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m0307 02-27-2007 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11985411)
Oh please you dont need money to get girls. FYI, my I'm female and my bf doesn't even HAVE ANY car let alone a Camry. He just borrowed my Mercedes to go run some errands. I make enough for both of us so I guess I don't care too much.

I don't need a man with money, I make my own. I make more than the average guy in this country anyways.
There are exceptions to every rule, but thats great, I like your mentality. Maybe you should talk some sense to some of these women. I am not saying that all women are money hungry, because that would be an invalid statement.....but lets be real, some stability does help. I dont know maybe its just the environent that I live in that is leaving a bad taste in my mouth.....Mercedes, nice, its sounds like you have nothing to loose, and i am glad you are happy:)

bausch 02-27-2007 10:17 PM
Also, I have lots of female friends that say they are NOT looking for someone who is super successful and ambitious with tons of money because those men are MORE likely to treat you bad and cheat. They are actually afraid of guys like doctors, lawyers, etc Not in ALL cases of course, but the chances are more likely that guy with money wants lots of women.

They want someone who makes as much as them or less so that there's not too much of a power imbalance. I would never want to date someone who is a multi millionaire because I would feel to much of a power imbalance.

Women who are phobic of being cheated and insecure are more likely to go with someone with no money.

If you date a man with money you're going to have to put up with cheating, like all those NBA stars' wives for example...

Pornwolf 02-27-2007 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Wolfy (Post 11984808)
Ben Affleck in Boiler Room:

Whoever says money can't buy happiness doesn't fucking have any.
Very true.

bausch 02-27-2007 10:48 PM
And when men have more money they are more likely to get escorts, hookers, call-girls etc

Just look at some of the rich guys on this board, I'm not gonna name names but their constantly being surrounded by beautiful women, models etc

I'm not saying only rich guys are like this, poor guys can have game and pull lots of chicks too, but if a woman wants a guy to be faithful she has a better chance with a guy who is not wealthy and successful.

Some of my girlfriends worry that even if they themselves make decent money, are successful PLUS are good looking the guy will STILL cheat on them.... It's like you are never enough. Even if you ARE good looking, plus make money, plus work out, guys will always want more... So you can better your chances by being with someone who is NOT wealthy.

Most guys I know who are successful feel like they deserve to have a lot of variety because they have worked hard for it... And they feel like they can always upgrade you for the newer, younger, hotter girl that comes along.

Girls who only go for rich guys are going to have to deal with the hookers, escorts, cheating, women constantly coming on to their man...

bausch 02-27-2007 10:56 PM
And it's also true that poor guys can cheat too, and in that case you might as well give up and grow old talking to your cats and living alone for the rest of your life until you die because that will mean it's hopeless.

I purposely chose a guy who was broke with no career because I feel that's the only chance I have of being with someone more likely to be faithful. I would not ever consider someone wealthy or successful because I would be always worried and never at ease.

I think there's a trend of women wanting to be with guys with less money for this reason. At least in my group of friends.

starpimps 02-27-2007 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by m0307 (Post 11985183)
The reason why I started this thread is because I struggle with money tremendously. I am 22 yrs old and I see the importance of making right decisions so ten years down the road I can cash in on my hard work. I am also a college student and I consider myself not a bad looking guy, im driven, and pretty intelligent(i am honestly really modest in person, but im trying to make a point)......you would think that would be a formula to getting women. well.....I am sadly mistaken, its not enough. I love women, and ill do just about anything to have mutliple partners, within reason. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh. Sometime I get depressed, because I see these other douche bags getting all the women and dont have half the qualities I possess. You know what they have and I dont....you guessed right, they they have $$$$$$. They are not going to want to date a guy a drives a piece of shit camry, lives in a dump, and barely has enough gas to pick them up, and works sitting on a platice green chair on a computer that is really "outdated"...... I guess the constant rejection from women keep me level headed and hungry to succeed.....like i said, i love women, they are great
how many girls have u approached in the last week and just said "hi hows it going?" or even a cheesy pickup line =) if u can maintain a conversation ur set to throw in a whats ur number lets do coffee tomorrow or something... if you get rejected by 10/10 girls that you've maintained a convo with; hit the gym or lower ur standards.

remember pussy can be bought, loyalty cant.

my two cents.

Fap 02-28-2007 12:59 AM
everyone loves money

CC 02-28-2007 01:02 AM
NO. Money cannot buy good health.

