          • 41470
                          #7
                          Originally posted by Sly
                          This happens with the AVN shows, too... the loudest complainers don't even attend. I don't really understand it.

                          everyone wants something for nothing i guess.


                          those that complain arn't offering me up any invitations.
                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                          Now read without the word dog.

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                            • RawAlex
                              So Fucking Banned
                              • Oct 2003
                              • 9465
                              #8
                              It's your party and you can do what you like.

                              I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

                              The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

                              Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

                              If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.

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                                • Doctor Dre
                                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                                  • Jan 2001
                                  • 51692
                                  #9
                                  This world is full of free loaders. You have to filter the bad weeds
                                  Originally posted by rayadp05
                                  I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                                    • Doctor Dre
                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                      • Jan 2001
                                      • 51692
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by RawAlex
                                      It's your party and you can do what you like.

                                      I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

                                      The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

                                      Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

                                      If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.
                                      haha
                                      I used to work with coors light on some events... Silver cruises coors light...

                                      They used to have VIP passes for everyone... and Super VIPs.

                                      that was funny.
                                      Originally posted by rayadp05
                                      I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                                        • SleazyDream
                                          I'm here for SPORT
                                          • Jul 2001
                                          • 41470
                                          #11
                                          Originally posted by RawAlex
                                          It's your party and you can do what you like.

                                          I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

                                          The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

                                          Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

                                          If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.
                                          I don't bother with passes. I gave a guest list and enforce it. Have in the past and will at this event again
                                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                          Now read without the word dog.

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                                            • AaronM
                                              GFY Royality ;)
                                              • Oct 2001
                                              • 46917
                                              #12
                                              Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                              fuck you.

                                              it's invite only. Period.

                                              Exactly.

                                              There are plenty of other parties open to the masses. Anybody who hates on you for having a more private event is either jealous or just pissing in the wind.

                                              Fuck em.

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                                                • shekinah
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • May 2006
                                                  • 8452
                                                  #13
                                                  Surely everything depends on the type of occasion and to the host..

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                                                    • MaDalton
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                                                      • Feb 2004
                                                      • 39861
                                                      #14
                                                      you pay - you make the rules

                                                      but i really would like to experience one day how it is to have a lot of traffic so that everyone crawls up my ass

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                                                        • JamesK2
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Aug 2004
                                                          • 6589
                                                          #15
                                                          I agree with you, you make the party, you make the rules.

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                                                            • Quotealex
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Sep 2001
                                                              • 6265
                                                              #16
                                                              I don't really understand why you don't keep your private party private! Why the need to announce it publicly that you're having a private party!

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                                                                • dank
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Mar 2001
                                                                  • 1674
                                                                  #17
                                                                  Originally posted by Alex from Montreal
                                                                  I don't really understand why you don't keep your private party private! Why the need to announce it publicly that you're having a private party!
                                                                  Well thats half the fun.

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                                                                    • seeric
                                                                      ..........
                                                                      • Aug 2004
                                                                      • 41917
                                                                      #18
                                                                      i have a rule from the nightclub biz and is one of the things i live by

                                                                      whoever puts up the loot for the gig = who makes the list for entry.


                                                                      are you really getting people that are getting pissed because they didn't get invited to a private invite only party?

                                                                      wow.

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                                                                        • The Walrus
                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                          • Mar 2007
                                                                          • 898
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Originally posted by Screaming
                                                                          translation:

                                                                          Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

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                                                                            • LiveDose
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                                                                              • Feb 2002
                                                                              • 25792
                                                                              #20
                                                                              GFY needs a spell check plugin... LOL

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                                                                                • The Walrus
                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                  • Mar 2007
                                                                                  • 898
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Certain people around here would crash the plugin too quick.

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                                                                                    • abyss_al
                                                                                      **LOOKING FOR TRADES**
                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                      • 15605
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?
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                                                                                        • jayeff
                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                          • May 2001
                                                                                          • 2944
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          You are so utterly lacking in the least semblance of class, it is a relief to be spared the embarassment of appearing on one of your guest lists.

                                                                                          Put that comment down to whatever you like, I really don't care...

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                                                                                            • Halcyon
                                                                                              Spread The Pink!
                                                                                              • Dec 2002
                                                                                              • 8609
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              http://prehensile.com/tales/partycop/partycop.jpg

                                                                                              I strongly believe in cultivating a party vibe like you would tend to a garden.
                                                                                              An open party is like an open field.

                                                                                              Dandelions may be beautiful flowers. But you have to weed them out if you're trying to grow roses.
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                                                                                                • RawAlex
                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                  • 9465
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by abyss_al
                                                                                                  if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?
                                                                                                  Ahh,m but you see... there is only value in being able to prove that you are l33t. If a tree falls in the forest... or if a webmaster goes to a party private enough that nobody knows... it has the same result.

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                                                                                                    • Halcyon
                                                                                                      Spread The Pink!
                                                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                                                      • 8609
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      Originally posted by Halcyon
                                                                                                      http://prehensile.com/tales/partycop/partycop.jpg

                                                                                                      I strongly believe in cultivating a party vibe like you would tend to a garden.
                                                                                                      An open party is like an open field.

                                                                                                      Dandelions may be beautiful flowers. But you have to weed them out if you're trying to grow roses.

