I found that my calmness pissed people off more than any violence could.

No violent is a way to show that your nerves are weak for the out irritation stuffs. So I think that I will never be violent.

I don't have a violent streak, but rather an explosive temper when pushed to my limit. That limit is rarely met nowadays. Getting into a fight just isn't worth it when you have too much to lose... you never know if the other guy is gonna end up shooting you or finding out where your house is and fucking with that or your family or if he just doesn't understand when a fight is over. I got into a few fights in elementary school, a major one in high school and a bar fight where I defended myself and was promptly thrown out before things would have turned really ugly. That was 18 years ago. I've never lost a fight and I plan on keeping it that way :)

I have never been in a fight or thrown a punch in my life

I love the tough guys of GFY... always willing to throw down at the drop of a hat. They provide a lot of amusement.

Violence is the last resort of the intellectual and first resort of the mentally deficient.

ah,you sound like me lol

In my early to mid 20's I was living a life where violence and guns where everywhere.

Some of my friends got shot and a lot got jailed to.

The only time I have fought was in grade 4 beat up a school bully.

The rest of my life I always resulted to discussion to sort a problem.

Hell I was a doorman at a stripclub for a while and never had to throw a punch or rough someone up.

Yes I'm violent but I'm not hurting someone physically.. sometimes thru words and gestures..

Fighting doesnt solve anything, just creates bitterness. I do however think its important to know how to defend yourself, because there is a lot of fucking crazies out there that will try shit with you. My brother and I have been in all kinds of classes for a bunch of different shit, not too mention we spared everyday for like 10 years with each other.

3 years ago my brother was jumped at a mcdonalds by 4 guys, he hurt 2 of them really badly before they even took him to the ground.

In college, this guy was swinging a pool cue at my friend face in our campus bar (while my friend was fighting this guys friend), I was not paying attention to any of this, but when I saw what was about to happen I sidekicked the guy in the face and he dropped like an anchor. Mr poolcue ended up getting arrested.

i never punched anyone but got some punches in the past...

"How much can you know about yourself, you've never been in a fight?" - Tyler Durden

I wouldn't say I'm particularily violent, but I love to fight. It's not a first resort, mostly, but it's always on the table.

Wow, who'd have thought you were a coward? What a surprise.

I have in the past gone out with some very violent men :( , thank god I don't now. I could tell you stories that you would never believe even tho they are true.:(

I don't even want to think about that stuff, I had to pull a gun on one and that was very scary.

:disgust

i smashed a dude in the head with a melon sized rock once. Dude was beating up my friend ;) Might have killed him tbh...

I try to control my anger. Go for a jog or something. Work out. I have been in many fights growing up in the Bronx. It was out of defense since I stand only 5'1" and 110 lbs. And tequila makes me really social. Hey I'm about having a good time and not a chip on my shoulder.

It was a greaet time. I worked with my cousin and 5 close friends every weekend it was a blast. It was 1 street over from boston university so there was always hot chicks. Never got into anything to serious there but about a year after I quit some guy was shot in the head at the front door for dissing another mans woman. My friend dave was working the door that night and was just a few feet away. Once I had the wife and kid it just wasn't the job for me anymore.

I have a really bad temper , I used to get into trouble a lot , so one friend of mine told me about entering an MMA Gym he used to be, to manage that anger.
My first day was really heavy I trained a lot and I was exhausted , but I realise when I was going home that I was a little bit more aggressive after the Gym than before. I think all kind of physical sports , get more adrenaline and testosterone to your body , so you have to try not to be angry at all cost, I remeber going to clubs with my sis because of this.
Now after 1 year and a few month I become a totally cool guy , not picking up fights for any reason.

sooo much repressed anger :2 cents:

What a surprise that you have no clue how to read and would rather just hear what you want to hear.


Aren't you the one that said that if I say something to your face, that you guarantee that I'd be apologizing one way or another. :1orglaugh

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hint - this isn't a union. Time in means NOTHING.

and how do you know if you make more or less than me. posting that ONLY proves beyond a shadow of a doubt you are in fact an idiot.


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sooo many people say they've never lost a fight. I wonder where all the people who loose these fights are?

real fighters loose fights al the time and are humble about that fact, it's how you know a real one from a testoserone braggard

Only if I am paid to be

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I have taken on a very "Hakuna Matata" lifestyle as of late, so I am nothing but a bundle of joy.

