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Juicy D. Links · 08-04-2002, 06:59 PM

Anyone remember there first true love?
And is it like they say that your first true love will always stay with you in your heart?

Sorry to get so deep , but I just heard a song on the radio that brought some memories back for me

Dildozer · 08-04-2002, 07:04 PM

Ya she will stay in your heart forever and you'll never love anyone like that again, even though it's great you'll always want it to be like before and then you'll start drinking n shit

Krome · 08-04-2002, 07:06 PM

Yeah I still love her...well love the fact that her and her husband have to pay for my kids....

TheApostate · 08-04-2002, 07:07 PM

that "name" song (whatever the fuck it's called), from the GooGoo Dolls always does that too me, For awile I hated hearing that song, now it just makes me laugh

Dawgy · 08-04-2002, 07:07 PM

ive never been in love

ldinternet · 08-04-2002, 07:09 PM

Pipecrew · 08-04-2002, 07:09 PM

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Originally posted by Dawgy
ive never been in love

I hear NoCostPorn has been looking!

Juicy D. Links · 08-04-2002, 07:12 PM

Sometimes dont you wish your brain was like a hard drive and that you can go and delete that bad part of your life and send it in the recycle bin :-)

Well maybe someday

Dildozer · 08-04-2002, 07:15 PM

Well after a while you look at it and smile. I've had alot of fun with that girl and have good memories. I wouldn't want to delete it.

Juicy D. Links · 08-04-2002, 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by Dildozer
Well after a while you look at it and smile. I've had alot of fun with that girl and have good memories. I wouldn't want to delete it.

YEah but what if she ran of with the UPS guy?

HS-Trixxxia · 08-04-2002, 07:55 PM

I wrote this long beautiful thing before but erased it all cuz I thought nobody would appreciate it.

It was something to the effect of....everyone crosses your path for a reason...appreciate the good times, learn to forgive or put aside the bad. Learn from your relationships and never carry the bitterness. It makes life, friendships and relationships so much easier to appreciate if you learn to not be bitter.

MiLo · 08-04-2002, 07:58 PM

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Originally posted by Dawgy
ive never been in love

Good for you Dawgy. Don´t be sad.

Love sucks and it´s just a waste of time.

mike503 · 08-04-2002, 08:24 PM

i'm in love with my hands. they'll always be there for me, won't cheat on me, and aren't annoying.

they were my first love since i was like 10 and shit.

kmanrox · 08-04-2002, 08:30 PM

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Originally posted by MiLo TurboNegro

Good for you Dawgy. Don´t be sad.

Love sucks and it´s just a waste of time.

amen

[Labret] · 08-04-2002, 08:36 PM

The class slut in 6th grade. You all knew her.

kmanrox · 08-04-2002, 08:38 PM

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Originally posted by [Labret]
The class slut in 6th grade. You all knew her.

Tina Curren ??? you know her too?!

Cheshire · 08-04-2002, 08:39 PM

It makes me sad to hear some of you are so jaded.

Guess it's not my problem, but I do hope you all find what it is you're looking for.

letshunt · 08-04-2002, 08:42 PM

I remember my first love just like it was yesterday....she was an evil bitch but god she made me feel good. She finally ended up taking all my shit and left me broke...but I still loved her...finally gave up on her thirteen years ago....cocaine.

Lev · 08-04-2002, 10:33 PM

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I remember my first love just like it was yesterday....she was an evil bitch but god she made me feel good. She finally ended up taking all my shit and left me broke...but I still loved her...finally gave up on her thirteen years ago....cocaine

LOL...

roseyrid · 08-04-2002, 10:40 PM

i was blinded by my first love...she gave me sex, and i gave her all my money. No im not blind any more, no she was not a prostitue and no, im not broke. Met her in college my sophomore year...fucking wasted 2 years on her... Tiffany's jewelery, disney vacations, and pretty much whatever else she wanted. Unfortunately, i found out she had another lover (a girl) i eventually broke up with her and she started dating a friend of mine. I still fucked her a few times, and yes I still spent money on her. I was suck a fucking loser. What the hell was i thinking? And worst of all she didnt give head. When I asked, her reply was, "I'm a pretty pretty princess, and pretty pretty princesses dont do that"

