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69pornlinks 01-20-2007 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 11761554)
But what if it smells like a goose? :(


then it's a gander?

cool1 01-20-2007 03:19 PM

Very reasonable responce Baddog

notabook 01-20-2007 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 69pornlinks (Post 11761619)
then it's a gander?

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh I'm not checking, I'll just take your word for it. :thumbsup

baddog 01-20-2007 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ross (Post 11761194)
I personally wouldn't have refunded him the money.

I am not convinced it was his card, so if I don't refund the card then the true owner gets screwed and I get a chargeback.

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 11761227)
i think some hosts go too far in verification methods. ie scanning your cc, drivers licence, etc. i will never do that for a host. but this seems perfectly reasonable.

I don't ask for proof unless I get suspicious that something is going on.

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Originally Posted by KlenTelaris (Post 11761582)
I think you could let him buying server.If he do mistake you can easily shut down his server.

So, I should wait for the chargeback?

milan 01-20-2007 03:27 PM

We have 3-4 fraud orders per DAY from our website!!! we verify all new clients with phone call, ordering IP ver Ordering address etc.

you did the right thing baddog.

goodgirl 01-20-2007 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Quickdraw (Post 11760950)
This is funny. I had my cards stolen last year and what did they buy? Hosting, domains, and memberships to adult personals sites.

If he's not a scammer, he needs to spend more time thinking about why details need to be confirmed.


I just had a debit card stolen, they bought hosting from 4 different places. Plus 2 different internet providers.

I'm sure if they are trying to gain access to servers (with stolen credit cards), it isn't for a good reason. We are strict on checking credit cards, that is not going to change.

baddog 01-20-2007 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by milan (Post 11761657)
We have 3-4 fraud orders per DAY from our website!!! we verify all new clients with phone call, ordering IP ver Ordering address etc.

you did the right thing baddog.

Sometimes I get the same guy trying 3-4 different cards in a day.

They don't give me much credit.

RSgk11 01-20-2007 03:55 PM

:thumbsup Good for you,taking care of business-Fuk that MORON:thumbsup

RawAlex 01-20-2007 03:57 PM

This is classic.

If the buyer has nothing to hide, then picking up the phone and making a 1 minute phone call won't hurt.

Acting like you have something to hide basically implies that you DO have something to hide. Quite simply, if your stuff doesn't add up, you should be willing to spend a few minutes and make it all work out.

Congrats to any sponsor, hosting company, or service provider that takes a few minutes to make sure that their services can't easily be used by potential scammers.

L-Pink 01-20-2007 04:01 PM

It's your ball, you make the rules. :2 cents:

baddog 01-20-2007 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 11761793)
It's your ball, you make the rules. :2 cents:

Yeah, I figure that as much as I might like to do business, I am not going to risk losing our merchant account over $350

Pointless 01-20-2007 06:54 PM

If he didn't want to call I would then suggest.

Faxing his CC (cover digits apart from the last 3 or 4) aswell as a drivers license if he failed to do this I would respectfully decline his account.

I would then avoid running to gfy to spill my guts about what happened :2 cents:

aico 01-20-2007 06:57 PM

Little Jack Horner sat in a corner
eating a mincemeat pie.
He stuck in his thumb and pulled out a plum,
and said, "What a good boy am I."

baddog 01-20-2007 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pointless (Post 11762551)
If he didn't want to call I would then suggest.

Faxing his CC (cover digits apart from the last 3 or 4) aswell as a drivers license if he failed to do this I would respectfully decline his account.

I would then avoid running to gfy to spill my guts about what happened :2 cents:

What would be the point of covering digits? I already have the entire card number.

Pointless 01-20-2007 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11762584)
What would be the point of covering digits? I already have the entire card number.


its not you that im worried about :2 cents:

but your right someone who declines doing something as simple as a phone call would start to ring some alarm bells.
But alot of ppl are arrogant pricks.

baddog 01-20-2007 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pointless (Post 11762602)
its not you that im worried about :2 cents:

but your right someone who declines doing something as simple as a phone call would start to ring some alarm bells.
But alot of ppl are arrogant pricks.

I would think a telephone call to a toll free number would be less invasive than requesting a fax of the credit card and/or drivers license.

Pointless 01-20-2007 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11762613)
I would think a telephone call to a toll free number would be less invasive than requesting a fax of the credit card and/or drivers license.

Who knows his reasoning behind not wanting to call you.


I would just offer another option.

baddog 01-20-2007 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pointless (Post 11762627)
I would just offer another option.

I did . . . it was to go elsewhere.

Pointless 01-20-2007 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11762639)
I did . . . it was to go elsewhere.


thats fine.

Im sure others will take his money :thumbsup

bu((aneer 01-20-2007 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11760544)
I wake up to an ICQ stating that a guy I have been talking to the last few days has ordered a dedicated server. I look thru the records and I see that he tried to use two credit cards, the first one failed.

Further investigation shows he lives in CT, but the IP order placed from was Amsterdam.

I call the phone number listed on the application, and it goes to some zoning commission office.