                                                                                                      HAL on TEDx:

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                                                                                                        • baddog
                                                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                          • Apr 2001
                                                                                                          • 107089
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Originally posted by abyss_al
                                                                                                          if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?
                                                                                                          not saying this is the case, but you might announce it so people that were invited but missed the email might hear about it, thus begin going thru their spam bin

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                                                                                                            • dodger21
                                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                                              • Jan 2003
                                                                                                              • 2680
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by abyss_al
                                                                                                              if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?
                                                                                                              Because most of the idiots in this "business" never grew out of the high school mindset.
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                                                                                                                • iamkathi
                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                  • Mar 2004
                                                                                                                  • 409
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  When the folks that complain want to plan and pay for an awesome party... then they can invite whomever they want to attend and talk about where ever they want.

                                                                                                                  In the mean time...


                                                                                                                  Don't hate the player...hate the game.


                                                                                                                  Have a delightful gathering

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                                                                                                                    • GT-Omar
                                                                                                                      DM at Performive.com
                                                                                                                      • Aug 2006
                                                                                                                      • 2968
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Originally posted by Jon Clark
                                                                                                                      Nope...

                                                                                                                      The host has the right to invite who ever he chooses and anyone who bitches about it is just sad they are not on the list...
                                                                                                                      I completely AGREE!! I didn't ask to go (nor am I asking by this comment) If a host is throwing a party, paying for drinks, entertainment (however large or small) it is that host's exclusive right to allow whom ever they want!


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                                                                                                                        • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                          I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                          • 41470
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Originally posted by jayeff
                                                                                                                          You are so utterly lacking in the least semblance of class, it is a relief to be spared the embarassment of appearing on one of your guest lists.

                                                                                                                          Put that comment down to whatever you like, I really don't care...
                                                                                                                          ok, who are you?
                                                                                                                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                          Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                                            • starpimps
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                                                                                                                              • Sep 2006
                                                                                                                              • 6954
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              the host has the right to shit on any unwanted guests
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                                                                                                                                • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                                  • 41470
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by iamkathi
                                                                                                                                  When the folks that complain want to plan and pay for an awesome party... then they can invite whomever they want to attend and talk about where ever they want.

                                                                                                                                  In the mean time...


                                                                                                                                  Don't hate the player...hate the game.


                                                                                                                                  Have a delightful gathering
                                                                                                                                  we'll try - will be hard without you though
                                                                                                                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                                                    • tony299
                                                                                                                                      lurker
                                                                                                                                      • Aug 2002
                                                                                                                                      • 57021
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      I think its the hosts right to invite anyone they want but doing a few threads about it, which is like blah blah im better than you isnt necessary and Sleazy knows better he is a smart guy.

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                                                                                                                                        • Pete-KT
                                                                                                                                          Workin With The Devil
                                                                                                                                          • Oct 2004
                                                                                                                                          • 51532
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          make it however you want sleazy;) see u in phoenix

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                                                                                                                                            • BlingDaddy
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                                                                                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                                                                                              • 6343
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by Screaming
                                                                                                                                              translation:

                                                                                                                                              Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.
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                                                                                                                                                • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                                                  • 41470
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  na na ne na na
                                                                                                                                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                                                                    • GT-Omar
                                                                                                                                                      DM at Performive.com
                                                                                                                                                      • Aug 2006
                                                                                                                                                      • 2968
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                      na na ne na na
                                                                                                                                                      lol


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                                                                                                                                                        • Steve Awesome
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                                                                                                                                                          • Jan 2007
                                                                                                                                                          • 1575
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          I can't believe this is even an issue. I would of course love to attend, but I'd like to at least show that I'm worthy and not some hanger on loser (like I probably am right now, heh).

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                                                                                                                                                            • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                              I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                                                              • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                                                              • 41470
                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by Steve Awesome
                                                                                                                                                              I can't believe this is even an issue. I would of course love to attend, but I'd like to at least show that I'm worthy and not some hanger on loser (like I probably am right now, heh).
                                                                                                                                                              that's a decent response from an intelligent person. You wouldn't believe how many haters come after me expecting me to pay their way and open the doors for them. they they use excuses to try and hide the obvious like it's rude to post this or rub it in people's faces.

                                                                                                                                                              when i couldn't get into the higher end events I was happy to at least have a clue they existed and what was going on. Gave me something to strive for.

                                                                                                                                                              soooo many morons want it handed to them. those people arn't worth my spit - they won't go anywhere.
                                                                                                                                                              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                                                              Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                                                                                • swampthing
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                                                                                                                                                                  • Mar 2007
                                                                                                                                                                  • 570
                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  I have no desire to lick sleazydreams tiny fatboy balls.

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                                                                                                                                                                    • swampthing
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                                                                                                                                                                      • Mar 2007
                                                                                                                                                                      • 570
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                                      that's a decent response from an intelligent person. You wouldn't believe how many haters come after me expecting me to pay their way and open the doors for them. they they use excuses to try and hide the obvious like it's rude to post this or rub it in people's faces.

                                                                                                                                                                      when i couldn't get into the higher end events I was happy to at least have a clue they existed and what was going on. Gave me something to strive for.

                                                                                                                                                                      soooo many morons want it handed to them. those people arn't worth my spit - they won't go anywhere.
                                                                                                                                                                      your an idiot

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                                                                                                                                                                        • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                                          I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                                                                          • 41470
                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by swampthing
                                                                                                                                                                          I have no desire to lick sleazydreams tiny fatboy balls.

                                                                                                                                                                          Tiny SALTY fatboy balls , THANK YOU
                                                                                                                                                                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                                                                          Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                                                                                                            • d00t
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                                                                                                                                                                              • Sep 2002
                                                                                                                                                                              • 3766
                                                                                                                                                                              #44
                                                                                                                                                                              if you don't make the party public then nobody can complain about not being invited ;)

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