I hate her. HAVE A FUCKING MISERABLE LIFE BITCH!
and no, i dont have any regrets

bhutocracy · 08-04-2002, 10:48 PM

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Originally posted by roseyatrid
"I'm a pretty pretty princess, and pretty pretty princesses dont do that"

fucking christ... the not giving head is one thing.. but that attitude is something else.. she'd get the fucking boot straight away.. right up her pretty pretty princess c unt

Dildozer · 08-04-2002, 10:51 PM

I bet she doesn't give head to her girlfriend either

She just didn't like cock... don't worry you didn't turn her into a dyke she did it herself. We'Re all naive when we're young and would do anything for a girl. I've been there. Spent 2 years with a girl and 1 week before we moved together, she dumped me. That was fuckin harsh. I was selling vacuum cleaners at the time and I had been working a fuckload just to make sure i could provide for everything. On the bright side, I had lots of money to buy a new car since i wasn't moving in with her. It turned out to be a good thing. I hate her for a while but finally got over it. I see her once every couple months. We go out for coffee. Ya she was my first true love, but she wasn't perfect. None of them are. We just think they are.

bhutocracy · 08-04-2002, 10:57 PM

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Originally posted by Dildozer
I bet she doesn't give head to her girlfriend either
She just didn't like cock...

ouch.. damn!.. I didn't even think about that.. pretty pretty princesses only chow down on pussy.... fuck I would have been incensed. I bet you went down on her seven days a week.. man.. I'm getting enraged on your behalf..

Frank W · 08-04-2002, 10:59 PM

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Originally posted by TheApostate
that "name" song (whatever the fuck it's called), from the GooGoo Dolls always does that too me, For awile I hated hearing that song, now it just makes me laugh

Is the song titled "Iris"? Good lyrics.

pentae · 08-04-2002, 11:07 PM

What an entertaining thread.

Looks like theres a lot of jaded guys here.. How can you tell if the bitch isnt 'the one' ?

Is it not giving head?

or is it the fact that you have to snort her?

is it the fact that all she wants to do is use your VISA card?

did I say bitch?

bhutocracy · 08-04-2002, 11:40 PM

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Originally posted by pentae
What an entertaining thread.

Looks like theres a lot of jaded guys here.. How can you tell if the bitch isnt 'the one' ?

Is it not giving head?

or is it the fact that you have to snort her?

is it the fact that all she wants to do is use your VISA card?

did I say bitch?

a "pretty princess" attitude is definately one red flag.

also if she's not interested in ANY of the same shit it makes it hard. nothing to talk about.

if she's high maintenence.. you'll get tired of it eventually.. unless you want to be the guy telling the story about how she got the car and the house...

on the "for" side:

if you can imagine waking up next to her for the rest of your life.

if she's bright and you respect her opinion.. a smokin' ass and tits sag. it's better to have someone to talk to than to show off to your mates.. I mean thats good and all.. and im not denigrating that.. but we're talking "the one" here not fun fuck chicks.

I dunno sounds a little too self help book.. but those are the silly big questions... I once turned down this little model/gymnast because she was so vacuous I couldn't imagine waking up next to her and having to talk to her... or should I say.. listen to her go on about modelling contests and banal crap..
of course I kick myself everyday now im a computer nerd and she and girls like her are totally out of my league that I didn't muck around for months before I fucked her off... I was also trying to line up my girl and didn't want to fuck it up for some easy sex.

but i've been with my girl for 8 years.. and well after the passionate beginning thats the way I feel.

Frank W · 08-04-2002, 11:41 PM

Interesting article on the evolutionary psychology behind the concept of "love"

http://www.umkc.edu/sites/hsw/other/evolution.html

pornJester · 08-04-2002, 11:42 PM

this thread almost has me in tears thinking about how kman broke my heart all those years ago...