Adultnet 02-28-2007 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted by CC (Post 11985916)
NO. Money cannot buy good health.
Money can not buy health but it can make all the other simple things here better...:)

ADL Colin 02-28-2007 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted by aico (Post 11984175)
Most peoples' biggest stress in life is paying bills, credit cards, insurance, etc. If you have enough money where these things are not a worry to you, then that relieves a huge amount of stress and worry from your life.

Less stress = more happy.
Strongly agree with that. I am happier now than when I was young, poor and struggling. Of course, psychologically you adjust to your new life over time.

Money gives you more options.

ADL Colin 02-28-2007 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted by CC (Post 11985916)
NO. Money cannot buy good health.
In many cases it can.

ADL Colin 02-28-2007 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11985411)
Oh please you dont need money to get girls.
No, but odds-wise you are better off with money. Whether YOU are this way or not, "Status" is one of the top factors in women selecting a mate and there is plenty of research to that effect that this is true in nearly every culture in the world.

I've been poor and I've been rich and there are a lot more hot girls around when "rich".

EscortBiz 02-28-2007 05:16 AM
more money more stress different kinda of stress but no complaints grateful for everything i have

ADL Colin 02-28-2007 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11985497)

Just look at some of the rich guys on this board, I'm not gonna name names but their constantly being surrounded by beautiful women, models etc
And there ya go.

BVF 02-28-2007 05:33 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11985411)
Oh please you dont need money to get girls. FYI, my I'm female and my bf doesn't even HAVE ANY car let alone a Camry. He just borrowed my Mercedes to go run some errands. I make enough for both of us so I guess I don't care too much.

I don't need a man with money, I make my own. I make more than the average guy in this country anyways.

I don't go for guys with $$$ because it's my theory that guys with more money are MORE likely to cheat, and usually are able to attract more females. I like guys with LESS money because I think they are more LIKELY to be faithful. Men with money have too much entitlement and feel like they deserve tons of women for their success.
Translation.....I like to have power over my men and if they have no money, they're less likely to be wanted by anybody else, which is good for me.

BVF 02-28-2007 05:35 AM
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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11985518)
And it's also true that poor guys can cheat too, and in that case you might as well give up and grow old talking to your cats and living alone for the rest of your life until you die because that will mean it's hopeless.

I purposely chose a guy who was broke with no career because I feel that's the only chance I have of being with someone more likely to be faithful. I would not ever consider someone wealthy or successful because I would be always worried and never at ease.

I think there's a trend of women wanting to be with guys with less money for this reason. At least in my group of friends.
Translation...I'm a rich fat bitch with low self esteem, so I chose a broke guy in the HOPES that he will stay with me.

bausch 02-28-2007 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted by BVF (Post 11986690)
Translation...I'm a rich fat bitch with low self esteem, so I chose a broke guy in the HOPES that he will stay with me.
I am not fat, I am good looking, I just have low self esteem. I know girls who are 9's on a scale of 1-10 whose self-esteem is so low that they would only date broke guys. A lot of the good looking women I know have TERRIBLE self-esteem.

It also doesn't help that no matter how good looking you are, you can still be cheated on. It basically means that nothing you do will possibly help, even if you are perfect ten, because you still can be cheated on.

bausch 02-28-2007 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted by BVF (Post 11986679)
Translation.....I like to have power over my men and if they have no money, they're less likely to be wanted by anybody else, which is good for me.
This is true for both sexes, isn't that why most wealthy men marry good looking bombshells for "trophy candy" or "trophy wives?"

ADL Colin 02-28-2007 05:57 AM
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Originally Posted by bausch (Post 11986746)
This is true for both sexes, isn't that why most wealthy men marry good looking bombshells for "trophy candy" or "trophy wives?"
Wealthy men marrying models and vice versa. Attraction in a nutshell.

These are evolved mechanisms. Beauty (symmetry, skin complexion, etc.) signifies health. These women have had more offspring over time because they were desired more. Wealth = resources that can be used to raise children and give them more advantages.

sniperwolf 02-28-2007 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Nismo (Post 11985181)
Money does by happiness.
yes indeed but not all happiness can be bought...there's happiness that priceless..lets say having a baby, can't be bought but gives you happiness right..

12clicks 02-28-2007 08:11 PM
if you're a happy person, more money makes you happier. If you're an unhappy person, more money just makes you unhappy with money.

nico-t 03-01-2007 08:09 AM
yes, money makes me happy.