When I ask, he says he doesn't give out his phone number. So I ask him to call me. He refuses.

Then I refuse to sell him a server and issue a refund.

Am I being unreasonable, or is he not being appreciative enough of the fact that I am protecting him as well as us?



Damn, I wouldnt want you calling me either!:2 cents:

Dirty D 01-20-2007 08:16 PM

In the immortal words of "MC Hammer"

Baddog is 2 legit to quit



For those that aren't hip...
The adult online community does not support scammers.

baddog 01-20-2007 11:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dustman (Post 11762855)
In the immortal words of "MC Hammer"

Baddog is 2 legit to quit

You must have seen that VH1 Behind the Music episode. :)

Mrs. Lenny2 01-20-2007 11:36 PM

I don't think you're being unreasonable at all.

Antonio 01-20-2007 11:50 PM

what am I missing here? a scammer is ordering a dedicated server exactly why?

Phil21 01-21-2007 12:14 AM

9 out of 10 online dedicated server orders (for us) are attempted carded/scams/etc. orders. There are certain order signatures we simply don't even reply to any longer, as they are always a scam.

If a customer is not willing to sign/fax in a contract and such, then they likely are not worth doing business with in the first place. There are exceptions, but they are pretty easy to see a mile away most of the time.

Basically, too many in this business treat it as fly by night. We're here for the long haul, and to do that we must protect our exposure to fraud. I've been bitched at and cursed out for requiring someone to fax in certain documents, but at least we found out the type of person they are before they became an actual paying client. Thanks for weeding yourself out!

In any case, you did the right thing :)

DirtyDanza 01-21-2007 12:30 AM

are you being unreasnoable? NO you do what you want... he can always look elsewhere...

baddog 01-21-2007 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phil21 (Post 11763702)
9 out of 10 online dedicated server orders (for us) are attempted carded/scams/etc. orders.

That is a pretty high ratio, I would be concerned if we started having numbers like that. Heck, I would be concerned if 1:10 were fraudulent orders.

Adam_M 01-21-2007 12:34 AM

Trust your gut feeling on this one...

RawAlex 01-21-2007 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11763738)
That is a pretty high ratio, I would be concerned if we started having numbers like that. Heck, I would be concerned if 1:10 were fraudulent orders.

Have you considered that maybe you just haven't caught the other 8 yet? ;)

Paul Markham 01-21-2007 07:07 AM

Don't often agree with you BD but you are spot on this time. I would of notified the CC processor as well to make more investigations.

Quote:

i think some hosts go too far in verification methods. ie scanning your cc, drivers licence, etc. i will never do that for a host. but this seems perfectly reasonable.
They do not know what you might be hosting, so have every right to know who you are. If you want to be anonymous go work in another industry that is not so easily open to abuse.

Paul Markham 01-21-2007 07:11 AM

Anyone new ordering over $300 from the stores is looked at closely at before the order is put through, if they do not look kosher we contact them.

If we are still not sure it's payment by wire.

born4porn 01-21-2007 07:21 AM

good business practice baddog! :thumbsup

edgeprod 01-21-2007 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11760544)
Further investigation shows he lives in CT, but the IP order placed from was Amsterdam.

I'm in CT until March, and I make house-calls for a fee! :winkwink:

NoWhErE 01-21-2007 09:16 AM

I think you're doing the right thing and from this thread alone, my respect went up a notch for you and Gotwebhost.

baddog 01-21-2007 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by edgeprod (Post 11764685)
I'm in CT until March, and I make house-calls for a fee! :winkwink:


I will keep that in mind.

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoWhErE (Post 11764975)
I think you're doing the right thing and from this thread alone, my respect went up a notch for you and Gotwebhost.

:thumbsup thanks

spasmo 01-21-2007 12:22 PM

Nope. Not unreasonable at all. I've been with two hosting companies that required the faxed CC and drivers license thing. It REALLY pissed me off at the time, but in retrospect it makes sense.

Refusing a simple phone call just screams scam. I wish mine had been that easy. :2 cents:

Twisted Dave 01-21-2007 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 11760544)
I wake up to an ICQ stating that a guy I have been talking to the last few days has ordered a dedicated server. I look thru the records and I see that he tried to use two credit cards, the first one failed.

Further investigation shows he lives in CT, but the IP order placed from was Amsterdam.

I call the phone number listed on the application, and it goes to some zoning commission office.

When I ask, he says he doesn't give out his phone number. So I ask him to call me. He refuses.

Then I refuse to sell him a server and issue a refund.

Am I being unreasonable, or is he not being appreciative enough of the fact that I am protecting him as well as us?

Retailers or resellers are allowed to refuse sale to anyone at their discression, so no ... sounds fine to me man. I don't see why he was being cagey if he was perfectly legit. Fuck him ... he probably wanted to host something dodgy, or simply rip you....

Dagwolf 01-21-2007 12:28 PM

I wouldn't do it. I think you're being completely reasonable.

tranza 01-21-2007 12:34 PM

Seems pretty reasonable for me...


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