Pornwolf · 08-05-2002, 12:13 AM

K-Man broke my heart recently too... the bastard. I hope you find another man whose ass tastes as nice as you said mine did.

chodadog · 08-05-2002, 06:25 AM

The first girl i can honestly say i loved, i still see now and then. We're still pretty good friends. It's actually her birthday next week, so i'll be giving her a call.

I don't have any ill feelings towards anyone that i've had a relationship with that hasn't worked. Not much point in being bitter really.

Dawgy · 08-05-2002, 08:57 AM

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Originally posted by Cheshire
It makes me sad to hear some of you are so jaded.

Guess it's not my problem, but I do hope you all find what it is you're looking for.

i hope i figure out what to look for. then ill worry bout finding it.

Beastiepoo · 08-05-2002, 09:22 AM

I was with my first love for 2 years. He was a great guy but we were in High School and got too serious and ended up cheating on each other. I remember him fondly. Still dream about him sometimes. Ah, fond memories...

gothweb · 08-05-2002, 09:34 AM

My first love... I was 15 when I met her, we dated fow a while when we were 16. Then again when we were 18. Kids that age just can't handle serious emotions like that, I think. We never cheated on eachother, but we still hurt eachother a lot. For the most part, I blame myself.

She was bisexual when we met, or at least starting to realize that she was. I didn't react well to the idea of her being attracted to *anyone* else, gender aside, and I got jealous of the concept. I should have been there for her, and understood, but I was all about Me.

Anyhow, a year or so after we broke up, she decided she was a lesbian. That went well for her, for a while. So my first love was a lesbian... very odd feeling. Later, I gather she decided she was Bi, and is now dating a guy. Also a weird feeling... The lesbian thing meant I didn't have to think about *why* we didn't work out, much.

Anyhow, we still get along. We don't see eachother a lot, but when we do, we are friends. We've forgiven eachother, and gotten ver eachother. We were close enought that given time to heal the fucked-up parts, we still had a connection beneath it all. We went through a lot together, it just happens that what we went through was "us".

roseyrid · 08-05-2002, 09:44 AM

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Originally posted by bhutocracy

ouch.. damn!.. I didn't even think about that.. pretty pretty princesses only chow down on pussy.... fuck I would have been incensed. I bet you went down on her seven days a week.. man.. I'm getting enraged on your behalf..

yeah she was such a bitch...and i did go down on her quite often. It enrages me that I was that naive to be blinded by the "love". I wish I would have listened to other people because it seems everyone saw but me...
The part that pisses me off the most was the fact that this pretty pretty princess was a white trash poor girl...then how the hell was she a pretty pretty princess?

Lev · 08-05-2002, 10:21 AM

Never fall in love it's the worst thing

Krome · 08-05-2002, 10:29 AM

My first true love with her new husband.....

You didnt actaully believe I had kids with a human!

Cheshire · 08-05-2002, 10:49 AM

It sounds like a lot of you guys fell in love with the wronge women, and who's to say your heart will listen when your mind makes that painful realization.
I've learned some lessons recently, and one is not expect anyone to let you in. Once you realize that, you stop giving so much, and if things are to be then they will happen on their own.

I'm only interested in loving one person for the rest of my life, and that's myself. If someone comes along that can value my affection as much as I enjoy giving it, then I would like nothing more than to share it with them... but I need to know someone will appreciate it before I'm willing to part with that much of myself. Some people are just givers, some aren't. There needs to be a balance or someone ends up feeling unfulfilled.

Pornwolf · 08-05-2002, 12:54 PM

I stopped calling my first true love because I thought I could do better. I didn't recognize her greatness at the time. I guess I was young and stupid but hey, we all are at some point! What we don't like, other guys love.

I guarantee there are boneheads like me out there totally dodging these women;

I bet they aren't even rich or famous dudes. Just guys who would rather play their playstations than be bothered by these babes. Go figure.