Peaches 03-01-2007 08:37 AM
I've been poor and I've been rich. I've been equally miserable and happy in both instances. There are something's money just can't fix and things that are great that money can't buy. And I've seen some absolutely miserable rich people and completely happy poor folk. You either have a good outlook on life or you don't - your bank balance won't change that.

I go out with a guy who has millions and millions. And an addiction he can't fix. He said he likes me because I fell in love with him (not any more - he's a fuck buddy) when he was poor :)

Being able to pay the bills on time, have a few play $$$s and being able to invest here and there is OK by me. I could work 10X harder and make more money but why? I'd rather spend that time with friends and family.

polish_aristocrat 03-02-2007 06:44 AM
great thread

Tom_PM 03-02-2007 07:14 AM
Having enough money to live without worrying about how to pay the bills is more like it. Is that happiness? nah, but it sure gives you more time to NOT worry, which could lead to more happy times maybe? Anyway, close enough.

Tuga 03-02-2007 07:21 AM
If you have enough money to do what you really want with your life, you have a very big shot at being happy.

Of course you can still blow it and be miserable.

Tuga 03-02-2007 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted by CC (Post 11985916)
NO. Money cannot buy good health.
Not all the times, but it surely can help a lot. :pimp

Sami(a)Kingdollars 03-02-2007 07:24 AM
If women would be thinking like you, would be nice.. but be honest.. Women love money.. =) btw, nice theory about us guys..

ADL Colin 03-02-2007 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Sami(a)Kingdollars (Post 12000134)
If women would be thinking like you, would be nice.. but be honest.. Women love money.
Which is why men do

CrystaliZed 03-02-2007 09:53 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by aico (Post 11984175)
Most peoples' biggest stress in life is paying bills, credit cards, insurance, etc. If you have enough money where these things are not a worry to you, then that relieves a huge amount of stress and worry from your life.

Less stress = more happy.

I'd definately agree here... I think people just wanna be financially sound.

Nismo 03-02-2007 10:16 AM
Men love women.
Women love material things.

Men buy nice cars, not because they want a nice car, but they know women like nice cars. A porsche will attract a woman alot better than a 1973 amc pacer.

If a man could fuck a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house.


The end.

BlackCrayon 03-02-2007 10:40 AM
it makes me feel secure and its a great feeling to work hard on something and have it pay off but having money and nothing else doesn't make me happy at all.

BlackCrayon 03-02-2007 10:44 AM
as for women loving guys with money, sure to some degree but in my small hometown the guys who were on welfare got more women than anyone else. i guess they just had the charm, charisma or whatever you want to call. of course there aren't any 'rich' people in my hometown but while the guys who made decent money were out working hard or going to bed early because of work the next day, the guys on welfare were partying it up with the girls.

also there are plenty of women who don't love to blow money. they shop for their clothes at value village, groceries at the no frills type places, etc and there are girls who will always pay their own way and never ask for more than your share of the bills. i guess im lucky enough to have one of those.

ParlourCash Karl 03-02-2007 10:52 AM
Having been on both ends of the scale I would definitely say money does make a major difference......the stress of worrying about how you will pay the next bill, how you are going to pay the rent....shit waking up in the middle of the night worrying how you will get through the next day...... yes money does makes a difference and I don't intend to go down the no money trail again......I think the "money does not buy happiness" phrase was started by someone with money handed on the sliver spoon.....without money life is a lot unhappier....and I know that for a fact.....all I have to think about is the days with no money to motivate me to make more.......

mattz 03-02-2007 10:54 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by m0307 (Post 11985183)
The reason why I started this thread is because I struggle with money tremendously. I am 22 yrs old and I see the importance of making right decisions so ten years down the road I can cash in on my hard work. I am also a college student and I consider myself not a bad looking guy, im driven, and pretty intelligent(i am honestly really modest in person, but im trying to make a point)......you would think that would be a formula to getting women. well.....I am sadly mistaken, its not enough. I love women, and ill do just about anything to have mutliple partners, within reason. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh. Sometime I get depressed, because I see these other douche bags getting all the women and dont have half the qualities I possess. You know what they have and I dont....you guessed right, they they have $$$$$$. They are not going to want to date a guy a drives a piece of shit camry, lives in a dump, and barely has enough gas to pick them up, and works sitting on a platice green chair on a computer that is really "outdated"...... I guess the constant rejection from women keep me level headed and hungry to succeed.....like i said, i love women, they are great
"Women only like guys with good skills"


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