Oh I could tell you a fun one on that note, me and this guy are in a fight. I got a clear shot to his face, I windup and hit him with everything I got. For some reason I was holding my thumb in my fist, so I broke my thumb hitting him in the face. Then he proceeded to kick my ass. taught me a painful lesson lol

Pretty much all violence on my part has been in self-defense or in defense of my family or loved ones. I don't like to instigate but I won't hesitate to defend myself or others.

a 5 yr old kid can beat the shit out of me.... :(

life is too short and precious for that crap.

I have a whole freezer full of dates

I was pretty violent in my late teens and early 20's, and the Army let me use it constructively and kept me out of trouble. I accepted any challenge offered to me and usually rose above it.

I've grown out of that since I've gotten a little older. I dont go around starting shit anymore, but I wont let anyone try to push me around. I stay pretty level headed until my limit is reached, then the explosive temper gets unleashed and I dont care what the consequences are at that point. Luckily, it rarely happens anymore.

I shot somebody...

I'm violet. It's a good color.

not really unless someone really goes outta their way to piss me off...in those cases payback is always 1000% worse than whatever they did to me....

You'd never have the balls to say anything to my face, get serious.

nah, not violent at all. Been in a fight few times though :upsidedow

If you say so. But then, you've never met me and many in the industry have. So I guess you'd know best. :1orglaugh

Guess we know your answer to Sleazy's thread title now huh? :glugglug

Yes I guess I am. I refuse to take shit from anyone. I have been in quite a few barfights with guys. Stabbed my husband once. I will not hesitate to finish a fight or shut someones mouth.. I dont like to start fights, but I wont walk away from one. I have gotten a little mellower as I have gotten older.. or maybe its because I just dont go clubbin anymore where there are a bunch of drunk assholes to piss me off :1orglaugh

No, you're right, I have never met you. I can only judge based on the character you've shown over the years. I could be wrong, but here's what makes me believe you're a coward at heart:

1) Cowardly by actions. You were talking about killing yourself. Either you were too afraid to ask for help or you really thought running away from life was a great escape.

2) Cowardly by thoughts. You spent a great deal of time telling one my good friends about how you've never been a confident person, couldn't talk to girls. This is not the attitude of a self confident person. I don't know for sure, but I wouldn't be surprised if you met your wife over the Internet.

3) Cowardly by genes. You have French ancestory.

Yup, right on all 3 and yet here I am with a family, a great job, very happy and able to out think the likes of mindless, fight first, grunts like you who are unable to cope with situations without using your fists.

You go girl... show us how non-violent you are :1orglaugh

Out of curiousity, can you defend that statement or is it just your random unfounded opinion?

I dont mean defend it in a fist fight, i mean you should form a logical argument proving your statement correct.

Im just curious really, because I personally belive you are wrong. Violence is simply a tool (dont confuse it with 'rage') and as a tool it has pros and cons.

And therefore, given the correct situation violence would be the first resort of the intellectual. Its only logical.

But ofcource its not a catchy slogan that you can spout and if people disagree you say it again louder :)

Were you raised by bumper stickers by any chance?

Wow, couldn't have said it better myself. :thumbsup

FUCK NO and if you ever ask me that shit again I will break your fucking neck.

Yes,i am,when it is needed.
Fuck

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I'm not that violent, except when someone disappoints me... especially when he/she has my trust and suddenly, just because of a small change, gives a shit about me... that's a thing that makes me mad...

Oh, and when I'm in trouble and I'm helpless... then anger is just pumping me up...

Not when I have weed to smoke.

Yes, I was raised by bumper stickers... unlike the pure brilliance it requires to come with a phrase like that.

Let's use the warchild (appropriate name) as an example. If I say something to him, and it makes him mad... is he able to handle it? Cope with it? Come up with something to say back? No... he has to resort to violence in order to force me to come up with an apology simply because he knows no other way to do it.

Violence, even as a tool, is used when all other options are exhausted. A leader (not the make shift ones like Bush) should consider all options... from negotiation, politics, cohersion... what have you, and have violence as one of those options. But it's only the first option of those who are incapable to even consider any of the other options first.

But even Bush had issued warnings and other such things to Iraq before invading. So thus, you could say, even then their first option wasn't violence.

people who think like you refuse to accept the possibility that violence is often the only option. refusing to accept that, does not make you intellectually superior... just a little slower to grasp the obvious.

I almost always pantomime masturbate. I find that it usually defuses most violent situations because people always laugh at a very small person like me pretending to jack off a giant schlong -- you should try it. There's no way you won't laugh.

Then you can run away!