08-04-2002, 06:59 PM	#1
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Your first true love Anyone remember there first true love? And is it like they say that your first true love will always stay with you in your heart? Sorry to get so deep , but I just heard a song on the radio that brought some memories back for me

08-04-2002, 07:04 PM	#2
Dildozer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 7,519	Ya she will stay in your heart forever and you'll never love anyone like that again, even though it's great you'll always want it to be like before and then you'll start drinking n shit __________________ Spam link here

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Dawgy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,856	ive never been in love __________________ the revolution is coming.

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Dildozer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 7,519	Well after a while you look at it and smile. I've had alot of fun with that girl and have good memories. I wouldn't want to delete it. __________________ Spam link here

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Krome Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: London - UK Posts: 2,851	Yeah I still love her...well love the fact that her and her husband have to pay for my kids....

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TheApostate Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Southern California Posts: 589	that "name" song (whatever the fuck it's called), from the GooGoo Dolls always does that too me, For awile I hated hearing that song, now it just makes me laugh

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Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Sometimes dont you wish your brain was like a hard drive and that you can go and delete that bad part of your life and send it in the recycle bin :-) Well maybe someday

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HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	I wrote this long beautiful thing before but erased it all cuz I thought nobody would appreciate it. It was something to the effect of....everyone crosses your path for a reason...appreciate the good times, learn to forgive or put aside the bad. Learn from your relationships and never carry the bitterness. It makes life, friendships and relationships so much easier to appreciate if you learn to not be bitter.

08-04-2002, 08:24 PM	#13
mike503 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: oregon. Posts: 2,243	i'm in love with my hands. they'll always be there for me, won't cheat on me, and aren't annoying. they were my first love since i was like 10 and shit. __________________ php/mysql guru. hosting, coding, all that jazz.

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[Labret] Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: Са́нкт-Петербу́рг Posts: 10,945	The class slut in 6th grade. You all knew her.

08-04-2002, 08:39 PM	#17
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	It makes me sad to hear some of you are so jaded. Guess it's not my problem, but I do hope you all find what it is you're looking for.

08-04-2002, 08:42 PM	#18
letshunt Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Illinois Posts: 196	I remember my first love just like it was yesterday....she was an evil bitch but god she made me feel good. She finally ended up taking all my shit and left me broke...but I still loved her...finally gave up on her thirteen years ago....cocaine. __________________ The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his. -George Patton

08-04-2002, 10:40 PM	#20
roseyrid Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: LA Posts: 1,058	i was blinded by my first love...she gave me sex, and i gave her all my money. No im not blind any more, no she was not a prostitue and no, im not broke. Met her in college my sophomore year...fucking wasted 2 years on her... Tiffany's jewelery, disney vacations, and pretty much whatever else she wanted. Unfortunately, i found out she had another lover (a girl) i eventually broke up with her and she started dating a friend of mine. I still fucked her a few times, and yes I still spent money on her. I was suck a fucking loser. What the hell was i thinking? And worst of all she didnt give head. When I asked, her reply was, "I'm a pretty pretty princess, and pretty pretty princesses dont do that" I hate her. HAVE A FUCKING MISERABLE LIFE BITCH! and no, i dont have any regrets

08-04-2002, 10:51 PM	#22
Dildozer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 7,519	I bet she doesn't give head to her girlfriend either She just didn't like cock... don't worry you didn't turn her into a dyke she did it herself. We'Re all naive when we're young and would do anything for a girl. I've been there. Spent 2 years with a girl and 1 week before we moved together, she dumped me. That was fuckin harsh. I was selling vacuum cleaners at the time and I had been working a fuckload just to make sure i could provide for everything. On the bright side, I had lots of money to buy a new car since i wasn't moving in with her. It turned out to be a good thing. I hate her for a while but finally got over it. I see her once every couple months. We go out for coffee. Ya she was my first true love, but she wasn't perfect. None of them are. We just think they are. __________________ Spam link here

08-04-2002, 11:07 PM	#25
pentae Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Inconceivable! Posts: 899	What an entertaining thread. Looks like theres a lot of jaded guys here.. How can you tell if the bitch isnt 'the one' ? Is it not giving head? or is it the fact that you have to snort her? is it the fact that all she wants to do is use your VISA card? did I say bitch?

08-04-2002, 11:41 PM	#27
Frank W Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: California Posts: 889	Interesting article on the evolutionary psychology behind the concept of "love" http://www.umkc.edu/sites/hsw/other/evolution.html __________________ "If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us." -- Herman Hesse

08-04-2002, 11:42 PM	#28
pornJester Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Florida Posts: 6,138	this thread almost has me in tears thinking about how kman broke my heart all those years ago... __________________ FreshBucks \| Webmaster Vault \| GayAW Trusted Names in Adult. ICQ 9157.3698

08-05-2002, 12:13 AM	#29
Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	K-Man broke my heart recently too... the bastard. I hope you find another man whose ass tastes as nice as you said mine did.

08-05-2002, 06:25 AM	#30
chodadog Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 9,736	The first girl i can honestly say i loved, i still see now and then. We're still pretty good friends. It's actually her birthday next week, so i'll be giving her a call. I don't have any ill feelings towards anyone that i've had a relationship with that hasn't worked. Not much point in being bitter really.

08-05-2002, 09:22 AM	#32
Beastiepoo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: In a clog shop thinking about tulips Posts: 1,971	I was with my first love for 2 years. He was a great guy but we were in High School and got too serious and ended up cheating on each other. I remember him fondly. Still dream about him sometimes. Ah, fond memories... __________________ Dammit! My timing SUCKS! Hot body piercing jewellery at discounted prices - Click here! Got Goth traffic?? Make money with it at DarkPassions - Click Here!

08-05-2002, 09:34 AM	#33
gothweb Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Back in the USSA Posts: 8,849	My first love... I was 15 when I met her, we dated fow a while when we were 16. Then again when we were 18. Kids that age just can't handle serious emotions like that, I think. We never cheated on eachother, but we still hurt eachother a lot. For the most part, I blame myself. She was bisexual when we met, or at least starting to realize that she was. I didn't react well to the idea of her being attracted to anyone else, gender aside, and I got jealous of the concept. I should have been there for her, and understood, but I was all about Me. Anyhow, a year or so after we broke up, she decided she was a lesbian. That went well for her, for a while. So my first love was a lesbian... very odd feeling. Later, I gather she decided she was Bi, and is now dating a guy. Also a weird feeling... The lesbian thing meant I didn't have to think about why we didn't work out, much. Anyhow, we still get along. We don't see eachother a lot, but when we do, we are friends. We've forgiven eachother, and gotten ver eachother. We were close enought that given time to heal the fucked-up parts, we still had a connection beneath it all. We went through a lot together, it just happens that what we went through was "us". __________________ Photos by Ian X.: Distinctive photos of goth babes. Blood Money:Your traffic, my sites, our money. MojoHost: Still the best.

08-05-2002, 10:21 AM	#35
Lev Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 3,545	Never fall in love it's the worst thing

08-05-2002, 10:29 AM	#36
Krome Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: London - UK Posts: 2,851	My first true love with her new husband..... You didnt actaully believe I had kids with a human! Last edited by Krome; 08-05-2002 at 10:41 AM..

08-05-2002, 10:49 AM	#37
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	It sounds like a lot of you guys fell in love with the wronge women, and who's to say your heart will listen when your mind makes that painful realization. I've learned some lessons recently, and one is not expect anyone to let you in. Once you realize that, you stop giving so much, and if things are to be then they will happen on their own. I'm only interested in loving one person for the rest of my life, and that's myself. If someone comes along that can value my affection as much as I enjoy giving it, then I would like nothing more than to share it with them... but I need to know someone will appreciate it before I'm willing to part with that much of myself. Some people are just givers, some aren't. There needs to be a balance or someone ends up feeling unfulfilled. __________________ just a little bit naughty

08-05-2002, 12:54 PM	#38
Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	I stopped calling my first true love because I thought I could do better. I didn't recognize her greatness at the time. I guess I was young and stupid but hey, we all are at some point! What we don't like, other guys love. I guarantee there are boneheads like me out there totally dodging these women; I bet they aren't even rich or famous dudes. Just guys who would rather play their playstations than be bothered by these babes. Go figure.